Within this life of hills and valleys, we all must subcomb to the universal mandate of choices, decisions, consequences, and rewards. This is often overlooked when dealing with the guilt and shame we experience from the bad actions of someone we love. Most often we assume responsibility as if we could stand in their shoes and make the decisions for them. In processing this guilt and shame we must make amends and share the truth of each person's mistakes and accountability. The truth shall set you free from the burden of guilt and shame.  Our sustained recovery is dependent upon releasing ourselves from the burden of guilt and shame caused by someone we love actions.

Recovery is a process of decisions.