Are You Divorcing a Narcissist with Tracy MaloneIn this episode of the Her Empowered Divorce Expert Series podcast, Beverly Price interviews Tracy Malone and we talk about Are You Divorcing a Narcissist. Top mistakes people make in divorcing a narcissist, how to protect yourself from post-divorce legal and financial abuseTracy Malone Author of 'DIVORCING YOUR NARCISSIST: You Can't Make This Shit Up! Tracy is a divorce coach specializing in narcissistic abuse divorces. The Founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Tracy coaches’ clients from all over the world. You can listen to her podcast or visit her on YouTube.Tracy Malone Author, Speaker, Educator, and International narcissistic abuse divorce coach. She is a surTHRIVER of abuse herself and the founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com. Tracy Bestselling book – DIVORCING A NARCISSIST: You Can’t Make This Shit Up! as well as 32 healing journals. Tracy has a popular YouTube channel and podcast that has reached millions of survivors.Key Interview Questions that Beverly Asks Tracy:1.           How are narcissists different in a divorce process?2.         In your book you mention rich and poor narcissists - why does that matter in a narcissistic divorce? 33.        What are some of the tactics a narcissist will deploy during a divorce4.        What are the biggest mistakes people make when divorcing a narcissist in your book you talk about the grey areas of a divorce decree - can you tell us about that?5.        What 3 actionable takeaways can you give women that they can do to enhance their journey from beginning to end and recovery from the divorce processa.  don't underestimate the black and white thinking where you become the evil one,b.  they must destroy understand the reason it’s important to understand the tactics understand the biggest mistakesc.    how to protect yourself from post-divorce legal and financial abuse  ABOUT TRACY MALONE:Tracy Malone  Are You Divorcing a NarcissistCONNECT WITH TRACY MALONE –What are your website address and social media handles: https://narcissistabusesupport.com Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/188681268196044/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tracyamalone/ Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/tracyamalone/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/TracyAMalone Podcasts -

What are the biggest divorce mistakes to avoid? With Susan Guthrie, Esq. Host of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast.Key Interview Questions:1. Which role of mediator, litigator or podcast host do you like the most?2. What mistakes in divorce do you see most often?3.  Who is first professional you should hire?4. How can you come up with a plan for moving forward?5. What did you learn from your divorce that you incorporate in life today?What 3 actionable takeaways can you give women that they can do to enhance their journey from beginning to end and recovery from the divorce process1.    Don’t rush into the process and go to fast. Give yourself grace of space2.    Form a divorce team – coach, financial professional and litigator3.    Create a vision for a new life from a blank slate – looking forward, not looking backABOUT SUSAN GUTHRIE, Esq.:Nationally recognized family law attorney, mediator, and Leading Online Mediation Expert, Susan Guthrie® is at it again. After guiding countless numbers of people through the perilous world of divorce—and speaking to a podcast audience of over 4 million listeners—she’s bringing you the The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast with her own insider knowledge and information from some of the top experts in the worldCONNECT WITH SUSAN GUTHRIE -·      Website - Divorceandbeyondpod.com·      Instagram: @susanguthrieesq and @divorceandbeyondCONNECT WITH PODCAST HOST AND DIVORCE AND EMPOWERMENT COACH, BEVERLY:Website - www.herempowereddivorce.comEmail - beverly@herempowereddivorce.comPhone: 843-315-8659Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/herempowereddivorce/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/beverlyprice365/Instagram - www.instagram.com/her_empowered_divorceLinkedIn - www.linkedin.com/in/beverly-price/Click on the link to schedule a free consultation https://Beverly-Price.as.me/ConsultationCallSUBSCRIBE TO THE HER EMPOWERED DIVORCE PODCASTWebsite: https://www.herempowereddivorce.com/podcastYoutube - https://www.youtube.com/@herempowereddivorce1/Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-empowered-divorce/id1635143315Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7kIcMXrj1tIWBOmaXBBn1UIf you liked this episode, please don’t forget to leave us a review, subscribe, and share this podcast!****************************************About your Host, Beverly Price:Beverly Price, the driving force behind Her Empowered Divorce, has a profound personal connection to the divorce journey, having navigated it herself from the inside out. She intimately understands the spectrum of emotions such as pain, anger, overwhelm, and confusion that accompany divorce, drawing from her own experiences. Her unwavering passion lies in empowering women to navigate divorce in a more positive and informed manner than she did in her own past.Over many years of dedicated coaching, Beverly has provided invaluable support to...

HOW TO PREPARE FOR A DIVORCEHOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment CoachGUEST: Lisa Zeiderman, Matrimonial Attorney, CFL, and Certified Divorce Financial AnalystSUMMARY:Preparing for a divorce is a complex and emotionally challenging process that involves multiple facets, from the legal aspects to the emotional well-being of those involved. Understanding how to prepare for it and getting the right people on your team is key to better results. Seeking out an experienced divorce attorney, therapist, divorce coach, and divorce financial analyst as needed to help at different times with different issues can make the journey smoother. Each divorce is unique, so tailoring your preparation to your specific situation is key to achieving the best possible results. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Lisa Zeiderman, a matrimonial attorney, CFL, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, and Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP, based in New York. Together, they discuss preparations for divorce, the steps you need to take to get the best results, and the professional you need in your divorce team to help you navigate the complexities of divorce, make informed decisions, and work towards a more positive future.KEY TAKEAWAYS:·      If you are thinking about divorce, you should first sit down and create a spreadsheet of assets, liabilities, and expenses and gather documents such as tax returns, brokerage statements, bank statements, and credit card statements for backup when you consult an attorney.·      Word of mouth and support group recommendations can help you find a good match for your divorce process. You can also get a good match from bar associations, ABA sites, super lawyers sites, LinkedIn, and podcasts.·      What should I look for in an attorney, and what questions to ask? Look for an attorney who is listening, understands your situation, and has experience doing the kind of work needed in your case. They need to click, and if you feel like you are in a hustle and have a genuine difference in opinion during the consultation, they might not be a good fit.·      How can I be the best client for my attorney? The first thing is to be truthful, detailed, timely, and realistic with your expectations. Divorce is like a second job; being truthful, transparent, timely, and realistic will help you get the best results and build a relationship with your attorney.NOTABLE QUOTES:·      Overwhelm is how people feel in a divorce, and sometimes attorneys may overlook the fact that you are not used to the terminologies and what is going on. Having a divorce team is crucial because you can ask the divorce coach, therapist, or financial analyst questions to help you understand what's happening. (Lisa)·      The number one mistake you can make in a divorce is letting your emotions hijack you, so you lose the ability to think clearly and make good decisions. Unless you work through that, your attorney can't be as effective because you are not fulfilling the role of being an educated and informed client. (Beverly)·      Being truthful is very important; you do not want your attorney to be blindsided or go to court and find out something different from what you are saying because they will look foolish in front of the judge. Make sure you are an accurate recorder. (Lisa)·      There are so many limitations for settlement, so don't set your standards so high that it's impossible to meet; you need to understand that there is an income that is less to go around, and you

