Kendrick Lamar and Drake are in the midst of an epic rap beef with Kendrick bringing up one particularly damning and disturbing topic... Drake's inappropriate behavior with underage girls. But for those of us who've been paying attention, this is not new information. He's been creepy. He's just had no push back. And he's not the only one.    On this week's episode, Kate is back and we're breaking down some of Hollywood's worst creeps who somehow have gotten away with it, what they did, and why we think they've been getting away with it. Believe me when I say, buckle up.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

We're back to finish our conversation on grooming... so buckle up because this conversation is a rough ride. As we jump back in, we're diving into why people stay, why they go back, and all of the other "questionable" things people in "groomed" relationships do that actually make perfect sense once you understand the dynamics. This is not an easy listen, but it may be our most important episode yet.    TW: Mentions of grooming and hints at abuse (no specific details)    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

This may be our most important episode yet. Inspired by Baby Reindeer and our own experiences, Kate and I are discussing grooming. We get into what it is, what tactics they us, how common it is with teenage girls and mid 20's men, and really dig deep into our own experiences to make sense of the things that happened to us.  TW: Grooming and mentions (without details) of abuse  F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

So a few weeks ago we talked about the terrible things our ex's did and we STILL stayed. Then someone asked us a question. WHY? Why would we stay with men who were doing unquestionably awful things. Victim blaming aside, the answer to that is complicated... but we're breaking it down. Hopefully some of you can relate.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

This week's episode is a little different because it's actually a story Chesko and I shared on our other podcast - Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater (a name so lovingly given to us by an internet troll despite the fact that I don't hate men and Chesko has been picked). It's an AITA from reddit and honestly it's just too good not to share here so buckle up because this one is a DOOZY!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

There's a trend going around on Tiktok of people saying the worst things their exs did and they STILL stayed. Well, this trend is right up our alley. Kate's back and we sharing our 100% true and 100% embarrassing stories that include being abandoned at a golf course, being told asthma is all in our head, peeing on clean laundry, texting other girls that you love them, and so much more!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

If you're on the Feminist side of Tiktok, a certain "alpha" "dom" "dating coach" may have been dominating your feeds lately. And yes, all of those quotes are necessary. But if you think you know how bad he is, you've only seen the tip of the douche-berg... because we've found his "podcast pilot". So buckle up as Regan and Abby Rosmarin do a deep dive to prove that this seemingly misguided guy is much more harmful than he appears...    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Abby Rosmarin's Links Tiktok: abbyrosmarin --> Make sure to check out their Linktree  Insta: abbyrosmarin And make sure to search for her books online!

When I say "Nice Guy", you say "Covert Narcissist"! Well, at least the internet does. That's why I've brought on Eleni Sagredos, the author of But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People. We're talking about the "Nice Guys" who take so far that they're giving... a personality disorder.    Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense  Eleni's AMAZING book!   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Buckle all the way up friends because this "nice guy" horror story is almost to messed up to believe... if we didn't have all the receipts. My guest Catherine's life was turned into a Jerry Springer-esque nightmare when her "nice guy" husband was caught cheating. But not with just anyone... WITH HER OWN MOTHER. We're breaking down what led up to this, all the bizarre and horrifying details, and how Catherine has chosen the highroad of healing.    Catherine's Tiktok - KATenacious   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater have returned to bring you Part 2 of these HORRIBLE wedding vows. And if you thought the last guy was bad... buckle up.    We're breaking down terrible vows, talking about the ACTUAL BS double standards when it comes to holding bad men accountable, going on a couple tangents, and giving you a very exciting update about our new podcast Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

