Think equal division of chores guarantees happiness in marriage? Think again. The truth is: it’s not the fighting about chores that’s the problem - it’s the lack of communication. In today’s episode we uncover the myth of 50-50 and explore the real ingredients to a successful marriage. John and I are pulling back the curtain on our own 25+ year relationship as we share our own strategies, including understanding each other's priorities and embracing diverse work styles leading to deeper, more meaningful connections. I’ll also share our five-step approach to divide and conquer household responsibilities, making sure everyone plays to their strengths.   In this episode you’ll learn: How can I improve communication in my marriage? What are simple ways to divide household chores with your spouse? What is the best way to delegate household tasks in a marriage? How can I communicate better with my family?   Topics Covered: - Division of household labor - Communication in marriage - Gender roles and chores - Effective delegation in relationships - Keys for stronger marriage - Family Meetings - Intentional Relationship Building Key Moments in the Show: [02:13] Appreciating the Differences in Your Marriage [08:37] Turning Frustration into Appreciation [14:10] Dividing Up Chores and Tasks with Your Spouse [19:23] Deciding Which Tasks Are Important [21:41] Who's in Charge? [25:17] How To Make Sure Tasks Get Done Right [33:32] How to Build a Strong Supportive Family   Get free resources for this episode at  TanyaDalton.com/connect   Connect with Tanya Dalton on LinkedIn Watch the episode on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts   Full Transcript and Show Notes: TanyaDalton.com/podcast

What if embracing your weaknesses actually amplifies your strengths? In today’s episode we reveal the transformative power of embracing your true strengths—even those you might consider weaknesses. We dive into the shadow side of strengths as well the surprising positive impact of knowing your weaknesses. We discuss how this awareness can improve communication, strengthen relationships, and even assist in overcoming perfectionism, ultimately leading to a more joyful and intentional life. We talk about how strengths influence teamwork, collaboration, and parenthood. Tune in to unlock the strategic advantage of knowing yourself and others better while setting you up with a leadership approach that’s tailored to you.   IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: What is the best way to leverage your strengths at work? How can I figure out my personal strengths and weaknesses? How do strengths and weaknesses impact parenting styles? What does focusing on your strengths do to increase productivity? How can I communicate better with my team? TOPICS COVERED: - Leveraging strengths - Leadership styles - Communication styles - Employee-employer fit - Strengths-based productivity - Perfectionism in the workplace - Clifton Strengths Test - Parenting with strengths and weaknesses   KEY MOMENTS IN THE SHOW: [01:42] Why Do I Need to Know My Weaknesses? [03:59] Is Quietness a Strength or Weakness? [07:16] Why We Need to Understand Our Strengths [11:55] Strengths Help Deepen Connections [19:21] Strengths in Marriage and Parenting [23:42] Strengths With Your Team at Work [29:20] Communication Strengths and Weaknesses [31:45] Do You Have a Leadership Guide? [35:53] Finding Your Superpowers   Get free resources for this episode at  TanyaDalton.com/connect   Connect with Tanya Dalton on LinkedIn Watch the episode on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts

What if you stopped fighting that loud inner voice of self-doubt? In this week’s episode we share how you can transform the way you approach your innermost thoughts and challenges by flipping the script on silencing your inner critic, disarming your negative thoughts and embracing your vulnerability. Rachael Jayne Groover is with me on the show for an empowering discussion that merges the realms of psychology, spirituality, and pragmatic lifestyle changes. RJ shares her transformative strategies to shift your mental frequency away from negative thought patterns helping you ignite a more profound awakening to your personal and professional potential.     In this episode you’ll learn: What are effective strategies to manage negative thoughts? How can spiritual awakening impact daily life? What is the mind, body, and spirit connection? What can I do to overcome self-doubt?     Topics Covered: - Internal dialogue and self-doubt - Distancing from negative thoughts - Ego and personal development - Spiritual awakening process - Inner peace in daily life - Mind-body-spirit connection - Self-improvement vs. letting go - Dealing with inner dialogues Key Moments in the Show: [02:52] The Pressure to Conform [06:20] Finding That Inner Peace [09:26] The Mind-Body-Spirit Connection [12:47] How We Subconsciously Sabotage Ourselves [15:25] Personal Growth and Discomfort [17:41] How Can We Reframe How We Look at Our Ego? [22:15] Strategies for Managing Negative Thoughts [26:58] The Why-Free Diet     Get free resources for this episode at  TanyaDalton.com/connect   Connect with Tanya Dalton on LinkedIn Watch the episode on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts   Full Transcript and Show Notes: TanyaDalton.com/podcast

