EP 15: The Four Letter Word No One Wants to Talk About: Porn. With Jessica Indries

Let's Talk Relationships

Feb 28 2024 • 1 hr 3 mins

In this episode of Let's Talk Relationships, we delve into the profound and often overlooked effects of pornography addiction, particularly within the Christian community. Our guest, Jes Indries, bravely shares her personal journey, unveiling the insecurities and fears that underpin such struggles. Together, we explore the intricate ways pornography impacts relationships, fostering emotional distance and cultivating unrealistic expectations. Through candid discussion, we strive to break down the stigma surrounding this issue, advocating for openness and embracing God's unconditional love and acceptance.

About Jessica Indries
Jessica Indries is a Fashion Designer with a background in branding, graphic design, and the apparel industry. Beyond her professional pursuits, she is also dedicated to her family and committed to helping others break free from generational patterns and past traumas to realize their full potential.

One significant aspect of Jessica's journey to healing is her involvement in the REMEDY program, a faith-centered recovery program designed to assist individuals in addressing past trauma and unhealthy coping habits. Through this program, she has learned practical tools to process her unaddressed trauma. Jessica is enthusiastic about sharing helpful resources with others on their journey to healing and has made the 'Wheel of Feelings,' a tool from REMEDY, available for free on her website: http://www.wewhoinfluence.com/resources/p/the-wheel-of-feelings

To stay updated on Jessica's journey and to explore the intersection of healing and influence further, you can follow her personal account on social media (@jesindries) and tune in to her upcoming podcast, "We Who Influence" (@wewhoinfluence). Through her podcast, Jessica will be exploring the intersection of healing and influence in our world.

Social Accounts:
@JesIndries
@WeWhoInfluence

Website:
www.WeWhoInfluence.com

NOTES:
Atlas of the Heart - Brene Brown
Connor Beaton - Man Talks


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00:00 Introduction to the Topic: The Impact of Pornography

00:25 Guest Introduction: Jess Shares Her Story

01:03 The Prevalence of Pornography in Society

01:44 Jess's Personal Journey with Porn Addiction

03:11 The Church's Approach to Sex and Pornography

04:20 The Connection Between Porn and Other Addictions

05:55 The Role of Shame in Porn Addiction

06:08 The Impact of Porn Addiction on Women

10:41 The Role of Fear and Rejection in Addiction

15:19 The Importance of Emotional Awareness in Overcoming Addiction

25:58 The Impact of Porn Addiction on Relationships

30:25 The Struggle with Addiction

31:35 The Importance of Emotional Intimacy

32:05 The Taboo of Sex in Church

32:44 The Power of Open Communication

32:57 The Impact of Premarital Sex

33:20 The Spiritual Aspect of Sex

34:10 The Misconceptions about Sex

34:47 The Consequence

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