The Real Deal with Jen Costa

Jen Costa Medium

Welcome to The Real Deal with Jen Costa, your podcast for all things spiritual where I take you along on my journey through life and we talk about mediumship, all things woo, and everything in between. read less
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28 - Intuitive Kids: Then & Now with Emily Barnard
Apr 2 2024
28 - Intuitive Kids: Then & Now with Emily Barnard
Welcome to Intuitive Kids: Then & Now. In this sub series, I'll be chatting with experienced intuitives, mediums, and psychics about their childhood experiences with intuition and psychic abilities. Through these conversations, I aim to offer a sense of community and reassurance to you, the listeners that you're not alone on your spiritual journey. I hope you enjoy! Today my guest is Emily Barnard. Emily is an Astrologist, Medium, Akashic Records reader and Intuitive Alignment mentor. She hosts a podcast called “Things That Make You Go Woo.” And she also has a membership called Third Eye Library. What I love about Emily is that she breaks down astrology in a way that is easy to understand. During our interview we discuss: Emily’s childhood experiences and intuition, including vivid dreams, feelings of being watched, and brief moments of consciousness separation from her body.How she struggled to fit in but found solace in nature and creativity.How she wished she had been braver sharing her experiences with her parents and fully embracing her giftsAdvice for her younger selfHow she was able to use astrology to bridge the woo and the mainstreamHow to support intuitive children by: empowering their curiosityprioritizing feeling heard instead of dismissing their fearsseeking trusted guidanceroom makeovers and energy Finding community and understandingConnection with animalsEmily also mentions the church she attended in her youth, MileHi Church and it's founder, Ernest Holmes. If you want to connect with Emily or find out more about her and what she offers: follow her on Instagram @emilyandherstarsEmily’s WebsiteThird Eye Library-MembershipPODCAST-INSTAGRAM: Things that make you go WooPODCAST-Things That Make You Go Woo: SPOTIFY APPLE If you have questions, are interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com. Follow me on Instagram
27 - Intuitive Kids: Then & Now with Monica Chaffee
Mar 19 2024
27 - Intuitive Kids: Then & Now with Monica Chaffee
Welcome to Intuitive Kids: Then & Now. In this sub series, I'll be chatting with experienced intuitives, mediums, and psychics about their childhood experiences with intuition and psychic abilities. Through these conversations, I aim to offer a sense of community and reassurance to you, the listeners that you're not alone on your spiritual journey. I hope you enjoy! Today my guest is Monica Chaffee. Monica is a psychic, medium, empath, tarot and oracle card reader, energy healer, yoga instructor, priestess in the temple of witchcraft, surfer and a mom….among many other things. We discuss: How she first recognized her intuitive abilitiesHer Catholic Latina upbringingHer experience in New Orleans while in high schoolHow she navigated her spirituality without any guidance or mentorship as a younger personSpiritual practices and traumaIntuitive abilities and parenting challengesHelping children deal with energy that scares themHow she parents now knowing her child is intuitive just as she wasSleep disturbances and fear in children and how to help themand much more! If you want to connect with Monica or find out more about her and what she offers you can: follow her on Instagram @monica_chaffeeMonica’s FacebookBook a reading at Zuzu’s in Peabody, MAEmail: MonicaChaffee@gmail.com If you have questions, are interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com. Follow me on Instagram
25 - Intuitive Kids: Then & Now with Jenni Conn
Mar 5 2024
25 - Intuitive Kids: Then & Now with Jenni Conn
Welcome to Intuitive Kids: Then & Now. In this sub series, I'll be chatting with experienced intuitives, mediums, and psychics about their childhood experiences with intuition and psychic abilities. Through these conversations, I aim to offer a sense of community and reassurance to you, the listeners that you're not alone on your spiritual journey. I hope you enjoy! Today my guest is Jenni Conn, who also goes by The Medium Experience. Jenni is a psychic medium who has a deep love and respect for psychology. She hosts beautiful in person retreats, mentors others on their healing path, provides education through coaching and workshops. She also just launched a membership, hosts a podcast called the Medium Experience, and is just an amazing overall person. We discuss: How she was an extremely empathic child and cried a lot in her elementary yearsHow she could “read” people in middle schoolHow she shifted and received attention for being “the girl no one would want to mess with” in schoolHer experience on the wrestling teamHer experience with her mother who was involved in the intuitive worldHer belief that all children are intuitiveHow being intuitive has enriched her lifeTrauma and conditioning and the role it plays in our livesAdvice to kids who don’t want to experience their intuitive abilitiesGuidance she gives to her own two intuitive sonsand more! If you want to connect with Jenni or find out more about her and what she offers you can: Website: The Medium ExperienceFollow Jenni on Instagram @themediumexperiencePodcast The Medium Experience: Apple  Spotify Jenni and I are teaching a class together! It’s a 5 week Intuitive Development group for women. If you’re curious DM myself or Jenni for more info or SIGN UP HERE If you have questions, are interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com. Follow me on Instagram
