Grab your Keys and Go

Soul Presence

Taking Women from Mess to Yes as you GRAB YOUR KEYS AND GO

Unintentionally finding ourselves last on our list we had, had enough. We decided no more countless sacrifices, no more getting lost in the busy.


So now we GRAB OUR KEYS AND GO!

Hi I’m Mel and I’m Nat

We have created this Podcast because we believe it’s time for women to take action. It's time to notice our needs, unlock our potential, ignite our passions and leave the chaos and clutter behind.

Join us as we have relatable and entertaining conversations that will support women to use their gaps of space intentionally, to embrace self care, conquer unnecessary guilt and rediscover what lights them up, in turn living a more Heart Led Life.

Here we will lean into the funny side while we get curious about the possibilities of moving from Mess to Yes!

Like a cosy couch conversation or a chat at the kitchen table with your girlfriends.


We are in this together as we side step the clutter and give ourselves permission to move back up to the top of our list.


We will be chatting about anything and everything like:


Saying Yes

Our Ah ha moments

Mum Guilt

Noticing the gaps

Trusting Self


And sharing all our best GRAB YOUR KEYS and GO moments because who doesn't love a good win to celebrate or inspire.


Come and have some fun with us.

Subscribe to, “Grab your Keys and Go” podcast  and together let’s move from Mess to YES.

