Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

LGBTQ+ Podcast by Jojo & Dayra

Welcome to the Les Chat podcast! Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support read less
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Episodes

100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups
6d ago
100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups
In EP 100, we delve into the complexities of lesbian breakups, exploring why they often hit harder than others. Drawing from an insightful article by "Amelia on Refinery 29", we examine how women tend to deeply enmesh in relationships, blurring lines between partners, friends, and family. Nicholas Rose, a psychotherapist specializing in queer relationships, sheds light on the challenges queer individuals face during breakups, especially when familial support is lacking. We confront stereotypes surrounding lesbian relationships. Additionally, we share insights on coping with breakups, from embracing emotions to nurturing oneself. LES CHAT QUEER TRIP: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec (takes about 2 mins) LES CHAT MEET UP: FRIDAY NIGHT, APRIL 26TH @ PORTA'S Family Meeting Questions: 1. " My girlfriend broke up with me and she stated she’s giving her life to God and she doesn’t feel right being gay anymore". 2. "Call me DELUSIONAL but i’m so determined to meet my future wife, i'm taking a flight to Manchester UK" Podcast Description: FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
98. Deep Convos & Medellin Adventures
Apr 8 2024
98. Deep Convos & Medellin Adventures
Join us on this episode #98 as we reminisce about our unforgettable family trip to Medellin, Colombia. From exploring, eating and dancing to an unexpected event turned our trip into a rollercoaster ride – one of us ended up in the hospital, not once, but twice! As we talk about our highs and lows of our Medellin adventure, we delve into deep questions that would be perfect for first dates. Some of them were… Would you rather spend a day with your younger self or older self?  What advice would you impart to your 10-year-old self if given the chance?  And in the event of memory loss, what would be the first thing you'd say to help regain memories? Colombia Tattoo Artist: https://www.instagram.com/gustavoposadat2/?igsh=MmQ3d3JpamNpcjZ6  Colombia Dentist: https://www.instagram.com/odontologia.sarah/?igsh=NzF6enM4YjNsZWZk  Card Games on TikTok: Flamingo.Cards FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO LEAVE US A VOICE NOTE VIA TEXT OR VOICEMAIL ‪- CONTACT US AT (862) 786-8233‬  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Family Meeting Submission : CLICK HERE IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
95. Questioning My Sexuality
Mar 11 2024
95. Questioning My Sexuality
Curiosity is heavy during our teenage years because we’re trying to find our identity. Those are the years where we are introduced to friendships, relationships, sex, and maybe even questioning our sexuality. As we get older we still learn how to navigate through all those things because no matter how old we are we still find ourselves searching for our identities as we continue to grow. - Is sexuality a spectrum? - Do you have to limit yourself to a label? - Is it because of growing up in a heteronormative society? Family meeting: 1. " I was with a guy/married for 10 years, came out as gay a year ago & left him. Since being out of that relationship, I have realized that he is a huge narcissist and emotionally abused me. He used to say I had saggy boobs to the point I had a breast reduction, big thighs, big arms, etc." 2. "I feel like I am being tested in my life/career. I just graduated with my masters degree & started a new job but I have never felt so lost and alone than I do right now." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
94. Queer Baiting
Mar 4 2024
94. Queer Baiting
What do you consider queer bating? In EP 94 we discuss queer baiting which is when someone uses the possibility of a queer relationship or queer representation to get audiences to watch a show/movie, etc... but they never actually follow through with it. We go into different examples (Karol G, Bad Bunny, Harry Styles, etc)  as well as the history on queer baiting in the 1940’s-1960’s with the “Lavender Scare”. LOVE CRAVE VIBRATOR NECKLACE LINK  Family Meeting:  “My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me because she believes she is poly.” “There’s one girl in particular I’ve been hanging out with and have had sex a few times . She said she’s a lesbian when we first met and said she doesn’t sleep with men, and then told me a few days ago she occasionally does sleep with men. Sleeping with men opens up the doors for more STI’s. What should I do?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO LEAVE US A VOICE NOTE VIA TEXT OR VOICEMAIL ‪- CONTACT US AT (862) 786-8233‬  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Family Meeting Submission : CLICK HERE IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
93. Chosen Family
Feb 19 2024
93. Chosen Family
Society has put a lot of pressure on the importance of family. Having loving parents, sharing happy memories with your siblings, feeling safe and protected by the ones you share blood with.. However, that isn’t the version of "family" that everyone gets to experience. What is a chosen family?Why is it important to the community?What to look for when choosing a family?Where to find people to be a part of my chosen family? TO LEAVE US A VOICE NOTE VIA TEXT OR VOICEMAIL ‪- CONTACT US AT (862) 786-8233‬ Family meeting: 1. "I am an 18 year old female and am struggling to be around my family. I'm half Black and half Latino, not to be stereotypical BUT when things happen in the family, we don’t talk about it! We “pray” and “move on ''. Very often they will bring up the topic of LGBTQ and say hateful things to intentionally hurt me(they are all very Christian). " 2. "Do you have lesbian friends that don’t want kids? As a childfree lesbian I feel bombarded by breeders, even in the LGBTQ community." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
92. Major Life Changes
Feb 12 2024
92. Major Life Changes
