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Balls Deep co-hosts Rachel Wainz and Arielle Kaplan are joined weekly by comedians & sexuality experts to chat about dating and relationships- and to answer all of your most embarrassing Google searches.

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Plan B, the Female Gaze, and Puberty with Brandon Kyle Goodman
Dec 3 2021
Plan B, the Female Gaze, and Puberty with Brandon Kyle Goodman
HAPPY FRIDAY, BLUE BALLERS! This week, we have a very bittersweet announcement — Balls Deep has reached its end. It’s been a hell of a 49 episodes with y’all and we enjoyed every minute of schmooze, news, interview(s), Qs, and BOOZE! Don’t fret, we’re not going anywhere!! Our DMs are open :)  Phew, now that we ripped off the bandaid… let’s get to the schmooze! Rachel’s analysis of Pete Davidson and Kim Kardashian’s budding relationship shows that all roads lead back to Kris Jenner, and Arielle shares the tale of Judith, the Hanukkah heroine who seduced the enemy with her feminine wiles. Spooky season is debatably over but we’ve got another wild ghost story on the agenda from Arielle and a lesson on the female and male gaze from Rachel. In news, listen to a deep dive on Plan B’s effectiveness (or lack of effectiveness) on larger bodies.  Our honorary final guest is none other than Brandon Kyle Goodman (!!) An actor, activist, writer, and self-proclaimed “Messy Mom,” Brandon takes us into the Big Mouth writer’s room and how he’s finally making the representation he needed as a child. Host of the Black Folx podcast, Brandon is an outspoken queer, Black person whose signature blowjob is SO mind-blowing that it made it to Urban Dictionary.  Okay, so… no real questions this week, but a Blue Baller calls in just to share some compliments Get 15% off sex toys with code BALLSDEEP15 Bellesa Plus —> Pay what you want for the Netflix of Porn Powered by Bellesa
Plan B, the Female Gaze, and Puberty with Brandon Kyle Goodman
Dec 3 2021
Plan B, the Female Gaze, and Puberty with Brandon Kyle Goodman
HAPPY FRIDAY, BLUE BALLERS! This week, we have a very bittersweet announcement — Balls Deep has reached its end. It’s been a hell of a 49 episodes with y’all and we enjoyed every minute of schmooze, news, interview(s), Qs, and BOOZE! Don’t fret, we’re not going anywhere!! Our DMs are open :)  Phew, now that we ripped off the bandaid… let’s get to the schmooze! Rachel’s analysis of Pete Davidson and Kim Kardashian’s budding relationship shows that all roads lead back to Kris Jenner, and Arielle shares the tale of Judith, the Hanukkah heroine who seduced the enemy with her feminine wiles. Spooky season is debatably over but we’ve got another wild ghost story on the agenda from Arielle and a lesson on the female and male gaze from Rachel. In news, listen to a deep dive on Plan B’s effectiveness (or lack of effectiveness) on larger bodies.  Our honorary final guest is none other than Brandon Kyle Goodman (!!) An actor, activist, writer, and self-proclaimed “Messy Mom,” Brandon takes us into the Big Mouth writer’s room and how he’s finally making the representation he needed as a child. Host of the Black Folx podcast, Brandon is an outspoken queer, Black person whose signature blowjob is SO mind-blowing that it made it to Urban Dictionary.  Okay, so… no real questions this week, but a Blue Baller calls in just to share some compliments Get 15% off sex toys with code BALLSDEEP15 Bellesa Plus —> Pay what you want for the Netflix of Porn Powered by Bellesa
Balls Deep in Ghost Sex and Slutty Halloween Costumes
Oct 29 2021
Balls Deep in Ghost Sex and Slutty Halloween Costumes
