Why is sex in long term relationships heavily misunderstood? What are the myths most people have been taught about sex - particularly in LTR’s? What is the truth about spontaneous desire? What are some of the best ways partners can talk about sex and desire with one another? And what can people do with mismatched desire or when someone isn’t “in the mood”?  About our guest: Emily Nagoski, PhD is the New York Times bestselling, award-winning author of the revolutionary book Come as You Are, co-author of Burnout, and is now releasing her third book Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections. A gifted and engaging speaker, Emily is an expert on women's sexual wellbeing, healthy relationships, and the prevention of sexual violence and harassment. People bring Emily, because Emily "brings the science." To learn more go to emilynagoski.com Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get $10 your next STI test by going to shamelesspod.com, then clicking STDCheck, and use code Shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com. And get 20% off rechargeable sex toys during January 2024 with code RECHARGE2024