Men, have you ever wondered how to navigate the dating world with confidence and authenticity? Join us as we sit down with Dale Valor, the dating coach who's rewriting the playbook on finding love after divorce. In this episode, Dale shares his wealth of expertise and insights garnered from years of helping men across the globe cultivate better relationships with themselves to enhance their romantic connections with others. We delve into the complexities of learning how to flirt again, navigating the modern dating world, and finding a new fulfilling relationship. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a divorce or seeking to enhance your romantic life, this conversation provides helpful guidance on building satisfying relationships and finding the love you deserve. In this episode, we discuss: ✅ Specific challenges men face when re-entering the dating scene post-divorce ✅ Repairing the relationship with oneself after a traumatic event like divorce ✅ How divorce can affect a man’s confidence ✅ The role of self-awareness and self-improvement in building healthy relationships ✅ Identifying and attracting your ideal partner ✅ Recognizing and breaking negative relationship patterns ✅ What women find attractive in men ✅ How to stand out in the dating pool ✅ Tips for successfully navigating dating apps ✅ Maintaining your independence and identity in a relationship ✅ Overcoming loneliness and taking proactive steps to build social connections To connect with Dale, reach out to him on any of his social media platforms. Instagram: @dalevalormodernflirting https://www.instagram.com/dalevalormodernflirting/ Facebook: @dale.valor.94 https://www.facebook.com/dale.valor.94 Check out Dale’s book, Inner Game: How to Get a Handle on Your Dating Life by Fixing the Relationship You Have with You: https://www.amazon.com/Inner-Game-Handle-Dating-Relationship-ebook/dp/B0CDQY7B9V Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Embark on a transformative journey of healing, growth, and renewal as we delve into the intricacies of breaking up and finding love again in this enlightening episode. Join us in conversation with Dr. Andrea Liner, known as the Breakup Doc, as she shares her wealth of expertise and insights gleaned from years of clinical practice dedicated to guiding individuals through the complexities of love, loss, and renewal. Dr. Liner's journey to becoming the Breakup Doc began with a profound personal experience—a devastating breakup that left her shattered and seeking answers. Through her own healing process and her work with countless patients navigating similar challenges, she began to recognize common patterns and themes emerging from these experiences. Driven by a passion to help others heal and grow from their breakups, she embarked on a mission to specialize in this vital psychological wellness area. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a breakup, contemplating the future of your relationship, or seeking love again, this episode offers invaluable guidance and support from a leading expert in the field. Prepare to be inspired, empowered, and equipped with practical tools for navigating the twists and turns of love's journey with courage and resilience. In this episode, we discuss: ✅ Dr. Liner’s personal journey to becoming the Breakup Doc ✅ The significance of choosing the right partner ✅ Recognizing when it’s time to let go ✅ The role of religion in relationship dynamics ✅ Overcoming the stigma and shame surrounding divorce ✅ Dealing with controlling partners and reclaiming autonomy ✅ Practical advice for fostering healthy dynamics ✅ The importance of self-reflection before entering a new relationship ✅ Signs you’re ready to start dating again ✅ How men and women process breakups differently ✅ Best practices for modern dating ✅ And much more! Learn more about Dr. Liner and her practice at https://www.drandrealiner.com/   Connect with Dr. Liner on Instagram: @dr.andrea.liner https://www.instagram.com/dr.andrea.liner/ Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Navigating the complexities of parenting post-divorce can be daunting, yet it offers a unique opportunity for growth and transformation that your children will thank you for. In this deeply insightful episode, we are joined by Rose Clark, an Authorized Language of Listening® Parenting Coach whose personal journey to mindful parenting offers profound wisdom and guidance. She equips parents with tools that get their kids to listen without yelling, threats, or punishment. Throughout this conversation, Rose provides essential guidance for divorced parents striving to cultivate nurturing and supportive environments for their children, emphasizing the transformative power of self-awareness, effective communication, and positive parenting techniques. This episode serves as a roadmap for divorced parents to become the best version of themselves and cultivate supportive environments in which children can flourish amidst the challenges of divorce. In this episode, we discuss: ✅ An introduction to the Language of Listening approach ✅ Why self-healing and personal growth matters for divorced parents ✅ The correlation between our parenting style and how we were parented ✅ Challenges faced when children experience different parenting styles from divorced parents ✅ Strategies for encouraging the other parent to embark on their own journey of self-improvement ✅ Practical advice on fostering cooperation and mutual respect between co-parents ✅ Reparenting yourself in order to break free from negative cycles ✅ Establishing healthy boundaries with both co-parents and children ✅ Differentiating between boundaries and rules ✅ How to effectively employ the Language of Listening tools ✅ Understanding the way children communicate To connect with Rose and learn more about her practice, go to https://www.lovethewayyouparent.com/ or email her at lovethewayyouparent@gmail.com Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

