The Crabby Pastor

Rev. Dr. Margie Bryce

Nowhere in Scripture do we find the story of Jesus rushing to Bethany like a maniac. Yet, far too often, we see dedicated ministry leaders embracing a lifestyle that leads to disillusionment and burnout. Welcome to our podcast, where we champion the art of nurturing a self-care mindset alongside a transformative kenotic leadership style. It's not about denominations; it's a profound spiritual journey! Join us for a candid conversation as we explore how you can consciously refocus and realign your life to cultivate a sustainable, thriving lifestyle. After all, if you don't, you might just find yourself becoming... The CRABBY Pastor.

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115: A Chat about "Calling" in this Transitional Era for the Church
4d ago
115: A Chat about "Calling" in this Transitional Era for the Church
I'm exploring the essence of what it means to be 'called' in this Transitional era for the Church. God is calling us to follow Jesus wholeheartedly into 'new things' which means emergence of ministries that are both within and outside the conventional framework. I share my insights into how these shifts demand a renewed focus on holistic self-care and call for a missional approach to ministry, tapping into the unique gifts of congregations to serve communities earnestly and effectively.Join me as we navigate these transformative concepts together, seeking paths to ensure that we—ministry leaders—can nurture our spiritual and emotional health while passionately serving others in new ways.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
114: Balancing Praise with Humility
May 22 2024
114: Balancing Praise with Humility
Humility: once you think you have it, you actually don't. That's the challenge of this basic Christian virtue. Today's conversation is with Dr. Dennis Edwards, the brilliant mind behind the book Humility Illuminated: the biblical path back  to Christian character, to help us tackle this complex virtue. As your host, Margie Bryce, I get personal about my own experiences leading with humility. It's a journey sprinkled with trials and victories, from the difficulties of relying on the generosity of others to the constant comparisons with larger ministries that can cloud our perspective. Dr. Edwards and I shed light on the importance of being a welcoming community leader, one who listens earnestly and serves with the resources at hand. Our conversation journeys into the heart of humility in community service, valuing collaboration over competition and celebrating the unique gifts each congregation brings to the table.CLICK HERE FOR THE BOOK ON HUMILITY. Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
113: Back from Burnout: Josh Curtiss' story
May 15 2024
113: Back from Burnout: Josh Curtiss' story
Are you the leader who's constantly putting out fires and juggling the demands of ministry, barely pausing to catch your breath?  Join me and Josh Curtiss for an honest conversation about recognizing the tell-tale signs of burnout, the necessity of self-awareness, and the dangers of becoming that crabby pastor nobody wants to invite for coffee.The thrill of change is undeniable, but so is its ability to drain your batteries. We're tackling the need for balance—how to embrace change without sacrificing your well-being. As Josh and I share from our experiences, we discuss the importance of time off, the pitfalls of trying to revert to 'business as usual' post-pandemic, and the rejuvenating power of rest. Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
111: Final Thoughts Clergy Need to Know about Trauma
May 1 2024
111: Final Thoughts Clergy Need to Know about Trauma
Discover the power of perspective in this transformative discussion with Kristen Humiston, as we peel back the layers of trauma experienced within the church. Together, we challenge the conventional approach of questioning what's wrong with individuals, pivoting instead to exploring the pivotal events that have shaped them. We dissect the crucial role of self-care for pastors, emphasizing the necessity for leaders to be equipped with empathy and insight—to not only heal others effectively but to sustain their own spiritual journey.This leads our conversation to include lament: an undervalued treasure in evangelical circles. This potent path helps us heal from deep-seated pain. Join us for an episode that promises to leave you with an enriched understanding and tangible resources to support the unseen battles within your congregation.Connect with Kristen by clicking HERE.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
110: More on Clergy and Trauma, Part 2 of 3
Apr 24 2024
110: More on Clergy and Trauma, Part 2 of 3