23 - Intuitive Kids: Then & Now with Bri Millar
Feb 20 2024
23 - Intuitive Kids: Then & Now with Bri Millar
Today my guest is Bri Millar, who also goes by Daylight Oracle. Bri is a psychic medium and intuitive guide. Growing up she was a very psychic and empathic child but it wasn’t until a life altering car accident that she became dedicated to working with her abilities. Ultimately having to leave a successful career as a teacher, she was able to find healing & magic through Mediumship and other modalities such as Reiki & Angel connections.  We discuss: Being an empathic child and growing up with religious parentsHaving multiple spiritual awakenings throughout life from grade 2 to nowBri’s experience as a teacher working with deaf, blind and/or autistic children and looking back how her intuitiveness, empathicness and psychic abilities helped herBeing bullied from grade 3-11 and the role her empathic abilities played in her experienceHow being friends with the ‘outcasts’ in high school carried over to who she likes to work with/help today We also touch upon advice for parents on how to help and support an empathic child: When presented with something different we can find that very challenging. Respond with Curiosity.Encourage parents to learn about intuitive abilities OR find the child someone to talk to.When they share their experiences with you, believe your child OR believe that is the experience they are having. Connect with Bri: Bri’s websitePodcast: The Lightworker Connection – Apple |  Spotify  |  PodbeanInstagram If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com. Follow me on Instagram
20 - Developing Intuition: Tools & Exercises for Spiritual Growth
Nov 14 2023
20 - Developing Intuition: Tools & Exercises for Spiritual Growth
In this episode, I share valuable insights into the tools and exercises that played a crucial role in my personal journey and mediumship development classes. Tools for Personal Development: Meditation Magic: Dive into the transformative power of meditation as I recount my personal meditation experiences. Discover how this practice can become a cornerstone for developing my own intuition.Sitting in the Power: Uncover the concept of "Sitting in the Power" and its significance in enhancing your spiritual connection. Gain insights into how this practice can deepen your intuitive abilities.Visualizing Energy: Explore the art of seeing energy and its various forms. Learn about my own experiences and understand the visual cues that can guide you on your spiritual journey.Allowing Spirit's Influence: Delve into the intriguing topic of allowing spirit to move your body. I discuss the nuances of this experience and share insights.The Journaling Journey: Discover the power of journaling as a tool for intuitive development. I explore the journaling process and how it can be a transformative practice on your path to heightened intuition.Practical Exercises for Fun and Growth: Card Deck Intuition: Elevate your intuitive skills with practical exercises using regular card decks or UNO cards. Learn how these simple tools can be gateways to heightened perception.Color Guessing with Felt Pads: Engage in a vibrant exercise of guessing colors using felt pads. Uncover the fun and insightful ways in which this activity can sharpen your intuitive senses.Amplifying Clairaudience: I share a technique for increasing clairaudience, allowing you to tune into the subtle sounds of the spiritual realm. Explore practical exercises to enhance this aspect of intuition.Musical Intuition: Discover the role of songs in intuition. I elaborate on how certain tunes can serve as powerful conduits for spiritual connection and offer exercises to incorporate music into your intuitive practices.Aura-Seeing: Delve into the world of auras with a practical exercise for honing your ability to see and interpret energy fields.These tools and exercises are not only informative but also designed to make your intuitive development an enriching and enjoyable experience. Remember the more you can have fun with these exercises the easier the answers flow to you. If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com. Follow me on Instagram
18 - Understanding Your Child’s Intuition: A Guide for Parents on Intuitive (Psychic) Experiences in Children
