S5E3: Why He Didn't Call You Back w/ Guest, Chris Gillis

Date Smarter. Sexier.

Jan 3 2024 • 49 mins

Summary

Get ready for a rollercoaster of an episode with Andrea and Chris on "Date Smarter Sexier"! They're diving deep into the mysterious world of modern dating. Ever wondered why men vanish without a trace? They're tackling the intriguing reasons behind ghosting and unraveling the complex art of breadcrumbing.

Hold on, as they use the fishing analogy to explain why some men keep their options wide open, and dissect the fear of commitment that haunts many. It's a wild ride through the challenges of dating multiple people and the intense pressure to build an empire.

Brace yourself for an honest conversation about the struggle to express emotions and the tempting escape of ghosting. They're not shying away from the hot topic of entitlement and the pursuit of a higher 'rating' in the dating game.

The episode reaches a thrilling climax with a bold discussion on the pitfalls of Facebook groups and the fear of being exposed in the digital age.

But that's not all! Chris and Andrea also delve into the magnetic allure of feminine energy, the delicate timing of sexual activity, and the profound impact of sex on bonding. They're bringing mindfulness into dating, urging us to savor the journey and cherish the age-old art of courting.

This episode is a treasure trove of insights on love, relationships, and everything in between. Tune in for a mesmerizing exploration of the heart's deepest desires and fears. Don't miss this electrifying episode of "Date Smarter Sexier"!

Contact:

Chris Gillis:

IG and TikTok: @ConsultantChris

Website: www.ConsultantChris.com


For more information: www.datesmartermatchmaking.com

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

01:35 Why Do Men Ghost?

04:32 The Lure of the Unicorn

07:48 Fear of Expressing Emotions

10:26 Taking Ownership of Ghosting

14:16 The Entitlement Issue

19:08 The Independent Woman Dilemma

25:15 The Disappointment of Settling

30:26 Making Him Feel Appreciated

37:20 The Fear of Being Exposed

40:11 The Attraction of Feminine Energy

41:06 The Timing of Sexual Activity

45:07 Being Mindful in Dating

47:28 Appreciating the Courting Process

47:52 Closing Remarks and Contact Information


For more information go to: www.datesmartermatchmaking.com

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