FINANCIAL CONFIDENCE BEFORE, DURING, AND AFTER DIVORCE HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment Coach GUEST: Leah Hadley, founder and CEO of Great Lakes Divorce Financial Solutions SUMMARY: One of the things that most divorced women struggle with is financial confidence. Financial confidence is a critical factor to consider before, during, and after a divorce. Before divorce proceedings commence, it's essential to have a clear understanding of your financial situation, including assets, liabilities, income, and expenses. This knowledge is a powerful tool that will help you make informed decisions and negotiate equitable settlements. Ultimately, financial confidence involves not only obtaining the necessary financial information but also getting organized and seeking support from a divorce financial specialist who can provide expert guidance in navigating the complex financial aspects of divorce. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Leah Hadley, the founder and CEO of Great Lakes Divorce Financial Solutions. Together, they discuss how you can build your financial confidence before, during, and after divorce.   KEY TAKEAWAYS: Financial fears run the gamic when it comes to divorce. So many women are terrified they will run out of money, not have the income to support themselves, and give up the lifestyle and community they enjoy.Financial abuse can show up in various ways, including limited access to financial information, reduced access to finances, and concealed assets. What kind of financial professionals should I have in my divorce team? When you are going through a divorce, it’s important that you have professionals who have credentials in divorce-specific areas.Even the same assets can have different tax returns, and you have to consider the different implications when negotiating and dividing assets.No matter what assets you want, if you are considering financial security after divorce, you have to prioritize having liquid cash assets when negotiating. Cash is king. Prioritize it and ensure you have access to it.  NOTABLE QUOTES:You should always have access to information about your own financial situation; it’s a big red flag if it’s a trigger or an issue for somebody to bring up a topic around their financial situation. (Bela) Not every asset comparison is equal; if you want to keep the house and your partner gets the 401k, there are different tax implications that make the net not equal. (Beverly) If you’re in a situation where you have access to financial information, take advantage of it and make copies of statements; it’s incredible how difficult it can be in some cases to start collecting financial information once the divorce gets started. (Bela) Get clear on where you lack knowledge and start to increase that knowledge; nobody is born knowing how to manage money well. That is a learned skill, and you can learn by allowing yourself the opportunity. (Bela) Money doesn’t have power over you; it’s simply a tool you can learn to use well to reach your goals. (Bela) If you want to keep your marital home and offset that with retirement assets, make sure you understand what you’re giving up because sometimes, when we are looking at the here and now and what will keep us comfortable at the moment, we are giving up something more meaningful and can cause financial difficulty in the future. (Bela)  FURTHER RESOURCES/RELEVANT LINKS: Beverly’s personal Facebook page can be found at:

GETTING READY FOR DIVORCE. EP 116HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment CoachGUEST: Lesa Koski, Attorney Turned Mediator President and Founder of Koski Law & Mediation SUMMARY: Getting ready for divorce is a significant and emotionally charged process that requires careful consideration and preparation. It involves not only the legal aspects but also the emotional and financial ones. Before taking this life-altering step, you should seek guidance from a divorce coach to process your feelings, work on your self and understand your reasons for divorce. Working with a professional will help you prepare adequately, gather the right information, and get the right divorce professionals into your team for the best possible outcome. Preparing for divorce is about safeguarding your future while navigating the process with as much grace and resilience as possible. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Lesa Koski, Attorney Turned Mediator President and Founder of Koski Law & Mediation. Together, they discuss how to make the decision to divorce and what the most important steps are. KEY TAKEAWAYS:●     How do you know that it’s time to divorce? Knowing when it’s time to divorce is personal. Start by working on yourself to grow and work on your marriage, check in with your spouse, too, and get a divorce coach to walk with you. When you have done everything you could, follow your gut and be comfortable with the decision.●     Divorce should not be taken lightly. If you have made the choice to do it, you should work on yourself and your communication skills to do it in a better way and ensure you don’t go through it again.●     What is the most important first step to maximize the divorce process? Having a divorce coach is one of the first steps that can save you money in the long run. Knowing your goals, understanding your finances, doing your budget, and looking at your home options will help you get things aligned and do it differently. ●     How do I share your decision for divorce with family and friends? Be a united front and come added together. That will change the positioning of your divorce outward.    ●     Whether you are getting along or are contentious, having a parenting plan in place can really help. Parenting plans are so important because when you have kids, they are the number one concern when you are getting a divorce.  NOTABLE QUOTES: ●     It can be hard to feel good about something like divorce, but you can feel confident about your decision and know you made the right one by being courageous to look at what you are feeling, getting curious about the feeling, looking at the thought process behind them and being capable and consistent in doing that. (Lesa)●     To clarify your decision about divorce and move forward, evaluate yourself and your spouse; compare that to your ideal partner, and then consider if you are the kind of person they would be attracted to and work on yourself to get there. Don’t be fixated on what you want, but also on becoming the person someone would want to be in a relationship with. (Beverly)●     So many parents think they want to keep the home for their children after divorce; however, if you are stressed out and can’t afford it, that is not helping your children. Having a home that you can afford is more important than staying in that home that will have you working all the time and feeling stressed....