Oct 19 2023
18 - Understanding Your Child’s Intuition: A Guide for Parents on Intuitive (Psychic) Experiences in Children
In this episode, I explore why kids often exhibit a natural sensitivity to the metaphysical world and how, as parents, we can navigate and support these unique encounters. Join me as I share personal stories, practical tips, and insights to help you understand and assist your child on their intuitive journey. Whether you're a parent seeking guidance or a curious young listener, this episode is an exploration into the world of psychic/intuitive sensitivity in children. In this episode I address the following: Why are children so open to the "woo" when they're younger? Conditioning by Society: Children, especially in North America, are naturally open before societal conditioning takes hold.The unfiltered connection they feel is considered normal until influenced otherwise.  Varying Degrees: Not every child will experience intuitive moments, and those who do may vary in their degree of sensitivity My Daughter's Journey: Early Signs: As a baby, my daughter displayed sensitivity, crying when other babies cried.Neurodevelopmental evaluation led to occupational therapy and a specialized anxiety program. Anxiety and Sensitivity: Explored anxiety through Tony Stockwell meditation at 5-6 years old.Recognized as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) with deep empathy and intuition.Struggles in groups, aversion to loud sounds, and big worries about the world. Other Signs of Intuition: Reading people effortlessly, strong connection to animals, and moments of unexpected insight. Sleeping Challenges: Fear of the Dark: Sleeping issues, fear of the dark.Use of strand lights or salt lamps for a comforting, low-lit environment. Our World View: Psychic Kids in Media: Addressing sensationalism in Hollywood.Embracing the concept of subtle energy. Parental Guidance: Your Kid is Not Cursed (not that I know of anyway): Reassurance that intuitive kids aren't cursed-as this has not been in my own personal experience.Caution against relying solely on gems and objects; mental health check is crucial. Communication: Encouraging open dialogue about any unusual experiences.Recognizing that what seems normal to them might be extraordinary. Acceptance and Understanding: Avoiding dismissiveness; instead, listen and give time for understanding to unfold.Developmental challenges in comprehending their experiences. Supportive Measures: Assurance of safety.Medium consultations and therapy considerations.Connection with metaphysical shops and kids' groups. Grounding Techniques: Going outside barefoot, holding rocks, practicing yoga. Tools for Coping: Setting Boundaries: Establishing boundaries with the metaphysical realm.Recognizing that communication can feel overwhelming. Practical Techniques: Using sprays and rituals from metaphysical shops.Consistent practice; intuition is a skill that develops over time. Nighttime Routine: Rituals and routines before bedtime.Intentional use of lights and energy protection techniques. Personal Practices: Collaborative meditations to ease anxiety.Card-pulling in the morning for guidance.Use of energy-clearing sprays and crystals. My Personal Journey: Late Awakening My own significant intuitive experiences didn't occur until I was 36.Deep connections with horses, highly sensitive as a child. Empathy and Nature Connection: Profound ability to read people. If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com. Follow me on Instagram
17- Demystifying Mediumship: What to Expect During a Mediumship Reading and More
Sep 21 2023
17- Demystifying Mediumship: What to Expect During a Mediumship Reading and More
Today, I aim to demystify mediumship and provide you with valuable insights into what to expect during a mediumship reading, and what I wish I knew before my first reading. In this episode, I address the following key questions: What is a Mediumship Reading? Discover the fundamental concept of a mediumship reading and how it differs from other types of spiritual readings. What is a Psychic Reading? Explore the distinction between mediumship and psychic readings to gain a clearer understanding of these spiritual practices. What Happens During a Mediumship Reading? Delve into the intriguing process of a mediumship reading and learn about the connections that are made with spirit. How to Find the Right Medium? Finding a trustworthy medium is crucial. I offer guidance on how to choose the right medium for your needs, including: Seeking referrals from trusted sources.Considering the pros and cons of in-person readings versus virtual sessions via platforms like Zoom or phone calls.Evaluating mediums through their online presence, websites, podcasts, or social media. Discernment is key.Emphasizing the importance of personal resonance over popularity when selecting a medium.Checking if their services align with your specific needs.Understanding each persons pricing and ensuring it fits your budget. How to Prepare for a