The Evolution of Pickup to Purposeful Connections

Inner Confidence Podcast

Apr 10 2024 • 1 hr 44 mins

Links:

Robbie's Texting Course: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting⁠

Free Download of The Dating Protocol: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter⁠

Apply For The IC Community: ⁠https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠


Intro:

Today's episode takes us on a deep dive into the transformation of the dating and pickup industry into what's now known as the red pill movement and beyond. We'll explore the nuances of male and female aging and discuss why it may be easier for older men to date younger women.

Robbie opens up about his initial skepticism toward self-help dating advice and how "The Game" by Neil Strauss sparked a pivotal change after a breakup. We'll hear riveting tales of Robbie's days partying it up in Eastern Europe, hosting soirees that painted the town red, and the introspective journey that led him from casual flings to finding fulfillment in coaching men on relationships and self-acceptance.

Touching on the delicate topic of men's belief in their ability to improve dating success, we will dissect perceptions, realities, and the pivotal "player zone." We share our own transformation from the world of casual relationships to searching for meaningful connections, echoing the collective journey many of us take.


Timestamps:

  • 00:00 Dating advice, pickup industry, and self-confidence discussion.
  • 08:33 Engaging in personal growth through landmark education.
  • 15:58 Learning to converse with women transformed me.
  • 18:16 Boosting masculinity through pickup strategies, but self-improvement.
  • 24:36 Lifestyle of partying and networking with models.
  • 30:55 Novelty of new experiences wore off, taxing.
  • 36:05 Experienced college flings, followed by self-discovery and dating.
  • 41:26 Internet pickup culture evolves into red pill movement.
  • 47:09 Lance Mason founded body language for dating.
  • 50:27 Confident body language reflects self-esteem, mirroring others.
  • 56:05 Involvement in esoteric teachings, skepticism, and disillusionment.
  • 01:03:12 Coaching, dating, and finding friends in Ukraine.
  • 01:07:45 Repeating toxic patterns in relationships, seeking counseling.
  • 01:12:17 Partying in Europe, with models and friends.
  • 01:15:51 Group of friends met at music festival.
  • 01:20:35 Online dating is tough, unless wealthy or seeking.
  • 01:25:17 2016 mystery involving derelict and chalkboard lesson.
  • 01:35:05 Using quotes for inspiration, friends, and motivation.
  • 01:40:44 Struggling with interviews, unclear about achievements.
  • 01:43:34 Encouraging review and invitation to exclusive community.


Connect w/ Robbie:

Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠

TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠

YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠

Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!

Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠

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