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Episodes

38. How to prepare for EPIC Grab your Keys and Go Adventures with Bron
4d ago
38. How to prepare for EPIC Grab your Keys and Go Adventures with Bron
Our Soul Presence Space, a community supported journey of Heart Centred Livingfor the compassionate and passionate mumpreneur who wants to reclaim her best life in the mess of life.The Soul Presence Journey:www.soulpresence.com.auEpisode 38.  How to Prepare for EPIC Grab Your Keys and Go Adventures with Bron.Thanks Bron for your absolute GOLD on this episode around really going for the BIG Grab Your Keys and Go moments in your life.So much learning and growth and reeeeaaaalllllly understanding who you are, can come from these EPIC adventures that you gift yourself.  It may not always be about an overseas trip, there are so many adventures we can feel pulled to out in the world, that can change your perspective each and every time.Giving you new meaning in your life and an awe for what is possible for you.Knowing yourself, creates greater connection around you.  I'm going to highlight here some of the awesome Bron sayings:'Your comfort zone is your dead zone''Comparison is the thief of joy''If you are well prepared you can fly by the seat of your pants''Just do it''If you can't find a way around it, find a new way''Stop saying why me, and start saying what is this teaching me''What else can we do?'Some of the resources Bron used for her journey:https://www.afotc.org/Books:The Pilgrimage by Paul Coelho - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2759537-the-pilgrimageGuide Book - Camino de Santiago by John Brierley - https://caminoguides.com/Apps:Buen Camino FrancesCamino Toolhttps://wayfaringviews.com/best-camino-de-santiago-apps/We would love to hear your stories about your BIG Grab Your Keys and Go adventures in our Facebook group (link below), you never know who you will inspire to get off their butt and out into the world.Until next timeNat and Mel xx ooHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
37. Let's explore the 9 till 3pm Day
May 6 2024
37. Let's explore the 9 till 3pm Day
Our Soul Presence Space, a community supported journey of Heart Centred Livingfor the compassionate and passionate mumpreneur who wants to reclaim her best life in the mess of life.The Soul Presence Journey:www.soulpresence.com.auEPISODE 37. Let's Explore the 9 till 3pm DayThere is a life that happens between 9 and 3pm and a life that happens outside this!This is the life of a mumpreneur and the boundaries need to be firm!At the beginning of our Mumpreneur journey (working from home 9 till 3) Mel and I both encountered the creeping in of all the extras.Walking past the dirty dishes and just spending 5 mins putting them in the dishwasher, seeing the laundry pile so just putting on one load, walking around in bare feet noticing the sand sticking to the bottom of your feet and just quickly vacuuming the floor.....Sound familiar???There are even things such as the pings from the school emails, and the life admin that becomes your problem, holding all the things in your head, whilst getting passionate about your biz...Hmmmm I can see why things can go pear shaped quickly.How do we keep this very sacred space, sacred?How do we protect this time, where we get to show up in our genius, and share with the world our unique gifts? Yes it takes practice, and the first thing we can do, as we always say, is start a conversation.  The firsts one being with yourself.Remind yourself how important this passion space is for you, remind yourself that there will always be mess, but you still get to show up.Get clear on the boundaries you will set in order to protect this time of your day, and then start these conversations with your nearest and dearest, sharing your clear boundaries and also inviting them to help!It's ok for you to live your passion too.Until next timeNat and Mel xx ooHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
36. How to say YES in the MESS of Menopause with Melissa Nyman
Apr 25 2024
36. How to say YES in the MESS of Menopause with Melissa Nyman
Our Soul Presence Space, a community supported journey of Heart Centred Living for the compassionate and passionate mumpreneur who wants to reclaim her best life in the mess of life.The Soul Presence Journey:www.soulpresence.com.auEpisode 36.  How to say YES in the MESS of Menopause with Melissa NymanIn the midst of her meno journey, trying to find information on what was happening with her body, she was coming up with dead end after dead end.  Even her GP was unsure on how to support her in this next phase of life.So as all awesome women do, she took her power back and embarked on giving a voice to women once more.Through research, and conversation she started a local group in her home town called Myohmeno discussing all things around the 3 stages of menopause.  The first meeting explaining these stages.3 mths later she has a solid turn out at her weekly meetings and has gifted women from her small local town a safe place to share their experience.  Supportive groups are such an incredible way of creating connection and allow a voice for what is real.  Knowledge is power and when you can make the connections of what is happening in your world then you can find ways to care for yourself, even if that is just simply going for a walk, because you know that is the right thing to do for you in that moment.Here are some links that Liss shared throughout the podcast.  Let’s get informed. SOCIAL MEDIA pages for the support group @myohmeno on insta & fbBOOKS A great starting point for getting educated about the Menopause Phases, in an easy to digest format (and funny) is Kaz Cooke's book 'IT'S THE MENOPAUSE' Available at Big W etc or librariesPODCASTSThriving in Menopause Podcast by @preventionaus (shortish episodes) - they also have a Magazine aimed at midlife aged womenThe Doctor Louise Newson Podcast @menopause_doctor (also has written books) and she was interviewed on The Imperfects Podcast good intro to definition of Menopause and what to expectRECOMMENDED INSTAGRAM PAGES TO FOLLOW@jeanhailes@menopauseallianceaustralia@australianmenopausecentre@menopause_doctor@doctormaryclaireUntil next time....Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
