Possess Me - Why Is Possessiveness Sexy, & When Can It Become Unhealthy?

K is for Kinky!

Sep 20 2023 • 34 mins

In this episode, Jenn & Eden answer a listener question about exhibitionism & possessive behavior in relationships. Why do so many people find possessiveness, protectiveness, and even jealousy arousing? How can we safely play with these feelings without crossing the line into toxic behavior? And how do you break the news to your partner that you like it when they get a little jealous?

Jenn & Eden cover:

  • The broad range of behaviors that could fall under an exhibitionist category
  • Why we might enjoy exhibitionism - is it embarrassing/humiliating, is it exciting? What's underneath this fetish?
  • We explore some healthy ways to consensually explore possessive behavior
  • ...and also some not-so-healthy examples of possessiveness going sideways!
  • Bonus roleplay included!

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