Episode #12 Show Notes

Host: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess

Guest: Dr. Warren Lamb

Topic: Domestic Oppression, Part 1

Summary

Domestic oppression is the "seedbed that all other forms of abuse grow out of," according to Dr. Lamb. In this episode, he discusses his book, "Behind the Veil: Exposing the Evil of Domestic Oppression and Providing Hope." In it, he draws from his extensive experience in providing biblical counseling and soul care to thousands of survivors of domestic oppression and violence.

Takeaways

• Domestic oppression is a form of abuse that underlies and creates an environment for domestic abuse and other forms of abuse to occur.
• The church often fails to recognize and address domestic oppression, leading to the protection of the oppressor.
• The prevalence of domestic oppression within the church is staggering, with statistics showing that a majority of churchgoers have either experienced or witnessed it during their lifetime.
• Proper theology and understanding of biblical principles are crucial in addressing domestic oppression and providing hope for those affected.
• Creating a safe and open environment within the church is essential for individuals to come forward and seek help. There is hope for individuals and families dealing with domestic oppression as more pastors, elders, and biblical counselors are addressing this issue and providing specialized counseling and guidance.
• True repentance involves taking full responsibility for one's actions without seeking anything in return, including forgiveness.
• There are resources, counseling ministries, and organizations available for individuals and families seeking help.

Scripture Mentioned

John 13:34-35

Luke 4:18

Ezekiel 34:1-10

Ephesians 4:32

Warrenism

“Apology making is not forgiveness seeking.”

Additional Resources

RELEVANT BOOKS

• Behind the Veil: Exposing the Evil of Domestic Oppression and Providing Hope (Dr. Warren Lamb)
• A Cry for Justice: How the Evil of Domestic Abuse Hides in Your Church (Jeff Crippen and Anna Wood)
• The Heart of Domestic Abuse: Gospel Solutions for men who use control and violence in the home (Pastor Chris Moles)
• When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church (Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson)
• 37 WAYS TO BE TAKEN CAPTIVE: Warning Signs and Prevention for Destructive Relationships (Sydney Millage)
• A Biblical Counselor's Approach to Marital Abuse: Roadmap to Reunification (Dr. Julie Ganschow and Bill Schlacks)
• Caring for Families Caught in Domestic Abuse: A Guide toward Protection, Refuge, and Hope (Chris Moles, editor)

MINISTRIES

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (Biblical counseling ministry team of Dr. Warren Lamb)
• Reigning Grace Biblical Counseling (Biblical counseling ministry team of Dr. Julie Ganschow)
• Called to Peace (Hope and healing for victims of domestic abuse)
• Clarity in Action Ministries (Equipping churches for ministering to abuse survivors)
• Men of Peace (Ministry of Pastor Chris Moles to help abusers repent and be transformed)

BLOGS

• Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb))
• Biblical Counseling for Women (Dr. Julie Ganschow et al.)