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Keith G Fraser & Allon Khakshouri

De-stigmatizing the topic of mental health inside the world of sports, and educating athletes about what they can do to improve their overall well-being & quality of their lives while maintaining their performance at the highest level.We invite the world’s leading experts on wellness, mental health, and high performance, and ask them questions that relate directly to the lives of competitive athletes. read less
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Episodes

Discovering the true feeling of “satisfaction”.
Jan 9 2023
Discovering the true feeling of “satisfaction”.
In this episode, world-renowned performance psychologist Jim Loehr shares how the most critical factor in successful achievement, personal fulfillment, and life satisfaction comes from the strength of one’s character. Jim shows us in this episode how character strength can be built in the same way as physical muscle strength, through energy investment.Guest Bio Jim Loehr is chairman, CEO, and co-founder of the Human Performance Institute, a training company that has successfully utilized energy management technology to improve the productivity and engagement levels of elite performers from the world of business, sport, medicine, and law enforcement for over 30 years. A world-renowned performance psychologist, Dr. Loehr is the author of thirteen books including the national bestseller The Power of Full Engagement. He has also worked with some of the world's most successful athletes, including 17 number ones!Main Topics we cover in this episode:What makes high-performance athletes feel intimately successful?Why do athletes need to redefine success and use a “different” kind of scorecard?How to shift beliefs around needing to win in order to feel successful.How to build character muscles that help you perform better as an athlete and become the kind of person who makes you feel proud.What to do when you start losing motivation and begin tanking or sabotaging your career?How to handle a panic attack during a performance situation.Connect with JimWebsite | LinkedIn | AmazonAdditional Resources by Jim LoehrThe Power of Full Engagement: Managing Energy, Not Time, is the Key to High Performance and Personal Renewal by James E. Loehr and Tony SchwartzWise Decisions: A Science-Based Approach to Making Better Choices by James E. Loehr and Sheila Ohlsson WalkerThe Power of Story: Rewrite Your Destiny in Business and in Life by James E. Loehr Leading with Character: 10 Minutes a Day to a Brilliant Legacy Set by James E. Loehr Mentally Tough: The Principles of Winning at Sports Applied to Winning in Business by James E. Loehr and Peter McLaughlinThe Only Way to Win: How Building Character Drives Higher Achievement and Greater Fulfillment in Business and Life by James E. Loehr
What really drives you…
Dec 12 2022
What really drives you…
In this episode, best selling author Dan Ariely helps us understand how motivation works, and why conventional pay offs like money and fame often backfire.Guest BioDan Ariely is a Professor of Psychology and Behavioral Economics at Duke University and a founding member of the Center for Advanced Hindsight. He does research in behavioral economics on the irrational ways people behave, described in plain language.His immersive introduction to irrationality took place as he overcame injuries sustained in an explosion. During a range of treatments in the burn department he faced a variety of irrational behaviors that were immensely painful and persistent. He began researching ways to better deliver painful and unavoidable treatments to patients.Main TopicsWhy do we so often act irrationally?How can athletes develop lasting motivation even when they don’t experience the results they desire?Why aren’t money status, and fame not great motivational factors, and what is?Why do some athletes love pushing their limits and thrive when facing obstacles, while most don’t?What can you do as an athlete to enhance your mental well-being?Connect with DanWebsite | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | LinkedIn | TED Talks Additional ResourcesPayoff: The Hidden Logic That Shapes Our Motivations (TED Books) by Dr. Dan ArielyPredictably Irrational, Revised and Expanded Edition: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions by Dr. Dan ArielyAmazing Decisions: The Illustrated Guide to Improving Business Deals and Family Meals by Dr. Dan ArielyThe Upside of Irrationality: The Unexpected Benefits of Defying Logic at Work and at Home by Dr.Dan ArielyThe Honest Truth About Dishonesty: How We Lie to Everyone Especially Ourselves by Dr. Dan Ariely
Kindfulness - The key toward Wellness and Mental Health
Nov 21 2022
Kindfulness - The key toward Wellness and Mental Health
In this episode, Dr. David Hamilton shares with us some surprising insights about how being kind to others and ourselves has a positive impact on our wellbeing and performance.Guest BioAfter completing a Ph.D. in organic chemistry, David Hamilton spent 4 years in the pharmaceutical industry developing drugs for cardiovascular disease and cancer.Inspired by the placebo effect, and how some people's conditions would improve because they believed a placebo was a real drug, he left the industry to write books and educate people on how they can harness their minds and emotions to improve their mental and physical health.Dr. David Hamilton is also the author of 11 books where he spends most time writing and teaching people how to improve their self-esteem or to better understand the link between their minds and their health.Main TopicsThe connection between mental and physical healthThe power of visualizationsWhy “kindfulness” is so crucial for your own well-being.Why being respectful towards your opponent will enhance your performance.How to express anger.How to become kinder towards yourself.What kind of self-esteem makes you unaffected by hate comments?How to use your body language to affect how you feel when you are competing!Doing a 7-day kindness challengeConnect with DavidWebsite | Twitter | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTubeAdditional ResourcesHow Your Mind Can Heal Your Body by David R. Hamilton PhDThe Little Book of Kindness: Connect with others, be happier, transform your life Flexibound by David R. Hamilton PhDThe Five Side Effects of Kindness: This Book Will Make You Feel Better, Be Happier & Live Longer by David R. Hamilton PhDI Heart Me: The Science of Self-Love by David R. Hamilton PhDWhy Kindness Is Good For YouIt's the Thought That Counts: Why Mind Over Matter Really Works
