I Wish You Knew

Adam Lane Smith & Sarah Dawn Moore

Welcome to the I Wish You Knew Podcast, co-hosted by Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, and Sarah Dawn Moore, relationship coach. Together with experts and celebrity guests, they unpack the intertwined worlds of love, modern relationships, and masculinity and femininity. Whether you’re single, navigating the wild waters of modern dating, or in a committed relationship, ”I Wish You Knew” offers a fresh, practical perspective on the intricate dance of romance in today’s world. read less
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Can You Find Love After 35? With Alex Clark | E23 | I Wish You Knew Podcast
4d ago
Can You Find Love After 35? With Alex Clark | E23 | I Wish You Knew Podcast
🎙️ Dive into the heart of today's most pressing relationship dilemmas with "I Wish You Knew," where host Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, co-host Andrey Korikov, co-founder and CEO of Veritas Creative, and this episode's insightful guest, Alex Clark, a vibrant voice from the Spillover podcast and Turning Point USA, tackle the complexities of love, societal pressures, and the invisible threads that tie us together or tear us apart.   This episode does more than scratch the surface; it digs deep into the controversial and the taboo, from premarital sex to mental health and personal fulfillment.   Join us for a conversation that promises to enlighten, challenge, and inspire. Agree or disagree, we invite you to join the engage, debate, reflect, and perhaps see the world through a different lens. ✨ Must-See Episode Highlights:   👉 How how different generations handle emotional sensitivity and respond to criticism. 👉 How modern society poses unrealistic milestones and pressures when considering marriage or starting a family. 👉 The alarming side effects of SSRIs on sexual desire and relationships. 👉 How the traditional means of meeting partners have shifted in the modern world, and how it affects you. 👉 The conventional belief and societal expectations on premarital sex, and its impact on modern relationships.   Get set for a conversation that's going to shake up what you thought you knew about love, relationships, and everything in between. 🎧   If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode on The Terrifying Impact Of Social Media On Modern Relationships:  https://youtu.be/EnFADHMoRJk?feature=shared    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow Alex Clark: -------------------------------------------------- Website:   https://tpusa.com/alexclark   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcbPQtclBJp_8se9a2t8AoA    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realalexclark/?hl=en  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/realalexclark/   Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/yoalexrapz  Real Alex Clark podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-alex-clark/id1587953712   The Spillover Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-spillover-with-alex-clark/id1507839530    -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/  Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en  The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Inside the Mind of Avoidant Men (How It Shapes Relationships) | E22 | I Wish You Knew Podcast
Apr 5 2024
Inside the Mind of Avoidant Men (How It Shapes Relationships) | E22 | I Wish You Knew Podcast
🎙️ In this episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, host Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, teams up with Andrey Korikov, CEO & co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, to dive deep into the how and why of avoidant attachment.   No stone is left unturned in this eye-opening exploration. Get ready for an eye-opening discussion that mixes expert advice with real-life stories, exploring the complexities of avoidant behavior, its origin, and its impact on relationships.   This episode poses a thought-provoking question: How do we build genuine and caring connections in a world where emotional walls seem to be the norm and emotional closeness is shunned? ✨ Key Moments to Tune In For:   👉 Why societal pressures and personal traumas can make it tough for avoidants to be close to others. 👉 The manipulative tactics used by avoidants to control relationships and keep intimacy at bay. 👉 The shocking, devastating toll avoidant attachment takes on mental health and overall well-being. 👉 How to overcome fear of intimacy and create strong, healthy relationships. 👉 Real stories of people breaking free from avoidant patterns, embracing vulnerability, and finding profound connection and love.   Get ready for an engaging conversation that challenges conventional beliefs about love and intimacy, and encourages listeners to develop deeper, more meaningful relationships. 🎧   If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled The Hidden Impact of Childhood Attachment on Your Love Life: https://youtu.be/a3Y6fpWJmaw?feature=shared    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/  Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en  The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Why Men Fall for the Red Pill: What No One Tells You  | E21 | I Wish You Knew
Mar 29 2024
Why Men Fall for the Red Pill: What No One Tells You | E21 | I Wish You Knew
