Summary

In this episode, Jeni Simas discusses the topic of fixing others in relationships. She shares her personal experiences and how it relates to the TV show Parks and Recreation. Jeni explores the cultural influence on the idea of fixing others, highlighting the gendered expectations placed on women. She also discusses the impact of family dynamics and the relationship with parents on this behavior. Low self-esteem and fear of intimacy are identified as factors that contribute to the desire to fix others. Jeni emphasizes the importance of finding a good partner who complements you rather than a project. She concludes by announcing a group coaching program.

Takeaways

Cultural norms and gendered expectations contribute to the belief that women should fix others in relationships.

Family dynamics and the relationship with parents can influence the desire to fix others.

Low self-esteem can lead to seeking out projects in relationships.

Fear of intimacy can manifest as a desire to fix others.

It is important to find a partner who complements you rather than trying to fix them.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Experience

01:01 Cultural Influence on Fixing Others

04:21 Family Dynamics

05:38 Relationship with Parents

07:30 Low Self-Esteem

08:10 Fear of Intimacy

12:32 Emotionally Unavailable Partners

19:19 Fight Antiquated Social Norms

20:09 Group Coaching Program Announcement

20:59 Conclusion