In this deeply insightful episode of Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed, we delve into a crucial yet often overlooked aspect of divorce: its impact on young children. Joined by esteemed guest Dr. Karen Molano, a dedicated clinical psychologist specializing in children's brain health and well-being, the conversation uncovers invaluable information for parents navigating divorce with young ones. Dr. Molano, who focuses on a child’s pivotal first five years of life, sheds light on the critical developmental milestones during this formative period and how they shape a child's worldview and core beliefs. Her insights offer hope and empowerment to parents, highlighting the transformative impact of providing children with the tools for emotional intelligence and healthy relationship dynamics. Tune in as we uncover essential strategies for guiding young children through their parents’ divorce, ensuring they not only survive but thrive in the face of life's challenges. This episode is a must-listen for any parent committed to supporting their child's well-being during a difficult transition.   In this episode, we discuss: ✅ The start of her passion for aiding children's development ✅ The critical developmental milestones during ages 0-5 ✅ How early experiences shape a person’s worldview ✅ The profound implications of negative core beliefs ✅ The brain's incredible plasticity ✅ The importance of early intervention in child development ✅ Essential strategies for guiding young children through divorce ✅ Dangers of parental alienation ✅ Ways to model healthy relationships for your children ✅ Preparing children for life's challenges ✅ And much more! Learn more about Dr. Molano and her practice at https://lumitot.com/ Connect with Dr. Molano on Instagram: @drkarenmolano https://www.instagram.com/drkarenmolano/ Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Join me as we explore the complexities of blending families and step-parenting with today’s guest, Brittney Phillips, founder of Blending Bravely. Brittney, a certified professional coach, shares her personal journey and insights gained from her experiences in blended family dynamics. In her second marriage, she and her husband, both single parents, faced the daunting task of blending their families. Despite initial optimism, they encountered significant hurdles once they moved in together, particularly in fostering positive relationships between their children. Brittney offers invaluable advice on navigating such challenges, emphasizing the importance of communication, flexibility, and patience. Drawing from her own experiences and professional expertise, Brittney also provides advice for stepparents navigating this new terrain. Throughout the discussion, she shares her compassionate and empowering approach to coaching individuals in blended families, emphasizing the importance of self-care and resilience in navigating complex familial relationships. This episode is packed with valuable insights and guidance for those embarking on this challenging yet rewarding journey. In this episode, we discuss: ✅ A reflection of Brittney’s toxic first marriage and how it impacted her daughter ✅ Dating as a single parent in modern times ✅ The challenges that arise when blending two families together ✅ Tips for creating a healthy blended family ✅ The advice Brittney would have given herself when she was first going through this ✅ The delicate balance of integrating a new parent figure into a child's life ✅ What to do about a stepchild in a loyalty bind? ✅ When and how to introduce your new partner to your kids ✅ The appropriate role of a stepparent within the family dynamic ✅ Tips for effective stepparenting ✅ The benefits of therapy for both children and adults in blended families ✅ Brittney’s approach to coaching individuals in blended families ✅ Understanding the difference between a coach and a therapist And so much more! You can learn more about Brittney and her practice at https://www.blendingbravely.com/ Connect with Brittney through Instagram and TikTok: @itsmebrittneyp Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Join us as we embark on a journey of personal transformation with our special guest, Carrie Sackett. Carrie, who has dedicated 25 years of her life to practicing social therapeutics, brings to the table a wealth of experience as a certified coach and founder of ZPD Coaching. Her mission is to make emotional growth and relational awareness widely accessible, empowering individuals to become creators of their own lives. In this conversation, we explore the realm of relational awareness, understanding how our interactions with others can ignite growth, healing, and personal development during times of uncertainty. Through Carrie's expert guidance, this episode offers a roadmap to deeper self-awareness, emotional growth, and more fulfilling relationships. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a divorce or seeking to enhance your interpersonal connections, this episode is a must-listen.In this episode, we discuss:✅ How she started helping individuals navigate major life transitions ✅ The innovative approach of social therapeutic coaching ✅ How she empowers individuals, couples, and families to create better relationships ✅ Supporting individuals coming out of failed relationships ✅ The difference between traditional talk therapy and social therapeutics ✅ How to grow emotional muscles ✅ Things to understand before entering a new relationship ✅ The key to reigniting our growth and development ✅ The importance of relationality—the activity of building and creating with others ✅ Why accepting your imperfections can help you create meaningful connections ✅ What to do when your partner isn't into personal growth ✅ Fostering an environment of growth and acceptance ✅ The positive impact of social therapeutics on men     ✅ How this method benefits divorced couples navigating the challenges of co-parenting      AND SO MUCH MORE…You can learn more about Carrie at https://www.zpdcoaching.com/ To connect with Carrie, email her at carrie@zpdcoaching.com Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Today, we're diving deep into the murky waters of divorcing a narcissist, a topic that strikes a chord with many of our listeners. We're joined by Stephany Ann, an attorney and international best-selling author whose own journey from adversity to advocacy serves as a beacon of hope for countless survivors of domestic violence and emotional trauma. With a heart for healing and a commitment to empowerment, Stephany shares her profound insights into the complexities of narcissism, marriage to a narcissist, and the arduous journey of co-parenting with grace and resilience in these situations. Through candid anecdotes, expert analysis, and heartfelt reflection, Stephany invites us to peer behind the veil of illusion and confront the harsh realities of being in a relationship with a narcissistic partner. In this episode, we discuss: •  The reality of being married to a narcissist •  A glimpse into Stephany’s two marriages to narcissists •  The impact of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) on relationships •  How a narcissistic parent impacts children •  Signs to help you spot narcissistic behavior •  Red flags you should never ignore •  The exhausting process of divorcing a narcissist •  The narcissistic abuse cycle: Idealization, devaluation, rejection •  Why is it so hard to leave a narcissist? •  Gaslighting: A hidden form of emotional abuse •   Invaluable advice for those navigating similar challenges •  What Stephany would have done differently •  The importance of self-reflection before entering new relationships •  The transformative power of emotional freedom To connect with Stephany Ann, email her at stephanyannspeaks@gmail.com Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Welcome to Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed, the podcast dedicated to helping men navigate the challenging terrain of divorce with grace, resilience, and clarity. Today, we're diving deep into the digital age's impact on divorce proceedings, exploring the latest methods and strategies to emerge in this evolving landscape. And who better to guide us through this maze of legal intricacies than our esteemed guest, Kristin Lis, Esq.? Kristin brings a wealth of experience in family law and mediation to the table, making her the perfect companion for our journey into the digital realm of divorce. From virtual hearings to online mediation, the game has changed, and Kristin is here to shed light on every twist and turn. In this episode, we'll uncover how technology has revolutionized divorce proceedings, turning traditional practices on their heads. Get ready to discover invaluable insights, from mastering your online mediation sessions to making the crucial decision of selecting the right attorney. Kristin's knowledge will arm you with the tools and strategies needed for your divorce to go more smoothly. In this episode, we discuss: •     What you can expect when entering the divorce process •     Insights into making your experience more manageable •     How the court system has adapted since COVID-19 •     The evolution of divorce proceedings in the digital age •     The benefits of virtual proceedings •     The groundbreaking advantages of online mediation •     Selecting the right mediator for your particular case •     The disadvantages of having an attorney with a one-size-fits-all approach •     Problems that arise when attorneys resist change •     Advocating for clients' active involvement in decision-making •     The importance of self-care during divorce proceedings •     AND SO MUCH MORE! You can learn more about Kristin by going to: https://www.gethappydivorce.com/our-team/kristin-m-lis/ Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