What is wrong with those sheep, anyway? My guest, Kristen Humiston, and I unpack that topic, and find a surprising link: our own trauma. Sure, it's easy to say we are all broken, but exploring our brokenness to become wounded healers is a different sort of journey. Listen as we discuss the unexpected ways in which our scars can equip us to lead with profound compassion and authenticity. Embarking on a path to self-awareness is no solitary endeavor, especially for those shepherding faith communities. Kristen and I explore the importance of recognizing the patterns that tether us to our past, how to bravely step towards change, and the necessity of having a sanctuary for reflection. Connect with Kristen by clicking HERE.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
109: Clergy and Trauma, Part 1 of 3
Apr 17 2024
109: Clergy and Trauma, Part 1 of 3
When the calling you've devoted your heart to is stripped away, where do you turn? This episode features the courageous Kristen Humiston, who opens up about the often-concealed traumas of ministry leadership. Have you or anyone you know experienced forced termination and the trauma that it induced? Then this episode is for them, and YOU! This is part one of three conversations with Kristen where we delve deeper into trauma. that not only challenges the soul but also questions the essence of self-worth and divine connection within the sacred space of the church.The episode culminates with a powerful message for ministry leaders and anyone on the journey to recovery: emotional expression and patterned, safe relationships are the keystones to rebuilding trust and reclaiming a life of resilience and hope. Join us in this profound exploration, where we provide a beacon of light for those navigating through the darkest of times.Connect with Kristen by clicking HERE.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
108: Defining Sanctuary for Faith Communities
Apr 10 2024
108: Defining Sanctuary for Faith Communities
Imagine stepping into a sanctuary that's as safe and nurturing as it is spiritually enriching – this is the future we're fashioning today on the Crabby Pastor podcast. I'm Margie Bryce, and alongside former private investigator Lori Morrison, we're ripping off the veil on the urgent need for secure church environments. Through Lori's unique lens, we grasp the tangible steps we can take to transform our worship spaces into bastions of safety that guard not only our physical well-being but also our emotional and spiritual lives. Together, we address the erosion of trust in religious institutions and prescribe actionable strategies to help churches rise as sanctuaries for seekers and believers alike.Our conversation covers a lot of ground including the rise of sex trafficking preying on our youth.  We also shed light on the disturbing fact that sex offenders often target religious communities due to their forgiving nature, as highlighted by psychologist Dr. Anna Salter's research. Our discussion is an essential guide to redefining love and freedom in a manner that shields our fledgling population.Remember: burnout is an issue! Get your burnout questionnaire by going to my website!Connections to Lori:https://www.facebook.com/theUnlovelyTruthhttps://www.instagram.com/theunlovelytruthpodcast/https://www.linkedin.com/in/theunlovelytruth/Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
107: A Pastor's Guide to Religious Scrupulosity
Apr 2 2024
107: A Pastor's Guide to Religious Scrupulosity
This week on the Crabby Pastor podcast, I’m thrilled to have Debra Peck, author of "The Hijacked Conscience," join us to illuminate the often misunderstood world of religious scrupulosity. Debra opens up about her personal battle with this form of OCD that entangles fear, sin, and relentless spiritual rituals. Together, we dissect the complexities of this condition, aiming to equip pastors and counselors with the knowledge to provide empathetic and informed support. Imagine feeling trapped in a cycle of doubt and ritual, a relentless quest for spiritual assurance that never comes. This episode delves into the heart of such struggles, examining the fine line where fervent faith meets mental health challenges. It’s a candid exploration of the relationship between faith, doubt, and the human psyche, offering solace to those yearning for certainty in their divine relationship.This conversation is more than just an exploration of religious scrupulosity; it’s a lifeline for leaders seeking to maintain their well-being to serve their congregations effectively. Tune in for an episode that promises guidance, hope, and understanding for anyone touched by the delicate interplay of faith and mental health.Here is a link to her book: CLICK HERESupport the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
106: Food, Glorious Food and Sustainable Weight Strategies for Ministry Leaders
Mar 26 2024
106: Food, Glorious Food and Sustainable Weight Strategies for Ministry Leaders
