How the Wise One Grows

Holly Zajur

Welcome to How the Wise One Grows – where we live with intention by connecting to inner wisdom, one another, and the natural world through mindful conversations and meditations.

Join me, your host Holly Zajur, and guests for heartful interviews about topics like spirituality, wellness, and anything and everything that aids us in navigating the human experience.

Episodes alternate between guest interviews and guided meditations to help you integrate mindfulness into daily life.

The intention is to empower you with a deeper sense of awareness and confidence as you cultivate a fulfilling and authentic life. Each episode is an honest exploration of what supports people as they navigate life’s twists and turns– and a reminder that we are all in this together.

Join us every other Wednesday for new episodes!

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Episodes

How to Make Decisions: Guided Meditation for Life Choices (103)
6d ago
How to Make Decisions: Guided Meditation for Life Choices (103)
Send us a Text Message.Having trouble making a decision? I got you covered! In this episode, we offer a guided meditation designed to help you navigate the complex process of decision-making. Building on our insightful discussion from Episode 102 with Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire, we focus on one of life's significant choices, like the decision to have kids or remain childfree.In this 13 min mindfulness-based meditation, we explore three essential components of effective decision-making:Awareness: Cultivate a clear understanding of your thoughts and feelings.Acceptance: Embrace your current state without judgment.Compassion: Treat yourself with kindness and understanding throughout the process.Meditation begins at 03:55Download our FREE kids or child-free decision-making guide for additional decision-making support AND join our free Intentional Living Community to continue these meaningful conversations and connect with others on a similar journey.Tune in, relax, and empower yourself to make decisions with confidence and clarity. Don’t forget to follow and leave a review if you find this meditation helpful!Episode 12 on the Power of Female FriendshipSupport the Show.Join the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!
How to Decide If You Should Have Kids or Not: Family Planning WIth Keltie Maguire (102)
May 1 2024
How to Decide If You Should Have Kids or Not: Family Planning WIth Keltie Maguire (102)
Send us a Text Message.In this episode, clarity coach Keltie Maguire helps us navigate one of life's most significant decisions—whether to embrace parenthood or opt for a child-free lifestyle. We delve into the societal norms, cultural expectations, and personal considerations that impact this choice. Our discussion is guided by listener questions and stories, addressing the stigmas associated with opting out of parenthood and exploring emotional journeys for both paths.We also tackle concepts like 'mother hunger' and 'birth strike' in relation to family planning. This episode is designed to help listeners understand personal fulfillment and intentional living, whether deciding to have children or remain child-free.Join us for an insightful exploration that encourages reflection and self-acceptance, perfect for anyone contemplating this major life decision or seeking affirmation in their choice.Get the FREE Kids or ChildFree Guide!Episodes Referenced:Sober CuriousCalifornia SoberJOIN the FREE Intentional Living Community for HTWOG podcast listeners--  dedicated to continuing our conversations on the podcast, and where you can find support in living a life filled with intention and growth. Resources ReferencedByron Katie’s 4 questionsMotherhunger---Kelly McDanielRuby Warrington- Women Without KidsStay Connected with Keltie Maguire:kidsorchildfree.comKids or Childfree PodcastInstagramSupport the Show.Join the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!
Navigating Life's Most Embarrassing Moments with Laughter (100)
Apr 3 2024
Navigating Life's Most Embarrassing Moments with Laughter (100)
Send us a Text Message.Celebrate two years and 100 episodes of spreading the How the Wise One Grows podcast with laughter as we share our most embarrassing moments. Imagine beginning every friendship with the raw, unfiltered stories that make us human—this episode does just that with host Holly Zajur and guests Emma Hern and Kelly  Eberle, as they introduce themselves by sharing their most embarrassing stories. But the laughter doesn’t end here! We're inviting YOU to be a part of the fun. Share your embarrassing moments with us, and let’s keep the laughter alive. Visit our website, www.howthewiseonegrows.com, and click the microphone icon at the bottom right-hand corner. Your story could be featured in an upcoming episode, connecting you with a community of listeners eager to laugh along.Don’t miss out on joining our FREE Intentional Living Community for HTWOG podcast listeners. It’s a space dedicated to continuing the conversations sparked by our podcast, and where you can find support in living a life filled with intention and growth. Click to join and become a part of our growing community.Tune in to celebrate, laugh, and grow with us. Whether it's through sharing your stories or simply enjoying the mishaps of others, let's embrace the joy of authentic connection, together.Hear more from Emma HernEp 12 & Ep 50Support the Show.Join the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!
