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Sucha Singh Hothi & Gurdev Kaur Hothi

Stolen Goodbyes

Apr 25 2023 • 35 mins

It may be just over two years since Rab Sherwood lost her beloved parents father Sucha Singh Hothi, 85, and mother Gurdev Kaur Hothi, 75, to Covid 19, but this double loss combined with the manner of the loss and the family’s brutal treatment in hospital still haunts Rab.


Emigrants from Punjab in India to the British midlands in 1965, Sucha was forced to work in a factory despite being a qualified lawyer, qualifications not recognised in the UK. These incredibly hard-working, family-orientated and honest people, made a good life for themselves and their four children who they encouraged to aim high in life.


But this precious family unit is bereft after witnessing how their parents were left dehydrated, hungry, and allowed to die alone in a hospital even though they deserved the very best of care.  Instead of being apprised of how her parents were progressing, Rab was repeatedly confronted with aggressive demands to sign Do Not Resuscitate forms, while learning that anyone over the age of 75 with one health condition didn’t qualify for intensive care treatment.


Created, produced, and hosted by Karen Rice, the Stolen Goodbyes podcast won gold in the fiercely competitive Best Lockdown category of the British Podcast Award 2021.

Stolen Goodbyes is described as: "outstanding ethical and trauma-informed journalism. Karen Rice manages to capture a historic event in real-time by listening with empathy. Future generations will listen to this podcast and know what it felt like to live through this pandemic." Dart Centre for Journalism and Trauma.


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