Let's peel back the curtain of battles with diets from Atkins to Weight Watchers, and I'll share how I learned to navigate the emotional minefields that can sabotage our healthiest intentions. This episode isn't just about what you eat, it's about the challenges we face with food.  I'll share how adapting your weight management approach to fit your lifestyle is more effective than chasing the latest diet fads. From the debate over how often to step on the scale to the benefits of tracking your diet and exercise with the latest tech, I'll chat about the choices that can keep you focused on good health so you can go the distance with God. Join me as we tackle these topics and more, all while supporting each other in our quest for a balanced life in service and beyond.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
105: A nail-biter realization about how we work
Mar 19 2024
105: A nail-biter realization about how we work
Here's a unique metaphor for HOW we work in our vocations. Join me, Margie Bryce, on a journey to harmonize the scattered shards of our personal and professional lives, just like crafting a stained glass masterpiece. The silent predator of burnout lurks in the shadows of our demanding roles, which is why this episode features a vital burnout questionnaire to help you self-assess and remain vigilant. Reflecting on my own decision to step back from pastoral ministry, I opened up about the path that led me to become a coach for others walking a similar journey. We'll discuss the importance of self-awareness and the implementation of healthy self-care practices, aimed at preserving the passion that fuels our service without being consumed by it. If you're a ministry leader seeking to keep your inner flame alive, this conversation is a beacon in the night, guiding you toward sustainable care for yourself as you care for others.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
104: The Post-COVID world: deconstruction
Mar 12 2024
104: The Post-COVID world: deconstruction
Join Margie Bryce and special guest Michael Bischoff from Soul Leader on The Crabby Pastor podcast as they explore the delicate balance of ministry and self-care. They discuss the transformative process of faith deconstruction, likening it to a messy yet rewarding kitchen renovation. One way to become more resilient can be through questioning and owning our faith. The episode also addresses the crisis of immaturity of faith in North American Christianity and offers practical strategies for recognizing and preventing burnout in ministry. Tune in for inspiring insights on leading with grace and nurturing a thriving ministry.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
103: Thriving in Faith Leadership Beyond the Shadow of Depression
Feb 27 2024
103: Thriving in Faith Leadership Beyond the Shadow of Depression
Join podcast host Margie Bryce and special guest Michael Bischoff from Soul Leader Resources as they delve into the art of constructing a sustainable life in ministry. In this enlightening discussion, Margie and Michael explore the beauty of self-care and the vital importance of integrating sustainability into our vocational callings. Michael bravely shares his personal journey battling depression, offering a beacon of hope to fellow leaders navigating the complexities of holistic wellness in the wake of COVID-19.Experience the raw honesty of midnight anxieties and the suffocating grip of depression as we candidly address the unseen struggles endured by many spiritual leaders. Together, we explore the crucial roles of therapists, support groups, and trusted 'soul friends' in navigating these turbulent waters. Additionally, we uncover the unexpected sanctuary found in coaching, offering valuable guidance to leaders grappling with life's relentless pressures.As we draw this poignant series to a close, the focus shifts to the essential pillars of self-care that safeguard against the looming threat of burnout. Margie shares invaluable resources such as a burnout questionnaire and her unwavering commitment to coaching, and empowering leaders to cultivate sustainable self-care practices. This episode transcends mere conversation; it serves as a roadmap for thriving in ministry without succumbing to the pitfalls of becoming the dreaded "Crabby Pastor."Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
102: Messing up the Balancing Act of Ministry and Self Preservation
Feb 20 2024
102: Messing up the Balancing Act of Ministry and Self Preservation
Discover the transformative journey from the burdens of leadership to the oasis of self-care and sustainable ministry with Margie Bryce, host of the Crabby Pastor podcast. Dive into the tranquil sanctuary of her glass workshop as she extends a personal invitation to fellow ministry leaders seeking balance and renewal.In this candid episode, Margie confesses her struggles and triumphs in asking for help, including the profound impact of extending hospitality during the pandemic. Through intimate revelations, she sheds light on the subtle signs of burnout often ignored and offers practical tools for self-assessment and proactive care.Join Margie as she navigates the delicate dance between serving others and nurturing one's well-being, sharing insights to guide listeners toward a sustainable and revitalized approach to ministry. Don't miss this heartfelt discussion on cultivating endurance in your calling, ensuring your passion for service burns bright without burning out.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