The Road to Resilience: How to Transform Tragedy into Compassionate Action with Natalie Rainer
Mar 13 2024
The Road to Resilience: How to Transform Tragedy into Compassionate Action with Natalie Rainer
Send us a Text Message.We all face hard moments in life. But some, seem impossible to overcome. Those are the moments we learn how resilient we truly are. On August 13, 2022, Natalie Rainer and Jonah Holland were in a horrific bike accident that took the life of Jonah Holland, a beloved friend and community member, and left Natalie severely injured. Natalie’s recovery story is a testament to finding resilience and compassion throughout the healing journey.Discover how Natalie confronted extreme pain and loss, and found a path to compassion and resilience through breathwork and her yoga practice. Natalie discusses her journey towards compassion for the person responsible for the accident, offering insights into the importance of empathy and the broader societal implications of our actions. This story extends beyond personal recovery, and into our collective responsibilities for mindful, compassionate living.This episode is more than a story of survival and resilience; it's a call to action, urging us to reflect on our responsibilities as part of a community, especially when behind the wheel. Tune in to honor Natalie's story and learn from the valuable lessons on resilience and compassion.About Natalie:Natalie Rainer is a yoga instructor, wellness coach, and cyclist based in Richmond, Va. A lifelong storyteller, Natalie studied journalism in college and accomplished her Master's degree in Strategic Public Relations in 2016. She is passionate about making wellness programming and practices available to all people and takes pride in her current field of non-profit programs administration. In 2022 she survived and recovered from a near-fatal accident, inspiring her to create Resiliency Yoga. Natalie hopes sharing her story of survival will inspire others to reimagine their own potential.Support Natalie's WorkYoga for CyclistsDonate to Richmond Cycling CorpsRelated episodes:Loving Kindness MeditationUnderstanding Grief with Litsa Williams of What's Your GriefGrief MeditationSupport the Show.Join the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!
[FLASHBACK] How to Overcome Self-Doubt and Create Your Dreams with Jada and David Parrish
Mar 6 2024
[FLASHBACK] How to Overcome Self-Doubt and Create Your Dreams with Jada and David Parrish
Send us a Text Message.Unlock the secret to conquering self-doubt and embracing your creative potential in this episode. Join us as we dive into the story of Jada and David Parrish, former wedding photographers turned conceptual artists. Discover how they bravely shifted careers and embarked on an ambitious 100-set project that showcases their artistic expression and personal development journey.In this episode, not only will you get an inside look at Jada and David's path from photography to conceptual art, but you'll also learn practical strategies and tips for overcoming self-doubt, setting achievable goals, and unlocking your creative genius. Whether you're an artist, a creative professional, or anyone looking to break through personal barriers, this story of courage, creativity, and resilience is sure to inspire and guide you.Tune in to hear Jada and David's firsthand experiences and the lessons they've learned about navigating the creative process, setting sights on new horizons, and making dreams a reality. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to push the boundaries of their creativity and achieve their full potential.Chase Sapphire Travel Rewards Credit Card ReferralFollow Jada and David on InstagramCheck out their work onlineSupport the Show.Join the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!
The Last Breath: Mindfulness of Mortality Meditation (94)
Feb 21 2024
The Last Breath: Mindfulness of Mortality Meditation (94)
Send us a Text Message.In this episode, we dive into a mindfulness of death meditation, inspired by the Buddhist practice of maraṇasati and Episode 93 with death doula, Jill McClennan. "Mindfulness of Mortality" offers a guided meditation focused on the acceptance of life’s impermanence.By acknowledging mortality, we are encouraged to live with more purpose and mindfulness. The practice draws on mindfulness of death to facilitate a deeper connection with the present, highlighting the value of each moment and the importance of intentionality in our lives.Whether you’re exploring mindfulness for the first time or looking to deepen your practice, this episode provides a thoughtful approach to understanding life’s transient nature. This session aims to shift perspectives on death—from a topic often avoided to a concept that can enhance our appreciation for life.Tune in to redefine your relationship with life and death, and discover how acknowledging impermanence can lead to a more intentional and fulfilling life.02:53 Meditation beginsRecommended Episodes:Ep 93- Death: The Ultimate Life CoachEp 43- Experiencing GriefSupport the Show.Join the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!
Death: The Ultimate Life Coach - Insights from a Death Doula (93)
Feb 14 2024
