The Joy Tuck Club

red+freckles

A podcast that celebrates the diversity and beauty of transgender identities and expressions.

How well do you truly understand the vibrant spectrum of transgender identities? Get ready to challenge and expand your perspectives as we share personal stories, debunk myths, share news, and provide helpful insights, advice on transitioning, and tips on being a better ally.

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Episodes

The Man Who Fell to TERF
Dec 15 2023
The Man Who Fell to TERF
Ready to get the inside scoop on the recent Doctor Who special controversy? Stay tuned as we, your hosts Rachel and Phoebe, react to the backlash regarding the inclusion of a transgender character. We'll navigate the choppy waters of representation in media, and discuss whether there's ever a "right" way to include transgender characters.Prepare to dive deep into the less-discussed implications of hormone replacement therapy (HRT). We'll approach this topic with personal tales and raw honesty, exploring phenomena like the surprising shift in temperature sensitivity, changes in libido, and the drastic physical transformations. Get ready to shed the unnecessary guilt and societal pressures as we stress the importance of unique transitioning journeys - reminding listeners that HRT is not a compulsory element.But there's more! We're digging into the frightening developments around transgender rights and conversion therapy in both the UK and US. We'll unpack the anti-trans sentiments that surfaced during the recent GOP debates, the misinformation being spread about transgenderism and the lonely plight of anti-trans activist Graham Linehan. Additionally, we'll delve into the topic of trans women in amateur sports. Lastly, we'll share our two cents on the topic of bottom surgery, the role of gender identity clinics, and the importance of self-affirmation in the transition process. Don't miss this enlightening, in-depth exploration.Support the Show.—You'll soon be able to visit The Joy Tuck Club online at joytuckclub.com for transcripts, commentary, community, news, and much, much more. Meanwhile, you can always find red+freckles (Rachel & Phoebe) on Twitter/X: @twodamptransInstagram: @twodamptransandBluesky: @twodamptrans.bsky.social The Joy Tuck Club is written, produced, and edited by red+freckles, of Two Damp Trans Ltd, UK.
Transpiration Special: Robin Hague, Changing Orbits for Corsets
Dec 6 2023
Transpiration Special: Robin Hague, Changing Orbits for Corsets
Have you ever wondered what it means to truly be yourself? Join us in a heart-to-heart conversation with Robin, a brave individual who shares her enlightening journey of self-discovery and transition. This captivating episode unfolds Robin's tale of unveiling her true identity during the pandemic; an extraordinary period that had us all locked away in our homes and lost within our thoughts. Robin opens up about her exploration of gender identity, throwing light on the unique opportunities and challenges that the pandemic presented.Transitioning is a journey, not just a destination - and Robin is here to share every step of theirs. From their first night out presenting as their true self, their medical journey involving private consultations, referrals to the NHS, to their experience of facial feminisation surgery - Robin leaves no stone unturned. Not just that, Robin also talks about her newfound passion - the arts. Post-transition, she discovered a love for performance that has further helped her express her true self.But what does it mean to transition in a professional environment? As an engineer in a male-dominated realm, Robin takes us through her experience, highlighting the impact of transitioning on her career aspirations. The episode concludes with a meaningful discussion around the importance of community and allies, as Robin recounts personal stories of coming out to friends and family. So, plug in your earphones, make yourself comfortable, and get ready to be inspired by Robin's journey of courage, acceptance, and self-exploration.Support the Show.—You'll soon be able to visit The Joy Tuck Club online at joytuckclub.com for transcripts, commentary, community, news, and much, much more. Meanwhile, you can always find red+freckles (Rachel & Phoebe) on Twitter/X: @twodamptransInstagram: @twodamptransandBluesky: @twodamptrans.bsky.social The Joy Tuck Club is written, produced, and edited by red+freckles, of Two Damp Trans Ltd, UK.
