Embracing Blackness in Interracial Love: A Conversation with Kendra

Still Talking Black

Dec 14 2023 • 44 mins

There was a moment of surprise and, yes, discomfort, when my guess Kendra attended a Black festival with her white fiancé. But why should love come with a label? My guest Kendra, an Afrocentric woman engaged to a white man, joined me, to break down the nuances and challenges of being pro-Black while in an interracial relationship. Together, we lift the veil on how love, race, and identity coexist, and how maintaining a commitment to one's racial identity isn't diminished in the face of love.

Kendra's Afrocentric journey doesn't stop with her engagement but continues to be a vital part of her identity. Her story unravels the tricky balance of advocating for blackness while loving someone outside her race. We addressed misconceptions and stereotypes around interracial dating and discussed the complexities of cultural understanding within the relationship. Especially interesting is our exploration of the unique burdens and racial experiences, especially as they relate to Black women, that often go unexpressed, or worse, misunderstood.

Experience, they say, is the best teacher. Drawing from our personal experiences, we offer an intimate view of the challenges of interracial couples, particularly those with Black children, in the backdrop of racial injustices. We questioned the too-often-made assumption of love being blind and discussed the painful reality of racial fetishization. It's a frank, candid, and necessary conversation for anyone interested in understanding the complexities of interracial relationships and the importance of supporting blackness within these contexts. What we've discovered is that love, indeed, knows no color.

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Show Credits:
Richard Dodds (Host/Producer): @Doddsism
Show Music: @IAmTheDjBlue
Podcast Website: StillTalkingBlack.com

Still Talking Black is a production of Crowned Culture Media LLC. All rights reserved.

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