The Erasure of Gays in the AMISH & Mennonite Settlements

Cults to Consciousness

Apr 8 2024 • 59 mins

Joined for a second time by Mary (former Amish) and Hannah (former Holdeman Mennonite), we discuss the ways in which being gay/bi in their settlements harshly affected them and how queer plain people are generally erased from society. Bringing awareness and visibility to the LGBTQ community, they share their experiences openly and shed light on the disproportionate harm they faced.

Watch Mary's original episode
Watch Hannah's original episode

https://www.lgbtamish.com/
The Trevor Project

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  • Hannah explains some basic rules about her Holdeman Mennonite settlement
  • Mary explains the basic rules in her Amish settlement
  • Modesty and hyper-sexulization of women
  • Marriage without courtship in Mennonites
  • Courtship in Mary's Amish settlements
  • TW: CSA-“Sex education" booklet for parents to teach kids
  • When Hannah recognized she had feelings for girls
  • The consequences of Mary coming out to her parents at 5 yrs old
  • TW: LGBTQ suicide- The Trevor Project
  • How strict gender roles affected Mary's mentality
  • Some Amish are run out of their settlement when it's found out they are gay
  • TW: Rape- Do the Amish have conversion therapy?
  • Mary's advice for anyone leaving the Amish trying to find themselves
  • Mary's activism

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