Transpiration Special: The Many Facets of Rachel
Nov 28 2023
Transpiration Special: The Many Facets of Rachel
Ever wondered how it might feel when your identity is at odds with the world's perception of you? Rachel, a remarkable trans woman and mother of four, sheds light on this experience. In a talk given to a global audience at her workplace during Transgender Awareness Week, Rachel courageously shares her personal journey of self-discovery and resilience as a transgender woman. She explores her transition amidst the COVID-19 pandemic, the challenges she faced, and the impact on her relationships. But she doesn't stop there. With the rise of anti-trans rhetoric in the media and its devastating consequences on the transgender community, it's crucial for allies to step up. She delves into the issue, discussing the government and media's anti-trans policies and the effects they have on the community. She emphasises the need for allies to speak out against transphobia, offering ways you can lend your support.Join us as Rachel, this podcast's incredible co-host, explores transgender identities and rights against the backdrop of her own lived experience, aiming for a world with more understanding and acceptance.Support the Show.—You'll soon be able to visit The Joy Tuck Club online at joytuckclub.com for transcripts, commentary, community, news, and much, much more. Meanwhile, you can always find red+freckles (Rachel & Phoebe) on Twitter/X: @twodamptransInstagram: @twodamptransandBluesky: @twodamptrans.bsky.social The Joy Tuck Club is written, produced, and edited by red+freckles, of Two Damp Trans Ltd, UK.
The Trans that Time Forgot
Nov 23 2023
The Trans that Time Forgot
Have you ever wondered about the rich tapestry of transgender history and the challenges we face today? Journey with us, Rachel and Phoebe, as we traverse through the annals of time, retelling the often overlooked stories of our trans ancestors like King Henry III of France and the group "Rebecca and her daughters". We celebrate the beauty in the diversity of our community, sharing personal tales of acceptance and coming out in different cultures and eras, and reminding everyone that transgender identities and expressions have always existed, and will continue to do so.The conversation doesn't stop at history, though. We tackle the hot-button issues that affect us daily, shedding light on topics like the fetishization of trans women in dating, the struggle for gender balance on public boards, and the complex topic of trans women in sports. Hear us break down stereotypes and debunk myths surrounding these issues, all the while being true to our identities and our experiences.As we wrap up, remember this: you are valid, beautiful, and transcending boundaries. Come, join us on the Joy Tuck Club, where every episode is a celebration of our diversity and resilience.Listen to the podcast where we were guests for Transgender Awareness Week at We Recover Loudly.Support the Show.—You'll soon be able to visit The Joy Tuck Club online at joytuckclub.com for transcripts, commentary, community, news, and much, much more. Meanwhile, you can always find red+freckles (Rachel & Phoebe) on Twitter/X: @twodamptransInstagram: @twodamptransandBluesky: @twodamptrans.bsky.social The Joy Tuck Club is written, produced, and edited by red+freckles, of Two Damp Trans Ltd, UK.
The Bonfire of the Tranities
Oct 19 2023
The Bonfire of the Tranities
The unprecedented rise of transphobia, which is shaking the very core of our societies, is the burning topic of our discussion today. This unnerving wave of discrimination has prompted the UK government to redefine the concepts of 'man' and 'woman' to 'biological sex', paving the way for a potential withdrawal from the UN's European Convention on Human Rights. As we navigate this thorny issue, we delve into the disturbing impact of Christian right-wing think tanks and the surge in negative media coverage, which have contributed to the dehumanisation of minorities. We confront the alarming reality of the Conservative government utilising the trans community as a political diversion. The repercussions of this are far-reaching and deeply troubling, particularly for those who don't fit the heteronormative mold.In the midst of these challenges, we strive to illuminate the resilience and courage exhibited by the trans community during these testing times. We journey through the unsettling narrative of UK Prime Minister Rishi Sunak, whose speech has sparked a wave of anti-trans sentiment, to the proposed blanket bans on trans healthcare in the US. Yet, hope resides in resilience. We draw attention to the signs of resistance from the trans community and their allies in the face of adversity, emphasising the urgent need for empathy and understanding. Join us as we dissect these pressing issues with a compassionate lens, advocating for a future free from hate.Support the Show.—You'll soon be able to visit The Joy Tuck Club online at joytuckclub.com for transcripts, commentary, community, news, and much, much more. Meanwhile, you can always find red+freckles (Rachel & Phoebe) on Twitter/X: @twodamptransInstagram: @twodamptransandBluesky: @twodamptrans.bsky.social The Joy Tuck Club is written, produced, and edited by red+freckles, of Two Damp Trans Ltd, UK.