HANDLING THE FINANCIAL ASPECT DURING THE DIVORCE PROCESS. HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment Coach GUEST:  María Gabriella Martinez, CDFA and Founder and Divorce Financial Strategist at Ever After WealthSUMMARY: The biggest fear in divorce often revolves around money and finances, as the dissolution of a marriage can have a profound impact on one's financial stability and future. However, seeking the expertise of a certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA) can be a crucial step in navigating this complex terrain. With their guidance, you can make informed decisions regarding asset division, alimony, child support, and other financial matters, ultimately working towards a more equitable and secure financial future after divorce. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to María Gabriella Martinez, a CDFA and the founder and Divorce Financial Strategist at Ever After Wealth. Together, they discuss the importance of having a CDFA as part of your divorce team and how you can protect your financial well-being during this challenging time and move forward with confidence. KEY TAKEAWAYS: Why is it important to have a CDFA involved in the divorce process? Divorce is not just a legal process. It is a monster with three heads, the legal, emotional and financial components, and the best way to tackle it and make the best decision is to have the right experts to help you with each of the three areas.When you are working with a financial advisor or financial planner, they are planning your finances for the future, and when you are going through a divorce, it’s very hard to establish your goals; you should always work with a CDFA from the very beginning because once you address the financial issues you will be very prepared to move forward with the divorce process.What to do if you are considering a major purchase during the divorce process, and what are its implications? It’s very important to understand the kind of financial decisions you can make without having to be part of the divorce process and those that will affect the divorce process.Having a CDFA and a divorce coach on your team is a necessity, not a luxury. You can save so much money by working with experts because you are going to pay a person for their expertise. Taking your emotional conflicts and financial settlement issues to your attorney will cost you more.  NOTABLE QUOTES:Every financial decision you make during the divorce process requires an expert who knows exactly what happens in every situation and the consequences and can prepare you to move forward knowing what to expect. (Maria) The more successful your divorce is, the more you have to look at it as a business transaction and do it without emotions; you need a clear head because the decision you make will affect the rest of your life. (Beverly)When you are going through a divorce, there is a divorce law, and it’s going to trump any financial rules that you have, so walk with a divorce financial expert. (Maria) You can get the best financial information in the world, but if you are not in a good emotional state to make decisions, you will have a hard time making decisions and might make the wrong decisions. (Maria) So many women in the divorce process are often afraid and upset because they don’t understand the financial aspect, but the attornies cannot explain that without the right information, which is why working with a CDFA is crucial. (Maria) Divorce is overwhelming, and it’s important to stop and think about yourself and do what gives you comfort. You have to self-care and find experts to help you; it’s an investment, and you...

PARENTING COORDINATOR'S ROLE IN RESOLVING CUSTODY CONFLICTSHOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment CoachGUEST:  Jaime Davis, Co-Managing Partner at Gailor Hunt and Host of A Year and a Day: Divorce without Destruction SUMMARY:A parenting coordinator plays a crucial role in helping divorcing parents navigate the often tumultuous terrain of co-parenting after a divorce. Their primary objective is to assist in making decisions related to child custody, visitation, and other parenting matters in an amicable and child-focused manner. They act as neutral third-party facilitators, using their expertise in family law and child development to help parents reach mutually beneficial agreements. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Jaime Davis, a Co-Managing Partner at Gailor Hunt and Host of A Year and a Day: Divorce without Destruction. Together, they discuss parenting coordinators, who they are, and their role in fostering a more collaborative and harmonious co-parenting relationship to create a stable and supportive environment for children's growth and well-being.KEY TAKEAWAYS:●     Who is a parenting coordinator, and what role do they play in family law cases? A parenting coordinator is a neutral third party who has received training to become a parenting coordinator. In high cases involving the custody of children, the court can appoint a parenting coordinator to assist the parents in making decisions for their kids.  ●     The different areas of authority that a parenting coordinator can help with can range from pick-up time for the child, health care management, and communication between parents and children. However, their scope of authority can vary from case to case.●     What is the difference between a parenting coordinator and a parenting coach? A parent coordinator's decision is usually like a binding court order. So if a parenting coordinator issues a directive and one of the parents does not follow it, the other parent can ask for a baby holding contempt for violating the directive. A parenting coach is more focused on getting the parents to work together and facilitating communication.●     Do parenting coordinators take over all the decisions when the conflict is great and the parents are far apart? Each parent coordinator does it differently, but regardless of the level of acrimony, it is very important that the parents try to agree on the issues first, and when they can't the parent coordinator can step in and be the tiebreaker. NOTABLE QUOTES: ●     When a couple is getting a divorce, decisions for the kids can be some of the things being disagreed about. In these types of cases, a parenting coordinator can be very helpful by being the tiebreaker when mum and dad disagree on a decision for the child. (Jaime)●     One of the benefits of having a parent coordinator is that the children can have what they need in a more timely manner. (Jaime)●     Your parenting coordinator is going to be making the decision when you and your partner disagree on things. It is almost like having a third parent in the relationship. (Jaime)●     Part of the parent coordinator's job is to work themselves out of a job, getting parents to a place where they can make decisions without them and their children because they know what is best for their family. (Jaime)●     At any time during a custody dispute, either parent can ask the court to appoint a parent coordinator, and the court

HANDLING ALCOHOL ABUSE IN DIVORCE AND COPARENTING EP 113HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment CoachGUEST: Chris Beck, VP of Family Law Business Development for Soberlink Healthcare SUMMARY:Handling alcohol abuse in divorce and co-parenting is a complex and emotionally charged issue, as approximately 50% of divorces cite heavy drinking as a contributing factor. This not only shatters marriages but also casts a shadow of fear over co-parenting relationships. Concerns about a child's safety can be particularly agonizing, leading to questions like, "Will my child be safe?" In such situations, trust and transparency between the co-parents become paramount. Ensuring the well-being of the children should be the primary focus, with both parents working together to create a safe and nurturing environment and seeking professional guidance if alcohol abuse remains a concern. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Chris Beck, the VP of Family Law Business Development for Soberlink Healthcare. Together, they discuss alcohol abuse and what can be done if alcohol abuse is an issue in your divorce and co-parenting. KEY TAKEAWAYS: ●     Does Sober Link give definitive proof about alcohol use? Soberlink is self-administered, and there is no middle person giving you the results. It's a breathalyzer that is combined with facial recognition technology, and internally, it has a way to submit the result in real time through Bluetooth and cyber technology.●     How can I prove I can be trusted if I have a history of distrust? The pain point of losing trust to a point where monitoring is necessary is great, but Soberlink gives the other parent or the concerned party peace of mind that what is happening is real, as sobriety is documented in real-time, hence building trust back-to-back.●     Can the alcohol test be done before the other parent talks to the child on a call to make sure they are sober? Yes definitely. Where there is severe alcohol use, treatment is ongoing, or visitation is done via Zoom, part of the program is testing and documenting their sobriety before the call, and you get and validate the compliant test results.●     Why should I choose Soberlink over other alcohol monitoring technologies? Soberlink has robust technology that ensures the quality of their product is there. It's handheld, used remotely in real-time, and has family law-specific programs, technologies, and customer service.●     No matter the situation, it's possible to keep a parent who is struggling with alcohol use disorder with the right treatment and the right technology to support the treatment. Technology is here to help you, help your child, and keep them safe. It's in the best interest of the child when both parents are part of their life. NOTABLE QUOTES:●     Being able to prove that you are sober when parenting your children is empowering. (Chris) ●     Having a technology that shows proof of sobriety, especially during co-parenting time, helps to mend the relationship, build trust back-to-back sooner, and bring the family immunity back. (Chris)●     Family law can now do alcohol monitoring discreetly because of technology like facial recognition, and it doesn't have to be done in the presence of children. It can be self-administered and still give transparency to others that are part of the monitoring agreement. (Chris)●     When someone has alcohol use disorder, they will do whatever they can to make sure they get the next drink, and Soberlink

