Heart of Humans

Jen Li

The Heart of Humans explores the secrets to building flourishing relationships. We demystify the elements of desire, trust and love by interviewing conscious lovers and providing reflections to help you create the relationship of your dreams. Hosted by Jen Li. New episodes released every other Tuesday. read less
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Avoiding Healing Is Costing Us Our Self-Awareness - Amire Woolfolk
Aug 3 2021
Avoiding Healing Is Costing Us Our Self-Awareness - Amire Woolfolk
How do you partner with someone and heal yourself at the same time?I get vulnerable with how I view my partner watching pornography and I share how I used it to dive deeper into healing myself.Negotiating boundaries? Easier said than done in practice. Amire Woolfolk and I challenge the way we look at ourselves and our boundaries that are sometimes up for negotiation. This open dialogue will make you look at boundaries and coping mechanisms differently.Follow Amire to listen to thought-provoking conversations on how we can regain parts of ourselves by questioning our own beliefs. You will not be disappointed.4:08 What are the signs that healing needs to take place7:36 How do you handle interruptions10:14 Being offended by pornography13:17 Learning what fulfillment is not15:56 How presumptions block communication18:40 Co-creating a partnership in healing19:45 Boundaries with your inner child22:54 Healing myself vs anyone else25:41 Impact of pornography on relationships28:59 How to deal with someone's coping mechanisms31:20 Removing boundaries35:30 Why you must own your trauma37:04 Healing feels like dying41:59 What happens when we disassociate from love43:05 Coping mechanisms are distractionsConnect with Amire Woolfolk:Website: www.comfortfreeconversations.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/comfort_freeTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@comfort_freeFacebook: www.facebook.com/ComfortFreeYoutube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCNii0FdB-rY58JSTl52I2Wg/