We're back! From what seems to be a long overdue break from the podcast. We talk about how the impact of big life changes in a relationship can be for the best or worse. SORRY FOR THE STATIC SOUND YA'LL :( Unpacking the U-HAUL: What our thoughts were prior to moving.What challenges/stressors we faced in the process.What helped us adapt to the new environment. Highland Park therapy article gives  6  ways to navigate your relationship and big life changes 1. Open communication 2. Prioritize self care  3. Lean on your support system 4. Interstate adaptability  5. Prioritize quality time  6. Work with a therapist  https://www.highlandparktherapy.com/blog/2023/5/19/how-to-deal-with-big-life-changes-and-your-relationship  Family Meeting “My wife’s gaming addiction ruined it for me. We got divorced but recently got remarried. I love her and I don’t want to hurt her but I’m hoping my feelings change so I don’t feel trapped in my choice to make things work between us.” “We have not had sex in months now even at our new place. I’m concerned that there’s a disconnection sexually. We have been together for 9 years so maybe time has a lot to do with that? Any advice on what I can do or how I can bring up the conversation to her?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
91. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later
Dec 18 2023
91. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later
As the new year approaches, we reflect on 2023 and set intentions for the new year. We also share some bittersweet news in this episode. EP 91: We discuss our biggest accomplishments in the past year, as well as challenges and obstacles we faced. We dive into personal struggles we had in 2023 and how we plan on achieving personal goals and self improvement for the new year. Stay tuned Les Chat FAM! We will return shortly. Join our Patreon to stay connected - PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod   Florida News: https://www.instagram.com/p/C06zgEoujKp/   & Florida Video: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C04QVC-s8Vz/  Family Meeting Questions My wife & I have been together for 4 years. Over the years, I realized I initiated everything: kisses, dates & sex. In the past 6 months, she has gained 40lbs & refuses to exercise with me or by herself. Between her lack of effort to initiate & her recent weight gain, I’m not as physically or emotionally attracted to her.  My girl told me that she slept in the same bed with her best friend naked because she was hot, this is someone she had se* with, in the past.. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
87. Queer Holiday Survival Guide
Nov 13 2023
87. Queer Holiday Survival Guide
The holidays can be a little intimidating, especially for queer people who may or may NOT feel safe in places or with people (family) they are going to visit. We’re gonna chat about how you can make the most out of this holiday season to keep your sanity! 1. "Lesbian relationships and being friends with an ex. I feel this is more common among lesbian relationships and it’s not really talked about." 2.  "I’ve been together with my girlfriend for 4/5 months, she’s met my family and friends, has been over to my home etc but I haven’t met any of her family yet nor friends. Seems like she’s waiting for the “right time”, I’m starting to feel like I’m being kept a secret for some strange reason." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  Thanksgiving/ Holiday Game Ideas: 1. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmHJncIjbm-/?igshid=ZDhmZGIxNmQ%3D&epik=dj0yJnU9dWktVFdsdDU0MHNHdFlEa2NKZy1SbURLNkxpNjVLanMmcD0wJm49c0l6ZkxXdzRCQmtRY3hKTlI2MFE5ZyZ0PUFBQUFBR1ZRN01F 2. https://www.tiktok.com/@iamjaritza/video/6900182129725000966?lang=en 3. https://www.pinterest.com/pin/798333471454643864/ 4. https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cjb0pZtgJt7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY%3D&epik=dj0yJnU9akhkem9IZEJNNWFHOGRYQk95NWlFY056cXlEX1JYU20mcD0wJm49bVNiTVpsOHNvbzZNMnFoVFk5TUhuZyZ0PUFBQUFBR1ZRN0tN --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
83. Six Relationship Check-In Questions To Ask Your Partner
Oct 9 2023
83. Six Relationship Check-In Questions To Ask Your Partner
We say that communication is the key to a successful relationship but what does that look like in practice? Dayra shares some questions that help practice monthly check-ins with your partner. Dayra also mentions the new found research behind lab grown babies and how IVG could transform reproduction. Questions to ask your partner: What is something I have done this month that made you feel loved and cared for? Do you feel there’s anything we need to improve in our relationship? Is there anything you need that I haven't been giving you? When was the last time I hurt your feelings and you decided not to speak about it? Do you feel like you still have enough time for your friends and interests? What’s one thing you’d want to change/try out for the next month? Family Meeting Questions: 1. "Is it normal to not have any serious romantic experiences at 21 years old?" 2. "What are your thoughts on being ghosted?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support
80. Lesbian Couples Therapy
Sep 18 2023
80. Lesbian Couples Therapy
In this episode we go over The Top Mistakes Most Couples Make⁠ according to a lesbian relationship expert, Dr. Ruth L. Schwartz. We go over the following.. “What are some of the most common mistakes you see lesbian couples making? Both at the start of a relationship or in a more established one?”"Do you think all couples would benefit from couples counseling/therapy or ONLY those with relationship struggles/issues?""Is the U-Haul joke/rumor true and what do you advise couples who move quickly in a relationship do? Should they follow their hearts or put the brakes on things?" Family Meeting Questions "My gf tells me her baby father is disrespectful to her and I’ve seen it as well, I gave her my opinion on child support & because of my opinion she says that she can no longer trust me and that I don’t understand her logic." "I’m currently married to a man, we’ve been together for 14 years & have 2 beautiful toddlers. I recently discovered that I am a lesbian." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support