Feeling Just as Certain in Your 'Failures' as Your Successes

Seeing Your Inner Brilliance

May 1 2024 • 25 mins

Have you ever noticed how everyone loves sharing their successes? It's that rush when things are popping off, and you're riding the wave of momentum—there's nothing quite like it. But what about when things don't go as planned? When programs don't fill up, or the accolades don't roll in? It can sting, right? I've been there, and I recently opened up about it on IG.


In this episode, I want to talk about why it's so important to normalize acknowledging our "failures" just as much as our successes—and how to stay certain through it all.


Key Episode Insights:


  1. Reflection of my journey of self-discovery, realizing the pitfalls of constantly seeking external validation for worthiness and success, and recognizing the power internally validating and believing in ourselves.
  2. Shifting our mindset to focus on align with their true purpose and passion, embracing the journey and staying true to ourselves.
  3. Emphasizing the importance of trusting the process, staying grounded, and creating a life of success, impact and legacy from within.


It's time we let go of seeking external validation and depending on our results, and embrace the journey of greatness with authenticity, vulnerability, and support! Join me in this inspiring conversation! Remember, you are worthy, successful, and enough. Let's do this together. Thank you for being here and thank you for listening!


Resources for Your Journey:


  • Be THAT Girl/Guy Program: Ready to join me in cultivating self-belief and certainty, leading with authenticity and passion? Check out my program at charlseychilders.com/btg for more info.
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  • Join the 'Visionary Circle' FREE Voxer community -- a space for big dreamers and high achievers pursuing big visions, dreams, callings, and goals tto share our journeys, support and encourage each other, and just be by other who get it
  • Connect with Me on Instagram: Join me @charlseychilders for more insights, updates, and real talk about chasing dreams and staying true to yourself.
  • Want to share your insights and be heard by fellow big dreamers? Submit your burning questions via voice note to be featured on the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast HERE! Let's amplify your voice and inspire others on their journey to greatness.

Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! Either leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most,.DM me on IG, or shoot me an email at support@charlseychilders.com. Looking forward to hearing from you!


Talk soon,

Charlsey