On today’s episode, I talked with the founder and artist behind one of my favorite instagram accounts, Vanillacooldance. Jessica Stahl draws cartoons to empower women in dating and in the bedroom. Jessica is here to help remove the shame and stigma from getting kinky in the bedroom.

I really love how Vanillacooldance shares so vulnerably about embarrassing dating moments or sexy time and Jessica is the exact same way.

We talk about female pleasure and why it’s such a taboo topic. We also talk about our first orgasms and sex talks from our parents.

We finish the convo talking about a few ways to start asking for your needs to be met from the person you’re dating to the person you’ve been with for a long time.

Thank you Jessica! We all need this ray of light in the taboo world.

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