Think every leader needs to start their day at dawn to achieve greatness? Think again. It’s time to swap out early alarms for meaningful morning rituals. In this episode, we dismantle the myth that success demands a ruthless morning routine. We talk about how habits create shortcuts to productivity and how habit stacking creates structure. However, when we add in emotional depth we can actually transform daily tasks from mundane to monumental. This boots our productivity–not just in the morning, but all day long. When we upgrade routines into rituals, we can turn autopilot living into a life of purpose.   In this episode you’ll learn: How do habits impact productivity? What is habit stacking and how does it work? What is the difference between routines and rituals? How can I create a meaningful morning routine?   Topics Covered: - Routines vs Rituals - Morning Routines - Habits in Productivity - Duke University Habits Study - Habit Cues - Habit Stacking - Intentional Morning Blueprint   Key Moments in the Show: [02:30] Why Do We Need Habits? [04:27] Weirdest Celebrity Habit Fact [05:42] How Habits Create More Brainspace [06:53] Habit Stacking is a Fancy World for Routine [08:57] Shifting from Routines to Rituals [11:30] Creating Stronger Transitions for Your Day [13:12] Increasing Productivity While Working Remotely [19:18] Rigid Structure Doesn't Make You Productive [24:37] The One Question to Answer to Decide Your Morning Routine   Get free resources for this episode at  TanyaDalton.com/connect   Connect with Tanya Dalton on LinkedIn Watch the episode on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts   Full Transcript and Show Notes: TanyaDalton.com/podcast

Is the life you're leading the one you've always dreamed of, or are you just ticking boxes on society's checklist? I know I was for far too long. After months of grappling with health challenges and facing the reality of burnout, I’m back with a new episode where we dive into the question, “Does your life spark joy?”In this week’s episode I talk about the power of my Radical Sabbatical and how it helped me to reassess, realign and realize how important it is to build a sustainable life that resonates with who you are, not just what you do.   In this episode you’ll learn: How can I figure out what makes me happy? What do I need to prioritize for my mental health? What makes me happy? How can I  recognize when I need a break? Topics Covered: - Radical Sabbatical - Today Show Appearance - Perimenopause  - Substack - Women’s Health - Self-Care and Burnout Key Moments in the Show: [02:54] The Radical Sabbatical & The Today Show [06:11] Radical Sabbatical & The Murder Scene [09:50] My Body Was Clearly Telling Me [12:44] The Worst Word [17:10] Feeling Like You're in The Void [21:21] What's the Plan Moving Forward? [28:39] What is YOUR Joy?   Get free resources for this episode at  TanyaDalton.com/connect   Connect with Tanya Dalton on LinkedIn Watch the episode on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts   Full Transcript and Show Notes: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/radical-sabbatical/

What if I told you that you don't need to check off every item on your to-do list to have a successful day? In this week’s episode, we explore the power of slowing down and being fully present in the moment. From savoring meals to stepping back from work and assessing yourself, you'll learn how being intentional with your time can lead to greater satisfaction, happiness, and success. We discuss the idea of repacing, finding joy in missing out and reducing burnout. Join us as we debunk old models of work and discover a new approach to productivity that puts you in the driver's seat.   In this episode you’ll learn: How can I be more present in my daily life? What is mindful eating and why is it important? How can I improve my time management skills? What are some exercises for practicing mindfulness? How can I work faster?   Topics Covered: - Mindful living - Oxford Talks - Mindful eating - Joy of missing out (JOMO) - Reflection  - Exercise to start being mindful   Key Moments in the Show: [06:46] The Secret to My Strong Marriage [09:31] The Evolution of Who You Married [12:50] Selling inkWELL Press [16:49] My Identity Crisis [18:10] The Need for Re-pacing [23:02] The Optimal Nap Time Length [25:02] The 4 Questions for Reflection [26:09] Time Management Doesn't Work [30:49] How to Eat Mindfully [33:51] An Exercise to Help You Start Eating Mindfully [37:29] Mindful Eating Led to Mindful Living   Want 5 Minutes to Peak Productivity? Join Tanya’s free Take 5 Challenge at  TanyaDalton.com/take5   Connect with Tanya Dalton on LinkedIn Watch the episode on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts Full Transcript and Show Notes: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/pregnant-pause/

