When the subtext of communications is ‘you owe me’, the relationship is not free to thrive | Episode 076

Lead A New Future with Kate Ruby Aroha

Mar 7 2023 • 20 mins

In this conversation I unpack some stuff around a private message I received on social media. There’s some key distinctions I want to draw here around…

  • Developing X-ray vision to see through the outer skin, to the bones of someone’s communication
  • How we are NOT entitled to people’s time.
  • Sniper messages, wrapped in cotton candy.
  • What someone is ACTUALLY purchasing when they purchase a service from you.
  • WHO you are investing into when you’re purchase a service
  • Boundaries boundaries boundaries

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