THROUGH THE EYES OF A FORENSIC ACCOUNTANT'S POINT OF VIEWHOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment CoachGUEST: Tracy Coenen, Forensic Accountant and Fraud Coach for Divorce SUMMARY:Are you worried about hidden money and concealed assets in your divorce process or are you entangled in a complex financial situation where transparency is crucial? Navigating these circumstances can be overwhelming, leaving you with questions about the whereabouts of undisclosed funds, the total value, and the extent of expenditures. Getting a clear picture of your financial situation and seeking professional help to address these concerns is essential in ensuring a just and equitable settlement and the much-needed peace of mind during this challenging period. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Tracy Coenen, Forensic Accountant and Fraud Coach for divorce. Together, they discuss how you can find hidden money in your divorce, how to identify red flags, and the nontechnical ways to gain insight into your financial situation independently. Divorce doesn’t have to be a death sentence. With the right support and guidance, you can move through the process with knowledge, skills, and confidence. If you’d like to schedule a complimentary private consultation, reach out to Beverly at: https://beverly-price.as.me/Consultation. Visit https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-empowered-divorce/id1635143315 to access the entire archive of Her Empowered Divorce episodes, and while you’re there, please subscribe, rate, and review our show! KEY TAKEAWAYS:●     Knowledge is power, and you should not sign a settlement without having a clear picture of your financial situation. Even if you are not suspicious and want the divorce over with, you still need all the facts before you sign the settlement agreement because you only have one chance to get the right settlement.●     “I just wanted to be done” is a common statement after divorce that often comes from the biggest mistake most women make: letting the emotions hijack them to the point of throwing off their hands, taking whatever is on the table, and settling it.●     “Let's save money. We don’t need an attorney.” When your spouse tries to rush you into the agreement without an attorney, this is a big red flag. You need someone on your side to help you evaluate things objectively.●     There is a whole laundry of red flags, but some of the most common in a divorce situation is a behavior change, which could be a change in schedule and whereabouts, how they are spending money, how they are paying for things, and not giving you access to money and financial information.●     If you are thinking about filing a divorce, the first thing you should do is to gather information. Information is your friend; get all the statements for your joint accounts before you say anything to your spouse.  NOTABLE QUOTES:●     You might trust your spouse and think that those couple of accounts you don’t have the statements for aren’t a big deal, but why is he not disclosing the statements to you if they weren’t a big deal and there is nothing to worry about? (Tracy)●     Money and finance are the biggest concerns for people in divorce, and one of the biggest expenditures is going to be for your attorney,...

MEDIATION, HOSTILITY, AND EMOTIONS EP 111 HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment Coach GUEST: Ellice (Lisa) Halpern, Founder/Principal Mediator, Little Falls Mediation SUMMARY:  The divorce process can be challenging, triggering a torrent of emotions that range from fear, grief, loss, sadness, and anxiety to anger and frustration. In such trying times, effective mediation can serve as a vital lifeline, offering a safe space to express your feelings and concerns without descending into hostility. Mediation provides a structured platform for open communication and negotiation for fairness, enabling spouses to work through their issues with the help of a neutral third party. By addressing the underlying emotions and grievances constructively, mediation strives to pave the way for amicable resolutions and, in the process, helps ease the burdens of separation, preserves relationships, and fosters a sense of closure and healing. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Ellice (Lisa) Halpern, Founder/Principal mediator of Little Falls Mediation. Together, they discuss mediation, hostility, and emotions to provide you the tools to navigate your divorce journey with stability, control, grace, and resilience.  KEY TAKEAWAYS: What does mediation look like when done the right way? The most important thing about mediation is to empower you to have control over the process and the outcome.There are four prompts for Mediation: Identify the issue, pick an issue and brainstorm all kinds of options, evaluate those options by asking questions and doing reality testing, and come to a joint decision. How do I identify a great mediator vs. a not-so-great mediator? It depends on what you are looking for, but check if they are certified by your state, if you are comfortable talking to them, and if they have the qualities you want, such as kindness, rapid response, and confidence. I want my mediation results to be fair. In mediation, you have the flexibility you don’t have in court. In court, the judge gives an order, but in mediation, you can negotiate what is fair to you.    NOTABLE QUOTES:Acknowledging your emotions during meditation will empower you, create a legitimate sense of control and fairness, and create the opportunity to preserve the relationship. (Ellice) Making mediation a business-like transaction, putting those emotions aside, and viewing it as a neutral business transaction is not easy, but it can be done. (Beverly) Mediation is not therapy, but it does not ignore the emotions; you are allowed to pause, take a break, get a drink, and choose whether you want to continue or not. (Ellice) The cornerstone of meditation is disclosure and confidentiality, and it’s voluntary, so if someone does not want to share financial information, they are not a candidate for mediation. (Ellice) Mediation can be a tool used in situations of domestic violence, but when there is abuse, a lawyer can help you in a better way than mediation. (Ellice) It’s important for you to have professionals you can consult with, whether it’s a lawyer, divorce financial neutral, tax person, parenting coordinator, therapist, divorce coach, or real estate professional, who can guide you along the way with your mediator. (Ellice)  ABOUT OUR GUEST:  Ellice (Lisa) Halpern launched Little Falls Mediation in early 2015 to help private clients who approached her to mediate issues related to marriage, separation, and divorce, as well as business and community matters. Little Falls Mediation