101: Back from Burnout: Rev. Paul Kuzma
Feb 13 2024
101: Back from Burnout: Rev. Paul Kuzma
Have you ever found yourself so immersed in the demands of ministry leadership that your own spirit starts to fray at the edges? In this episode, we're joined by the insightful Paul Kuzma, a pastoral counselor who has weathered the storm of burnout himself. Together, our conversation weaves personal narratives and practical wisdom into a tapestry of guidance for any ministry leader seeking harmony between their calling and personal well-being.Join us as we explore the fullness of life beyond the pulpit – from cultivating friendships outside the congregation to embracing passions that rejuvenate the soul. We'll tackle the high-stakes stresses of pastoral duties and discuss how to strike that essential balance, setting the stage for a ministry that's not only vibrant but sustainable in the long run.Whether you're a seasoned minister or just beginning to feel the weight of your calling, there's a message here for you. We're peeling back the layers on pastoral self-care and uncovering how taking a step back can propel you forward, ensuring that your ministry is a reflection of a well-tended heart and spirit.Join us for an episode that promises to fortify your ministry and, perhaps, help you steer clear of becoming a Crabby Pastor.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
100: Empowering Ministry Leaders through Coaching with Cathy Parish
Feb 6 2024
100: Empowering Ministry Leaders through Coaching with Cathy Parish
When Cathy Parish went from  a local pastor in Indiana to a minister of evangelism in Alabama, little did she know that her quest for coaching would redefine not just her path, but the way we all view mentorship in ministry. Our latest episode of the Crabby Pastor podcast is a heartfelt exploration with Cathy into the world of coaching for ministry leaders, where we debunk myths and showcase coaching as a cornerstone of support and guidance. We wade through the waters of self-discovery and unravel how a coach can be the cheerleader every leader secretly needs, especially when the going gets tough and self-doubt creeps in.Join us as we discuss how coaching can be the antidote to imposter syndrome and a catalyst for crafting a ministry that not only survives but thrives amid the demands of worship planning and pastoral care. Our conversation takes a personal turn as I share my transformation from pastoral ministry to providing support through coaching and creative outlets. We extend a warm invitation to dive into the conversation on fostering robust self-care practices within the ministry community. It's not just about replenishing the well; it's about ensuring that the spiritual journey is as enriching and sustainable for the leader as it is for the flock they guide.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
99: Rev. Alex Lang: Part 2: Why I Left the Church
Jan 30 2024
99: Rev. Alex Lang: Part 2: Why I Left the Church
Have you ever witnessed the moment when a long-held belief is challenged and, like a seedling breaking through concrete, transforms into a new understanding? That's the kind of metamorphosis we unpack in our latest episode of the Krabby Pastor podcast, where I, Margie Bryce, sit down with guests to discuss the power of a growth mindset, especially within the sacred walls of ministry leadership. Our stirring conversation reveals how real-world implications within a faith community, to open up nurturing compassion and open-mindedness.We then shift gears to the personal transformation that occurs when faith leaders overcome their mental barriers, embodying the teachings they share with their congregations.  We also highlight the subtle indicators that help distinguish a growth-oriented mindset from a fixed one, offering a beacon for those navigating the waters of change within their communities.In the final chapter of our conversation, we touch upon the delicate dance of honoring tradition while embracing progress within the church. I share my insights on the importance of evolving ministry models and reflect on the innovative, untraditional paths Jesus himself walked. Join us as we explore the balance between sanctuary and a platform for innovation in preaching the gospel, and how these strategies are fostering new models of community that resonate with true discipleship.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
98: Rev. Alex Lang: Part 1: Why I Left the Church
Jan 23 2024
98: Rev. Alex Lang: Part 1: Why I Left the Church
