S03E16 Leading The 20-Somethings Episode

The Leader Learner Podcast

May 7 2024 • 45 mins

Check-In:

  • What's your favorite place in your neighborhood?

Big Ideas:

  • Common issues in phone-based children now adults - social isolation, sleep deprivation, attention fragmentation, addiction
  • Lack of in-person interactions and conflict, leaves them unable to resolve conflict in reality
  • Dopamine addiction online, leads to cycle of waiting for acknowledgement
  • Judging people in ways that we wouldn't do in real time
  • Cancel culture emphasized online
  • Sense of community is superficial online - high quantity, low quality
  • Anxiety - keeping up with social expectations and fear of not being accepted
  • How do leaders support Gen Z? Who is doing the accommodating?
  • History of the 13-year-old law on social media
  • No phone policies within schools
  • Withdrawals and failure to launch due to social options online
  • Sense of creation and confidence
  • Using vocational training to support people's confidence and purpose as a professional
  • Parents modeling phone-behavior
  • How can we create an environment and culture of engagement, even when we are online for meetings?
  • The closer and more visible the phone is to you, the more distracting it is
  • Handwriting notes and limiting access to distractions while in meetings
  • Phones can be dangerous for our work
  • Creating learning opportunities for employees around phone and/or social media challenges
  • Creating online community
  • Leaders modeling better online detoxing and communicating it with the team
  • Setting better work time boundaries for when to expect people to be online
  • Good psychological safety
  • Gamify non-screen time within a team or between teams
  • How often we go down a road and only in hindsight realize the issues
  • Meeting the younger generation where they are
  • Some younger people have been conditioned into this way of being, not chosen it
  • Work design - multiple/flex job sharing to create a sense of flexibility in their roles
  • Reverse mentoring - look at the strength of the technology
  • Employee Resources Groups for Gen Z
  • Let go of "When I was your age...."
  • Enter into conversations with the intent to listen, not speak
  • Be aware of who we are allowing to dictate your life and where there might be a value misalignment
  • Where are we jumping on bandwagons without looking at the long-term implications
  • Back-chaining behaviors so that people feel confidence
  • Being "good enough" without our phones and our social media accounts
  • Cultivating an internal sense of value within employees


Resources:

  • "The Anxious Generation" by Jonathan Haidt
  • "Indistractable" by Nir Eyal
  • "Hooked" by Nir Eyal

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