DATING AND ONLINE DATING AFTER DIVORCE EP 107 HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment Coach GUEST: Bela Gandhi, Dating Coach and Founder of Smart Dating Academy  SUMMARY: Dating and online dating after divorce can be a transformative and sometimes daunting experience. After the dissolution of a marriage, many women may find themselves venturing into new relationships without taking the time for self-reflection and growth, potentially repeating past mistakes. Healing and self-discovery are integral to successful post-divorce dating, and it’s essential to approach this journey with self-awareness and caution. While it may take time to fully embrace this new chapter, dating after divorce can lead to a fulfilling relationship and personal growth. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Bela Gandhi, Dating Coach, Founder of Smart Dating Academy, and host of the Smart Dating Academy Podcast. Together, they discuss dating and online dating after divorce, smart dating, and the precautions to take when doing online dating.  Divorce doesn’t have to be a death sentence. With the right support and guidance, you can move through the process with knowledge, skills, and confidence. If you’d like to schedule a complimentary private consultation, reach out to Beverly at: https://beverly-price.as.me/Consultation.  Visit https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-empowered-divorce/id1635143315 to access the entire archive of Her Empowered Divorce episodes, and while you’re there, please subscribe, rate, and review our show!  KEY TAKEAWAYS: How soon should I start dating after separation/divorce? It’s not the number of months or years that determines how soon you can start dating; it’s the amount of work you have done on yourself. To be the kind of person you want to attract, you need to ask yourself the hard question,” Am I negative about myself?” and take action because it is the inner critic that becomes the outer critic. Does online dating work? Online dating can work and be effective, but it’s not easy. You have to be very cautious and swipe left a lot. If you are entering the dating world for the first time after being married for a long time, be optimistic, be smart not to get bamboozled, and if you need help, seek it out.  NOTABLE QUOTES:People show us who they are; it is up to us to believe them. (Bela) So often, we are focused on them rather than on ourselves, and we keep thinking about who our ideal partner is, but we need to think about who we need to become to be the kind of person that will attract that ideal partner. (Beverly) Oxytocin is what allows us to form attachments to people. To keep yourself in safe harbors as a woman, know your powers and remember that oxytocin should only be given to people who deserve it. (Bela) Infidelity relationships don’t stand the test of time, and the unfaithful person often repeats the same behavior when they get into another marriage. (Bela) Be smart; don’t agree to meet somebody in a place you’re not familiar with even if they seem lovely, don’t have them pick you up, always get yourself on the date, and don’t give your personal information. Slow it down online. (Bela) The most important decision you will ever make in your life is the person that will become rid of your pot, your husband, wife, or partner, and it’s...

WHAT FINANCIAL ABUSE IS AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT EP 109 HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment Coach GUEST: Rhonda Noordyk, Founder and CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness CenterSUMMARY: Financial abuse can take various forms, including restricting access to money, withholding financial information, or coercing the victim into making financial decisions. Recognizing financial abuse before and during divorce can be challenging, as it often operates covertly. However, there are warnings that can help you recognize financial abuse in your relationship and the divorce process. If you suspect financial abuse, it's crucial to seek support from a qualified professional who can help you navigate the legal system to protect your financial interests and ensure a fair settlement. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Rhonda Noordyk, Founder and CEO of The Women's Financial Wellness Center. Together, they discuss financial abuse, what it is, how to recognize it, and what you can do about it.  Divorce doesn’t have to be a death sentence. With the right support and guidance, you can move through the process with knowledge, skills, and confidence. If you’d like to schedule a complimentary private consultation, reach out to Beverly at: https://beverly-price.as.me/Consultation.  Visit https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-empowered-divorce/id1635143315 to access the entire archive of Her Empowered Divorce episodes, and while you’re there, please subscribe, rate, and review our show!  KEY TAKEAWAYS: Am I going to be okay? Yes, certainly! But you must define what “fine” means to you; don’t just take it from your attorney or others.You can use ABUSE as an acronym to help you recognize financial abuse. A-Alienate you from finances, B-Beliefs marital money is theirs only, U-uses the legal system to control you, S-Seems like the victim, E-Evades financial accuracy and transparency. Divorce happens in three parts simultaneously: legal, financial, and emotional, and you need a core divorce team, coach, CDFA, and legal representative to help create the best results for you.Whatever stage you are in your divorce process, don’t allow anyone to coerce you into making financial decisions that will sell you short. Invest in what you need to protect your financial interests and ensure a fair settlement. NOTABLE QUOTES:The first biggest challenge women face is confidence around money and finances because of a lack of knowledge and experience in managing finances; financial knowledge and confidence ultimately lead to confidence. (Rhonda) You need a core divorce team consisting of a coach, CDFA, and legal representative, and these three don’t compete with each other. They complement each other and come together to create the best results for you. (Beverly) The second greatest financial challenge for women is understanding the financial aspect as it relates to the divorce process, what questions to ask, how to gather and organize information, how to access information, how to analyze it, and how to negotiate. (Rhonda) When you have a team of people working on your behalf, the process is better, and the people are better. (Rhonda) If you are thinking about divorce, don’t sell yourself short on investing in what you need to ensure this process goes as smoothly as possible for you: be open to making sure you have the right team...

PERSONALITY DISORDERS AND HIGH CONFLICT BEHAVIORS IN DIVORCE GUEST: Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. Co-founder and Chief Innovation Officer High Conflict Institute in San Diego, CaliforniaSUMMARY: Personality disorders can significantly complicate the already challenging process of divorce. Individuals with personality disorders, such as borderline, antisocial, or narcissistic personality disorder, often exhibit traits that can fuel conflict in divorce proceedings. Their intense emotions, impulsivity, and difficulty regulating behavior can lead to erratic and volatile interactions with their soon-to-be ex-spouse. Additionally, individuals with these disorders may have a distorted sense of self-worth and a strong need for control, making negotiations and compromise more challenging, and learning how to deal with the situation is critical. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. Co-founder and Chief Innovation Officer High Conflict Institute in San Diego, California. Together, they discuss personality disorders, how they present themselves in relationships and the divorce process, and how to deal with the resulting conflict behaviors.KEY TAKEAWAYS: What are personality disorders? Personality disorders are a significant part of the population but are not obvious except in close relationships. They manifest as extreme behavior that repeats even when they are self-defeating and often end up in conflict. Why is he doing this to me, and why is he acting that way? Early on, you get along well because you are flexible, they are getting what they want, and have little demands, but suddenly, when you stop giving them what they want, the borderline switches to the all-negative. What is the most difficult part of working with high-conflict individuals? You will not persuade them to move things, so instead, focus on what your choices are and give them choices. Are personality disorders genetic, environmental, or upbringing? All the above. Genetics and upbringing are the biggest factors, but the good news is that these people can be treated or helped to achieve balance and control over their behavior.Whether living with a partner with a personality disorder or in the divorce process, the most important thing you can do is get a support system for yourself and cultivate your self-worth. NOTABLE QUOTES:High conflict behavior is a preoccupation with blaming others and not taking responsibility, a lot of all-or-nothing thinking, unmanaged emotions that take over, and extreme behavior. (Bill) One of the most important conversations is that first conversation with your spouse, telling them you want a divorce; it can set the tone for the divorce process and co-parenting. (Beverly) You get back what you put out, so if you can put out calm, meta facts and reason, you are more likely to get that back; however, some people start off aggressively, which ends up escalating things unnecessarily. (Bill) Courts often adopt the first story, and anti-social are quick with their stories of how the other person is a terrible person, and even when it’s not true, it’s hard to recover from that once the story is out there, but you have to counter that with reality. (Bill) Personality disorders have a sugar coating; when you first meet these people, they are super wonderful. So when you start seeing little boundaries being violated, it is a sign this could get bigger. (Bill) If you are dealing with someone who has been violent, there’s a higher risk that they will be violent when they get bad news, so you want to deliver bad news in a therapist's office where there is someone who can help talk about it or have...