The Dynamic Duo is back - Chesko and Regan... or as an internet troll named us... Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater! On today's episode we're taking on our worst villains yet... grooms who go out of their way to humiliate their brides on their wedding day.  We'll be talking about violent cake smashers and breaking down some viral videos of absolutely disgusting wedding vows. We're really trying to get to the heart (or lack their of) of why these men feel the need to destroy, demean, and degrade on supposedly the "happiest day" of their lives.    And make sure to listen to the outro because we have a SPECIAL announcement!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to Part 1 of this episode. But, Melanie Hamlett is back and we're talking more about decentering men, the "healed Hollywood man" who refuses to be accountable, why platonic love is so necessary, and so much more!  MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications Mel's Tiktok Mel's Youtube   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Today's  title sounds like the start of a bad joke... but this experience was anything but funny for our guest Katie aka @im.that.lesbian.    This story blew up  when a straight women complained about a bad experience she had when bringing a straight man to a lesbian bar. She tells us an unprovoked and seemingly angry lesbian asked "what are you doing here" to her "nice guy" friend. The video ends with her asking for feedback and boy...did queertok deliver.    That's when Katie (that "angry" lesbian) entered the chat to tell us what REALLY happened. Not only was the man acting out of line and entitled, but the whole experience was just one of many bad experiences queer women face when straight men come to lesbian bars.   HUNGRYROOT LINKS Go to Hungryroot.com and use code NICEGUY40 for 40% off your first order and a free gift   Katie's Tiktok   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

You all asked for it.... and it's finally here. This week's episode we are joined by Mel Hamlett. As a self-proclaimed recovering "cool girl" Mel has some unbelievable stories about what the "cool girl" goes through, what made her say f*** that, and how she began the journey of decentering men. Believe me when I say... buckle up.    HUNGRYROOT LINKS Go to Hungryroot.com and use code NICEGUY40 for 40% off your first order and a free gift   MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications Mel's Tiktok Mel's Youtube   F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

When a "Nice Guy" 'feminist" Tiktoker is told his take on a topic needs some adjustment... what is he to do? Be accountable like he demands of other men? Of course not! He does the one thing he can to strike back without looking "mean", he weaponizes the women who love him.    Abby Rosmarin is back to share a recent run in with a "nice guy" "feminist" Tiktoker and what happens when a "Nice Guy" wants to strike back so women become his weapon. We're breaking down what happened, why we think it happened, and how to spot this very predictable "Nice Guy" Tiktoker pattern.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Abby Rosmarin's Links Tiktok: abbyrosmarin --> Make sure to check out their Linktree  Insta: abbyrosmarin

We're back with Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls Podcast to bring you perhaps the most terrifying tale of all... A "Nice Guy" origin story. We're swapping stories about the "Nice Guys" of Improv, Comedy, and yes... we do mention Matt Rife. DUH!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Rat Girls Links Rat Girls Podcast  Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok

We're tired of being civilized.... it's time to get feral and release our inner rat. And we've found just the ladies to help us out. This week we're joined by Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls podcast and we're swapping stories about some seriously... sneaky.... snakey "Nice Guys".  Sss...ee what I did there?     F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   Rat Girls Links Rat Girls Podcast  Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok

It's time to tackle a "Nice Guy" topic that's long overdue - the "Nice Guy" in the arts. And you know that means we had to bring on Tiktok's very own Seema! We're pulling no punches this week as we do a deep dive on these "sensitive souls".  F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page Seema's Links The ArtLust Podcast Seema's Tiktok The ArtLust Podcast Tiktok

Happy New Year and welcome back to the new season of the F the Nice Guy Podcast! We've got a new theme song and a shocking couple of stories for you. The lovely ladies behind our new song are sharing they're Nice Guy tales of men in the music industry. When I tell you jaws were on the floor multiple times while recording.... I mean it. So buckle up and set the rage dial to max because this episode is uncensored and unhinged.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page   TERA LYNNE FISTER All socials: @Iamfister  Website: iamfister.com/links  Spotify: Tera's Spotify   SARA SPICER LINKS Insta/FB: Saraspicermusic Youtube: Sara Spicer  Spotify: Sara's Spotify

It's time for the F the Nice Guy Holiday Episode! Because this Christmas, Santa brought Kate an unexpected gift... the word of God and the urge to call the police. But we're just getting started, because after we chat about a certain Naughty St. Nick, we're diving into Love Actually. We've found out information that makes this movie WORSE ACTUALLY and proves this movie is nothing more than the "Nice Guy" Fantasy gift wrapped as a Holiday Rom Com.  (This episode will be the last episode of the year so stay tuned for our next episode - January 6th)