35. Add MORE to your schedule to create MORE space in your week.
Apr 22 2024
35. Add MORE to your schedule to create MORE space in your week.
Our Soul Presence Space, a community supported journey of Heart Centred Living for the compassionate and passionate mumpreneur who wants to reclaim her best life in the mess of life.The Soul Presence Journey:www.soulpresence.com.auEPISODE 35. Add MORE to your schedule to create MORE space in your weekNow I know that sounds like an interesting concept. Mel and I hear mums all the time talking about how they don't have enough time for themselves, well to be clear they don't have enough time to add anything extra in!And now we are here, asking you, to rethink that strategy.Often the feeling of not having enough time is more about how we feel on the inside than what is happening on the outside (and I do acknowledge those times when life is just full).The feeling of overwhelm, stress, not having it all together, pressure to make the perfect decisions, not feeling like you are enough, can really clog up your system and this then gets reflected by the limited time you feel there is to get everything done.But what if you created more time for the things that you love, the things that fill up your cup, the things that create that feeling of spaciousness and openness in the body?Would you also start to feel that in your outside world?Mel and her hubby somehow found over 20 hours a week combined to bring in more of the good stuff that helps them feel grounded and present. And they didn't remove anything else.  What they received was a flow feeling, easier communication, and could better handle the wild cards that throws at them.They noticed that they were now so much more aware of the goodness that life has to offer and felt more able to gift that goodness back to their family and friends.There is almost a new sense of confidence when you get to stand in this space.Choosing to embrace the extra hours actually gave them back something that can't be replaced by just aching for more time.It gave them back that feeling of being ALIVE and living in the present moment. So next time you see an opportunity to allow yourself some fun, stillness, excitement, wonder, movement, in your life, say YES and see what happens.You might surprise yourself.Until next time....Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
34. Reclaiming your BEST Life in the Mess of Life
Apr 12 2024
34. Reclaiming your BEST Life in the Mess of Life
The DOORS ARE OPEN today!Our Soul Presence Space, a community supported journey of Heart Centred Living for the compassionate and passionate mother who wants to reclaim her best life in the mess of life.The Soul Presence Journey opens April 17th to 21st, jump in here: www.soulpresence.com.auEPISODE 34. Reclaiming your BEST Life in the Mess of LifeFrom one Mumma to another we know, we REALLY know what the juggle entails.It's supermarket shops, in between work and school drop off. It's after school sport coordination plus laundry. It's cooking dinner at breakfast so you can work your passions during the day.And did I mention cleaning the cushions after the dog has jumped all over them with dirty paws (true story for me this week!)You will have your own examples to draw from....But even in all of this mess there is a fire in my belly to find the time to immerse myself in my passions plural. To bury my head deep in an incredible book about someone who beat the odds.  To watch my fav movie for the 100th time, to walk along our most incredible everchanging beach.To bring my ideas to life through engaging in my purpose of supporting women to listen into their needs, to find the courage to know what their passions are and to help these women to speak with those near and dear to them about what they want in this life.The truth is I want no mother to feel like she left her best years behind her, like she never quite got to feel that excitement in her body of doing the thing she loves most.This is not to say that some of our best moments are being in our family space.It's saying that we can have those moments and we can have a passion too.It's time,Nat and Mel xxooHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
33. Creating an Easy Exit from the House with Value Based Parenting Strategies - with Suzie Forbes
Apr 8 2024
33. Creating an Easy Exit from the House with Value Based Parenting Strategies - with Suzie Forbes
Come Journey with us, in our Soul Presence Space so together we can explore the possibilities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.The Soul Presence Journey is opening again soon, jump into the wait list here: www.soulpresence.com.auEpisode 33. Creating an easy exit from the house with value based parenting strategies - with Suzie Forbes This week we have with us Suzie Forbes, she has a wealth of knowledge in working with children across many ages.As we know one of the frustrations we can sometimes feel when we are about to Grab our Keys and Go, literally heading out the door, is the 'Muuuuum' cry from our kids!When we hear this, we are torn between doing what we do best, holding space for our child, hearing and comforting them or wanting to pretend nothing is happening and just get out of there!Suzie walks us through ways to support our family before this moment even arrives.  Good idea hey!Suzie starts by sharing her beautiful story of 'life in session' as she calls it, where she is in the juggle and the juggle is real, when her children were little and she was the sole carer of their wellbeing.  Again reminding us that our needs can become invisible when we are in this space. It can feel incredibly overwhelming, and it's not easy, but even in this time, Suzie still chose to step up, to be the role model for her children.We do laugh, looking back at these times, but there are some amazing messages in these moments.  Suzie wisely says when it comes to getting our needs met that it's about tapping into our values, understanding what everyone needs to feel safe and supported in the space, and also what each person needs to feel like their cup is full. We are playing the long game here.  To set up an easy exit out the door it requires a thoughtful plan, thoughtful conversations, and setting up spaces for these conversations so everyone in the family feels seen and heard. It is possible.Until next time,Nat and Mel xxooHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568YOU CAN FIND SUZIE HERE:https://bit.ly/Stop-Fighting-Now-BOOKhttps://www.facebook.com/WonderfulSocietyhttps://www.instagram.com/the.wonderfulsociety