It’s a Balls Deep Spooktacular! No tricks this week, only TREATS for our Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel and Arielle dive into the sexy history of Halloween to explore how a former Gaelic festival evolved into the one time of year when a girl can dress like a total slut and no other girls can say anything about it. The girls wonder if Halloween costumes are sexist, explain why men should show more skin, and give the listeners tips on how to put together a last-minute look. Did you know that horror is the only genre where women have more screen time and lines than men? Well, now you do. A spooktacular simply isn’t complete without an analysis of horror’s two favorite movie tropes: The Final Girl and Death by Sex.  For the main event we get Balls Deep into spectrophilia (AKA ghost sex). From Patrick Swayze’s Ghost to American Horror Story, pop culture is filled with ghost sex scenes—and according to a handful of celebrities, it’s a real thing. Arielle rattles off all the celebs who’ve gotten down and dirty with spirits, and Rachel tells the dramatic tale of Amethyst Realm, the woman who’s had sex with more than 20 ghosts.  Next week we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled programming. If you’ve got a sex/relationship question call the hotline: 855-OKAYSO. Follow us everywhere @ballsdeepwith BBoutique —> Get 15% off sex toys with code BALLSDEEP15 Bellesa Plus —> Pay what you want for the Netflix of Porn Powered by Bellesa
Unfuckable Vampires, Spooky Sex, and Seances with Patti Negri
Oct 22 2021
Unfuckable Vampires, Spooky Sex, and Seances with Patti Negri
Happy Friday BOOs! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle is busy being alone, Rachel has flashbacks to Catholic school, and the girls debate what makes a vampire fuckable. In schmooze, the hosts chat about poo-phoria, why Sex and the City wasn’t feminist, and Hollywood’s hottest couples. For the listeners, the girls explain why watching porn ISN’T cheating and reveal some of the Blue Baller’s sex horror stories. Later on, Rachel shares some stats on rising dating show viewership and falling marriage rates and Arielle talks about three shitty Spanish men who posed as a female author. Guh-ross!  Hold onto your broomsticks y’all, shit’s about to get spooky! Hollywood Psychic Medium Patti Negri joins the girls to spill all the saucy stories in her cauldron—from conducting a seance at age eight to conjuring the spirit of Marilyn Monroe. She tells us about the different ways people have sex with ghosts and why she thinks Ouija boards shouldn’t be sold in toy stores. Listen up, and don’t forget to suspend your disbelief! Okay, so… a Blue Baller gained weight during Covid (relatable) and is afraid of catfishing her dating app suitors, and another listener wants to test the submissive waters but has no idea where to start. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO Follow us everywhere @ballsdeepwith Follow Patti Negri @patti.negri BBoutique —> Get 15% off sex toys with code BALLSDEEP15 Bellesa Plus —> Pay what you want for the Netflix of Porn Powered by Bellesa
Twerking, Desexualising Consent, and Ditching Diet Culture with Kenzie Brenna
Oct 8 2021
Twerking, Desexualising Consent, and Ditching Diet Culture with Kenzie Brenna
Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel takes a necessary break from work (and celebrates her birthday in solitude), Arielle needs new pants to fit her fat ass, and the girls chat about Tom Brady’s grossness and Lizzo’s TED Talk on twerking. In more schmooze, the girls teach men how to properly cover their infidelity, explain why some men botch their house chores, and Arielle recommends watching Professor Marsten and the Wonder Women on HBO. Fresh off the press, the cohosts get Balls Deep in how the pandemic showed us consent isn’t just about sex and the correlation between appearance dissatisfaction and sexual problems.  New friend of the pod Kenzie Brenna chats with the girls about healing your inner child and why she pivoted from being a weight loss influencer to a self-love influencer. The girls get into the double standard placed on women’s bodies and how Disney totally fucked them all up. Tune in for an incredibly raw conversation on navigating a thin-focused society in a fat body. Okay, so… a Blue Baller calls in with the ultimate dilemma: How can she explore her bisexuality while in a monogamous heterosexual relationship? Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO or email ballsdeep@bellesa.co  Follow us everywhere @ballsdeepwith Follow Kenzie Brenna @Kenziebrenna BBoutique —> Get 15% off sex toys with code BALLSDEEP15 Bellesa Plus —> Pay what you want for the Netflix of Porn Powered by Bellesa
