Spousal relationship starts first from the point of companionship arising from the desire for both of them to eliminate loneliness in their lives. Once this need is fulfilled, other needs comes up, and most times, one of the partners in the relationship has not grown to the point of the growth of the other partner, and that can become an area of conflict. In such situations, we must understand that conflict is normal, but we must have a workable solution and timing to resolve the conflict. www.paulugobor.com iyobosaugobor@gmail.com Instagram: @pugobor Facebook: pugobor