Legal readiness for domestic violence victims preparing to go to court is paramount, as it plays a pivotal role in safeguarding their safety and getting justice. The legal process involves a multifaceted approach, and being prepared emotionally, gathering evidence, and understanding the legal process, and th potential challenges that come with it is an essential first step in legal readiness. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Joni Jones and Lawrence Jones, experts in domestic violence, on both the emotional and legal issues. Together, they discuss the legal readiness of domestic violence victims for court to equip you with the tools you need to navigate the courtroom effectively, protect your rights and credibility, and ultimately break free from the cycle of abuse.  Divorce doesn’t have to be a death sentence. With the right support and guidance, you can move through the process with knowledge, skills, and confidence. If you’d like to schedule a complimentary private consultation, reach out to Beverly at: https://beverly-price.as.me/Consultation.  Visit https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-empowered-divorce/id1635143315 to access the entire archive of Her Empowered Divorce episodes, and while you’re there, please subscribe, rate, and review our show!  KEY TAKEAWAYS: Domestic violence can be both a civil and criminal proceeding. However, each state has its statutes and laws, and it’s essential to learn the domestic violence statutes in your state.Legal readiness starts with the awareness of the court's requirements and expectations in a case, which can help you better prepare for the process. Are there pro bono resources for domestic violence victims? State laws and resources differ from state to state, but you can get pro bono attorneys, recoupment, and organizations’ legal aid in most states. Your conduct in court, no matter which part you are in, matters. You are always being watched, even when not on the stand. Be respectful and polite, and don’t undermine your own credibility.Can I win a case without witnesses? A lot of domestic violence occurs with no witnesses, but this doesn’t mean you can’t win the case. You can win the case by being more credible. The court has every right to decide which side they believe based on the evidence. NOTABLE QUOTES:The court system in domestic violence can be overwhelming if you are not familiar with it; being a little cognizant of what the laws are is an important first step in the legal process. (Lawrence) If you are going to bring any witnesses to court for any particular reason, it’s important to Subpoena them so that they are required to be there, and you are not just hoping they will be there and they don’t show up. (Lawrence) Domestic violence courts are pretty busy, and you can’t constantly be stopping a proceeding to accommodate the documentation you have on your cell phone, so it’s very important to have copies of whatever you’re coming in with available in your cell phone so it can be used as evidence. (Lawrence) Knowing some basic evidence laws, even if you are not an attorney, is helpful because even if you are representing yourself, you are still bound by the same laws as someone being represented. (Lawrence) Having an attorney or an advocate can be helpful rather than trying to do it all by yourself because if you have never done it before, the risk of messing it up along the way becomes greater. (Lawrence) If you are going

There is a lot of trauma, shame, and mixed emotional response that comes with domestic violence, and emotional and legal readiness for court is paramount for domestic violence victims seeking justice and protection. Being ready to accept domestic violence, whether emotional or physical, as abuse is key to confronting trauma, guilt, shame, and anxiety associated with court proceedings. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Joni Jones and Lawrence Jones, experts on both the emotional and legal aspects of domestic violence. Together, they discuss the emotional readiness of domestic violence victims for court to provide you with the tools you need to emotionally and legally advocate for yourself and get the protection and justice you deserve. Do not condone domestic violence by your silence. KEY TAKEAWAYS: Why didn’t you just leave if you were being abused? This question often demonstrates a real misunderstanding of domestic violence; people are not always in a position to leave.The gaslighting effect is very prominent in domestic violence, and often, things don’t get better even when we stay hoping they would; these situations don’t fix themselves and often escalate into a cycle of domestic violence.The top form of domestic violence is not physical or assault; it is harassment. You can be abused without being laid a hand on, such as through threats, cyber harassment, or posting embarrassing things online. This is far more traumatizing than physical.Whether the domestic violence is physical or emotional, emotional readiness is recognizing and accepting it as abuse without making excuses for chronically abusive behaviors by an abusive partner. NOTABLE QUOTES:Everybody has individual emotional responses, but there are so many mixed emotions when you’re going through domestic violence. You can feel confused, lost, and anxious, which can be stifling and traumatizing. (Joni) Victims of domestic violence are not always in a position to leave because there could be children involved, financial dependency, fear, and emotional shame. There could be legitimate reasons why somebody stays in an abusive relationship even when they know it’s unhealthy for them. (Lawrence) Sometimes, when victims of domestic violence stay and hope things will get better, the other side can use that against them in court with the myth that “If I were a bad person, they would have walked out” to justify themselves. (Lawrence) If you are a product of domestic violence as a child, you could adopt that as the norm because that is what you have been shown and grown up in. (Joni) A lot of people feel like they are staying in a relationship for their children because they think they are providing stability for the children, but often, they also end up being victimized. (Joni) Children, even if they are not the target of domestic violence, just growing up seeing parenting domestic violence heightens the risk of becoming victims or abusers themselves. (Lawrence) FURTHER RESOURCES/RELEVANT LINKS: Beverly’s personal Facebook page can be found at: https://www.facebook.com/beverlyprice365/Women’s Divorce and Empowerment group discussion available at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorcerecoveryHer Empowered Divorce YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@HerEmpoweredDivorce1ABOUT OUR GUEST: Lawrence R....