🎙️ Welcome to the first episode of Season 2 of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast. This time around, host Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov CEO & co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive into the tricky topic of the "red pill".   Get ready for an intense exploration that blends professional insights with firsthand real stories discussing moving beyond superficial interactions, the transactional views of relationships today, and the role of virtue and character development in overcoming the red pill mentality.   This episode is throwing out a big question: In a world where everyone seems obsessed with being in charge, how do we build honest and caring relationships with ourselves and the people around us?  🌟 Must-Watch Episode Highlights:    👉 The red pill movement’s misconceptions about independence, control, and masculinity versus the harsh reality of its radical, fear-driven ideology. 👉 How digital media and the red pill leaders exploit outrage for engagement, turning fear and shock into a profitable strategy. 👉 How genuine self-improvement, virtue, and building real, supportive connections help to move past the red pill ideology. 👉 REAL stories of personal growth and transformation of men moving beyond the red pill ideology to form lasting, loving relationships. In this episode, join host Adam Lane Smith and co-host Andrey Korikov as they delve into the complexities of the red pill ideology, dissecting its impact on personal development, the nature of authentic connections, and the strength needed to overcome the toxic narratives that challenge our views on masculinity and relationships.    Stay tuned for an enlightening discussion. 🎧  If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode on the top 10 masculine qualities women love in men: https://youtu.be/wG3Bo5H86bQ?feature=shared    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Andrey Korikov:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreykorikov/  Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/veritascreative.media/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreykorikov  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/andreykorikov?lang=en  The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Finding Meaning Outside of Relationships (This Might Save Your Life)  | Ep 20 | I Wish You Knew
Mar 22 2024
Finding Meaning Outside of Relationships (This Might Save Your Life) | Ep 20 | I Wish You Knew
🎙️ Join us for on this episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, where hosts Sarah Don Moore and Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, delve into the depths of personal transformation, relationships, and overcoming adversity with their special guest, Jillian Turecki.    Prepare for a profound discussion that intertwines professional expertise with personal experiences, offering a fresh perspective on therapy, coaching, and the path to authentic connection.    This episode challenges you to reflect on your own journey towards healing and understanding in relationships and poses the essential question: How can we cultivate a healthier relationship with ourselves and others, fostering growth and understanding amidst life's challenges? 🌟 Don't Miss These Key Insights:    👉 The mind-body connection and why it’s essential to develop a healthy relationship with yourself. 👉 How moving beyond trauma can prevent continuous retraumatization. 👉 How and why accountability is the first step to get started with your personal transformation. 👉 The shortcomings of traditional therapy and how it lacks being tough with people to help them become more accountable and responsible. 👉 The importance of authenticity over trying to be overly interesting during dating and in relationships.  👉 Our personal responsibility in relationship dynamics rather than focusing solely on the partner's faults. In this episode, host Sarah Dawn Moore and co-host Adam Lane Smith, joined by the insightful Jillian Turecki, unpack the layers of personal evolution, the essence of meaningful relationships, and the resilience required to transcend life's adversities, so keep your eyes peeled. If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode on what the West gets wrong about masculinity where we tackle the masculinity crisis. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5qpnh5Opqh8    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com  -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   Follow Jillian Turecki:  Website:https://www.jillianturecki.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/JillianTurecki  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jillianturecki  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2qy9p5oXD7keoBQQzk1e1z  Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049    -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home   Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/   Twitter /X: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
The New Rules of Dating No One Dares to Discuss| Ep19 | I Wish You Knew
Mar 15 2024
The New Rules of Dating No One Dares to Discuss| Ep19 | I Wish You Knew
