This week, any glory hole is a goal! We're chatting with Emil, founder and executive director of Sissy's Glory Hole. Emil (he/she/they) saw it in a dream! A glory hole of their very own, to delight and enterain the masses - and with some handy (and handsy) tradies, the infamous hole was gaped into existance. We discuss therapy, sharing intimacy with straight and bi+ me - and being the cover of the recently reinvigorated BUTT Magazine. Emil artfully discusses how the anonymity of a hole in the wall allows them to play with gender and learning to not pathologise their sexual exploits. Catch Emil on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/babydilfx/ Follow Sissy's Glory Hole on X/Twitter https://twitter.com/gloryholemelb Emil's Drip Article Melbourne’s hardest art project: Emil lets us into his glory hole  All Emil's links including articles, OF, and more! https://linktr.ee/Babydilf  Happy Holl - the ultimate aftercare for your butt: https://www.instagram.com/happieholl/  Check out Butt Magazine: https://buttmagazine.com/ This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Find all our links, ask a question, or subscribe linktr.ee/hideandseekonjoy