Happy New Year Boss Beauties! Starting this new year out is essential to getting the results that we want for 2024. In this episode I want to remind you not to lose sight of what's important. Results over Resolutions! This year I decided to say No to resolution and Yaass to my habits and behaviors because that's what truly navigates you to your results. #SisLetsGetInToIt RESOURCES Sign up for the Free "You're Pressure Girl" Workbook Sign up for the COS Virtual Vibe Board Course Follow Confidence on Stilettos on IG Follow Confidence on Stilettos on FB GO SUBSCRIBE TO CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS STREAMING PLATFORMS Subscribe on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Subscribe on Spotify Podcasts Subscribe on Google Podcast ⁠Subscribe on Amazon Music⁠ GET YOUR CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS MERCH www.ConfidenceOnStilettos.com

We give up so much as women and put alot on the back burner to raise families and pour into other people. Before 2023 ends there needs to be a quick reminder to "Curate the Life that You Want!" and throwing in the towel.  Also in this moment, revelation of Not all of the time are you going to feel motivated however you must still take action. There's a life that you need to get to and I will be here to consistently remind you to get back focused. #SisLetsGetInToIt RESOURCES Sign up for the Free "You're Pressure Girl" Workbook Sign up for the COS Virtual Vibe Board Course Follow Confidence on Stilettos on IG Follow Confidence on Stilettos on FB GO SUBSCRIBE TO CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS STREAMING PLATFORMS Subscribe on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Subscribe on Spotify Podcasts Subscribe on Google Podcast ⁠Subscribe on Amazon Music⁠ GET YOUR CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS MERCH www.ConfidenceOnStilettos.com

As minors, we did not have the knowledge that we are afforded as adults to change our mindset by simply thinking heavenly thoughts. Yes! You can experience Heaven right here on Earth if you take your power back and get intentional about what you want in life. Your environment matters, both internally and externally. You will not get those grand results of the life you want to live always thinking negatively or in the past. It's important that you learn to plant yourself in better soil consistently to grow continuously. In this epidsode, your host Laketta will get into "Improving your mindset" and how to take the first steps. It's not hard however it's something that you have to want to do just like any goal. It won't work unless you do! #SisLetsGetInToIt RESOURCES Sign up for the Free "You're Pressure Girl" Workbook Sign up for the COS Virtual Vibe Board Course Follow Confidence on Stilettos on IG Follow Confidence on Stilettos on FB GO SUBSCRIBE TO CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS STREAMING PLATFORMS Subscribe on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Subscribe on Spotify Podcasts Subscribe on Google Podcast ⁠Subscribe on Amazon Music⁠ GET YOUR CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS MERCH www.ConfidenceOnStilettos.com

Do you believe in "Perfect Love"? Love is such a beautiful feeling and action and it cannot survive in perfection. It needs room to grow and glow. In this, episode Laketta gives you her insight on how she perceives love and why you should strive to be imperfect in love. There's no right or wrong in growth, it's always about self reflection and customizing your life as you elevate. Healthy, reciprocated love whether it's romantic, parental, business, or self love is something that we all have the right to and gives us power to bloom in life. Grab your wine, tea, water (Wa-Tuh) or whatever it is that you like and let's get into it. #SisLetsGetInToIt RESOURCES Sign up for the Free "You're Pressure Girl" Workbook Sign up for the COS Virtual Vibe Board Course Follow Confidence on Stilettos on IG Follow Confidence on Stilettos on FB GO SUBSCRIBE TO CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS STREAMING PLATFORMS Subscribe on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Subscribe on Spotify Podcasts Subscribe on Google Podcast ⁠Subscribe on Amazon Music⁠ GET YOUR CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS MERCH www.ConfidenceOnStilettos.com

It's all about the story you choose to accept. If you're not feeling abundant in life it's time for you to review the story that you're been telling yourself and flip the damn script. In this episode your host Laketta guides you on how she changed her story and how you can change your story too. You deserve every thing that you desire and YES hunnnn-TY you can definitely have it...NO DOUBT in my MIND. #SisLetsGetInToIt RESOURCES Sign up for the Free "You're Pressure Girl" Workbook Sign up for the COS Virtual Vibe Board Course Let's Link Up on Social MeeeeeDIA! Follow Confidence on Stilettos on IG Follow Confidence on Stilettos on FB GO SUBSCRIBE TO CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS STREAMING PLATFORMS Subscribe on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Subscribe on Spotify Podcasts Subscribe on Google Podcast Subscribe on Amazon Music GET YOUR CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS MERCH www.ConfidenceOnStilettos.com