Hearing from divorced guys is always instructive. We always learn how these incredible men survived divorce and started the next chapter of their lives. But, we have a first on the podcast. A DIVORCED divorce mediator! Come find out how going through divorce can impact how a divorce professional's view on helping others through the divorce process: In this episode, we discuss: How do you know it is time to get divorcedThe best way to get divorcedHow to approach custody disputesHow to get your mindset positive when things get dirtyHow to hire the right attorneyDealing with a difficult spouseHow the divorce mediation process worksPutting together the right divorce teamAND SO MUCH MORE! You can learn more about Scott Orr by checking out his website:  https://www.tmolawfirm.com/attorney-orr  JOIN US FOR SEASON 4, COMING IN MARCH 2024

We sat down with two experienced divorce attorneys to learn how they help clients navigate the divorce system. And yes, it is a system. Surrounding yourself with the right divorce professionals is important to your success. We had a wide-ranging conversation on a variety of topics that are important to each and every man going through a divorce, including: Finding the Right Attorney for YouHow fellow attorneys interact with each otherThe different ways to get divorced, such as mediationMediation versus LitigationHow to talk to your spouse about the right divorce processIssues with the court system (aka not what you see on TV)Difference between men and women in communication with their attorney or mediatorControlling your life versus putting it in the hands of a judgeMost decisions made by judges in divorce are temporary and with little informationHow to effectively use your attorney (hint: Get a Therapist!)Different kinds of parenting schedulesAND SO MUCH MORE Find out more about our guests! Sylvia Breitowich, Esq. (https://www.breitowichlawfirm.com) Julia Dasaro, Esq. (https://www.dasarolaw.net)

We had an amazing and deep conversation with a family Lawyer, Jennifer McCaskill. McCaskill’s practice has been devoted exclusively to family law since she graduated from law school in 2002. She advises you to get a handle on the financials before you get divorced, look at your tax return and only sign an agreement after consulting a divorce lawyer.  We discussed: ✅ Alimony. ✅ Stigma of genders during a divorce. ✅ Strategies that divorce attorneys use against the other attorney.  ✅ Things you should search for in a mediator if you don’t have an attorney.  ✅ When should you look for an attorney?  ✅ Things to do before telling your spouse that you want the divorce.  ✅ The relationship you need to have with your attorney during this process.  ✅ Custody  AND SO MUCH MORE... You can learn more about our guest by going to www.jjmccaskill.com.

While ensuring you get divorced the right way is important, be sure not to overlook all the other things you need to do as you transition to the next chapter of your life. Estate planning, both pre-and post-divorce, is so important. Too often, people ignore this essential process that everyone should do. In this episode with the incredible Lauren Bercik, Esq., we discuss: ✅ What is a Will, and why do you need one? ✅ The other documents you need in addition to a Will ✅ The process your loved ones will go through if you don't have a Will or have one that is done incorrectly ✅ The role of life insurance in estate planning and, in particular, securing support obligations in a divorce decree ✅ How where you live impacts Wills and other estate planning documents ✅ The importance of Living Wills, Advanced Directives, and Medical Powers of Attorney ✅ When and how you modify your Will during and after the divorce process AND SO MUCH MORE... You can learn more about our guest by going to berciklaw.com.