Transpiration Special: Oliver Radclyffe, from Her to Paternity
Oct 8 2023
Transpiration Special: Oliver Radclyffe, from Her to Paternity
On this transpiration special edition, we get down and dirty with transmasc author Oliver Radclyffe, talking about every aspect of his life, from an upper-class girl breaking gender boundaries, and mother of four, to his eventual coming out at a motorcycle rally, the euphoria of aligning with his gender identity, and the challenges and delights of his ultimate transition journey.A refreshing and enlightening conversation, this episode delves into the complexities of being trans where even the closest of familial relationships can become steeped in what Oliver describes aptly as a "hostile cis perspective".From Oliver's first-hand account of his life experiences, we navigate the grey areas of gender norms and the back and forth struggle Oliver had with his personal identity that set his transition back for many years until he hadan epiphany reading a famous book by his now namesake, Radclyffe Hall.We chat about the societal presentation of non-binary genders and the growing acceptance of breaking away from conventional gender-specific clothing. Oliver also opens up about his ten-year journey of coming out and transitioning, an odyssey that he beautifully captures in his upcoming book, 'Frighten the Horses.' Our dialogue extends beyond Oliver's personal experiences. It touches upon broader issues affecting the transgender community, such as the anxiety of transitioning, the difficulties in accessing healthcare, and the recent legislation impacting the healthcare rights of trans youth in the United States. This conversation provides an intimate look at the triumphs and challenges faced by the transgender community. Regardless of your sexual orientation or identity, this episode will broaden your perspectives. So, tune in and become a part of this enlightening conversation.Support the Show.—You'll soon be able to visit The Joy Tuck Club online at joytuckclub.com for transcripts, commentary, community, news, and much, much more. Meanwhile, you can always find red+freckles (Rachel & Phoebe) on Twitter/X: @twodamptransInstagram: @twodamptransandBluesky: @twodamptrans.bsky.social The Joy Tuck Club is written, produced, and edited by red+freckles, of Two Damp Trans Ltd, UK.
Nope Springs Eternal
Oct 4 2023
Nope Springs Eternal
Ever found yourself puzzled and curious about gender dysphoria? Let us, Rachel and Phoebe, be your guides on this journey, taking you through the complexities of this condition, its symptoms, common misconceptions, and varied treatment options. Drawing from the well of our personal experiences, we offer a uniquely empathetic perspective on the discomfort often associated with gender dysphoria.Navigating  the labyrinth of GD, we examine the profound significance of clothing, and how it impacts our relationship with intimacy. We recall childhood memories – narratives of joy and fear tied to expressing our gender identities, share personal anecdotes, unravel the nuances of our identities and the complexities of navigating public and private spaces.In light of recent events, our discussion extends to the election of a transgender homecoming queen and the reactions she faced. We shine a light on heroes like Dylan Mulvaney and the Trevor Project, who tirelessly work towards making a difference in the LGBTQ community. We close out our conversation with a Q&A, providing practical advice on managing dysphoria and ensuring bathroom safety for trans individuals. Sharing our stories, our struggles, and our triumphs, we aim to create a safe space for dialogue and understanding. So, join us, not just to learn, but to grow with us.Support the Show.—You'll soon be able to visit The Joy Tuck Club online at joytuckclub.com for transcripts, commentary, community, news, and much, much more. Meanwhile, you can always find red+freckles (Rachel & Phoebe) on Twitter/X: @twodamptransInstagram: @twodamptransandBluesky: @twodamptrans.bsky.social The Joy Tuck Club is written, produced, and edited by red+freckles, of Two Damp Trans Ltd, UK.