Shrek Porn, Dick Pics, and Period Poverty with Nadya Okamoto
Sep 3 2021
Shrek Porn, Dick Pics, and Period Poverty with Nadya Okamoto
Happy Friday Blue Ballers!! This week on the pod, Arielle is obsessed with Jersey Shore, Rachel calls out slut-shaming on Bachelor in Paradise, and the girls question Drake’s weird habit of befriending teenage girls. Later on, the girls talk about a Texas anti-abortion website that’s being flooded with Shrek porn and share the best tips on how to send a dick pic that actually looks good. In news, the girls get Balls Deep into a legal battle between a man who sued his parents over his porn collection and the different pleasure signals partners look for during sex.  Get ready to see red during this interview with Nadya Okamoto, who has been fighting to normalize conversations around periods since she was 16. We’re talking about period poverty, the tampon tax, and how we can fight the stigma surrounding periods. The co-founder of August, a brand that reimagines periods, Nadya explains why we need to separate menstruation from motherhood, and why we should retire phrases like “aunt flow,” and “time of the month.”  Okay, so… a Blue Baller calls in for advice on a friend breakup and another listener asks a very vague question that the girls attempt to answer. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO Follow us everywhere @ballsdeepwith  Follow Nadya Okamoto @nadyaokamoto  BBoutique —> Get 15% off sex toys with code BALLSDEEP15 Bellesa Plus —> Pay what you want for the Netflix of Porn Powered by Bellesa
Pick Me Girls, Queer Representation, and Intuitive Dating with Dana Hamilton
Aug 20 2021
Pick Me Girls, Queer Representation, and Intuitive Dating with Dana Hamilton
Cheers to the weekend, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel reveals herself to be a recovering “Cool Girl,” Arielle has a smallllllll emotional breakdown, and the girls get Balls Deep into queer representation in Scooby-Doo, Batman, and Gossip Girl. Later on, they pose the age-old question: “Just how far will you go for sex?” and explain why Jamie Spears stepping down from Britney’s Conservatorship isn’t as great as it might seem. In sex news, Rachel and Arielle explore why Nazi Porn is so popular, remind you it’s healthy to have sexual fantasies (even if you’re in a relationship), and break down why you don’t need to be worried about Apple scanning your iCloud photos for porn. Strap in for this week’s interview with Anti-Diet Dating coach, Dana Hamilton, who helps break down the social stigmas around bodies and boys. She gives tips on how we can remove some of the anxiety around rejection, explains how to practice intuitive dating, and gives us some very real advice on why it’s okay to walk away from people who aren’t meeting our standards. Okay, so a caller is wondering how to recover her sex drive after getting out of a relationship and another listener is wondering if her post-sex depression is normal. (It totally is!). Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO. Follow us everywhere @ballsdeepwith  Follow Dana Hamilton @dana_hamilton_ BBoutique —> Get 15% off sex toys with code BALLSDEEP15 Bellesa Plus —> Pay what you want for the Netflix of Porn Powered by Bellesa
Hickeys, Strip Clubs, and Fucking Like a Goddess with Alexandra Roxo
Aug 6 2021
Hickeys, Strip Clubs, and Fucking Like a Goddess with Alexandra Roxo
Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! Welcome back to another sexy episode-- strap in for some hot takes. This week, Rachel shares her go-to karaoke song, Arielle has sex with someone her friends don’t approve of, and the girls talk about the complicated dynamic of wanting to complain to your friends about your partner while also not wanting your friends to hate their guts. In schmooze, Rachel and Arielle get into why crusty old man Matt Damon is finally retiring the F-slur and break down the top 5 best things you can put on your dating profile. In news, the girls get Balls Deep into a study that proves that strip clubs reduce sex crimes-- and they reveal the REAL reason why men are messier than women.  