Agile Self-Development

Helene Amster Kopel

Become your best self, one version at a time. This podcast offers a roadmap for personal growth and self-improvement for body, mind, and spirit. Learn how to apply successful strategies used in business and other walks of life to achieve your personal goals and live your best life.

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S2 Ep 5 - WTF Is Group Therapy with Robert Pepper PhD
Apr 26 2023
S2 Ep 5 - WTF Is Group Therapy with Robert Pepper PhD
On this episode, you'll hear from Dr Robert Pepper, author of Some People Don’t Want What They Say They Want, and a therapist who’s been running groups for over twenty-five years and has a special gift in helping member’s resolve conflicts with relationships, both personal and professional. In group therapy, members learn to resolve obstacles to developing healthy relationships through interactions between members of the group. Listen now to learn more about what group therapy can do to support healthy relationships.Reach out to Rob at drpepperphd.com.Bonus thoughts from Dr. Pepper around the topic of using your friends to replace therapy: There are at least two reasons why friends and family can’t replace group therapy.  Frankly, I believe it's quite psychologically naive to think that group therapy is unnecessary if a person has good friends and family. Good friends and family complement group therapy; they don’t replace it. For one thing, good friends and relatives usually aren’t objective. They have their own biases and opinions about what is best for us. And as "Dear Abby" has so brilliantly observed: "Unsolicited advice is always self-serving". Group members in a secure group environment, are in a better position to see our needs and foibles more clearly.           Second, and to my mind more importantly, social relationships are not designed to absorb the full impact of our own, nor friends, family and a life partner’s feelings. In group therapy the directive to members is: "Say everything." That is clearly not a wise thing to do in non-therapy relationships. That is because there are some powerful, “dark” feelings that are better left unsaid in close, intense, personal relationships. They are better said in the safe context of a secure group. To share every thought and feeling with a loved one can be hurtful and damaging to the relationship. In group therapy it’s different. At the same time, our closest friends and relatives are there to provide TLC when we need it, while group members are there for us only weekly at a specific time and place. The restrictions prohibiting outside contact and physical contact in the group, plus the contract, ensure that there will be no real-life consequences to group interactions and that group is a safe place where members’ words can’t come back to haunt them in their personal or professional relationships. Visit us at http://www.agileselfdevelopment.com!
S3 Ep2: WTF Is Alignment with Rachel Richter
Mar 15 2023
S3 Ep2: WTF Is Alignment with Rachel Richter
On this episode, I speak with Rachel Richter who says disconnection is the driving force of negative outcomes in our organizations and lives, and by increasing connection  we can unlock greater prosperity. Alignment is the catalyst needed to for increased connection.When people come to Rachel for answers, she often starts with this simple question “Where do you want to create greater alignment and thrive?”Rachel Richter is the Founder and Managing Partner of INLIGN, the premier alignment coaching and advisory practice for teams and organizations seeking to rectify misalignment and enable optimal functioning. Rachel describes alignment as “culture in action.” Out of further demand, she also founded Align & Thrive, the alignment coaching practice for individuals with the purpose of making thriving attainable personally and professionally.As hardships got in the way along her journey, Rachel created her own way to live a life worth living, never losing sight of everything she still had to be grateful for. While enduring a near fatal illness, being a patient of one of the most painful surgeries known to man and losing her mother to a rare disease, she simultaneously innovated and delivered billions of dollars in value for shareholders and the public for over 15 years in both publicly traded companies and federal agencies. She delivered where many thought innovation or even agreement was impossible by leveraging alignment along with compassion for herself and others. To learn more about how you can work with Rachel, visit https://www.getinlign.com/ or https://www.rachelrichter.com/.Visit us at http://www.agileselfdevelopment.com!