32. Is there Such a Thing as Balance?? -  With Bec Duffield
Mar 20 2024
32. Is there Such a Thing as Balance?? - With Bec Duffield
Come Journey with us, in our Soul Presence Space so together we can explore the possibilities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.The Soul Presence Journey is opening again soon, jump into the wait list here: www.soulpresence.com.auEpisode 32. Is there Such a Thing as Balance ???Bec starts us off with some real GOLD straight of the bat in this episode, as we are sharing our Grab Your Key and Go moments, she reminds us that we are always only 5mins away from feeling better.5 mins of walking, 5 mins of a conversation, 5 minutes of breathing.We get to remember that we are very capable human beings, and when we are in the mess, often the first thing that we let go of is taking care of ourselves.But does it have to take 30mins to take care of ourselves, or can we create some openness in 5mins if that's all we've got in that moment.What we discovered was (as our coach and mentor says) Balance is Bullshit.That life continues around us, things pop up, our kids come home needing to chat, someone in the family gets a cold and we can't equally set out our week for Health, Wellbeing, Connection, Business, Family, Friends etc etc.  It's about being messy whilst having it together! Both/ And (as Bec mentions).How can you incorporate what you love into your life daily?The first part is understanding yourself, knowing what works for you. Bec explains that from an early age movement was incredibly important in her life, and now that's part of what she does daily.It's more about priorities rather than how much time you are spending on any one thing.Bec talks about it in the form of 'dropping a few balls',  or which balls do we need in the air to keep us feeing good.  What can we keep, what can we let go of at any given time. For Bec the important balls are: Sleep, Strict boundaries around social media, Creating healthy guidelines around communications, No comparisons, Space for emotional processing with the children, She lets herself off the hook! and Doing things that she loves is ok. What are yours? Until next time,Nat and MelYou can find Bec and her offerings over on insta @alchemy.body @zeropointyoga @2_doors_down_ocean_groveHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
31. Play Money Insights with Money Coach Jess
Mar 17 2024
31. Play Money Insights with Money Coach Jess
Come Journey with us, in our Soul Presence Space so together we can explore the possibilities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.The Soul Presence Journey is opening again soon, jump into the wait list here: www.soulpresence.com.auEpisode 31.  Talking Play Money with JessOur conversations about Play Money were so juicy that we decided to invite in the Coach who I mentioned on the previous Play Money podcast to chat with us more about this.Jess is a fabulous money coach, her business Tillow Coaching and Consulting is all about playing with your money! And how to get those things that you want on any budget.This is only a small part of what she is all about, if you would like to know more head to www.tillowcc.com.auJess has always had a great money story and beautifully shares with us here how that plays into how she chooses to view money. One of my favourite sentences she speaks in this episode is when she says she was 'bossy with her money'.   In that moment Jess established that she was in fact the one in control.And when we realise we have the same opportunity to be in control of our relationship with money our whole world can change.Then we can start to explore what is important in our world and allocate according to what we have available.Jess says even putting $1 away a week can keep us moving towards what we want.We also got her perspective on some of the issues that Mum's can have around spending money on themselves, when they are working or Staying at home with kids, and touched on the conversations you can have with your partner to establish so that everyone's needs are met.Jess connects us with the emotions we feel when spending money on those things we love and that's what its all about.  JOY!Until next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
30. Is there Fair Play in your Home?
Mar 10 2024
30. Is there Fair Play in your Home?
Come Journey with us, in our Soul Presence Space so together we can explore the possibilities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life. The Soul Presence Journey is opening again soon, jump into the wait list here: www.soulpresence.com.auEpisode 30. Is there Fair Play in your Home?I love that there is passionate women out there writing incredible books like the one I am reading now called Fair Play by Eve Rodsky.https://www.fairplaylife.com/the-bookThis is what stepping out of your comfort zone looks like, this is what speaking up about your needs looks like.Eve's journey started with her listening in and recognising that something wasn't feeling right.She started getting curious, she started having conversations, and before she knew it, she was creating something that would change the lives of other women who felt the same.This book spoke to me because I am one of those women who had fallen into the pattern of taking care of the children and looking after the home.My joyful self, the parts that were once interesting about me seemed to be a very long distance second as I plummeted to the bottom of my list.Mel and I have a great chat in this episode about my 'Time Audit', and the 'Shit I do' list, looking at where our times goes in the day.  We laugh in here, but these things take up a lot of our time, they interrupt our time and they zap our mental space.Take a listen and see what you can start to create in your household that allows you more time freedom to Grab Your Keys and Go.Until next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
