Everyone thinks that the secret to good relationships and family is love. And while that is indeed true, there is often an aspect of relationships that most of us miss. In this message, Pastor TJ will explore an often overlooked aspect of relationships that holds the potential to not only strengthen our relationships but actually take them to the next level.Discussion Questions:1. Share a time when someone affirmed you or honored you that meant a lot to you.2. Reflect on the relationship in your life where tension seems to naturally arise. How could you extend honor within that dynamic?3. Is there anyone in your life that you may need to change how you treat them? What would it look like to take a small step this week in that direction?4. Who is someone else that God may be asking you to honor and celebrate out loud this week vs. just keeping it to yourself? What is a small way you can honor them this week?

This week we'll explore the importance of family and our significance to God, we've been examining how to live in a spiritual community as Jesus intends. Despite attending church, engaging in small groups, or serving in ministry, some of us still feel burdened or disconnected, perhaps even losing hope in our faith community. It's crucial to ask ourselves why we attend church regularly.As we care for our souls and deepen our bond with Christ, we can better nurture our relationships with others and honor God. Let's dive into what God's Word teaches us about soul care and consider the state of our own souls.Discussion Questions:1. Is life giving you an opportunity to persevere? How?2. On a scale of 1-10, how’s your intimacy with Jesus? Why?3. How will you put Jesus first today?

Dean and Pastor TJ dive deep and explore an often overlooked aspect of relationships that holds the potential to not only strengthen our relationships but actually take them to the next level.

This week we will break the belief of a "Junior Holy Spirit" and the separation between children and adults in the family of God. It emphasizes that everyone, regardless of age or background, is valued and has a place at the table as a beloved son or daughter, brother or sister.We'll learn pragmatically how we can involve children in meaningful ways and extend hospitality to others. You'll walk away challenged to consider who is currently at your table and to invite others in, reflecting the hospitality of the Kingdom of God. Discussion Questions:1. How has the concept of a "kids' table" impacted your sense of belonging in different spaces?2. What are some fears or doubts that might hold you back from fully participating in the church family?3. How can we create a more welcoming and inclusive environment for everyone, regardless of age or experience?4. Think about a time when a younger person surprised you with their wisdom or insight. How can we encourage everyone to share their gifts and perspectives?5. Consider your "table" at home and at church. Who might you intentionally invite to share a meal or conversation?6. How can we, as a church family, reach out to those who feel isolated or alone?7. If you are not currently in a smaller community, what's one step you can take to be a part of one?

We believe God desires to break the belief of a “Junior Holy Spirit” and the separation between children and adults in the family of God. He emphasizes that everyone, regardless of age or background, is valued and has a place at the table as a beloved son or daughter, brother or sister.Dean and Pastor Brett explore the divide between generations and the crucial need for this gap to be bridged. Join us as we discuss the importance of mutual empowerment and wisdom-sharing, creating a unified space where everyone belongs.

Pastor Chad dives into the concept of leaving a lasting legacy - not just material possessions, but a spiritual inheritance that impacts future generations. Drawing from biblical principles, the message emphasizes that our true legacy lies in what we leave "in" the next generation, rather than merely what we leave "for" them. This message will challenge you to consider the influence of your daily choices, responses under pressure, proximity to Jesus, and perseverance in the faith. You will walk away encouraged to live authentically as followers of Christ, understanding that "what is not transformed gets transferred" to those who come after us. Through powerful testimonies and practical applications, you will be inspired to break negative generational cycles and intentionally leave a legacy that honors God and blesses generations to come.Discussion Questions:Share about the influences and spiritual legacies that have shaped your life thus far. Who are the individuals (family members, mentors, etc.) whose faithful example has positively impacted you?Share about a negative pattern, behavior, or mindset that you may have inherited from previous generations. How can you break these cycles through the transformative power of Christ?"What we leave in the next generation is more important than what we leave for them." Discuss the significance of this statement. What are some practical ways we can invest in the spiritual formation of the next generation, rather than solely focusing on material inheritance?Pray for one another.