S2 Ep15: WTF Is a Renaissance Woman with Katie Chonacas
Dec 8 2022
S2 Ep15: WTF Is a Renaissance Woman with Katie Chonacas
If you describe a woman as a Renaissance woman, you mean that she has a wide range of abilities and interests, especially in the arts and sciences. I like to consider myself one of those with my day job in technology and outside interests in podcasting, yoga, improv and more. But wait until you hear about my guest today. There are so many layers to this onion that I knew I wanted to talk to her but I had a hard time trying to pick a topic to focus on! On this episode, I speak with Katie Elizabeth Chonakas, also known as Saint KYRIAKI Katie is a Greek American actor, producer, director, musician, voice-over artist, industry coach, podcaster, and published author. She is a multi-disciplinary artist and blockchain trailblazer who I couldn't wait to ask about her NFTs. You may have seen her in parts on major television shows including CBS's CSI: NY, Cold Case, FX Network's It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, and Law & Order SVU, to name a few. She’s also published a book called A Lover's Fairytale about her experiences while traveling around the world. And on top of that, Kyriaki works in the entertainment sector as a woman's empowerment coach.Follow and connect with Katie at the links below!Website: https://www.chonacas.com/Twitter: https://twitter.com/katiechonacasInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/chonacas/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chonacasLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katiechonacas/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KyriakiChonacasIMDB: imdb.me/katiechonacasBooks: https://www.amazon.com/Strategy Call: https://www.chonacas.com/links/Visit us at http://www.agileselfdevelopment.com!
S2 Ep14: WTF is Post-Betrayal Transformation with Dr Debi Silber
Nov 9 2022
S2 Ep14: WTF is Post-Betrayal Transformation with Dr Debi Silber
An unhealed betrayal impacts our health, work, and relationships. Unfortunately, too many of us know first hand what it feels like to be betrayed. On this episode, my guest is Dr. Debi Silber, founder of the PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute. Debi is a holistic psychologist, the author of Trust Again, and International bestselling author of: The Unshakable Woman AND From Hardened to Healed. Her podcast: From Betrayal to Breakthrough is also globally ranked within the top 1.5% of podcasts. Her recent PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 groundbreaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TEDx (twice) and more, she’s an award-winning speaker and coach dedicated to helping people move past their betrayals as well as any other blocks preventing them from the health, work, relationships, confidence, and happiness they want most.Connect with Dr. Debi Silber and the Post Betrayal Transformation institute:The site: https://thepbtinstitute.comThe latest TEDx: “Do You Have Post Betrayal Syndrome?“: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyqOR69dHiUTEDx: Stop Sabotaging Yourself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XX30i6nC7ro   The From Betrayal to Breakthrough podcast: https://thepbtinstitute.com/podcast/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@debisilber Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InspireEmpowerTransformTwitter: https://twitter.com/DebiSilberLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debisilber/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/debisilber/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/debisilber Visit us at http://www.agileselfdevelopment.com!
S2 Ep10: WTF Is Empowered Wellness with Allison Pelot
May 25 2022
S2 Ep10: WTF Is Empowered Wellness with Allison Pelot
“My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.” —Maya AngelouThis quote opens the book  Finally Thriving - Your Guide to Empowered Wellness, from Allison Pelot who is the guest on this episode. When I’d gotten a request to have a self described holistic fitness trainer, nutrition and energy coach on the show, my walls immediately went up. I’ve had a lifelong struggle with food addiction, an eating disorder, and body dysmorphia, and have serious issues with the diet and fitness industry for taking advantage of people like me. I was sure she’d be like all the others who just take 500 pages to tell you to use willpower, eat this not that, and exercise more. Then, I opened my mind, dropped my preconceived ideas and learned some more about Allison and the book. It turns out I really identified with her holistic approach to our wellbeing. In her book, Allison focuses on self care for your physical, mental, and spiritual well being and how to create a self-care wellness routine to nourish every aspect of your life. Allison Pelot is a dynamic fitness trainer and energy coach specializing in rapid, permanent change through corrective exercise, metabolic nutrition, and energetic alignment. Allison holds a BS in Exercise Science from GA State University and is a certified CHEK (Corrective Holistic Exercise Kinesiology) Practitioner.  She’s helped countless clients create the body and the life they desire.You can connect and learn more about Allison at https://www.pureenergypdx.com/Learn more about her book at: https://www.finallythrivingbook.com/Social Media links: https://www.instagram.com/pureenergypdx/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-YV7ujyRBwnrEeBAwWbsUghttps://www.facebook.com/PureEnergyWellness/Check out Allison's podcast at https://open.spotify.com/show/75tyRVcNyykgKFYXTVpaRgVisit us at http://www.agileselfdevelopment.com!