29. Bursting the Silliness Bubble - How to have more FUN
Feb 28 2024
29. Bursting the Silliness Bubble - How to have more FUN
We invite you to JOIN THE WAITLIST for our  "Soul Presence Membership Space www.soulpresence.com.au Come Journey with us, as together we explore the possibilities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.Silliness is the word of the day!The inspiration for Episode 29 came from a What's App message I received from my Dad on the day of their 28th Wedding Anniversary.I had sent them a message earlier that morning wishing them a wonderful day, and I left them with a question to ponder...I asked them, 'What are some of the things you have learnt about relationships in your 48 years?So I got some really awesome feedback from both Mum and Dad which you will hear in this episode.But I wanted to highlight Dad's message.Growing up Dad always spoke about silliness, he would find quotes and hang them up on our bathroom mirror around silliness and having fun. It is his 'to live by' mantra.We had a lot of silliness in our household.  I think it became more so when the Video Camcorder arrived in 1993 ish.  The thing I love about this is that we still get to laugh at all the crazy things we did even now through watching the reruns!This 'silliness' theme has been embedded and passed onto our kids also and when we get together, anything can happen.The cool thing about silliness, is it's very freeing.  It brings fun and lightness to an experience and it's an incredible connector of people.One laughs, and we all know how contagious laughing is!I hope you get a good laugh out of this episode, or at least crack a smile, and can invite a little silliness into your day today.  I wonder what will happen......Until next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
28. The Opportunity is Yours to Create
Feb 28 2024
28. The Opportunity is Yours to Create
Come Journey with us, in our Soul Presence Membership so together we can explore the possibilities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.  The Soul Presence Membership Space is opening soon, jump into the wait list here: www.soulpresence.com.au Episode 28. The Opportunity is Yours to Create I have spent a lot of my life creating my community.If I couldn't find what I was looking for, I would gather people together and make it happen, and it was always more incredible than I ever dreamed of.I think it's understanding that all of us have the ability to create what it is we need.When I started my parenting journey, I was at a bit of a loss.  I was very keen on Attachment Parenting techniques at the beginning, and I really wanted answers to all the questions I was asking in that space.I joined a parenting group, but it was a 45min drive with a baby who really didn't like being in the car at all!!So instead of missing out, I created a mothers group space at home, inviting people in with similar values of parenting to me and we were able to provide support to each other.It was so wonderful and nourishing for the parents and the children.I even created a folder with information for frequently asked questions and a library of books that people could borrow.It was a great space and served us all well.When that stage of life was coming to a close, I entered a new space with the kids going off to school.This started to open up some gaps.  As the children were becoming more independent, I was able to do more for myself.So again I called up a friend and suggested we get together once a month to chat, and do an activity that felt good for our growth as a person.Well that soon, became 3 people, then 4,5,6 and is currently sitting at around 8 regular attendees.And again it has grown into something I could never imagine!!Instead of meeting in one of my small spare bedrooms, we meet in a beautiful dome at the back of one of my friends houses, and we dance, sing, laugh, cry, learn, grow and take turns leading, while also bringing to the table our own talents aaaaaand we meet weekly, no waiting for a whole month to nourish ourselves.I highly encourage you to seek what it is you want.To grab your courage and run with it.Community is everything. Create yours now.Until next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
27. PMS - Find the Gold
Feb 15 2024
27. PMS - Find the Gold
We invite you to JOIN THE WAITLIST for our  "Soul Presence membership space www.soulpresence.com.au Come Journey with us, as together we explore the possiblities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.I  just love the real juicy episode and this is one of them!Episode 27 sees Mel and I get into the very interesting topic of PMS.We both had very similar experiences around us this month and thought it would be great to share our GOLD with you.This time of the month, if we lean in, can actually have so much value for us.Our emotions are intense, they are very present which allows us to really sit in that vulnerable space to hear what is there for us.I once read somewhere that whatever tension, frustrations (emotions) have been unable to be worked through during the month, they will all arrive here in this moment.It really is a great opportunity to see what is really important to you.   And a great opportunity to listen in and perhaps to speak out (maybe not when you are in your passive aggressive phase) your needs at this time.In society women are often ignored more at this time of the month, because all of their emotions have arrived.  But I want to say that this time could actually be of most benefit for us and I'm not going to stop advocating for how I feel, because my feeling matter.So Mel and I sat in our stuff for the weekend and really felt into what was there.  We used the frustration to propel us forward and we used the vulnerability to share from our heart space. Really epic things occurred as you will hear in the podcast. Until next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