Death: The Ultimate Life Coach - Insights from a Death Doula (93)
Send us a Text Message.The only thing we know for certain in life is... that we die. So why are we so afraid of it and talking about it?! In Episode 93 we dive into the taboo topic of death with  Death Doula and End of Life Coach, Jill McClennen. Jill shares how we can stop fearing death and start embracing mortality to live with courage, openness, and authenticity.This episode is not just a conversation about death; it's a guide to living a fuller, richer life. Episodes Referenced:Ep 67- People PleasingEp 43- GriefGet the Chase Sapphire Travel Rewards Credit CardAbout Jill: Jill McClennen is a certified death doula, a non-medical professional specially trained to provide holistic care for individuals in their final stages of life. She offers comprehensive support, preparation, and deep soul healing to her clients and their families, whether in person or through virtual sessions, as she works as a death doula and end-of-life coach.Jill is a trauma-sensitive yoga instructor and the host of the "Seeing Death Clearly" podcast.End of Life Clarity Circle Facebook GroupIG: @endoflifeclarityWork with JillSupport the Show.Join the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!
Should I Move?: The Realities and Emotions of Relocating (91)
Jan 31 2024
Should I Move?: The Realities and Emotions of Relocating (91)
Send us a Text Message.Have you ever wanted to pack up and move somewhere completely new? In this episode you hear from life coach turned therapist, Marisol, about what the reality of that is actually like. In this episode, you'll discover:Essential Self-Reflection Questions: Before you pack your bags, dive into key considerations that will guide your decision to moveWhy running from our shadows doesn't work and ways to work with your shadowsRealities of Relocation: What to expect if you do pack up and moveHow to feel at home within yourself, no matter where you goPractical advice on creating a supportive communityChase Sapphire Travel Rewards Credit Card ReferralGet the "Should I Move?" PDFEpisodes Referenced:Ep 73- ShamanismMore about Marisol:Marisol Camacho, originally from the scenic Washington state, moved to the bustling tech world of San Francisco where she thrived for 4 years. The tech landscape offered insights but also led to burnout. It pushed me to discover my true calling: becoming a certified yoga teacher, then a certified life coach through iPEC and a Certified Trauma-Informed Facilitator. My journey wasn't just professional. After settling in sunny Orange County, life threw its curveballs with separation and divorce. Seeking a fresh start, I found solace in Mexico, which resonated deeply with my soul. I am now studying to become a licensed psychologist in Mexico.Whether it's pivoting from a draining job, igniting a business from your own narrative, navigating the rough tides of heartbreak, or simply seeking a new beginning that speaks to your heart, I'm here to walk alongside you. Together, we'll craft your vision, chase those dreams, and make your unique mark on the world. If not now, when?Get in Touch -www.connectwithmarisol.comPodcast- Roaming the NowSupport the Show.Join the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!
Sober Curious: Questioning the Norms of Alcohol Consumption- Part 1 (88)
Jan 10 2024
Sober Curious: Questioning the Norms of Alcohol Consumption- Part 1 (88)
Send us a Text Message.What does it mean to be "sober curious"? From "dry January" to the sober curious movement, people are questioning the societal pressure to drink in a culture that emphasizes alcohol consumption. In Episode 88, we explore the concept of being "sober curious" through a conversation with Jody Sidel, a shop owner and advocate for non-alcoholic alternatives in Richmond. We also share insights from our listeners.This episode features individuals who are reevaluating their relationship with alcohol and the challenges and successes they face in reducing or eliminating their alcohol consumption. To support this conversation, we have created a sober curious support guide with tips based on these discussions to help you on your journey.We received many powerful responses from our community members, and we will continue the conversation in Episode 89. In that episode, we will explore the topics of cannabis, psilocybin, and the broad definition of substances.Please note: We prioritize the well-being of our listeners and encourage you to engage with our content in a way that is healthiest for you. If discussions about substance abuse are triggering for you, we recommend skipping this episode. If conversations around sexual assault are triggering for you, please skip section [34:57-37:22].Episodes referenced:Episode 83- Understanding the War on Drugs/ Retelling the History of Psychedelic Mushrooms: From Ancient Rituals to Modern Healing with Liz BowdenDownload the Sober Curious Support GuideVisit Point 5 online or in-person in Richmond, VA @point5rvaFollow @falloutrva for upcoming SoBar parties in Richmond, VASupport the Show.Join the ~*Dream Team*~ to support the podcast!Follow @howthewiseonegrows and @hollyzajur on Instagram for more and check out more offerings online.Episode sponsored by Connect Wellness. Connect Wellness empowers people with tools to connect with themselves, others, and the present moment.Be wise-- sign up to be the first to know what's next!