🎙️ ️ Dive into an intriguing episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, where marketing expert and entrepreneur Matt Daley joins relationship coach Sarah Moore and Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith for a candid conversation about relationships, psychology, and the gender war (and possibly how to end it)   This episode is packed with honest takes on relationships, connections, therapy and so much more. Get ready for a controversial conversation that will challenge some of your beliefs.   This episode invites you to ask yourself and the people around you: Can men and women live together in harmony and stop trying to make each other be the same? 🌟 Lookout for these highlights:    👉 How modern psychology's rise divides society, pushing individualism and hurting relationships, and how it needs more balance, focusing on solutions alongside emotions. 👉 How social media's manipulation tactics can trick us, and why you should be critical of online content. 👉 How and why men and women often misunderstand each other's communication styles. 👉 Why age-gap relationships spark debate on personal choice vs. societal norms, raising the question: should love be limited by age? 👉 How women's educational advancement clashes with perceived male regression, and what this means for gender roles. Get ready to see psychology and therapy as you’ve never seen them before. This episode examines the reality of gender dynamics between men and women and how to bridge the ever-widening gap between the two. From MGTOW to radical feminists, we’ve got something for everyone in this episode. If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode on what the West gets wrong about masculinity where we tackle the masculinity crisis. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5qpnh5Opqh8    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com  -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   Follow Matt Daley: Website: https://veritascreative.media/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matt__daley/?hl=en   LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/matt-daley-860520174    -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home   Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     The next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Gen Z’s Outlook on Gender Roles, Dating, and More | Ep18 | I Wish You Knew
Mar 8 2024
Gen Z’s Outlook on Gender Roles, Dating, and More | Ep18 | I Wish You Knew
🎙️ ️ Dive into an intriguing episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, where Gen Z voice Kenzie Carter joins relationship coach Sarah Moore and the attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith for a candid conversation about navigating expectations in today's relationships.   This episode is packed with honest takes on love, life, and everything in between. So buckle up for some thought-provoking conversations, and get ready to have your mind blown (or at least learn something new).   This episode tackles a crucial question: In an era of social media pressures and evolving gender roles, what expectations do Gen Z men and women have for each other in relationships, friendships, and in marriage? 🌟Join us as we explore:   👉 How dating apps have become dehumanizing and transactional, akin to shopping at a market place.  👉 How men can avoid unintentionally making their partners feel unsafe or disrespected. 👉 How traditional gender roles are being challenged by Gen Z couples and how they're redefining what it means to be in a healthy relationship. 👉 How education and financial security influence our relationship expectations and desires. 👉 The secret to finding lasting fulfillment, without needing a million followers. 👉 How dopamine-seeking behaviors from men can hinder genuine connections with women. 👉 Why men who lack oxytocin due to a lack of emotional connection in their upbringing may struggle to meet their partner's emotional needs. From setting realistic expectations to developing healthy, secure attachments, this must-watch episode offers valuable insights for anyone seeking to navigate the complexities of modern dating. If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love this one on social media’s impact on modern dating:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EnFADHMoRJk    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com  -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   Follow Kenzie Carter: Website: https://www.kenziecarterscloset.com/   Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheKenzieCarter      Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekenziecarter/  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_lilheat_    -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home   Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Unrealistic Expectations Are Destroying The Dating Market | Ep17 | I Wish You Knew
Mar 1 2024
Unrealistic Expectations Are Destroying The Dating Market | Ep17 | I Wish You Knew
🎙️ Tune in to a riveting episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, Relationship Coach Sarah Dawn Moore and Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith, delve deep into the labyrinth of male and female expectations within modern relationships.   This episode poses a compelling question: In today's world, dominated by social media influence and changing societal standards, what do men and women genuinely expect from each other in relationships and friendships? Embark on an enlightening exploration of the nuanced interplay between evolving gender roles, relationship dynamics, and the impact of digital age dating. 🌟Keep an ear out for:   👉Debating whether contemporary women's expectations of men have escalated beyond reality. 👉Analyzing the effects of social media and dating apps on how men and women perceive and relate to each other. 👉Unpacking the core attributes of masculinity and how they are perceived and valued in today's society. 👉The significance of communication in understanding and aligning the expectations between genders. 👉Strategies for men to embody genuine masculinity and for women to realistically set and communicate their expectations. 👉The conversation around how economic and educational progress influences relationship expectations. 👉Sarah and Adam's insights into the evolving expectations in male-female dynamics within the framework of modern-day relationships. This episode promises to enhance your understanding of contemporary relationship dynamics, offering thoughtful perspectives on how men and women can navigate their expectations and foster more meaningful connections.   If you liked this one, you will probably enjoy this episode too: https://youtu.be/VYpZVZIamZo?si=pH1ZDojh8TuG5JsQ    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com  -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more:   -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home   Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