We are often sold on comfort in today's society, but discomfort is actually necessary for achieving growth and success. I’ve got Dr. Nneka Unachukwu on the show to talk about becoming strategic in handling discomfort and understanding that every piece of pain has a purpose. We highlight the importance of getting unstuck by making choices and then taking action. We also address the challenges of looking within to confront internal wounds and the value of observing situations without letting emotions get in the way. The hard times in life can feel dark and hopeless, but they can also lead to growth and positive changes.   In this episode you’ll learn: How can I get unstuck? What are some tips for finding purpose in difficult experiences? What is a self-audit? How can I recover from failure? Topics Covered: self-audit for professional growth, embracing discomfort, growth, trying new things, opportunity to learn, getting unstuck, building resilience, importance of discomfort, seeking comfort, recovering from failure, forgiveness, resistance points, word of the year, personal growth, strong mindset, pain with a purpose, reflection muscle, evolution, becoming an observer    Key Moments in the Show: [04:34] Why We Feel Stuck [06:35] Why You Actually Aren't Achieving Your Goals [11:01] How to Be an Observer in Your Own Life [14:30] Why Growth Means Failure [18:36] Why We Need to Stop Searching for Comfort [21:28] Real Talk About Marriage and Life [24:38] How to Extract Lessons in Midst of Hard Times [34:03] Reflection Exercise with Questions    Want 5 Minutes to Peak Productivity? Join Tanya’s free Take 5 Challenge at  TanyaDalton.com/take5   Connect with Tanya Dalton on LinkedIn Watch the episode on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts Full Transcript and Show Notes: TanyaDalton.com/podcast

Are you living by rules and standards created by people long dead? It’s time for liberation and breaking free of the old models of work and life. Today I’ve got Ali Brown on the show who talks about the magic we experience when we let go of our old scorecards for success that no longer serve us, release ourselves from the tight constraints of what everyone else thinks and step into our own power no matter what age we are. We dive into how gratitude helps us rediscover the magic in our everyday lives and how aging is simply another form of empowerment.    In this episode you’ll learn: What do I do if I feel like I’ve gotten off track? When is a woman in her prime? Does practicing gratitude really work? What’s the best part about turning 40 or 50?   Topics Covered: Frequency Illusion, self-discovery, personal growth, women's power, liberation, authority and structure, business complexity, clearing out old relationships, two different worlds, expressing gratitude, reticular activating system, being outside, creating a path, trusting oneself, shifting identity, simplicity, redefining success, aged confidence, stepping into power, women's prime, creativity, traditional work model, breaking away from 40-hour work week   Key Moments in the Show: [04:55] What does liberation look like [08:26] Being On The Right Path Might Look Wrong [10:00] A Scientifically Proven Way to Find Magic [12:22] Why It's Easier to See the Negative Instead of the Positive [15:14] Time Management Doesn't Work [19:47] Your Scorecard for Success [23:11] Why I Left Social Media (and Don't Regret It) [24:38] Why It's Easy to Get Stuck in an Identity [25:16] The Benefits of Aging [28:07] When Is a Woman In Her Prime? [29:43] How To Stop Procrastinating (or whatever you think holds you back) Want 5 Minutes to Peak Productivity? Join Tanya’s free Take 5 Challenge at:  TanyaDalton.com/take5   Connect with Tanya Dalton on LinkedIn Watch the episode on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts   Full Transcript and Show Notes: TanyaDalton.com/podcast