Her Empowered Divorce Episode 105 COERCIVE CONTROL AND ITS IMPACT ON WOMEN AND CHILDREN.EP 105 HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment Coach GUEST: Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, Coercive Control Advocate, Educator, Researcher, and head of Survivor Coercive Control Consulting, LLC SUMMARY: Coercive control is a form of domestic abuse that exerts power and control over victims, leaving lasting scars, especially on women and children who are the most vulnerable. This insidious pattern of behavior involves manipulation, isolation, intimidation, and surveillance, where abusers seek to dominate every aspect of their victims' lives. For women, this can lead to a profound erosion of self-esteem and independence, trapping them in a cycle of fear and dependency. Children who experience or witness coercive control within their homes can suffer from emotional trauma, which can affect their well-being and development. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to  Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, Coercive Control Advocate, Educator, Researcher, survivor, founder, and CEO of Coercive Control Consulting, LLC. Together, they discuss what Coercive Control is, how it manifests in real life, and its impact on women and children.KEY TAKEAWAYS: What is Coercive Control? Coercive Control is harm inflicted on all humanity; it’s all about exalting power over a person, and the most vulnerable are women and children. Coercive Control in a relationship encompasses many things, including psychological abuse, legal abuse, financial abuse, sexual abuse, use of the children, and separation abuse. Are there characteristics of an abuser that we could look out for? Yes, definitely! Alarming love, excess check-in talks and texts, using your vulnerabilities, lack of true authentic relationships, and not liking your friends. Whether you stay or leave an abusive partner, there is no shame in it, but when you stay, you should always keep “a clarity list” with you to remind you of the pattern of behaviors so that whenever you are in doubt, you don’t diminish your pain. NOTABLE QUOTES:Just like all of us fall into line very quickly when we think someone has power over us, people in intimate relationships also fall into line and follow what they are expected to do. (Marie) The number one indicator of being in a relationship that is ‘Coercive controlling’ is when someone uses your vulnerability against you. (Marie) All domestic abuse is Coercive Control; however, when someone exerts power and control physically, this is the most violent and deadly form because when you leave, the person can see it as abandonment, and they have to get revenge. (Marie)Victims and survivors are the strongest people there are. (Marie)If someone is trying to exert power and control over you, they are not healthy, and if they are doing that to you, they are most certainly doing it to your children. (Marie)We all need to heal, and we need a trauma-informed therapist to support us, but if they are not informed about Coercive control, they can diminish victims' experience, which is problematic, especially for children. (Marie)ABOUT OUR GUEST: Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW, a college professor teaching social work for the last 20 years, has been a social justice advocate since the age of 19, volunteering for a local domestic violence/sexual assault agency. She is a Founding Member of the International Coercive Control Conference and a Board Member of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, actively supporting codifying coercive...

Domestic violence is a deeply troubling and pervasive issue that affects countless individuals and families worldwide, and you don't have to go through it. Legal measures, support systems, protection orders, and domestic violence agencies and centers are set up to provide you with the support, protection, and peace of mind you deserve. Recognizing that help is available and reaching out to these resources can be a powerful step towards breaking free from the cycle of abuse, regaining control of your life, and rebuilding your life in safety and dignity. You are not alone. There are people and organizations ready to stand by your side and help you on your journey toward a life free from violence. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Uswah Khan, an Assistant Attorney General. Together, they discuss domestic violence, steps to take if you are in an abusive relationship to get support, and how protection or restraint orders work. KEY TAKEAWAYS:●     There are Justice legal centers set up all over the country and domestic violence agents, so if you're in an abusive marriage, seek help. This will help you understand what you need and the mindset you need to have to execute a safety plan.●     What do I need to tell my attorney about my domestic violence history? You should tell the entire history and be truthful in everything. Don’t just show the video or audio of you being mangled. The precursor to that should also be there.●     What is a protection and restraining order? Restraining or protective orders are Identical and protect a person the same way. The protective order comes from the criminal law, and it’s issued when the police arrive at a criminal scene, while for the protective order, you have to go into civil court and apply for it.●     Are restraining orders effective? Restraining orders at 100% effective. It becomes less effective when one party chooses not to use the protection to their advantage by allowing the abuser back in their life. NOTABLE QUOTES:●     It is very important for judges to know that women who have domestic violence in their divorce have gone through a trauma, and anytime we have a trauma, it is hard to talk about it; things get fragmented in our mind, and we may want to forget about some parts, and it might come off like not truthful. (Uswah)●     If you are living with an abuser, do not live without expert domestic violence support and a safety plan because so many women are murdered when they leave an abuser without a safety plan. (Beverly)●     It takes tremendous courage to speak up and take that step to go and talk to somebody, so as a practitioner, you want to make sure that their finances and housing are not a problem because these are the things that make them scared and go back. (Uswah)●     For two people who are just together and not legally married, there is nothing on paper about how things will be divided out, and there is nothing one can do to be compensated financially. (Uswah)●     Just as children don’t make up lies about abuse, most of the time, victims don’t make up lies about their abuser either. (Uswah)●     If you want to leave an abuser, start by calling a domestic violence hotline. It’s not scary; they will just do an intake of your information and refer you to a nearby center, where you can meet with a counselor who will help you create a plan and a goal. (Uswah) US Domestic Violence Hotline: 8007997233 ABOUT OUR GUEST:Attorney Uswah Khan practiced family law in