What the West Gets Wrong About Masculinity | Ep16 | I Wish You Knew
Feb 23 2024
What the West Gets Wrong About Masculinity | Ep16 | I Wish You Knew
🎙️ Welcome back to another insightful episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast! Today, Adam and Sarah have an enlightening discussion with Indian podcaster Silawath Irshad about relationships and gender dynamics in India versus the West. They tackle the pressing question: Can traditional family values and gender roles survive in an era of modern feminism and shifting cultural norms? This cross-cultural episode takes you on a thought-provoking journey through marriage, dating, femininity, masculinity, and how India compares to the US. 🌟Here's what to keep an ear out for in this episode: How the rise of feminism in India is impacting gender roles and family structures. The differences between traditional Indian and Western views on masculinity. Do Indian women still highly value motherhood and homemaking? How does the modern dating culture in India compare to the state of Western dating? Why Silawath believes men need to "man up" and provide for their families. Sarah and Adam's perspectives on what women vs men really want in relationships. Listening will broaden your cultural awareness and help you reflect on shifting gender dynamics around the world. You'll come away with a nuanced understanding of how traditional values are evolving in the face of modern feminism. If you liked this episode, you will probably enjoy this one too: https://youtu.be/VYpZVZIamZosi=pH1ZDojh8TuG5JsQ A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more: -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “Silawath Irshad” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:      https://silawathirshad.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/silawath_irshad/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/silawathirshad/ Linkedin:    https://in.linkedin.com/in/silawathirshad Twitter:       https://twitter.com/silawathirshad -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home   Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
The Terrifying Impact of Social Media on Modern Relationships | Ep15 | I Wish You Knew
Feb 16 2024
The Terrifying Impact of Social Media on Modern Relationships | Ep15 | I Wish You Knew
🎙️ Welcome back to another episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast! This week Adam and Sarah are sitting down with digital media expert Matt Daley to dissect the evolving landscape of dating and relationships in our digital age. Matt Daley is a distinguished digital media expert with a deep understanding of the intricate ways in which digital landscapes shape our social interactions, particularly in the realm of dating and relationships (he’s also one of this podcast’s favorite people). This episode courageously confronts the difficult questions surrounding the impact of digital media on traditional dating practices, the rise of platforms like OnlyFans, and the generational shifts in how relationships are formed and perceived today. 🌟Here's what to keep an ear out for in this episode:   The significant influence of digital media on conventional dating and relationship norms.Insights from Matt Daley on the role of social media in shaping our views on romance.The contentious nature of dating apps and their contribution to a culture of endless choices, diminishing the value of deep, meaningful connections.A nuanced look at OnlyFans and its controversial yet complex role in redefining modern relationships and societal standards.The unique challenges and opportunities Gen Z faces in navigating love and relationships amidst the digital revolution.The potential of digital media to drive positive transformations in personal relationships, despite notable challenges.Effective strategies for managing the intricacies of love in the era of social media, with an emphasis on the critical role of communication and understanding. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to check out our episode about Dating Games: https://youtu.be/QCDIUq573B4?si=Me_V3nF7ikwBW5Jo   Go follow Matt on instagram: @matt__daley    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com  -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more:   -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home   Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Is Getting Married Riskier Than Ever Before? These Statistics will SHOCK you!! Ep14 I Wish You Knew Podcast
Feb 9 2024
Is Getting Married Riskier Than Ever Before? These Statistics will SHOCK you!! Ep14 I Wish You Knew Podcast