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Sometimes it can feel like a struggle to be heard. We feel like no one is truly listening or we get frustrated because it seems like no one understands our needs. But we need to ask ourselves: Are we communicating effectively? In today’s episode, I’ve got Kris Plachy joining me to explore the challenges and importance of asking for support, dealing with failure, and embracing feminine leadership qualities. We dive into creating a culture of feedback and accountability, which benefits you and your team. We get candid about the difference between feedback and criticism and how important it is to create an environment where feedback is not just accepted but expected. Today’s show is packed with actionable strategies and tips to help you lead at work and at home.   IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: What is accountability culture and why is it important in organizations? What’s the difference between feedback and criticism? How can we learn from failure? What are some powerful leadership traits that are traditionally associated with femininity? What qualities are important for leaders to have   Topics Covered: clear communication, lack of accountability in society, accountability culture, feedback, culture of feedback, guidelines for giving feedback, criticism, feedback vs criticism, women and asking for support, deal breakers, embracing failure, constant growth, leadership models, feminine leadership traits, work-life balance, new business approach, communication maturity, responsibility, agency, creating change, internal struggle, accountability conversations,   KEY MOMENTS: [00:00] Introducing Kris Plachy [06:44] Why Failure is Essential to the Progress [09:25] Creating a Leadership User Guide [12:20] Why Asking for Help Can Be a Struggle [15:36] When Your Assistant Isn't Your Assistant [16:59] Why Training People Takes So Much Time [20:22] Creating a Culture of Feedback [22:04] The Difference Between Feedback and Criticism [25:22] Leading with Love [28:43] Embracing the Feminine and Masculine Energy in Leadership   Want 5 Minutes to Peak Productivity? Join Tanya’s free Take 5 Challenge at  TanyaDalton.com/take5   Connect with Tanya Dalton on LinkedIn Watch the episode on YouTube Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts   Full Transcript and Show Notes: TanyaDalton.com/podcast

Do you feel like success is just a matter of luck? Think again. Being lucky is a choice… and it’s completely within your realm of control. I’ve got Laura Gassner Otting, author of Wonderhell, on the podcast and we’re talking about the science of making your own luck. We dive into choosing your identity, borrowing confidence, breaking through your limiting beliefs and making choices about what you want to prioritize. No more fake it 'till you make it... believe it until you become it. After the show today, you’ll walk away with actionable strategies to make your own luck with no 4 leaf clover required. FOR SHOW NOTES & MORE, GO TO: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/288-making-your-own-luck-with-laura-gassner-otting/ TAKE 5 CHALLENGE: Did you know just 5 minutes a day can double your productivity? Yes, it's really that easy. My Take 5 Challenge is a productivity game-changer and takes just 5 minutes a day for 5 days. That’s it. (I told you it would be easy.) This daily action will quickly become your favorite new habit because it helps you be more present, feel confident about your actions and be empowered to create your own extraordinary life. Ready to get started? Go to https://tanyadalton.com/take5 to start today!

How can we lead with authenticity and empathy in both our personal and professional lives? In this episode, Patrice Washington and I delve into the importance of self-love and forgiveness, and how they can help us become better leaders. We discuss the toxic patterns we can fall into and how to recognize and remove ourselves from these relationships in our personal and professional lives. We examine the pitfalls of overconfidence and how the practice of forgiveness can help us move forward in healthier ways. Ultimately, we emphasize the value of identifying the people in our lives who can provide a safe space for us to be ourselves and have honest conversations, even if they are uncomfortable. FOR SHOW NOTES & MORE, GO TO: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/patrice-washington/   TAKE 5 CHALLENGE: Did you know just 5 minutes a day can double your productivity? Yes, it's really that easy. My Take 5 Challenge is a productivity game-changer and takes just 5 minutes a day for 5 days. That’s it. (I told you it would be easy.) This daily action will quickly become your favorite new habit because it helps you be more present, feel confident about your actions and be empowered to create your own extraordinary life. Ready to get started? Go to https://tanyadalton.com/take5 to start today!

Do you ever feel like you're just going through the motions, making decisions based on what you think you should do rather than what you really want? In this episode, I sit down with futurist Regan Robinson to discuss how to make better decisions that are grounded in your purpose and aspirations. Through the power of imagination, clarity of vision, and a willingness to let go of fear and ego, you can create new, creative possibilities that enable you to thrive in uncertain times. Tune in to learn more about Regan's unique framework for seeing the future, the importance of acknowledging your past in shaping your future, and how to make choices that align with your long-term goals.   FOR SHOW NOTES & MORE, GO TO: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/making-better-decisions/

Cultivating relationship and leaning into friendship and support is one of the most productive things we can do in our lives. In this episode, I’m joined by Erika Herridge, my best friend of 20 years, about how we have created strategies for staying close while living hundreds of miles apart. We also share an exercise that I use to manage my inner critic, we emphasize the importance of a village-like support system in life and even how we can get along when we have very different opinions. We dive into parenting, friendship, and cultivating meaningful connections in our lives.   FOR SHOW NOTES & MORE, GO TO: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/the-strength-of-friendships/

