Modern Mom Probs

Tara Clark, Bleav

Join Tara Clark, author and creator of Instagram’s Modern Mom Probs, as she and her guests tackle the modern parenting challenges you face every day. Each week, Tara and her guests discuss a modern mom problem in a conversation that is more like a chat with your best friends than just a typical podcast. She dives into topics such as maternal mental health, working mothers, social media use, co-parenting, and more. This funny, relatable “oh yeah, me too” show offers actionable solutions to today’s parenting problems. read less
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Episodes

Exploring The Sicilian Inheritance with Jo Piazza
Apr 2 2024
Exploring The Sicilian Inheritance with Jo Piazza
In this episode, best-selling author, podcaster and award-winning journalist Jo Piazza discusses her upcoming trip to Sicily to solve the murder of her great great grandmother, which inspired her book 'The Sicilian Inheritance'. She shares the challenges of investigating in Sicily, including the bureaucracy and the influence of the mafia. Jo also talks about the themes in her book, such as women's ambition, motherhood, and the support of other women. The conversation highlights the importance of enjoying food and the role of food in the book and in Italian culture. This entertaining convo amongst friends provides insights into Jo's real-life true crime adventure and the inspiration behind her novel.  Jo discusses her motivation for writing 'Sicilian Inheritance' and her desire to honor Lorenza Marsala's life. She emphasizes the importance of celebrating women's lives rather than focusing solely on their deaths. Jo also shares her excitement for the release of the book and the representation it offers to Italian-American women. As a Sicilian-American, Tara expresses her excitement for such representation.  The pair touch on the lack of Italian-American representation in historical fiction and the need for more stories centered around strong Italian-American women. If you love true crime, Italian culture, and badass women, listen to this episode! Links: https://www.jopiazza.com/ https://www.instagram.com/jopiazzaauthor/ https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-sicilian-inheritance-jo-piazza/20266161
Underestimated: The Wisdom and Power of Teenage Girls with Chelsey Goodan
Feb 27 2024
Underestimated: The Wisdom and Power of Teenage Girls with Chelsey Goodan
In this conversation, Chelsey Goodan discusses her book 'Underestimated: The Wisdom and Power of Teenage Girls' and the importance of empowering and supporting teenage girls. She highlights the societal pressure on girls to be perfect and likable, and the need for adults to create safe spaces for girls to explore their identities. Chelsey emphasizes the role of curiosity and non-judgment in building trust and opening up conversations with teenage girls. She also addresses the challenges of social media and the importance of media literacy in navigating its impact. Overall, the conversation explores ways to empower and uplift teenage girls in a society that often underestimates them. Takeaways: Teenage girls are often underestimated and face societal pressure to be perfect and likable. Building trust and creating safe spaces for girls to open up is crucial in empowering them. Curiosity and non-judgment are key in engaging in meaningful conversations with teenagers. Parents and adults can support teenagers by listening, reflecting, and encouraging self-exploration. Links: https://www.chelseygoodan.com/ https://www.instagram.com/ChelseyGoodan/ https://www.modernmommydoc.com/ https://www.modernmommydoc.com/doing-it-all/ https://www.instagram.com/modernmommydoc https://www.instagram.com/modernmommydoc Support The Show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobsPick up my bookCheck out ModernmomprobsShout out to Citizens of SoundLeave a review
How to Stop Over-functioning, and Become the Person You’re Meant to Be with Dr. Whitney Casares
Feb 20 2024
How to Stop Over-functioning, and Become the Person You’re Meant to Be with Dr. Whitney Casares
In this conversation, Dr. Whitney Casares, pediatrician and founder of Modern Mommy Doc and Tara discuss strategies for setting your day up for success, finding the right time to exercise, and balancing workouts with daily tasks. They also explore the importance of scheduling tasks and prioritizing, defining your priorities, and exploring new hobbies and interests. One of the most enlightening discussions revolved around "center points," which Dr. Casares defines as the five key areas in a person's life that bring joy and fulfillment. Identifying these center points is crucial, and the exercises in her book guide readers through this process. The conversation concludes with a discussion on having conversations with your partner, practicing compassionate assertiveness, and maintaining accountability. Dr. Whitney's book, 'Doing It All: Stop Overfunctioning and Become the Mom and Person You Are Meant to Be,' provides further insights and strategies for achieving a centered life.TakeawaysSet your day up for success by finding a routine that works for you and prioritizing rest and self-care.Don't feel pressured to be a morning person if it doesn't align with your natural energy levels and preferences.Schedule tasks and prioritize based on your values and what matters most to you.Explore new hobbies and interests that bring you joy and help you expand your horizons.Practice compassionate assertiveness when having conversations with your partner about sharing responsibilities and maintaining accountability.Links:https://www.modernmommydoc.com/https://www.modernmommydoc.com/doing-it-allhttps://www.instagram.com/modernmommydocSupport the showFollow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review
How to Avoid Getting Trapped in the Martyr Role in Motherhood with JoAnn Crohn
Jan 30 2024
How to Avoid Getting Trapped in the Martyr Role in Motherhood with JoAnn Crohn