Mediumship Reading Learn the steps to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for a mediumship reading to maximize the experience. You can prepare or not, it’s all up to you. How Often Should You Get a Reading? Discover the ideal frequency for seeking mediumship readings and gain insights into when it might be most beneficial for you. Why Do People Seek Mediumship Readings? Explore the various reasons why individuals turn to mediums for guidance, healing, and connection with the spirit world. Join me as I attempt to demystify mediumship and empower you with the knowledge you need to make informed decisions about your spiritual path. Whether you're new to mediumship or seeking to deepen your understanding, this episode has something for everyone.   If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com. Follow me on Instagram
15 - Embracing Life’s Fragility: Reflections on Grief, Kindness, and Spiritual Awareness
Jul 20 2023
15 - Embracing Life’s Fragility: Reflections on Grief, Kindness, and Spiritual Awareness
This week, I address two significant personal losses that my partner and I have experienced. We were confronted with the heartbreaking news of my partner's miscarriage, as well as the sudden and unexpected passing of her best friend. Needless to say, it has been an incredibly challenging and emotionally draining week for both of us. Throughout this period of grief and reflection, I have come to contemplate several important aspects. Firstly, I have reflected on the concept of holding space for someone who is grieving. These devastating events have prompted us to reevaluate our lives and reassess our priorities. They have served as a stark reminder that life is fragile and unpredictable, urging us to focus on what truly matters. In the face of tragedy, kindness takes on a heightened significance. It becomes evident that small acts of compassion can have a profound impact on those who are suffering. I have also experienced some peculiar and surprisingly meaningful occurrences surrounding these two major life events. After reflecting on these experiences, I have a few key takeaways. First and foremost, it is crucial to live life to the fullest in the present moment.Expressing love and appreciation to our loved ones and friends should be a constant practice.Don’t postpone plans or even simple activities like going for a walk, as time is precious and unpredictable.Lastly, spirit is always communicating with us.Spirit is always communicating with us, but are we listening?With openness and receptivity, we may discover wisdom and guidance in the signs and synchronicities that surround us. These personal losses have left an indelible mark on our lives, urging us to approach life with a renewed perspective. By embracing the lessons we have learned, we can navigate the complexities of grief and honor the memories of those we have lost. I wish you to be inspired to live each day with intention, love, and a deep appreciation for the connections we share with others. If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com. Follow me on Instagram
09 - Why I Do Mediumship, Reflections on this Podcast and the Stereotypes Surrounding Mediumship
May 11 2023
09 - Why I Do Mediumship, Reflections on this Podcast and the Stereotypes Surrounding Mediumship
On this weeks episode I talk about three things: why I do mediumship, reflections that came up around the launch and reception of my podcast, and the stereotypes about mediumship. Check out the notes below for a more depth look but as always, I hope you enjoy and thanks for listening. Why I do mediumship: It was not my intention to start doing mediumshipMediumship has saved my life, given me life, and given me my life backIt’s helped me become more comfortable with the dark places in my lifeIt has helped me more than any therapy I’ve done but I don’t discount the benefit of therapyI used to feel like I was walking around in a fog before, due to my traumaHelped me identify triggers with my own PTSD and anxietyI realized a bit of healing I could give other peopleTo see the tiniest bit of healing is a way for me to give back a bit of what I have received Podcast things that came up around it: It’s taken me six years to stand in my own power and do thisI’m not trying to convert anyone, I’m doing this for meFear of potential criticism-people thinking I’m crazyHealing my own issues around being seen and heardAll the negative things I thought would happen by putting this out, haven’t Stereotypes of mediumship: Mediumship is ripe with stereotypesAmerican culture has many accepted religions but mediumship is considered ‘weird’Our culture tells us what’s acceptedIn other cultures, talking to spirits is ‘normal’Cultural acceptance and being gay - culture defines what is okIt takes people time to come around to acceptance, if they doThe role that fear plays in others acceptance of mediumship If you're interested in learning more or booking a reading with me you can go to jencostamedium.com. Follow me on Instagram