Take control of your life and don't let society dictate what you should do. In today's episode, we explore how we can take ownership of our lives despite society's expectations and other people's perceptions. We focus on how to let go of our past decisions--even ones that were self-destructive--and instead recognize and appreciate them them as coping mechanisms that help us move forward. Today I'm joined by CEO Steph Tuss as we explore and discuss an unlikely subject in a conversation about agency: Pamela Anderson.   FOR SHOW NOTES & MORE, GO TO: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/284-having-agency-with-steph-tuss/   TAKE 5 CHALLENGE: Did you know just 5 minutes a day can double your productivity? Yes, it's really that easy. My Take 5 Challenge is a productivity game-changer and takes just 5 minutes a day for 5 days. That’s it. (I told you it would be easy.) This daily action will quickly become your favorite new habit because it helps you be more present, feel confident about your actions and be empowered to create your own extraordinary life. Ready to get started? Go to https://tanyadalton.com/take5 to start today!

When we are constantly chasing success, it can be easy to lose sight of what's most important. Too often our identities get tied up with overachieving, which means we end up seeing our value and our worth through the tasks, projects and items checked off our to-do list. In today's episode we dive into why success can be a trap and how we break free to claim our own identity (on our own terms).   TAKE 5 CHALLENGE: Did you know just 5 minutes a day can double your productivity? Yes, it's really that easy. My Take 5 Challenge is a productivity game-changer and takes just 5 minutes a day for 5 days. That’s it. (I told you it would be easy.) This daily action will quickly become your favorite new habit because it helps you be more present, feel confident about your actions and be empowered to create your own extraordinary life. Ready to get started? Go to https://tanyadalton.com/take5 to start today!   FOR SHOW NOTES & MORE, GO TO: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/283-the-success-trap-with-brandi-bernoskie/

How does the word spiritual relate to productivity? If we agree that the definition of productivity is doing work that matters, then the two are completed linked to one another: it's tied to the habits you do each day; the way you look at time management; and even the words you choose to describe what work means to you. In today's episode we're going to tackle questions like: How do I find meaning in my life? and How do I stop feeling like my job sucks? and I'll share some quick and easy ways to feel instantly better about your days. TAKE 5 CHALLENGE: Did you know just 5 minutes a day can double your productivity? Yes, it's really that easy. My Take 5 Challenge is a productivity game-changer and takes just 5 minutes a day for 5 days. That’s it. (I told you it would be easy.) This daily action will quickly become your favorite new habit because it helps you be more present, feel confident about your actions and be empowered to create your own extraordinary life. Ready to get started? Go to https://tanyadalton.com/take5 to start today!   FOR SHOW NOTES & MORE, GO TO: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/282-the-spiritual-art-of-work-life/

Work life balance is the most Google searched productivity topic. We are constantly striving to achieve balance, when the truth is: We don't want a balanced life. The cost of greatness is commitment, which means sometimes leaning heavily into work and other times we need to lean more heavily into our personal lives. This consistent shifting, creates harmony (which translates into a lot more happiness than you'll ever find with balance!). In today's episode I talk about how to set the right goals--goals that are aligned and achievable. We also dive into how Star Wars teaches us what we need to know about balance (yes, we do!).   FOR SHOW NOTES & MORE, GO TO: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/281-finding-balance/

There's nothing magical about January 1. But somehow, there's always a lot of pressure that comes at the start of the new year. We start setting big goals and resolutions for the year, often to find that the fire has gone out before the month is even over. Stop setting New Years resolutions--they don't work. Let's choose to set up our year for success instead using habits and routines, creating systems that insure that we live with purpose. In today's show we'll talk about habits, having a focus word for the year, and how we can all find more joy in our everyday lives.   FOR SHOW NOTES & MORE, GO TO: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/280-setting-yourself-up-for-success-in-the-new-year/

Customizing a productivity system to fit your life sounds like a lot of work, but it's actually much easier than you think. People often depend on productivity hacks and tricks in an attempt to be more productive, but often find that they just feel busy. That's because productivity needs to be personalized to fit what works (and what doesn't) for you. In today's episode I'll talk about why you need to let go of the limiting belief that you need more focus, I share why we fill our overfill calendar and I share a strategy for creating your own productivity system using the 5Ps.   FOR SHOW NOTES AND MORE, GO TO: https://tanyadalton.com/podcasts/279-customizing-your-productivity-system/