Discover what it takes to foster a transformative ministry in today's ever-changing spiritual landscape. Join me, Margie Bryce, for an insightful discussion with Reverend Alex Lang, whose candid revelations in "Departure: Why I Left the Church" have resonated with leaders and congregants alike. We tackle the gritty realities of nurturing a congregation's growth against the grain of tradition, diving into Alex's journey and the pivotal impact of adopting either a growth or a fixed mindset in church leadership. This episode is a candid examination of the daunting, yet rewarding, path of guiding a faith community through modern challenges.The church isn't just a place of worship; it's a living, breathing entity that must evolve with the times. As we peel back the layers, we confront the fixed mindsets that often hold congregations back, discussing the integral role pastors play in either cementing or challenging the status quo. I share personal experiences that underscore the importance of critical thinking in discipleship, aiming to inspire a faith that's as dynamic and transformative as the life of Jesus. We also probe the generation gap in perceptions of faith, assessing how actions—or a lack thereof—may betray the beliefs professed by many. For anyone grappling with the complexities of faith, leadership, and personal growth within their spiritual walk, this episode promises to shed light on a path forward, marked by authenticity and an expansive view of the divine.Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
97: A Back from Burnout Story: Rev. Tanner Griffin
Jan 16 2024
97: A Back from Burnout Story: Rev. Tanner Griffin
Time for another: Back from Burnout episode. Reverend Tanner Griffin is candid about the moments that led him to step away from full-time pastoral work and this is a tale of caution as well as invaluable insight for those bearing the mantle of spiritual leadership. His emergency room wake-up call, stemming from an unrelenting panic attack, underscores the critical importance of mental health and family well-being in ministry.Throughout our heart-to-heart, our conversation sheds light on the often invisible burden carried by those in pastoral roles—unseen yet intensely felt. Tanner's journey illustrates the perils of inheriting organizational dysfunction within a church and the immense courage required to confront it, even amidst resistance from those preferring the familiarity of the status quo. He shares how his tumultuous experience became a lesson in acknowledging one's limits. It's a narrative that serves as a beacon, guiding ministry leaders toward recognizing that their calling may sometimes lead them away from traditional paths to preserve their spirit.Bringing our discussion to a close, we chat about how stepping outside the bounds of conventional church structures has the power to bring clarity. Tanner's transition to a life of purposeful service exemplifies the transformative power of balancing personal health with spiritual duties, a message of hope for those striving to sustain their call to ministry without falling prey to burnout. Finally, I introduce a practical tool for self-assessment, the burnout questionnaire, aimed at helping leaders detect early signs of fatigue. The link is below in the show notes. Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.
96: Transformative Coaching inspires the Leader at key ministry in Flint, Michigan
Jan 9 2024
96: Transformative Coaching inspires the Leader at key ministry in Flint, Michigan
When Reverend Dawn Ramirez, the compassionate force behind Little Lambs Compassionate Ministry Center, joins me, Margie Bryce, it's more than just a conversation—it's an inspiring journey through how coaching is a valuable asset for ministry. Discover the powerful narrative of how Rev. Ramirez and her team have sustained hope and support for families in Genesee County, navigating the challenging waters of the COVID-19 pandemic with an innovative shift to mobile outreach, ensuring no one goes without essentials like food, diapers, and clothing.This episode of the Crabby Pastor podcast unveils the profound impact of coaching on ministry leaders, a topic that often goes unspoken. Reflect on the unexpected discoveries and deep-seated revelations encountered through this transformative practice. We celebrate the courage it takes to lead with vulnerability and how this shapes not only personal growth but also the extended community. By the end of our time together, you'll carry with you a renewed sense of purpose for sustaining self-care practices in ministry leadership through the process of coaching. Here is a link to learn more about Little Lambs Compassionate Ministry Center in Flint, MI. Support the Show.This is a GUILT-FREE zone! So here's your friendly nudge about self-care and its importance for the sake of your family, friends, and those you serve in ministry.Get your FREE Burnout Questionnaire to help you assess whether you are dealing with just general tiredness or something MORE. CLICK HERE FOR THE BURNOUT QUESTIONNAIRE. I love scouring around to find great content to share, and am always interested in feedback, if you are or know of someone willing to share their Back from Burnout story so we can all learn together, then CLICK HERE to email me.And, if this is a reminder you wish to opt out of, that's fine too. Blessings on your journey!Margie 🦀 🦀 🦀 Find regular support on my Facebook group by clicking HERE. Connect with me about COACHING and Workshops on self-care HERE.