The more that you are in control of your emotions the less reactive you are. Our emotional journey is formed from the time we are born and evolves over time. Most of our emotional story and actions are what we've learned by our parents or the ones that's close to us. If your close loved ones didn't model emotional control as a child neither did you because that was normal. However, as you become an adult and become the CEO of your life it's definitely recommended that you do a self assessment and get your emotions in check. In this episode, your host Laketta is giving you advice on how to get emotional control and why it's truly important in your life as a whole and especially as you become the CEO of every aspect of your life. #SisLetsGetInToIt Real Quick...Don't forget to Subscribe & Rate the Podcast and Share it out to your friends and Family. RESOURCES Sign up for the Free "You're Pressure Girl" Workbook Sign up for the COS Virtual Vibe Board Course Follow Confidence on Stilettos on IG Follow Confidence on Stilettos on FB GO SUBSCRIBE TO CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS STREAMING PLATFORMS Subscribe on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Subscribe on Spotify Podcasts Subscribe on Google Podcast GET YOUR CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS MERCH www.ConfidenceOnStilettos.com

So often we decide to convince ourselves of a fabricated truth which girrrrl IS A LIE! In this episode your host Laketta dives head first into the knowledge of being honest with yourself.  How do you expect another living soul to be honest with you when you allow YOU to lie to YOU.  That doesn't make sense, however we do it on a regular basis.  Maybe it's to fit in to a certain tribe of friends or to even to appease your family, either way it's not the truth. It's time to get to a space in your life where you absolutely crave the truth even from yourself so that you can do accurate self evaluation and make the necessary changes to GLOW UP!   #SisLetsGetInToIt RESOURCES Sign up for the Free "You're Pressure Girl" Workbook Sign up for the COS Virtual Vibe Board Course Follow Confidence on Stilettos on IG Follow Confidence on Stilettos on FB GO SUBSCRIBE TO CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS STREAMING PLATFORMS Subscribe on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Subscribe on Spotify Podcasts Subscribe on Google Podcast GET YOUR CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS MERCH www.ConfidenceOnStilettos.com

We've all had a moment in our lives that we can identify with that actually broke us and at the same time gave a new perspective on life.  In this episode, Laketta gives us a little snippet of the moment that she felt like giving up and throwing in the towel.  Also in this moment, revelation of what she wanted life to truly look like and feel like was born and she allowed her spirit and God to lead her down the path that she continues to grow and glow on. #SisLetsGetInToIt RESOURCES Sign up for the Free "You're Pressure Girl" Workbook Sign up for the COS Virtual Vibe Board Course Follow Confidence on Stilettos on IG Follow Confidence on Stilettos on FB GO SUBSCRIBE TO CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS STREAMING PLATFORMS Subscribe on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Subscribe on Spotify Podcasts Subscribe on Google Podcast GET YOUR CONFIDENCE ON STILETTOS MERCH www.ConfidenceOnStilettos.com

In this episode, your host Laketta is giving you tips to stop over explaining yourself.  Many times this is a trauma response that we have yet to conquer. Not everyone deserves to know everything that you're thinking or going through.  Say Less Sis.  Honestly, many people are manipulative and until you resolve the reason behind why you feel the need to always over explain yourself you will never be able to see clearly the intentions of anyone attempting to enter your life.  #SISLETSTALK Oh wait!  The new website is LIVE!!!! YES...we have been working on this for some time and it's much more to come soon.  Please go check it out. www.Confidenceonstilettos.com If you haven't done so already follow us on the Social Meeee-DIA: www.instagram.com/confidence_on_Stilettos www.Facebook.com/confidenceonstilettos www.YouTube.com Don't forget to get your Merch at: www.confidenceonstilettos.com/shop

