S5E4: "Less Talking, More Connecting: The Art of First Dates"

Date Smarter. Sexier.

Jan 10 2024 • 19 mins

Summary

In this episode, Andrea discusses the importance of talking less on first dates and explores alternative ways to connect with your date. She emphasizes the power of silence, the significance of body language, the value of shared experiences, and the art of active listening. By finding a balance between talking and listening, you can create a more meaningful and memorable first date.

Takeaways

  • Avoid turning a first date into an interview by refraining from asking traditional questions.

  • Embrace moments of silence and use them as an opportunity to connect on a deeper level.

  • Pay attention to body language, as it can reveal more about a person than their words.

  • Engage in shared experiences on first dates to create a bond and showcase problem-solving skills.

  • Practice active listening and find the right balance between talking and listening.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Less is More on First Dates

02:12 Chapter 1: The Power of Silence

05:54 Chapter 2: Body Language

09:12 Chapter 3: Shared Experiences

13:00 Chapter 4: Active Listening

17:35 Conclusion: Less Talking, More Connecting

Watch the Masterclass on first date body language: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cfcAOrboWH0&t=2s

For more information:

www.datesmartermatchmaking.com

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