We want to leave a lasting legacy - not just material possessions, but a spiritual inheritance that impacts future generations. Dean and Pastor Chad take a deep dive into how to consider the influence of your daily choices, responses under pressure, proximity to Jesus, and perseverance in the faith.

Teen dating in the world is different from teen dating in the kingdom of God... but HOW? Is it possible to do this in a God-honoring and productive way?Dean and Pastor Brett take a deep dive to put on the table ideas about when and how teen dating could be a healthy thing to do... and for parents/teens to practice having these conversations together!

As parents, we struggle with shame and guilt over our lack of confidence to have difficult conversations with our kids and teens about relationships and sexuality... as well as not knowing where to start!Dean and Pastor Chad dive deep to share a few practical tips and stepping stones so parents can take action today and grow in confidence to have difficult conversations with their kids and teens that will make a great impact in their lives.

This week we dive into the importance of understanding and valuing both marriage and singleness within our spiritual families. In this sermon, Dean will address the misconception that elevates marriage over being single, causing hurt and misunderstanding in our communities.We'll be challenged to reconsider God's priority relationship roles, emphasizing that both marriage and singleness have significant roles in our spiritual journeys. Drawing from 1 Corinthians 7, we'll explore Paul's teachings on singleness and marriage, seeking to align our perspectives with God's design.Discussion Questions1. What stood out to you the most from the sermon? Why do you think it resonated with you?2. How have cultural influences shaped your views on marriage and singleness? Have these views aligned with biblical teachings?3. Do you agree that there is often a misconception in churches that elevates marriage over singleness? Why or why not?4. How can we, as a community, better support and empower singles in our church?5. Paul mentions in 1 Corinthians 7 the importance of both marriage and singleness. How can we ensure that both are valued equally in our church?6. Have you ever struggled with placing importance on marriage or relationships above your relationship with God? How did you overcome this?7. How can we encourage a healthy balance between pursuing relationships and fully surrendering to God's plan for our lives?

Our culture brings confusion and perversion to God’s design and timing for relationships and sexuality. Dean and Pastor Stephen take a deep dive into how our relationships heal and can thrive when we not just understand God’s design for relationships, but begin to practice it.

Many Christians have been hurt by small communities so they hesitate to join Circles and spiritual small groups. Many feel they don’t have time in their busy schedules.We believe Circles and a small community is critical for spiritual growth and formation. The benefits will always outweigh the challenges in the long run. Our Family Ministry Director, Dean sits down with Pastor Chad to take a deep dive into how you can overcome fear, your busy schedule, and pain from the past to walk into greater spiritual growth and formation.

We are designed by God for a rich community marked by stirring up love and good works in each other. Pastor Chad kicks off our "Family Matters" series by challenging the cultural norm of isolation and independence and unpacking the biblical call for authentic community. Drawing from Hebrews 10:19-25, Pastor Chad paints a compelling vision of living interconnected lives as a spiritual family, where we deeply "belong to and belong with" one another. You will walk away from this sermon with a working definition of what a Jesus-centered community can look like and a practical next step to start walking in it.Discussion Questions:1. How did your upbringing and background shape your perception of what "family" means? How does the working definition Chad gave of "the people I belong to and belong with" resize or challenge that perception?2. Do you resonate more with the mindset of wanting clear boundaries/your own space or with a longing for deeper community? What are the pros and cons you've experienced with each mindset?3. Read Hebrews 10:24-25 aloud. What specific instructions does this passage give regarding our interactions and involvement with other believers? How can we apply this practically?4. The sermon highlighted the increasing isolation and lack of true community in society today. What negative fruits or impacts of this have you witnessed or experienced personally?5. What is one step you can take this week to prioritize spiritual family and belonging with other believers? Who could you invite into your spiritual family?