In this episode, your host Laketta is discussing "embracing the magnifence of you".  Sometimes as women we sleep on ourselves and never take the time to stop and really admire the BOSS in us in every area of lives. We are wearing multiple hats at any given time and slaying our personal goals left and right. Granted you might not view them as goals because you do them with little to no effort daily however they are goals.  I just wanted to take a moment and brag on my boss beauties and send you a reminder that you're a BAAAAADDDD Chick! Look at YOU! Follow Us on Social Media: www.instagram.com/Confidence_On_Stiletto www.facebook.com/confidenceonstilettos www.Youtube.com !!Wait a minute hunnnnnty don't forget about your C.O.S. Merch. The Confidence on Stilettos website will be live on February 1st and I'm soooooo excited.  However in the mean time and in between time please purchase your C.O.S Merch via: www.MakeiBeauty.com/Shop

Hey Girl Heeeeyy!  Happy New Year! In this episode, your host Laketta is giving you nothing but that gentle reminder she loves giving about what we not doing this year and that's...PLAYING WITH OUR GOALS!  #Sis Let's talk Don't Forget to Follow Confidence On Stilettos on the Social Meeeee-DIA! www.instagram.com/Confidence_On_Stilettos www.Facebook.com/ConfidenceOnStilettos www.YouTube.com Get your Confidence On Stilettos Merch www.MakeiBeauty.com/Shop

I can't tell you how many times we know better but we are so loving and love to see the good in Everything and EVERY BODY that we don't block access to our own Universe.  Sis, listen you can't allow everyone to have access to you, seriously you even have to have boundaries with your parents.  Your Universe is super duper important to your mental health and well being so please if it don't feel right and the peeps you're dealing with moving a bit slimy...distance yourself and BLOCK access to protect your Universe.  #SIS Let's Talk. Don't Forget to Follow Confidence On Stilettos on the Social Meeeee-DIA! www.instagram.com/Confidence_On_Stilettos www.Facebook.com/ConfidenceOnStilettos www.YouTube.com Get your Confidence On Stilettos Merch www.MakeiBeauty.com/Shop

What do you do when you feel like giving up?  You've tried everything to help you move forward in life but nothing seems to be working.  You've tried affirmations, you've tried doing things to keep your mind busy, you've even tried this "healing" thing you hear everybody talking about.  Nothing seems to work!  In this episode, your host Laketta is giving you a gentle reminder that "healing" is a long term goal.  Give yourself grace and just take it one minute at a time. #SisLetsTalk Be Sure to Follow Confidence On Stilettos on The Social Meeee-DIA! www.Instagram.com/Confidence_On_Stilettos www.Facebook.com/ConfidenceOnStilettos www.Youtube.com Guess What Sis?! The Legal Pads are almost ready!  You want to get more Goals accomplished and stay on task by challenging yourself to get ISH done...then giiiiiirrrrlllla stay tuned HOWEVER the Winter is right around the corner so please don't forget to grab your Confidence On Stilettos Merch. www.ConfidenceOnStilettos.com

In this episode,  your host Laketta is getting into it hunnnty.  It's all about starting before you're ready.  We often use the excuse...yes she said it..."EXCUSE" that it's not time to do or start x, y,z. Chyyylleee Stawppp IT! Honestly, none of us were actually ready for 95% of the things we had to do but Life is beautiful like that. It teaches you along the way and you adapt and guess what?!  You actually handled that thannnng like the BAWSE you are so #SisLetsTalk Don't Forget to Rate the Podcast and Follow Ya Girl on Social Media. www.Instagram.com/Confidence_On_Stilettos www.Facebook.com/ConfidenceOnStilettos www.Youtube.com Get your Confidence on Stilettos Journal, Sweatshirts and TShirts www.Makeibeauty.com/shop

In this episode, your host Laketta is discussing the need to self reflect as you transition to every season.  We all like to constantly be moving however the secret sauce is in the stillness.  It's time to pause and truly get real with you.  Chyyle you be moving so much you can easily confuse 2.0 YOU with 5.0 YOU because you haven't even had time to sit down and let some ish go and differentiate which version you truly are in this season.  Sis, let's talk. Connect with Confidence On Stilettos: www.Instagram.com/Confidence_On_Stilettos www.Facebook.com/Confidenceonstilettos https://bit.ly/LakettaYT We're approaching that Cozy, Boo'd up Season so don't forget your Confidence on Stilettos Sweatshirt and Journal because yesss ma'am you need to release your awesomeNESS on paper. ww.MakeiBeauty.com/Shop