26. Play Money and the Self Worth Stories
Feb 14 2024
26. Play Money and the Self Worth Stories
We invite you to JOIN THE WAITLIST for our  "Soul Presence membership space www.soulpresence.com.au Come Journey with us, as together we explore the possiblities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.How can we easily Grab our Keys and get ourselves into the activities that we love?In five easy steps of course!Grab your 5 Supportive Steps HERE:https://www.soulpresence.com.au/5-steps-giftOOOOhhhhh the stories.They arrive in so many different places!Where do they come from?  Most of the time it's from what was modelled to us growing up and until we are aware of what we are doing, those stories define who we are.It's time to embrace some new stories.In Episode 26 we dive into our Play Money stories.Mel and I share some of ours with you, because we all have them. Listen into my story around cheap meals and being thrifty (not in a good way), and Mel who chats about how her story around money changes when she is not feeling like she is contributing financially to her family.Stories can either move us away from what we want or towards what we want.And guess who gets to choose which way you want to go.Yes, you do of course.It all starts with awareness.This is what our podcasts are about.  If you don't know, you don't know, and if you do know, it's so good to share that information with others, so they can make choices that feel right for them.This will lead you to your YES.We chat about how we can still create possibilities even if we are a stay at home mum.We talk through the internal fight for worth when we become a stay at home mum doing the invisible work and how we can be ok with using some of the funds coming into the family home to continue to say YES to what we love.It's a wild roller coaster ride.  Mel says beautifully in here that often it's not the pressure from your partner around the money you spend, but how you feel about yourself that stops you from spending the money on the things you love.Lots of good things to ponder in this one.Until next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
25. Play Money - How it can support your YES!
Feb 14 2024
25. Play Money - How it can support your YES!
We invite you to JOIN THE WAITLIST for our  "Soul Presence membership space www.soulpresence.com.au Come Journey with us, as together we explore the possiblities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.How can we easily Grab our Keys and get ourselves into the activities that we love?In five easy steps of course! Grab your 5 Supportive Steps HERE: https://www.soulpresence.com.au/5-steps-giftI'm going to start with a question for you.....What often gets in the way of women doing what they love??I'm going to guess that it's one of these two culprits and sometimes both.TIME and MONEY of course!We are going to have a little chat about money today in Episode 25. I have another question for you?Do you have your own play money?  Some money set aside for those times when you want to say YES to something fun?Having your own play money allows you to easily say YES to the opportunities that come your way.BUT....I know how many stories we have wrapped around money, particularly when we are talking to our partner.So many things can come up.And even when we do have our own play money, we can often find ourselves justifying or restricting ourselves on how we spend it.It's ok to spend it on a book, but it's not ok to spend it on a weekend away.So our money for ourselves doesn't really feel fully free.This is where we go a little deeper, money can show you what you value, what's most important to you because you can always find money for that.It's also interesting to note that the money is there, but if we are not intentional about how we spend it, the next minute we are off buying fish and chips (now $60 for a family of 4!) and the money is gone again.Creating a special account for your play money will help you feel more free to use it on the things that are important to you.  Guilt freee!!! Until next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
24. Permission - The invisible step in saying YES to ourselves
Feb 7 2024
24. Permission - The invisible step in saying YES to ourselves
We invite you to JOIN THE WAITLIST for our  "Soul Presence membership space www.soulpresence.com.au Come Journey with us, as together we explore the possiblities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.Aaaaannd we are back for our unofficial/official start to the year and we welcome you to Season 2. With 23 episodes under our belt, we have been able to speak about some potent topics around getting yourself first on your list, or as we like to call it, moving from Mess to Yes. We are starting this year with a bang, getting straight into the nitty gritty with our topic of Permission.Episode 24. PermissionWe are currently speaking about Permission in our online Soul Presence Membership space and it was such a good chat, we thought we would bring it to the GYKG podcast community.Permission helps us to say YES to what it is we love.Sometimes it's the silent missing piece.   Helping us go from possibility to putting something in action!And who do we need it from?Usually it's ourselves.Giving ourselves permission is like getting a green light. It's time to go.We are no longer sitting in indecision, we have checked in with our yes and no, our decision has been made and we are good to go.I think giving yourself permission feels like a huge sigh.  A weight of your shoulders and you can just enjoy the next step forward.  