🎙️ Welcome back to another contentious episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast! Today, Adam and Sarah engage in a riveting debate that might just change the way you view traditional relationships and marriage in our modern world. They tackle the pressing question: Do traditional relationships still have a place in today’s rapidly evolving society? This episode takes you on a journey through the complexities of dating, the legal entanglements of marriage, and the modern skepticism towards traditional marital commitments.   🌟Here's what to keep an ear out for in this episode:   The relevance of traditional relationships and marriage in modern societyThe impact of online dating and social media on our views towards love and commitmentThe legal and financial implications of marriage, especially concerning men's fears.The role of prenuptial agreements in securing one's financial future.How attachment theory and childhood experiences influence our adult relationships.The potential for reforming the institution of marriage to better fit contemporary values.Strategies for navigating the dating world while upholding or questioning traditional values.The importance of communication, understanding attachment styles, and premarital education in fostering healthier relationships. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to check out out episode about Dating Games : https://youtu.be/QCDIUq573B4?si=Me_V3nF7ikwBW5Jo A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel and Be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more:   Follow “I Wish You Knew”: ------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: ------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   ------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore   Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Psychotherapist reveals Hidden Impact of Childhood Attachment on Your Love Life | Ep13 | I Wish You Knew
Feb 2 2024
Psychotherapist reveals Hidden Impact of Childhood Attachment on Your Love Life | Ep13 | I Wish You Knew
🎙️ Welcome back to another episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast! Today Adam and Sarah sit down with Jessica Baum to dive into the neurobiology behind attachment, how our childhood serves as a blueprint for how we connect and how it affects our relationships in adulthood. It all boils down to our nervous system. Becoming an observer of our nervous system will help us form more secure and stable relationships.    🌟Here’s what to look out for in the episode:   Why are we attracted to the familiar?Why do we choose people that are bad for us?How can we identify our attachment wounds?Why do we replay our childhood trauma in our adult relationships? How do our early developmental attachment issues change our nervous system and affect our ability to connect? What makes the anxious-avoidant relationship such a magnetic attraction?How do we become observers of our nervous system?How to choose the right partner and steer the relationship at a healthy pace? If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to check out out episode about Dating Games : https://youtu.be/QCDIUq573B4?si=Me_V3nF7ikwBW5Jo A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel and Be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com    Follow Jessica Baum: ------------------------------------- Website: https://www.beselffull.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/?hl=en Jessica’s Book “Anxiously Attached”: Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more:   Follow “I Wish You Knew”: ------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: ------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   ------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore   Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
High Value Woman Mindset: OnlyFans Model vs Trad Wife?  | Ep12 | I Wish You Knew
Jan 26 2024
High Value Woman Mindset: OnlyFans Model vs Trad Wife? | Ep12 | I Wish You Knew
🎙️ Welcome back to another episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast! Today Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore dive into a heated and enlightening debate about "What Makes a High-Value Woman." This topic has sparked numerous off-camera discussions between Adam and Sarah, and now they're bringing their debate to you!    In this episode, Adam and Sarah explore the nuances of what constitutes a high-value woman in today's society. They challenge common misconceptions and delve into the differences between intrinsic value and societal expectations. The discussion covers a range of topics, including: The distinction between seeking validation and genuine self-worthThe impact of societal norms on men's perception of valueHow we can cultivate genuine confidence and emotional intelligenceThe importance of understanding and respecting women's perspectives   Sarah shares her unique insights on the topic, emphasizing the importance of men developing relationship competencies and understanding what women truly value in a partner. Adam, drawing from his experience and coaching background, offers practical advice for men striving to improve their self-esteem and relationship skills.   🌟 Key Discussion Points: Redefining high value in women beyond superficial standardsThe role of emotional intelligence in relationshipsBalancing self-confidence with genuine vulnerabilityNavigating the complexities of modern dating and relationships   If you're a man looking to enhance your understanding of what it means to be high-value in today's world, or if you're anyone interested in the dynamics of modern relationships, this episode is a must-listen. Join Adam and Sarah as they provide a balanced perspective, combining humor with deep, meaningful advice.   If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to check out out episode about Double Standards, it’s a real bombshell: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pgsSOU_7q4o    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel and Be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more: Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore   Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Google Executive Reveals The Happiness Algorithm: Discover The Secret | Ep11 | I Wish You Knew