In this episode, your host Laketta is all about getting down to business with calling all the light workers forward to make some disruption.  Truth be told it's so much negative energy out here illuminating like a shooting star so it feels like it has power and for people who are truly out here trying to do the right thing and spread love and positivity this atmosphere feels draining and toxic.  So YESSSS! It's time baaaabe!  All the light workers need to step up and it's time to disrupt some ISH!  Even if it's just you showing your authenticity...it's better than all this fake social media stuff that's forced down our throats daily.   We have to do better and in order to do better you have to know that you have the power to make change. Follow me on Social Media www.Instagram.com/Confidence_On_Stilettos www.Facebook.com/ConfidenceonStilettos YouTube Get your Confidence On Stilettos Merch! We have sweatshirts and Journals ready to go! www.Makeibeauty.com/Shop

Listen hunnnty...You CANNOT wait to live your Life! Like all jokes aside stop playing and go do it BIG BOO.  In this episode I just wanted to come back after my hiatus with some words for the wise before I jump in the reaaaalNESS of the Confidence on Stilettos topics and tribe.  Girlllla! get out there and make it do what it do.  Life is like a vapor and tomorrow is not promised, so stop thinking you have this grand amount of time.  If it feels right and your intuition screams "heeeeeyyyy" then go for it.   Don't forget to connect with me:  Instagram: www.Instagram.com/Confidence_on_Stilettos Facebook: www.Facebook.com/ConfidenceonStilettos YouTube: https://www.youtube.com  Get your Confidence on Stilettos Journals and Sweatshirts

Heeey Boss Beauties!  Thank you for tuning in to this episode of Confidence on Stilettos where your host Laketta speaks on the spirit of rush, doubt and distraction because that's all it is.  I think we all can agree that sometimes we all get stuck in a temporary season of comparison which then makes you feel like you're waaaaaay behind on your goals.  Raise ya Hand...Sis STAWPPP playing and comparing yourself to others.  Relax and enjoy the journey.  Be present in the Now! #SisLetsTalk Let that ish go...TUHDAY! *Connect with Me on the Social Tip* www.instagram.com/confidence_on_stilettos www.Facebook.com/ConfidenceOnStilettos Get your Confidence on Stilettos Merch! Sweatshirts, Tshirts and Journals available for purchase www.MakeiBeauty.com/shop

Heeey Boss Beauties!  Thank you for tuning in to this episode of Confidence on Stilettos where your host Laketta speaks on burning the bridges that lead you to no where.  I think we all can agree that sometimes we're holding on to something that we view as a security net when in reality it's just a crutch making you even more lame.  You are a powerful woman and the only way to get to where you truly need to be is by never looking back to the shoulda, coulda, woulda's.   Let that ish go...Yes! It's uncomfortable but it's necessary to get to the beauty of your journey!  #SisLetsTalk. Grab your wine, tea, wahta or whateva you like and let's get to it. *Connect with Me on the Social Tip* www.instagram.com/confidence_on_stilettos www.Facebook.com/ConfidenceOnStilettos Get your Confidence on Stilettos Merch! Sweatshirts, Tshirts and Journals available for purchase www.MakeiBeauty.com/shop

In this episode, your host Laketta discusses the reasons you should stop seeking validation.  It's all about reaffirming who you are.  There's no way you should accept or allow anyone to tell you what narrative is for you to use as your road map to your life.  YOU are in control of your narrative and you can rewrite it as many times as you desire because guess what?  You'll never believe this....IT'S YOUR LIFE! Gone are the days where you're sitting there tip toeing around what sets your sould on fire.  Let that ISH go TUHDAY!  Sis let's talk. Follow Me on Social Media: www.instagram.com/Confidence_on_Stilettos www.Facebook.com/ConfidenceonStilettos Get your Confidence on Stilettos Merch at www.MakeiBeauty.com/Shop !!COS Journals, Sweatshirts and T-Shirts are now available!