JoAnn Crohn, a parenting educator and host of the popular No Guilt Mom podcast joins the show to share her perspective on the complexities of modern parenting.Joann opens up about her battle with postpartum depression. It's a struggle many mothers face but often suffer through in silence. Joann's experience underscores a crucial message: being the best parent is intrinsically linked to being the best version of oneself. It's a reminder that self-care isn't selfish; it's essential.Tara shares her own experiences of feeling trapped in the martyr role as a mother. It's a common narrative where moms are expected to sacrifice everything for their families, often at the expense of their own dreams and well-being. JoAnn and Tara discuss how societal influences reinforce this role and the conscious effort required to shift these dynamics within our families. The concept of being a "no guilt mom" is about finding harmony between personal fulfillment and parenting responsibilities.This conversation is a deep dive into the challenges faced by modern moms and the importance of reevaluating and releasing unrealistic expectations. It's about prioritizing well-being and embracing the freedom to be the best version of ourselves—for us and for our families.Links:https://www.instagram.com/noguiltmomhttps://www.facebook.com/noguiltmomhttps://www.noguiltmom.comSupport the showFollow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review
How to Get "Unstuck" Both Spiritually and Professionally with Elizabeth Pearson
Jan 16 2024
How to Get "Unstuck" Both Spiritually and Professionally with Elizabeth Pearson
In this episode, Tara speaks with Elizabeth Pearson, a former corporate sales leader turned executive coach, and author of "Career Confinement." Elizabeth's story is one of transformation, courage, and the pursuit of fulfillment beyond the conventional path. She shares her story of feeling unfulfilled in her corporate job and how she found purpose in helping women break free from their self-imposed cages of mediocrity and rise to their full potential.Elizabeth shares her belief in the intertwining of spirituality and career fulfillment. She speaks about feeling spiritually bankrupt in her corporate role and how making a pivot in her career path allowed her to find more meaning and freedom. This is a concept that might seem foreign to some, but Elizabeth insists that our professional lives and spiritual well-being are not mutually exclusive. In fact, they are deeply connected.One of the most significant barriers that modern moms face is the relentless self-judgment and criticism that we impose on ourselves. Elizabeth's message is clear: the cages we find ourselves in are often of our own making, and the doors are never truly locked. By challenging our scarcity mindset and survival brain, we can open ourselves up to new possibilities. She suggests seeking therapy, exploring holistic practices, and breaking routine patterns as ways to shift our mindset and embrace the freedom we deserve.This conversation is a reminder of the power of our inner voice and the importance of honoring it. Whether it's a dream deferred or a nagging feeling that there's more to life, it's never too late to make a change. Remember, the journey to fulfillment is not just about the destination but about the growth and discovery along the way.If you ever felt stuck both personally and professionally,  listen to this episode!Links:elizabethpearson.comhttp://linkedin.com/in/elizabeth-pearson-1901192http://instagram.com/coach.elizabeth.pearsonhttp://tiktok.com/coachelizabethpearsonhttp://www.youtube.com/@coachelizabethpearsonhttps://a.co/d/fBrAY9R Support the showFollow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review
Put an End to Mom Guilt and Burnout in 10 minutes a Day with Dr. Maggie Vaughan
Jan 9 2024
Put an End to Mom Guilt and Burnout in 10 minutes a Day with Dr. Maggie Vaughan
In this episode, Tara welcomes Dr. Maggie Vaughan, award-winning Psychotherapist and head of youth transformation at tapouts. Their discussion delves into the pervasive issues of mom guilt and burnout, offering strategies and insights invaluable to modern moms.Dr. Vaughan explores the impact of intensive parenting trends, which have placed an immense burden on mothers. The societal expectation that a mother's constant engagement is directly proportional to her child's success has led to an epidemic of stress and burnout. Mothers are feeling the pressure to dedicate every waking moment to their children, often at the expense of their own well-being.She advises them to prioritize quality engagement with their children over quantity, suggesting that even ten minutes of focused time can significantly impact a child's development. This approach fosters secure attachments and nurtures independent, confident, and resilient children. She also emphasizes the necessity of self-care for mothers. It's crucial to recognize that children need well-adjusted parents. Sacrificing sleep, leisure time, and support to spend every moment with our kids can lead to exhaustion and stress that ultimately trickles down to them.Dr. Vaughan highlights the benefits of seeking support, whether from family, friends, or programs like tapouts. tapouts offers life skills coaching that can alleviate some of the pressures of parenting, helping children learn critical life skills that benefit the entire family unit. Both Tara and Dr. Vaughan share personal experiences with the program and praise tapouts for its positive reinforcement and fun learning environment.If you want to put an end to mom guilt and help your children thrive, listen to this episode!Links:Links:https://tapouts.com/landing?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=banner&utm_campaign=taramodernmomprops&utm_content=taraxmaggies-hownoteshttps://www.instagram.com/tapoutsapp/https://www.facebook.com/tapoutsapp/Try tapouts for yourself with a free first trial session. If you love it, you can get 50% off the first month with code TARA50.Support the showFollow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review