Inner worth vs External Validation
Nov 7 2022
Inner worth vs External Validation
In this episode, we talk about what it takes to stay confident and motivated in competitive environments, especially when facing harsh criticism and judgement. Natalie shares how winning is nice, but not what matters most….Guest BioNatalie Glebova is a former Miss Universe (2005) and UN Women advocate, she is very passionate about encouraging young people to build their self-confidence and reach their biggest goals.Currently, she is a mindset coach, motivational speaker, author, entrepreneur, and public figure.Natalie’s  most recent business venture is EMPOWERED – a series of workshops, training courses and seminars to teach young minds valuable skills for living an accomplished and fulfilling life, such as building self-confidence, mastering public speaking, goal-setting, and positive thinking. (EmpoweredClub.com).Main TopicsHow to handle the day after your breakthrough success.How to cope with struggles, like loneliness, depression and jet lag while traveling the world.What to focus on so you feel fulfilled and happy, regardless of results.How to feel confident and worthy even when things don’t go your way.Some of Natalie’s favorite practices to enhance confidence and wellbeing.How to handle criticism from the outside world.The right mindset to succeed and feel content.What to do with negative emotions.How to be kinder towards yourself.Defining goals that go beyond outcomes and results.Hot to build the habit of meditating.Connect with NatalieWebsite | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | YouTube Additional ResourcesI Am Winning: A Guide to Personal EmpowermentThe Power of Now, By Eckhard Tolle
How to be happier- with positive psychology expert Tal Shahar
Oct 31 2022
How to be happier- with positive psychology expert Tal Shahar
An expert on leadership and positive psychology, Tal Ben-Shahar combines scientific studies, scholarly research, self-help guidance, and spiritual principles to teach people how to optimize their success and happiness.Guest BioTal is an author, lecturer, and former squash player. He taught two of the largest classes in Harvard University’s history, Positive Psychology and The Psychology of Leadership.The topics he lectures on include leadership, happiness, education, innovation, ethics, self-esteem, resilience, goal setting, and mindfulness. His books have been translated into more than twenty-five languages, and have appeared on best-sellers lists around the world.An avid sportsman, Tal won the U.S. Intercollegiate and Israeli National squash championships. He obtained his Ph.D. in Organizational Behavior and BA in Philosophy and Psychology from Harvard.Main TopicsWhat is happiness?Why should happiness be the ultimate currency for every athlete ( even though you can’t really pursue happiness directly)?What would Tal have done differently, knowing what he now knows, as a competitive squash player, to enhance his performance and well-being?When is perfectionism helpful, and when is it harmful?Where does lasting self-esteem really come from?Why are so many superstars miserable?What’s a healthy approach toward goal setting?Happiness practices you can use immediately.Connect with Tal Ben ShaharWebsite | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | LinkedIn Additional ResourcesThe Power of Full Engagement, by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz.Six pillars of Self-Esteem, Nathaniel Branden.Happier, by Tal Ben Shachar
Anxiety & Panic Attacks – Why we get them and what to do?
Oct 23 2022
Anxiety & Panic Attacks – Why we get them and what to do?
Elite athletes, like the rest of us, suffer from anxiety and panic.Leading expert Joshua Fletcher explains what anxiety and panic are, where it comes from, and what we can do to overcome them.Guest BioJoshua Fletcher is a psychotherapist who specializes in working with anxiety and panic disorder.He is best known as Anxiety Josh across social media and has quickly become a renowned and reputable figure in the industry.A self-confessed anxiety disorder ‘nerd’, Josh has a deeper level of understanding beyond the textbooks and training. He grew up in Manchester, UK, and was once diagnosed with crippling anxiety; suffering from panic attacks, agoraphobia, health anxiety, and generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), as well as intrusive thoughts, obsessive-compulsive behaviors, and all the other ‘stuff’ that comes with a debilitating anxiety condition.Main TopicsWhy do athletes experience panic attacks?How can your anxiety actually help you perform better?What should you do if you feel anxious before, during, or after a match?What’s the one mindset that will help you untangle anxiety?How can you find the balance between feeling pumped up before a match and becoming overly anxious?What can you do if speaking to the press makes you feel anxious and uncomfortable?What would Josh do if he was called onto a match to assist someone suffering from a panic attack?Connect with Joshua FletcherWebsite | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | LinkedInAdditional ResourcesAnxiety: Panicking about PanicUntangle Your AnxietyAnxiety: Practical About Panic