Wisdom is critical to our lives. Without wisdom, we would fall into all sorts of avoidable issues in life. Wisdom will make you unhappy sometimes, that when your friends come to you asking you to go with them to a place, you are not just happy with yourself, and you turn it down, that is wisdom at work to save you from untold pains that you will eventually hear of that your friends got themselves into. You need wisdom to relate with people, who sometimes want to cut you down, but wisdom will make you maintain your composure and your self-esteem.

Greed is defined as a selfish and excessive desire for more of something than is needed. Envy, lust and lack of contentment are the things that fuels our compulsive desires. Greed will lead us to lie, compromise to get something that we want immediately. What we do not seem to understand is that greed, makes us to consume and waste what others could have meaningfully use to their advantage. Every greedy person will find out that they are not a happy set of people, because they have low self-esteem of themselves. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor YouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/DCZ4q7wHbDY

Majority of us, if not all of us, have greed or hidden greed resident within us. Greed is a desire to have more than the value we have created. Greed is a desire to have more than what others have. Greed is insatiable, and most often than not, the cause of greed, is man or woman's ingratitude for what they have. Until we are contented with what we have, we will easily fall prey to the seductive and tempting lures of Satan to cause us to compromise in order to meet our greed. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor YouTube Channel link: https://youtube.com/channel/UCHMgcSHuu4qtOUfZN49QWVg

Marriage is for the matured. It is not a female or a girl that should go into marriage, but a woman, just as it is not a boy or male that should be involved in a marriage, but a man. Women in abusive relationships notice the behaviour of the man during dating, and all she says to herself, is that "I will be able to change him in due course", or they accept the lie that says, "the devil you know is better than the saint you don't know". Carry yourself high woman, because you are not a decorative accessory, you have value, don't allow any man turn you to a punching bag. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

Abusive relationships did not start in one day. In today's episode, we spoke of why a man will engage in such abusive relationships. First, we must understand, that it is only a man that God gave the mandate to be married and not boys. Relationships with our spouse involves responsibilities, and until we are ready or our shoulders is strong enough to carry such responsibilities, we should not get into a relationship that will be to the detriment of both parties. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

Majority of abusive relationships did not begin long after the relationships started or after the marriage had gone far, the abuse started right from the beginning, but those in such abusive relationships, decides to turn a blind eye to such abuses, believing that a change will come, and they will be regarded as heroes or heroines for not throwing in the towel so quickly. You have no reason whatsoever to remain in an abusive relationships. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

Spousal relationship starts first from the point of companionship arising from the desire for both of them to eliminate loneliness in their lives. Once this need is fulfilled, other needs comes up, and most times, one of the partners in the relationship has not grown to the point of the growth of the other partner, and that can become an area of conflict. In such situations, we must understand that conflict is normal, but we must have a workable solution and timing to resolve the conflict. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

Relationship with our spouses or girl/boyfriends are very important to us having the peace of mind to fulfill our destiny. We cannot give out what we do not have. Until we are able to maintain the connection that God established for us, it will be near impossible for us to have bliss in our relationships with our spouses or girl/boyfriends. Maintaining a good relationship is healthy and productive. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

Relationship with God continues. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

Relationship is key to us, and we must maintain a good relationship with ourselves, and with our God. We cannot become what we were made to be on our own, we need the input of others who we have bonded with and forged a good relationship with. Never undermine relationships, especially relationship with the Father. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

Burdens will give us sleepless nights. Burdens are a result of the problems that we are unable to resolve. If we are unable to handle the burdens, it then progress to complaints. At the point of complaints, we do not have solutions anymore. It is only when we are at the point of burdens that we can still cast it upon Jesus to resolve for us. We will always have to deal with problems, if we are not able to deal with the problems, we will definitely have burdens. Deal with the problems before it become a burden, and do all that you can that the burdens do not become a complaint. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

Due process is vital to the successful completion of anything we undertake to do in our lives. When we short-circuit anything in life, it will eventually come back to hunt and hurt us and we will be paying interest on the time we borrowed to short circuit the activity and come out with quick result. Wealth quickly gained is quickly wasted, easy come, easy go.  www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

We have a responsibility to ourselves to ensure that we choose the leaders that we follow. In our personal drive and endeavour, we need to critically assess and choose the leader(s) that we think would help us to reach our goals or achieve our purpose in life. We should never be emotional about it, we own it to ourselves to follow the right leader for our lives. This connection will determine what we become in life, and how we are able to help the next generation to also become relevant in their lives. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

Assuming or presuming on people can be very dangerous. It makes us conclude on a wrong premise, and that can become very devastating. It is more dangerous to assume or presume on God. One thing that always causes my body to shiver is when someone is doing what is sinful, and still they get results with what was committed to their hands. They will have a wrong thought within themselves that if what they are doing is wrong, then other things will not be working for them. This is dangerous. Be joyful when you are rebuked by God for the wrongs you have done, because it is actually a blessing in the long run. paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

We are not capable of handling burdens that come our way, most of the time the way we feel like handling it is to stay away from people and just be by ourselves. That in a way is not helping situations, but making us go deeper in thoughts of why things are only happening to us, getting angry at God for not being there for us, feeling sorry and worried for our lives, that we have made the wrong decisions of life, and thinking of ending our lives in most cases. We are to cast our burdens on God to sort out for us. www.paulgugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

You always have a choice in any action that you take in life. To say, I have no choice will be lying to oneself. Its like the woman that asked Jesus a question that He should come and heal her daughter who was sick, and Jesus did not answer her, but on a deeper understanding, I got to understand that the fact that Jesus did not speak or answer, was already an answer. We should always try as much as we can not to be reactive, but take actions all the time. Remember, you always have a choice in the course of any action you take. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor

We live, progress or retrogress by the company or association that we keep. It is near impossible to say, we will live by ourselves and not keep any friendships or associations. We will definitely keep friends, have associations that we belong to, but we must be careful the associations or friends that we keep, because our destiny can be made or marred by the association that we keep. We should not be deceived into believing that we are strong willed and no friend or association we keep can impact or influence our lives, because the truth is, you can be impacted by the associations and friends that you keep. www.paulugobor.com

Speaking is beneficial to us and to the hearers of what we are saying if only what we are saying impact, changes the situations or causes the person to make adjustments to their lives that is beneficial to them. Any word that we speak that does not uplift others does not come from the source of hope. We have a responsibility to be slow to speak, but quick to hear, so that we can speak with authority to people or things because we have heard from the Lord. www.paulugobor.com

There is something within us that desires to celebrate, and there is nothing wrong for us to celebrate. As a matter of fact, what actually propels us to do greater things is when we are able to satisfy the need of celebrations in our lives. What we must do is never to celebrate and settle. We must tell ourselves that there's more for us to achieve than what we have done so far. Always push yourself to move up higher, than where you are now. www.paulugobor.com

Our destiny is unique to us. We must understand that the path we will walk in this life must be done by us alone. We would require the input of others, but no other person can walk this path with us. We must then choose friends carefully who will or should help us to navigate this path of destiny. We must also understand that no matter the advise from these destiny helpers, we must own the decisions that we make. We cannot blame it on anybody. Discover your destiny and your frustrations in life is settled. www.paulugobor.com