It feels so much easier.But eventually when we get really good at giving ourselves permission, we can let go of that step and just say YES.I encourage you to fill in the gaps below..........Play around with it and see how it feels to complete the following sentence. I give myself permission to...... I give myself permission to......I give myself permission to.......Write it in the positive, or as I often say 'in towards language'.  This sentence is taking you towards what you want, so no, 'no more or not that's'.Something more like......  'I give myself permission to learn the cello'  (random but yes that was my permission giving sentence at the start of this year).If you are looking for a place that supports your Yes journey. Check out our Membership space, affordable for all women if they choose to create the space.We will keep you posted when the doors open next..... ( wink wink it's not toooo long away)While you are waiting for the doors to open join us over in the Facebook Group GYKG community and we can chat more there.Until next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
23. It's about you too - Yep, parents need support too with Tracy
Dec 20 2023
23. It's about you too - Yep, parents need support too with Tracy
We invite you to JOIN THE WAITLIST for our  "Soul Presence membership space www.soulpresence.com.au Come Journey with us, as together we explore the possiblities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.Episode 23.  Special Guest TracyThis was a beautiful conversation with Tracy around supporting parents of LGBTQIA + children with a unique Grab Your Keys and Go solution.Sometimes a Grab Your Keys and Go moment is actually going off to get some much needed support.  Reaching out for support when you need to hold space for your children is not always the first thing we think about.Mumma's are always putting their children's needs first, always seeking support for their children and often leaving themselves out of the equation.When the best thing you can do is get support for yourself.Tracy so wonderfully explains that our feelings and thoughts and experiences as a parent of an LGBTQIA+ child who is coming out are important to allow space for. Your feelings matter and you get to feel them, and you get to explore them in a safe environment.Acknowledging and understanding your feelings and thoughts can be of great benefit not only to yourself but to the space you can hold for your LGBTQIA+ child.You can show up for your child as you will have more capacity and more tools to be a safe place as their thoughts and feelings arrive and they navigate their own journey. I love it when Tracy says that the struggle is real and so is the love, which is of course where her book begins. This is a book for everyone so we can all become an ally. xxYou can get your copy here:https://indigojourney.co/book/ and you can find Tracy here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracy.indigojourney/ Thanks for chatting with us Tracy xxUntil next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
21. How supportive spaces can help you say YES to YOU with Helene
Dec 1 2023
21. How supportive spaces can help you say YES to YOU with Helene
We invite you to JOIN THE WAITLIST for our  "Soul Presence membership space www.soulpresence.com.au Come Journey with us, as together we explore the possiblities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led lifeEpisode 21. How Supportive Spaces can help you say YES to YOU!We are so grateful to have Helene join in this episode!!!We chat all things self care in the bathroom!No really, there is so much more in this podcast....Helene beautifully shares her story with us, as we dive into how we can create supportive spaces in our lives as we journey to living the life that we desire.Setting up these supportive spaces in your life provides you with opportunities to continue to say YES to YOU, whilst filling up your cup of confidence to go out and grab those opportunities.  It's so important to have people in your corner.Supportive spaces, can be safe spaces to be seen and heard.  Here you can show up as you are, getting vulnerable as you continue to learn more about who you are. In safe spaces there is no judgement.    It can feel tricky at first to get vulnerable, but once you find the right space and the right people, it can be incredibly rewarding.I love that Helene and Mel both highlight the trust you need to have sometimes whilst finding your supportive space.  That it can feel a little awkward as you step into new places to see if they are a fit for you.Sometimes you just never know where a place will take you, so it's worth putting yourself out there, you are worth it. We have absolutely loved having Helene connect with us in Breathwork (She Breathes), Soul Presence Retreat and our Membership Space.  As well as being our friend of course. xxThanks for chatting with us Helene xxUntil next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
20.  Morning Rituals as a powerful step towards saying YES to ourselves with Madhu
Nov 30 2023
20. Morning Rituals as a powerful step towards saying YES to ourselves with Madhu
We invite you to JOIN THE WAITLIST for our  "Soul Presence membership space www.soulpresence.com.au Come Journey with us, as together we explore the possiblities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.Episode 20.  Morning Rituals This was such a fun conversation and one of the first of three guests we will be introducing over the next 3 weeks.We love chatting with other incredible women, as collectively we have some pretty awesome knowledge to support women to say YES to themselves.In this Episode we welcome Madhu to our podcast, chatting all things Morning Rituals.For some of you, a Morning Ritual might be the starting point for coming back home to yourself, creating some space to listen into what is most important to you.A morning Ritual is starting the day with you, and it doesn't have to be fancy!  