Ep 112: Dr. Reneé Carr | Reframing conflict and telling your ego to calm down

The Follow-Up Question

Oct 2 2023 • 1 hr 4 mins

What happens if we never shed our child ego as we graduate into adulthood? How might someone show up in the world if they never emotionally mature past the child ego state, especially when conflict is present?

Dr. Reneé Carr is a psychologist and an advisor to political leaders at the state and national levels. Reneé’s gift is the ability to apply her background and understanding of psychology to not only help explain but to also help solve social challenges and problems, especially in instances where conflict is present and our ego gets in the way.

The cynic in you and in me only sees the conflict. The child ego in us only lets us see issues from our vantage point.

What Reneé shares in this episode is a reframing of conflict, one of opportunity and not threat to you and your needs, where we can discuss controversial issues without creating division — whether that be in politics or perhaps more relevant to you and me, even in our families, our friend groups, and our workplaces.

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