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. We will be doubling up on our episodes to bring you the most comprehensive view of domestic violence possible. To learn more about Domestic Violence you can go to https://www.divorcecoalition.comMany women endure the agonizing ordeal of toxic relationships in silence, their pain hidden beneath smiles and brave faces. It's a harrowing reality that no one should have to endure alone. You don't have to suffer in silence. Seeking support, confiding in friends and family, and reaching out to professionals can save your life and enable you to get the support you need. You deserve love, respect, and happiness, and there is always a path to safe liberation from toxicity. Your voice and your well-being matter, and there are people ready to stand by your side as you break free from the chains of a harmful relationship. Together, they discuss Victoria's recent experience with a client who tragically lost her life due to an abusive relationship, Victoria's own personal experiences, and the valuable lessons she has learned along the way to shed light on the importance of seeking help and support when faced with toxic relationships. KEY TAKEAWAYS:●     We have this amazing capacity as women to be mothers, and when we are able to tap into that and raise our children, we are so powerful but when we have unscrupulous actors that activate that fixer mechanism within us, it can be exploited dramatically and it might even end up in your death.●     When you are in an abusive relationship, you have to be aware of how your biology and love hormones are keeping you there. You are chemically attached to the individual terrorizing your life and you need to go even when your brain says otherwise. ●     Love bombing works because we feel incredibly heard, seen, and loved, but the moment they have you and have entrapped you, that is when it all goes away and you are left with the shell of a human being and personality disorders.●     Strangulation is one of the most dangerous behaviors because it’s a range-driven action and is very personal. A lot of people think that if you are strangled you die right then, but you can pass anywhere from a few hours to a few days which enables your perpetrator to get away with this crime.     ●     Never tell your abuser that you are leaving them until you have the support of a domestic violence expert. Friends and family are not trained to help in this dangerous situation. NOTABLE QUOTES:●     A lot of us ignore red-flag behaviors in the early stages of the relationship and these behaviors often lead to an abusive relationship. (Victoria)●     We have to stop jumping from one relationship to another before we even leave the first and learn about ourselves, what motivates us, what attracts us, and what attracted us to that unhealthy marriage because that will be the key to what we will be attracted to again if we don’t do something about it. (Beverly)●     A lot of times domestic abuse perpetrators are driven by control and the number one mechanism of control in most relationships is money; if you are emotionally dysregulated in your relationships you are going to be emotionally dysregulated in how you use your money. (Victoria)●     As human beings we want connections, that is the thing we survive and thrive on and it can be so hard to see our actual essence as greater than a relationship that is not serving and is distracting us from who we should be; choosing yourself as a woman is the hardest thing but you deserve it. (Victoria)●     You...

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. We will be doubling up on our episodes to bring you the most comprehensive view of domestic violence possible. To learn more about Domestic Violence you can go to https://www.divorcecoalition.comLegal issues in divorces involving domestic violence can be complex and sensitive, requiring careful consideration by both the legal system and the victims. One of the primary legal concerns is ensuring the safety and protection of the victim and any children involved. This may involve obtaining restraining orders or protection orders to keep the abusive spouse away from the victim. Child custody and visitation rights can also be contentious, as the court must determine what is in the best interests of the children while ensuring their safety. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Angela Sarabia, an attorney who has spent most of her career prosecuting crimes, especially violent crimes against women. Together, they discuss domestic violence, Legal issues involved in divorces that include domestic violence, and how to seek support.●     What happens once law enforcement has been called? Once law enforcement has been called, it’s determined to be an actual domestic violence situation; law enforcement officials must follow a mandatory arrest policy.  ●     States define domestic violence differently, but it generally includes physical and emotional violence, people who live together or share a child in common; if there is violence between them, that is considered domestic violence.●     Isolation can make you feel helpless in domestic violence situations when it’s time to leave, but you are not alone. There are all kinds of organizations and support programs, and you need to go to these outreach programs to get support. ●     Regardless of how you feel, if you are a victim going through a divorce, follow the advice of your attorney, cease all communication with the battler, and obtain a restraining order to keep yourself and your loved one safe.   NOTABLE QUOTES:●     Women in a domestic violence situation tend to face a risk of fatality if they don’t exist that violent circumstance. (Angela)●     Oftentimes, the abuser, as much as they are a source of risk for women, they are their source of security and support, and a lot of time, it’s financial support. (Angela)●     Domestic violence itself is isolating because as much as we have progressed as a society, there is still a huge stigma attached to it. (Angela)●     A safety plan is strategic and smart; it’s having all your documents in a place where they are easy to grab, people you know you can confide in and give a call to pick you up and have reached out to the domestic violence organization. (Angela)●     We often think of domestic violence as something that occurs in uneducated communities, but it cuts across every socioeconomic status and education level, so let's stop seeing it as isolated to one type of community and see it as something that we all struggle with and remove the stigma. ●     Violence is not an outburst of somebody who has lost control of themselves; it’s an outburst of somebody who is trying to gain control of the situation.●      If you are isolated, find your sources of support, and don’t be afraid to call law enforcement and reach out to organizations and support programs. There is overwhelming support for you out there. FURTHER RESOURCES/RELEVANT LINKS:US Domestic Violence...

The Intersection Between Menopause and Divorce HOST: Beverly Price, Divorce & Empowerment Coach GUEST: Claire Gill, The founder of the National Menopause Foundation SUMMARY:  Whether you are facing divorce before, during, or after menopause, there is an undeniable link between the two. The interplay between the emotional and physical changes that accompany menopause can significantly impact one's thoughts, decisions, and experiences during a divorce. Hormonal fluctuations, menopausal symptoms, and the onset of new health concerns during menopause can amplify the challenges associated with separation and lead to a profound reevaluation of life's priorities. Understanding this connection and seeking the right support is crucial for navigating this complex intersection of life changes. In this episode of Her Empowered Divorce, your Host, Beverly Price, talks to Claire Gill, the founder of the National Menopause Foundation. They discuss how menopause and divorce intersect, the impact of the menopause transition on women physically and psychologically, especially in marital relationships, and how you can empower yourself to navigate this unique journey. Divorce doesn’t have to be a death sentence. With the right support and guidance, you can move through the process with knowledge, skills, and confidence. If you’d like to schedule a complimentary private consultation, reach out to Beverly at: https://beverly-price.as.me/Consultation.  Visit https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/her-empowered-divorce/id1635143315 to access the entire archive of Her Empowered Divorce episodes, and while you’re there, please subscribe, rate, and review our show!  KEY TAKEAWAYS: “This is my experience; is this menopause?” This is the most FAQ about menopause. When women younger than the average age of entering menopause (51) start exhibiting symptoms, they are often very confused. Perimenopause can start 7-10 years before you have your final periods.  If you are thinking about ending your marriage, you need to get the support you need with both the issues in your relationships and your health, whether it’s night sweats, insomnia, irritability, or anxiety. These experiences can impact your thoughts about divorce and how you manage that process. What can you do if you are in menopause with the loss of libido? There are things that can be done, such as Hormone replacement therapy, that help the woman and the relationship, but you need to be very mindful of what is happening to you and what is happening in your relationship.How to prepare for menopause: The things that we need to do to prepare for menopause are the things that we need to do for our overall health. Diet and exercise are important for us throughout our life span, but particularly as we reach middle age. Take stock of your own health, write down any of those symptoms that you're having to have a better sense of what is happening to you, talk to your health provider about your stage of life and what your risk factors might be for any of the conditions that come in mid-life, and research and help educate yourself about menopause. NOTABLE QUOTES:Menopause is when your periods stop consistently for 12 consecutive months; everything before it is perimenopause, and everything after it is post-menopause. (Claire)Even if menopause is going on and the symptoms are happening, that doesn't mean it is your fault...