Jan 19 2024
Google Executive Reveals The Happiness Algorithm: Discover The Secret | Ep11 | I Wish You Knew
On this week's "I Wish You Knew" Podcast, join hosts Sarah Dawn Moore and Adam Lane Smith for a conversation on modern dating and relationships. Our special guest, Mohammad "Mo" Gawdat, former Chief Business Officer for Google X and acclaimed author of "Solve for Happy" and "Scary Smart," brings a unique blend of technological insight and personal wisdom to the discussion. Key Discussion Points: Insights from a Tech Visionary: Mo Gawdat shares his experiences from Google X and how technology impacts relationships.The Pursuit of Happiness: Drawing from his book "Solve for Happy," Gawdat discusses finding joy in dating and relationships.Understanding Gender Dynamics: Exploring how men and women approach dating differently.Effective Communication Strategies: Tips for clear and honest communication in relationships.Self-Discovery in Dating: The importance of understanding oneself for healthier relationships.Vulnerability and Openness: The power and importance of being genuine in romantic interactions.Balancing Individuality and Partnership: How to maintain personal identity while building a relationship.Challenging Relationship Myths: Debunking common misconceptions about love and dating.Navigating Dating Burnout: Keeping a positive outlook in the search for love.Transitioning from Casual to Committed: Guidance on evolving a relationship with grace and wisdom.Don't miss this compelling episode, where technology meets the human heart. Share your thoughts, engage in the conversation in the comments, and remember to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more insightful episodes. Dive into the complexities of modern love with us! If you liked this episode we know you will love our conversation about The DESTRUCTIVE Behaviors That Are RUINING Modern Dating :  https://youtu.be/ORcMV0_mvT0   A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more: Follow Mo Gawdat: Website: https://www.mogawdat.com/ Youtube and Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@MoGawdatOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mo_gawdat/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mogawdat/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Mo.Gawdat.Official/ Slo Mo Podcast Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/slo-mo-a-podcast-with-mo-gawdat/id1508914142 Slo Mo Podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1yHTbJUlDYl5E0LhEYcn8I  Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore   Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.  Thanks for Watching.
Destructive, Millennial, Behaviors That Are RUINING Modern Dating | Ep10  | I Wish You Knew
Jan 12 2024
Destructive, Millennial, Behaviors That Are RUINING Modern Dating | Ep10 | I Wish You Knew
On this week’s episode of the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore discuss the complexities of modern dating. They share expert insights and practical advice, making this episode essential for anyone navigating the intricate world of dating and relationships. Key Discussion Points: Modern Dating Landscape: Exploring the current state of dating and its challenges.Navigating Dating Dynamics: Strategies for both men and women to find love without getting hurt.The Role of Honesty and Games in Dating: Discussing the importance of being upfront and genuine.Gender-Specific Dating Challenges: Unique concerns faced by men and women in the dating scene.The Importance of Reciprocation: Understanding the balance of giving and receiving in relationships.Online Dating Insights: How to effectively use dating apps and profiles.Dealing with Rejection and Investment: Managing expectations and emotional investment in dating.Courting and Communication: Reviving traditional courting methods and effective communication.Storytelling in Dating: The power of sharing personal stories and experiences.Building Confidence and Charisma: Essential skills for a successful dating experience.Attachment Styles in Relationships: Understanding your attachment style for better relationship dynamics.Healing from Past Relationships: Learning to move past previous hurts and embrace healthy relationships.   Join the conversation by tuning in and sharing your thoughts with us in the comments section.  Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit that notification bell to stay updated on our latest episodes. We can't wait to explore these complexities with you!   If you liked this episode we know you will love our conversation about Why Millennial Relationships Are Plagued By NARCISSISTS here   A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more: Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore   Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Why NARCISSISTS Plague Millennial Relationships  | Ep 9 | I Wish You Knew
Jan 4 2024
Why NARCISSISTS Plague Millennial Relationships | Ep 9 | I Wish You Knew