Satan Transed Our Child
Sep 20 2023
Satan Transed Our Child
How well do you truly understand the vibrant spectrum of transgender identities? Get ready to challenge and expand your perspectives as we share personal stories, debunk myths, and provide helpful insights about the transgender experience. Beginning with the pivotal question "How do you know you're trans?", we navigate the complex terrain of transgender identities, shattering the notion that it is simply about cross-dressing. We also take a look at the DSM's six criteria for diagnosing gender dysphoria and offer a more relatable checklist that could help you or someone you love gain clarity about gender identity.Moving to the forefront of transgender issues, we discuss California's historic recognition of Transgender History Month, Lady Gaga's advocacy for our community, and the recent controversy surrounding Dr Who actor David Tennant. We dissect the falsehood that androgynous nicknames influence children's gender identities, and celebrate Lady Gaga's support of our community. Wrapping up, we guide you through the often daunting process of coming out. From personal anecdotes of Instagram mishaps to the serious matter of securing safety, we share our wisdom and strategies. Whether for yourself or to better understand a friend or family member, tune in for an enriching episode on the transgender experience.Support the Show.—You'll soon be able to visit The Joy Tuck Club online at joytuckclub.com for transcripts, commentary, community, news, and much, much more. Meanwhile, you can always find red+freckles (Rachel & Phoebe) on Twitter/X: @twodamptransInstagram: @twodamptransandBluesky: @twodamptrans.bsky.social The Joy Tuck Club is written, produced, and edited by red+freckles, of Two Damp Trans Ltd, UK.
Transpiration Special: Meja Foss's Race Against Time
Sep 14 2023
Transpiration Special: Meja Foss's Race Against Time
Meeting MejaHave you ever given much thought to the complex and challenging journey that comes with transitioning? What if you were not just transitioning, but doing so rapidly and globally? Meet our extraordinary guest Meja Foss, a trans woman who decided to take charge of her destiny, racing against time and borders to transition medically and surgically. A successful serial entrepreneur, Meja's journey took her from realizing her need to transition to making it a reality, showcasing her incredible resilience amidst a challenging health care system and the emotional strain of waiting for hormone replacement therapy.Venturing through the twists and turns of her journey, Meja opens up about her gender-affirming surgeries in Seoul and Istanbul, highlighting the importance of staying longer than recommended post-surgery to prevent complications. She talks candidly about the unexpected side effects she experienced and her decision to embrace the results rather than chasing perfection. Meja also shares the emotional and psychological impacts of these procedures, particularly how her bottom surgery eased her dysphoria.As we delve further into Meja's life, we explore her ongoing journey as a trans woman, navigating everything from the challenges of passing to contemplating the concept of a magic button to become cis. But Meja's story doesn't end with her transition - she's also a successful woman, wife, and mother. Her story is a testament to the resilience and determination of the trans community, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking insight into their experiences. Join us as we explore Meja's inspiring journey, and hear the invaluable advice she has to offer to other trans individuals.You can connect with Meja online. Just click here: linktr.ee/mejafoss.Support the Show.—You'll soon be able to visit The Joy Tuck Club online at joytuckclub.com for transcripts, commentary, community, news, and much, much more. Meanwhile, you can always find red+freckles (Rachel & Phoebe) on Twitter/X: @twodamptransInstagram: @twodamptransandBluesky: @twodamptrans.bsky.social The Joy Tuck Club is written, produced, and edited by red+freckles, of Two Damp Trans Ltd, UK.
Balls in a Mason Jar
Sep 5 2023
Balls in a Mason Jar
Have you ever wondered about the journey of transition, or have questions about it that you're afraid to ask? We're Red and Freckles, your trans agony aunts, ready to address your queries, thoughts, and concerns. Join us as we set the stage to celebrate the diversity and beauty of being trans, and shed light on every facet of the transition journey – from hormone replacement therapy (HRT) to changing your name and beyond.In a serious exploration of the struggles faced by trans individuals in the UK, we share heart-rending stories of daunting wait times at gender identity clinics, and how the healthcare system is falling short. Meanwhile, shining a ray of hope, we discuss Beyonce's empowering support for the trans community and the unique Seahorse Parents Project, a beautiful tribute to heavily pregnant transgender parents, and share the curious tale of a mason jar used in an unusual way. We even touch upon our highly anticipated book 'How to Transition' – a comprehensive guide that aims to answer all your queries, and more, about transitioning. So listen in, share your stories, and join us on our quest to foster understanding and acceptance of trans identities.Support the Show.—You'll soon be able to visit The Joy Tuck Club online at joytuckclub.com for transcripts, commentary, community, news, and much, much more. Meanwhile, you can always find red+freckles (Rachel & Phoebe) on Twitter/X: @twodamptransInstagram: @twodamptransandBluesky: @twodamptrans.bsky.social The Joy Tuck Club is written, produced, and edited by red+freckles, of Two Damp Trans Ltd, UK.