It supports filling up your cup and then you have more capacity to hold the things you need to in your day.Things like (if you are a mum) being more present with your children,  feeling more focused on your tasks,  connecting with your partner etc. Press play now and listen in for more goodness around Morning Rituals. You may have heard Mel mention in the podcast that she was very keen to start a Morning Ritual of her own. Luckily we had some time planned for a short getaway together, so we decided to play around with some ideas.It was so fun checking in with practices that light you up and weaving them together to create a magical space for yourself.I'm going to set the scene.  Picture this....Two women on the edge of a golf course, looking out across at the bay of water, sun is shining and the hint of a gentle breeze blowing (true story).We grabbed out a phone and pressed play on Christina Aguilera 'Fighter' and danced away!!  Mel then suggests we do squats, sit ups and star jumps and then out of the bushes we hear a man cheering us on from his backyard ha ha.  Tick 1st item done - Movement.   For Mel it was so important for her to move her body first before any other activity.Between the damp ground, the prickles and the possibility of being hit by a golf ball at any second, we found a spot and did a beautiful meditation from Insight Timer, which took us through the breath, calming of the body, compassion and an intention for our day.2nd item ticked. Stillness and Connection with the body.For the third activity Mel decided she was keen to journal.  Journaling works well after meditation as the mind is a little more quiet, and writing unfiltered can often bring some incredible awareness as you allow the words (your truth) to flow through.  Giving yourself space like this can often help you work through an issue or problem that has come up, but also can give freedom to possibilities around these issues.  Leaving you with a feeling of relief, feeling lighter, calmer, and more free.Do you are already have a morning Ritual?  Are you keen to start one?Let's chat more over in the Facebook group, would love to hear your shares.Until next time....Nat and MelFind Madhu athttps://www.facebook.com/Yogaforthepeople.online?mibextid=ZbWKwLHttps://Www.yogaforthepeople.onlineHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568Retreat websitehttps://www.soulpresenceretreats.com.au
22. How to reclaim what matters to you with Rachel
Nov 30 2023
22. How to reclaim what matters to you with Rachel
We invite you to JOIN THE WAITLIST for our  "Soul Presence membership space www.soulpresence.com.au Come Journey with us, as together we explore the possiblities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.Episode 22.  How to Reclaim what Matters to YOU with our Special Guest RachelRachel attended our most recent Grab Your Keys and Go Retreat in September this year and shared her experience on her podcast which you can listen to here:https://www.buzzsprout.com/2218063/13623663We had so much to talk about that we have invited her back to finish the conversation, but really I think we just created more things to talk about. Ha HaMel and I love a good conversation and this one is something special.In this episode we dive into how to bring the pieces together to support you to get out of the house to the BIG and small things.Rachel shares with you some of the things that you might be tussling with before you are ok to choose yourself and the things you love.  I love when she highlights the vulnerability hangover! The 'vulnerability hangover' can arrive after you have actually already said YES to yourself, and it's filled with doubt, unease, indecision, and can often show up questioning if it's ok for you to do the things you love.It might sound like this:"Am I really allowed to choose myself?"You might notice yourself starting to sabotage the activity through subtle ways as Rach so beautifully shares with you.She then moves through how she was able to RECLAIM what matters to her.And one of the first questions she asked was, 'What can we do to make this possible?'You can find Rachel and all her amazing offerings here:https://www.createvitality.com.auThanks for chatting with us Rach xxUntil next time,Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568
19. Release and Reset
Nov 17 2023
19. Release and Reset
We invite you to JOIN THE WAITLIST for our  "Soul Presence membership space www.soulpresence.com.au Come Journey with us, as together we explore the possiblities that await us, and ride the wave of each other's momentum as we move towards a heart led life.Episode 19.  Release and ResetHave you been holding?Take a short pause right now.   Take a couple of intentional deeper breaths and just sit and notice for a minute.What can you feel in your body?What do you notice?Sometimes we can walk around in our day carrying so much.  An argument that didn't get resolved, an upset child at home who we are holding space for or something we would really like to say but can't seem to speak out the words.  Past events can also have an impact on our day to day life.We are constantly going through experiences in our world and often we don't have time to fully process or unwind from those experiences.  We continue to push it down, adding to the weight on our shoulders.Imagine if we didn't have to carry all that!Imagine if we didn't have to be the one holding it all (and I know most mum's feel this way).How can we come back?  How can we release and reset in a way that supports us in the best way possible?This is what Episode 19 is all about.In this episode we highlight:The impact that 'holding' can have on your Grab Your Keys and Go momentsHow can we tell when our tank is becoming emptySimple tips that Mel and I use to release and resetNow find a space where you can really be free to release.Have fun playing with the Sigh Breath and the Laugh Breath and really let go.Pop on your fav tune and sing and dance all over the place.  Shake the body out if you need to.It's getting close to Christmas so we really want to set you up for a relaxed break xxUntil next time....Nat and MelHead over to our Grab Your Keys and Go community for some juicy conversations around the topics of our podcastshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1921054834941568Retreat websitehttps://www.soulpresenceretreats.com.au