Today, I talk about why making mistakes can be something to look forward to, especially in recovery. I start with a bold statement: "I will make a mistake today, and I can't wait!" Sounds odd, right? But think about it—perfectionism, the need to be the best, it's exhausting. It's a pressure cooker of unrealistic expectations. It's okay if things don’t look perfect, or if they don’t mirror someone else’s success. What really matters is that we're authentic, not flawless, and enjoy the "doing part."

Reflecting on our past, mistakes during our drinking days often led to chaos and regret. But in sobriety, mistakes look different for me—they’re opportunities. They don’t derail me as much, and I can see that chance to learn and strengthen my skillset.

Each of us has a unique role that only we can fill, and our flaws are part of that. They make us human and relatable. They help us connect with each other, and our partners.

I want us to start looking forward to making mistakes. Yes, you heard that right! Every mistake is a step forward because it teaches us, it humbles us, and it carves space for growth. If we can accept this, we can grow with grace. Embracing this can radically change how we see ourselves and interact with the world.