Money Matters: Going Beyond the Balance Sheet in Relationships | S3:EP2

Real Wealth Podcast

Dec 12 2023 • 59 mins

Welcome to another compelling episode of Real Wealth Podcast, proudly brought to you by Leading Edge Financial Planning. I'm your host, Mike Proctor, and today we're embarking on a captivating exploration at the intersection of relationships and finances with our distinguished guest, Shaunti Feldhahn.

As Harvard graduates, Shaunti and her husband Jeff have invested over 13 years in extensive research in behavioral finance. Their recent groundbreaking book, "Thriving in Love and Money," is creating ripples in the financial world. In collaboration with Thrivent Financial, they delve into how couples can nurture stronger relationships around money, unveiling the intricate dynamics that financial discussions often bring to the forefront.

Join us as we unravel profound insights from Shaunti's wealth of experience. Discover why money becomes a lightning rod, igniting unresolved issues within relationships. It's a shared challenge—couples wrestling with the intricacies of discussing finances. Shaunti shines a light on the idea that money tensions seldom revolve around the currency itself; rather, they unveil deeper emotions, expectations, and fears.

In this episode, we explore the significance of understanding your spouse's perspective and acknowledging that different individuals attach unique values to money. Shaunti's expertise extends beyond financial matters, seamlessly bridging the realms of therapy and finance in a distinctive and impactful way.

With 22 years of marriage, Shaunti and Jeff bring a wealth of wisdom to the table. Dive into why their book resonates with so many, transcending mere financial advice to address the core issues impacting relationships.

Embark on this insightful journey with us as we explore why Jesus spoke extensively about money, unraveling the profound connection between where our treasure lies and how it guides the steering of our hearts in relationships—either towards unity or separation.

If you've ever grappled with effective communication about money with your partner, this episode is a must-listen. Shaunti Feldhahn's tools and assessments, discussed in her book, provide practical guidance to help couples not only understand each other but also foster healthier conversations around money.

Tune in now and discover how to thrive in both love and money with Shaunti Feldhahn on Real Wealth Podcast.

Key Points:

- Money’s role as a ‘lightning rod’ that brings up tensions and unresolved issues in relationships that are not necessarily about the money itself

-The importance of understanding one's spouse's perspective and what they value rather than just thinking one's own view is "right." Different people value different things with money.

- Connect the teachings of Jesus and how he talked about money so much, with emphasis on the verse, “where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

- Using tools like Feldhahn's book and assessments can help couples understand each other and have better money conversations.

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