Stay tuned for an interview with Goddess, Speaker, and Coach Alexandra Roxo, who you might recognize from the latest season of Too Hot To Handle. Alexandra explains how we can work past generational trauma to become more in touch with our emotions and spiritual selves, teaches us the importance of celebrating our sexuality, and redefines our definition of feminine to go beyond vanity.  Okay, so a listener wants to know if it’s worth it to pursue a relationship with a woman who is in a very serious sub/dom partnership, and another listener wants to know how she can talk to her partner about not being able to cum via penetration without making it weird. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO Follow us everywhere @ballsdeepwith Follow Alexandra Roxo @alexandraroxo BBoutique —> Get 15% off sex toys with code BALLSDEEP15 Bellesa Plus —> Pay what you want for the Netflix of Porn Powered by Bellesa
Pregnancy Tests, Olympics Sexism, and Body Neutrality with Maddie Dragsbaek 
Jul 30 2021
Pregnancy Tests, Olympics Sexism, and Body Neutrality with Maddie Dragsbaek
It’s the 31st episode of Balls Deep!! WE’RE SO OLD!! This week, Arielle shows up with a big ol’ hickey (and a surprising announcement), Rachel laments adult hangovers, and the girls give the best hack for inducing menstruation. In schmooze, the girls discuss Barney’s tantric sex cult, why the Louvre is suing Pornhub, Vince Vaughn’s new comedy-horror movie, Freaky, Amazon’s upcoming lesbian reality show, Tampa Baes, and sex toys in space (phew!). After a riveting conversation on celeb couple Zach Braff and Florence Pugh’s age gap, Rachel breaks down “sexual gaslighting” and how to spot it. The gals also get balls deep in relevant Olympics news.  Body-positive YouTuber and filmmaker Maddie Dragsbaeck joins the pod for a conversation that will leave you with a new appreciation for your body. Tune in for how the body positive movement was co opted by the self-love movement, plus sized tips for riding cowgirl, and Maddie’s experience being fetishized for her physique. Stick around for the end, you don’t wanna miss Maddie’s first porn story!  Okay, so... a Blue Baller tells us about your next girls’ night activity — presenting a slideshow on your sexual debut — and another listener shares her very real and scary experience with a predatory Uber driver. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO Follow us everywhere @ballsdeepwith Follow Maddie Dragsbaek @maddiedragsbaek BBoutique —> Get 15% off sex toys with code BALLSDEEP15 Bellesa Plus —> Pay what you want for the Netflix of Porn Powered by Bellesa
Madonna-Whore, Limp Dicks, and Water Births with Bekah Martinez
Jul 23 2021
Madonna-Whore, Limp Dicks, and Water Births with Bekah Martinez
Balls Deep is officially in its dirty thirties! That’s right — this is our thirtieth episode and we’re ready to take you for a ride! This week, Arielle has a threesome with I Love You Man and his dog and Rachel is working on giving out less advice to people who don’t want to take it. The girls schmooze about Madonna’s first orgasm, the iconic dating trend you’ve never heard of, and Hollywood’s obsession with unrealistic sex scenes. In news, they get Balls Deep™ into a study about friends who fuck, get into the nitty-gritty of Drake “Campana” Bell’s court hearing, and discuss the importance of post sex cuddles. Stick around for a conversation with Bachelor Nation’s Bekah Martinez all about the realities of being a mother raising her children online. Bekah teaches the girls about the history of breastfeeding and birthing practices and shares her own experience of feeling like a fertility goddess and smiling throughout her second birth. We also talk about the importance of teaching kids about their bodies, and reveal the most ethical kind of porn there is… want to know? You’ll have to listen to find out.  Okay, so… a girl is having dinner with her mom but her girlfriend planted a big ol’ hickey on her cheek — WTF? Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO. Follow us everywhere @ballsdeepwith Follow Bekah Martinez @bekah BBoutique —> Get 15% off sex toys with code BALLSDEEP15 Bellesa Plus —> Pay what you want for the Netflix of Porn Powered by Bellesa