On this week’s episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, hosts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore dive headfirst into the intricate world of narcissism, relationships, and self-reflection. Key Discussion Points Include: The distinction between narcissistic traits and true narcissism from a clinical perspective.The rampant use of the term "narcissist" in today's digital age and the consequences of overusing it.Unpacking the reasons why victims of narcissism may exhibit narcissistic tendencies themselves.Attachment styles and generational patterns that influence our relationships.The impact of social media on modern dating, including the shaping of public perception and its effect on personal interactions.Exploring the myths surrounding male sexuality and the societal norms that contribute to these misconceptions.Challenging societal norms and the concept of female entitlement in relationships.Strategies for navigating rejection and approach in dating, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and communication.Identifying and fostering healthy relationship dynamics, with a focus on mutual respect, understanding, and growth.Empowering men in the dating scene to stand up against unfair standards and expectations. Join the conversation by tuning in and sharing your thoughts with us, you can find us here: https://linktr.ee/iwishyouknewpodcast Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit that notification bell to stay updated on our latest episodes. We can't wait to explore these complexities with you!   If you liked this episode we know you will love our conversation about double standards, click here!   A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more: Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore   Next episode drops Thursday :)
Debunking Dating Double Standards | Ep 8 | I Wish You Knew
Dec 29 2023
Debunking Dating Double Standards | Ep 8 | I Wish You Knew
On this week’s episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, hosts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore take a deep dive into the convoluted world of modern dating, exploring the double standards and hidden truths that often make navigating relationships a complex endeavor. They discuss the unexpected and sometimes shocking realities that both men and women face in the dating scene today. Key Discussion Points Include: The pervasive double standards in modern dating, where behaviors and expectations often differ drastically between genders.How societal norms and misconceptions about masculinity and femininity can lead to unfair expectations and experiences in dating.The impact of social media and online platforms in shaping modern dating narratives, including the rise of viral trends that can perpetuate negative stereotypes.Insights into the emotional and psychological challenges men face in dating, addressing issues like rejection, the pressure to conform to certain standards, and dealing with unfair labels.Strategies for both men and women to navigate these challenges with empathy, understanding, and respect for each other's experiences.Real-life examples and stories from Adam and Sarah's coaching experiences, highlighting the common issues their clients face in the dating world.Advice for listeners on how to approach dating with a healthier mindset, fostering relationships based on mutual respect, communication, and understanding. This episode is an amazing discussion for anyone interested in understanding the complexities of modern dating. Adam and Sarah's insights provide valuable perspectives for both men and women, encouraging a more empathetic and balanced approach to finding love and building meaningful relationships. If you liked this episode we know you will love our conversation with Zuby:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYpZVZIamZo&t=1976s&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel and Be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more: Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore
Our WORST Dating Stories - Relationship Coaches Speak Out | Ep 7
Dec 22 2023
Our WORST Dating Stories - Relationship Coaches Speak Out | Ep 7
On this week's episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, Sarah Dawn Moore and Adam Lane Smith engage in a discussion about their experiences as relationship coaches. This episode offers a unique, behind-the-scenes look at what it's like when coaches share their insights and advice. Sarah and Adam open up about some of the most challenging cases they have encountered, delving into stories of clients struggling with relationship issues. The conversation takes an intense turn as they discuss scenarios where clients have faced significant difficulties in their love lives, from struggling to move past a first date to dealing with emotionally unavailable partners. Key discussion points include: The challenges faced by men in dating, especially those who either overwhelm their dates or attract partners who aren't emotionally available.Strategies to help clients who are workaholics or who have difficulties expressing their emotions in relationships.The impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, particularly the role of parental figures in shaping one’s approach to love and intimacy.The journey of helping clients transition from superficial attraction to deeper, more meaningful connections.The process of guiding clients through understanding and breaking their destructive relationship patterns. This episode is a must-listen for anyone in the modern dating scene. Understanding that the difficulties you are going through are also shared by many others who struggle to find a partner, love and relationships. Sarah and Adam not only share their professional experiences but also offer insights and tips that listeners can apply to their own lives. If you liked this episode we know you will love our conversation with Zuby:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYpZVZIamZo&t=1976s&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel and Be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more:   Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore   Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.  Thanks for listening.