S2 Ep9 - WTF Is Getting Unstuck with Maria Lizza Bowen
May 18 2022
S2 Ep9 - WTF Is Getting Unstuck with Maria Lizza Bowen
In the personal growth and self-help world, we often hear people talk about being stuck. But what does that really mean and what does it mean to get unstuck? On this episode, you'll meet Maria Lizza Bowen, author of the book “REFLECT - a perspective on understanding your reality and becoming unstuck.”Maria Lizza Bowen is a Scientist and Director of Oncology Clinical Development with nearly 30 years in the pharmaceutical industry. Her experience includes molecular, chemistry, biochemistry and virology laboratory studies; quality assurance in pharmaceutical manufacturing; and clinical cancer research with a focus on executive leadership, program management, talent management, inspection readiness, quality systems development, and process excellence.Maria is also an author and a student of life. Growing up surrounded by her compassionate mother’s vast book collection and her father’s simplistically raw yet deep perspective on life, she began reading at a very young age and dedicated a significant portion of her childhood and adult life trying to understand why we’re all here. Maria’s quest for answers resulted in a large collection of books on physics, philosophy, and spirituality, which led her to acquire a different perspective on the curve balls that life has thrown her way.Connect with Maria through her website at: www.marializzabowen.comWhere to find the book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09SZQNG3Z   Visit us at http://www.agileselfdevelopment.com!
S2 Ep7 - WTF Is Growth through Yoga with Mary E Wright
Apr 20 2022
S2 Ep7 - WTF Is Growth through Yoga with Mary E Wright
Season 2's trailer mentioned that we'd be bringing yoga into the conversation more in this season, as it had been so instrumental to my own personal healing and growth. On this episode, you'll meet my friend and teacher Mary E Wright. Mary owns GROW & Little Buddhas Yoga which you can learn more about at  www.growyogafl.com and www.littlebuddhasfl.com. Find her IG FB & other social media platforms @GROWYogafl & @littlebuddhasyogafl @littlebuddhas @marye.wright.  She'll be releasing her own podcast episodes and shorts this summer. Look for “GROW with Mary”GROW stands for GRATITUDE, REST, OBSERVE & WORK!Mary teaches  &  guides you to CONNECT your mind, body & spirit. Her education, experiences, practices & healing abilities assist in creating UNION. Mary has an ability to CONNECT with anyone from a newborn to the elder populations and all ages in between. She teaches how to slow down and really REST & learn to OBSERVE our daily thoughts, acts and behaviors off your yoga mat as well to move with INTENTION during asana. She leads you thru may disciplines such as Yoga, Pilates, Pranayama, Fitness Training, RESTorative Training showing you joyfulness as you learn to WORK. If you are lucky to receive her Bodywork then you are in for a real treat to experience the sacred space for deep spiritual GROWth as well as mind/body connection planting seeds to GROW!Mary founded Little Buddhas Yoga in 2014 however her journey began in 1989 in Manhattan, KS teaching gymnastics. Since this time she has coached & trained athletes, created preschool & recreational programs worldwide, directed, managed & owns Fun & Tumble Gymnastics LLC. Being an entrepreneur for almost 30 yrs while actively loving moving in her own body she is now really excited to be sharing her journey with you so we can all create more UNION! Mary closed her brick & mortar Yoga Studio in March 2020 due to the COVID pandemic, continued offering both online and in her own home studio classes. Today she teaches, heals and shares her own garden by inviting you into Mary’s World in her Studio Garden or via ZOOM from anywhere around the world. She offers Weekly Yoga Classes or Practices for adults, kids & family. She offers Concierge style approach to your Private 1-1 Sessions working with committed, educated, inspired clients willing to GROW! Book a class or session online or simply text Mary @ 954-296-0838 or DM either IG or FB! She is super excited to launch “GROW with Mary” discussing “The Never-ending Laundry.” Come for a great laugh about how we all keep our shit together after folding the tenth load of laundry!Visit us at http://www.agileselfdevelopment.com!