Check out our conversation with Kenneth Harrell; we discuss how he survived a Divorce Against a Spouse Who Wanted to Win at All Costs. Kenneth shares his thoughts about how sometimes an attorney could make things worse, feeding the fire during the process, and how his case got so bad because the attorney wasn't helping his ex-spouse make decisions; instead, he was backing her up. You need your attorney to be honest about when to stop fighting.  We discussed: ✅ The common reasons why people try to save their marriage and how society, cultural aspects, and your children could affect your decision. ✅ The divorce process and the complications you could get. ✅ How to handle a spouse who is too emotional and thinks a divorce is a competition. ✅ How to identify a reasonable attorney and the benefits of having a neutral mediator so he can help with what works best for both parties.  ✅ His life after divorce and how he wishes he would've decided to divorce before so his happiness could've finally started earlier.  ...AND SO MUCH MORE... For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/.

Join me for an extraordinary conversation about Tips & Strategies from Divorce Coaches: Tips to Move Forward. Our Special Guest, Jennifer Warren Medwin, is a Divorce Coach, Family Mediator, and marital mediator. Her private practice in Pinecrest, Miami, is called Seeking Empowerment: Clarity Through Partnership. Jennifer specializes in working alongside individuals and couples who are contemplating divorce and are fearful of high conflict and with those who hope to save their marriage. She partners with clients to develop the clarity, confidence, courage, conflict management, strategies, and communication skills they need to move through the process.  She advises you to be the boss of your process during a divorce, don't give away your power to the professional because they won't be with you when this is settled; you should follow your intuition. In this episode, we discuss the following: ✅   Divorce Coaching  ✅   Four Quadrants of Divorce ✅   Mediation ✅   Ways of Communication during the mediation and divorce process  ✅   Attorney and Divorce Coach. Differences and reasons to have both. ...AND SO MUCH MORE... For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/. For more information about our guest Jennifer Warren, contact her on: Email: Jen@seekingempowerment.com Website: www.seekingempowerent.com Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn: @jenseekingempowerment https://www.amazon.com/Strategies-Tips-Divorce-Coach-Roadmap/dp/1736854410/ref=sr_1_3?crid=1996RCJKQ4YMRhttps://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/strategies-and-tips-from-a-divorce-coach-jennifer-warren-medwin/1140843462

Join me for an inspiring conversation about how to have a GOOD divorce. Our special guest Sarah Armstrong, good divorce proponent and author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce, is vice-president of global marketing operations at Google and proud mom of Grace. She was seven years old when Sarah divorced. Grace is now entering her sophomore year in college. Sarah is a mentor to other women and men in business and a longtime volunteer at various nonprofit organizations, including the Jack & Jill Late Stage Cancer Foundation, Georgetown Alumni Admissions Program, and soup kitchens. Sarah shares with us how the mindset could be crucial during a divorce and post-divorce and that if you're divorced doesn't mean that you cannot be happy or your kids. She also wants to let you know that when you go through a divorce, you must take it one step at a time. There will be a better and happier phase in your life, but you have to realize that divorce is tricky, but you get over it. In this episode, we discuss the following: ✅   Post-Divorce Life ✅  Society and divorce  ✅  New relationships after divorce.  ✅  Writing the next chapter of your life.  ✅ How you must think about kids' schedules during-after divorce, so it doesn't impact them. ✅ How to deal with emotions ✅ How Kids can suffer collateral damage  ...AND SO MUCH MORE... For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/. For more information about our guest Sarah Armstrong, contact her on: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarah-madden-armstrong-5432887 Email: sarah@gooddivorce.guide

This is a great conversation that John had with Erin Brueche, Esq., the host of Legal Breakdown. They discuss the role of a divorce coach in a divorce. They also go into all of the ways you can get divorced without going to court, including mediation, arbitration, and collaborative divorce.

