You always have a choice in any action that you take in life. To say, I have no choice will be lying to oneself. Its like the woman that asked Jesus a question that He should come and heal her daughter who was sick, and Jesus did not answer her, but on a deeper understanding, I got to understand that the fact that Jesus did not speak or answer, was already an answer. We should always try as much as we can not to be reactive, but take actions all the time. Remember, you always have a choice in the course of any action you take. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor