Martha talks to her friend Tara, with whom she was a "sex-toy lady" about 20 years ago. They discuss how many of "the ladies" evolved into sex educators and some, like Tara, went on to work more seriously as sexologists later.

Tara spills some tea about the life of a dominatrix, fetish parties, and how sex changes as we age. And, with her help, Martha has an epiphany about her journey with (and worries about) her aloof vagina.

Other things discussed:

• Betty Dodson and her Bodysex Workshops
• the Hitachi Magic Wand (Amazon so link SFW!)
• A more ELEGANT toy option - a FAVE, but also comes with a warranty, high-end materials, discreet and a MIND-BLOWING treat for your clitoris. (No C.A. here!)
• the Wondrous Vulva Puppet
• "those" parties
• Coochy Shave Cream
• What it's  like to attend a fetish party (Your Tango)
• Andropause: The Male Menopause (NHS)

MAV Tip: Accept the sexual changes perimenopause and menopause brings and adapt. What you like can shift and what works for your pleasure can evolve. Ride the wave and explore and enjoy your new experience.

Take care of yourself. And take care of your vagina!

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