The Secrets That Men Keep - With Elise Michaels | Ep 6 | I Wish You Knew
Dec 14 2023
The Secrets That Men Keep - With Elise Michaels | Ep 6 | I Wish You Knew
On this week's episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, Adam and Sarah sit down with Elise Michaels, a Men’s Dating and Relationship coach. Together, they have an insightful conversation about men's mental health, childhood wounds, masculinity, and healthy relationships. Elise shares her perspective as a woman working with men in this space. She offers advice for men on attracting fulfilling relationships, avoiding common dating pitfalls, and becoming the best version of themselves.    They discuss the importance of men embracing vulnerability and working through "mother wounds" and "father wounds" from childhood in order to build intimacy. Adam provides tips for men on expressing emotions authentically and creating fulfillment in dating, business, and family life. They challenge notions of modern day feminism and encourage men to have confidence in their masculinity.   Look out for the conversation around: The impact of childhood wounds on men's relationshipsWhy many successful men feel unfulfilledWhat healthy masculine energy looks likeRed flags when dating womenCreating space in your life for a partnerUnderstanding what real chemistry and attraction means   If you're a man looking to transform your dating and relationship success, this conversation offers some great insights. Elise and Sarah provide the female perspective on what confidence looks like in a man, while Adam shares actionable emotional skills.   If you liked this episode we know you will love our conversation with Zuby:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYpZVZIamZo&t=1976s&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel and Be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more:   Follow the Elise Michaels: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.elisemicheals.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@EliseMicheals  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elisemicheals_/?hl=en  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheEliseMicheals/  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/discover/elise-michaels  Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore   Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Authentic Masculinity: a New Way With Zuby - Ep 5 | I Wish You Knew Podcast
Dec 8 2023
Authentic Masculinity: a New Way With Zuby - Ep 5 | I Wish You Knew Podcast
In this week's episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, hosts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore delve into the complexities of modern masculinity with their special guest, Zuby. As a British rapper, author, speaker, and podcast host, Zuby brings a unique blend of personal and professional experiences, shaped by his diverse background and global perspective. In this episode, Zuby explores the current crisis of masculinity in Western societies, dissecting the challenges and misconceptions surrounding traditional and contemporary male roles. He shares insights from his life journey, including his upbringing in Saudi Arabia, education at Oxford University, and his evolution as an independent artist and thought leader. The conversation covers a wide range of topics, including: The impact of cultural diversity on Zuby’s understanding of masculinity.The role of family, faith, and personal values in shaping a healthy masculine identity.The paradox of choice in modern society and its effects on gender dynamics.Debunking myths around masculinity, feminism, and societal expectations.Practical advice for men and women to navigate contemporary challenges in relationships and self-development. Zuby also discusses his book, "Strong Advice: Zuby's Guide to Fitness for Everybody," emphasizing the importance of physical fitness in personal empowerment and self-discipline. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of masculinity in today's world and looking for ways to navigate its complexities with wisdom and authenticity.   ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, feel and be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------  If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more: -------------------------------------------------- Follow Zuby:  -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://teamzuby.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ZubyMusic  Twitter: https://twitter.com/zubymusic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zubymusic/ Zuby’s Music: https://www.zubymusic.com/ -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809   -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro   -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
Those Dating Games You Shouldn’t Play - Ep 4 | I Wish You Knew Podcast
Dec 1 2023
Those Dating Games You Shouldn’t Play - Ep 4 | I Wish You Knew Podcast
In this week's episode of the I Wish You Knew Podcast, Adam and Sarah debunk some of the worst dating advice on the internet. They tackle myths around the friend zone, having sex early in the relationship, dating successful women, being "good enough" in bed, and more.   Topics covered include: Why the "friend zone" has NOTHING to do with being her friendAdam gives us a Quick Refresh on Attachment StylesDo women judge you solely based on your sexual skills and prowess? The answer will surprise you…Will a successful woman leave you if you don't make as much money? The Lioness Model.Should women "just be fine" with men demanding nudes and watching porn?What, How, Why, When of Sex   Adam and Sarah don't hold back on calling out manipulative dating tactics and poor advice that only works in the short term or on damaged people. Stick around to hear healthy perspectives on building authentic connections, healing past hurts, and taking the right steps towards building the romance of your life ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, feel and be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more:   Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809   -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro   -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.   #relationshippodcast #bustingdatingmyths #datingmyths #relationshipadvice