Join me for an inspiring conversation about overcoming mental and physical obstacles.  Our special guest Jorge Vasquez (@i.am.j.v.coaching), author of the book "Success is Standing" will tell you all about how to overcome physical and mental obstacles without losing balance in life; Jorge has a powerful life story of how during a stage of his life he was homeless and going through a divorce during the same time, but he overcomes these obstacles. As he says, Focus on yourself; if you get better, you will start attracting better things in your life.  In this episode, we discuss the following: ✅  How to improve your confidence.  ✅  How to work on your mindset. ✅  How to work on your Body (fitness and nutrition) ✅  How to work on your spirit.  ✅ Managing changes in your life and people's perspective.  ✅ Managing the energies in your life and handling toxicity.  ✅ Personal Development.  ...AND SO MUCH MORE... For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/. For more information about our guest Jorge Vasquez, contact him on: Instagram: @i.am.j.v.coaching Email: CoachJorge@JVCC.com  Facebook Profile: https://www.facebook.com/J.V.Coaching.consulting Tiktok: @jv_coaching

Join me for an exciting conversation about reinventing yourself and getting a divorce without hate. It's not true that you have to feel hatred for your ex-spouse after the split; however, you cannot control how each person wants their life post-relationship. Our special guest Nancy Sawyer (@mama_of_reinvention), will tell you all about reinventing yourself; Nancy has spent the last ten years reinventing herself and picking herself back up after life sent her challenge after challenge. An entrepreneur for 25+ years and a happily divorced Mom of two teens, Coach Nancy is on a mission to help divorcees rediscover their joy and reclaim their lives. In this episode, we discuss: ✅ How to manage emotions during a divorce process and post-divorce. ✅ How to co-parent when your ex-spouse has a new relationship. ✅ Interpersonal relations during a divorce process and after. ✅ How to have a different perspective about divorce. ...AND SO MUCH MORE... For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/. For more information about our guest Nancy Sawyer, book a free call with Nancy to talk through where you are and where you want to be. (This is not a sales call! It's a free offer to help you identify the most important next step for you to begin the rest of your life.) Phone Number: (781) 760-2061 Website:  https://www.nancybsawyer.com/ Instagram: @mama_of_reinvention Email: nancy@nancybsawyer.com Facebook Profile: @Nancy.m.sawyer.9

Join me for an empowering conversation about Surviving Divorce and Living Your Best Life. You might wonder if it's possible or too reasonable to believe that you can have a better future than before, but I am here today with some encouraging news! Our special guest Warren Lieff (@livin_life_inspired) will tell all - he was 59 years old when he decided on this course of action and said, "it is never too late." He shared his story so YOU CAN KNOW what YOU NEED TO DO next. In this episode, we discuss: ✅ How divorce impacts your life. ✅ How can you pick yourself back up? ✅ Co-parenting during and after divorce. ✅ How to reinvent yourself. ...AND SO MUCH MORE... For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/ For more information about our guest Warren Lieff: Phone Number: 203-913-4922 Website: livinlifeinspired.com Instagram: @livin_life_inspired

Coming to the terms with yourself that divorce is the right decision, is never easy. Sometimes, the road to that happy ending that we’ve all dreamed of takes a few wicked turns along the way—but choosing your happiness and your children’s wellbeing, above all else, will always be an act of bravery. In this final episode of 2021, I’d like to give our listeners an update on the divorce process that I’m currently going through, as well as share all of the ways that I've been able to put to use all of the crucial and valuable information that has been discussed since the beginning of this podcast. In this episode, we discuss: ✅ Identifying if getting divorced is the best decision ✅ Throwing your excuses out the window ✅ Understanding divorce is a personal decision that no one else can make for you ✅ Overcoming the fear of divorce ✅ You’re entitled to be completely happy! ✅ Components that can and can’t be fixed in a marriage ✅ Divorce is not a failure ✅ Signs that the relationship isn’t working for you anymore ✅ What happens next? The first step in the divorce process ✅ The key to a better divorce process ✅ The first person you should reach out to ✅ How to keep your emotions in check ✅ Mediation is the best option in most cases ✅ Making the best of your life ....AND MUCH MORE.....