Other People's Shoes

Neil Matthews

On my show, I aim to create a space that allows us all to hear each other's points of view. Constructive dialog helps us all realize that truly hearing another person's story can enrich our lives. After all, when you walk in Other People's Shoes, you really do get a different perspective on life. read less
Religion & SpiritualityReligion & Spirituality

Episodes

Red Eye Announcement
Apr 17 2024
Red Eye Announcement
Imagine just for a second that old familiar sound of the chime, announcing an announcement from the pilot you're just about to drift to sleep, and then all of a sudden you're welcome to an announcement. I have also heard it said change cannot happen overnight, but if I could? What if you could get on a plane go to sleep and wake up a new person in a new destination? My guest today is Ally Murphy. A red-eye flight typically refers to an overnight flight that departs late at night and arrives early in the morning, often characterized by its departure and arrival times coinciding with most people's sleeping hours. These flights are favored by travelers looking to maximize their time at their destination, as they can avoid losing a full day to travel. However, "red-eye" originates from many passengers' tired, bloodshot eyes after a night of limited sleep onboard. Despite the discomfort of sleeping in cramped quarters, these flights can be convenient for business travelers and those seeking to make the most of their vacation days. Join me as we take flight with Ally Murphy.👟To learn more about Ally click the link below. https://www.allymurphy.co.uk/https://www.theredeyepod.com/👟Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:👟**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
Grounded By Grief?
Mar 20 2024
Grounded By Grief?
When grief has you grounded, every step feels like walking through quicksand. The weight of loss becomes an invisible burden, dragging down your spirit and sapping your energy. Simple tasks become Herculean feats, and the world loses its vibrancy, painted instead in muted shades of sorrow. Time seems to stretch endlessly, each moment a painful reminder of the absence that looms large. Even the most well-meaning gestures offer little solace, as grief carves out its own lonely path within. In these moments, it's as if the very fabric of existence has been altered, leaving you stranded in a landscape of mourning, struggling to find your way back to solid ground. My guest today is Peggy Green. Peggy believes when grief has you grounded, a friend's lifesaver is a beacon of hope amidst the storm. Their gesture, whether a comforting word or a supportive embrace, offers a lifeline of connection in the midst of isolation. It's a reminder that I'm not alone in navigating the depths of sorrow and that there are hands reaching out to pull me back to the surface, reminding me that brighter days lie ahead. Join me as we take flight with Peggy.👟To learn more about Peggy click the link below. https://www.thegriefspecialist.com/👟Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:👟**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
Free To Fly
Mar 13 2024
Free To Fly
What is the hardest thing you have ever done? How far down your list of hardest things is forgiving someone? I have heard it said, “Not forgiving someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” My guest today is Todd Boczkowski. Todd helps us take flight with a very story, and an even harder person to forgive.  Forgiving someone is akin to releasing the weight of resentment and bitterness that has tethered you to the ground. It's an act of liberation, granting you the freedom to soar unencumbered by the burdens of past grievances. As a bird takes flight with newfound grace and ease, forgiving allows you to transcend the confines of hurt and anger, propelling you toward a brighter horizon. In forgiving, you reclaim control over your emotions and your narrative, opening up space for healing and growth. It's a powerful acknowledgment of your strength and resilience, enabling you to embrace life's journey with a lightness of being as if finally set free to explore the vast expanse of the sky. Join me as we take flight with Todd Boczkowski.👟To learn more about Todd click the link below. https://www.toddboz.com/launch46844766👟Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:👟**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
Baggage
Mar 6 2024
Baggage
Have you ever seen this person? They were just out of line suitcases opened wide and trying to decide what to take out of their bag to make it make the weight limit. Usually, there is anger, frustration, and maybe even tears trying to make it work. My guest today is Maurice F. Martin. Maurice, wants you to know that you don't have to carry that extra weight any longer. Your baggage weight limit of 50 pounds when flying is crucial for several reasons. Firstly, it ensures the safety and efficiency of the aircraft. Exceeding weight limits can strain the plane's structure and compromise its aerodynamics, potentially leading to safety hazards. Additionally, weight restrictions are in place to maintain fuel efficiency. Carrying excess weight requires more fuel consumption, contributing to environmental impact and operational costs. Moreover, adhering to baggage weight limits allows airlines to fairly distribute weight among passengers, ensuring a comfortable and equitable flying experience for all. So, while it may seem like a hassle, keeping your baggage under 50 pounds is essential for air travel safety, and efficiency. Join me as we take flight with Maurice. 👟To learn more about Maurice click the link below.https://www.mauricefmartin.com/👟Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:👟**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
Empty Seat
Feb 21 2024
Empty Seat
Losing a child is an unimaginable tragedy that leaves an indelible mark on a parent's heart. The grief that follows is a heavy burden, one that seems impossible to bear. Each day becomes a struggle, filled with moments of overwhelming sadness and longing for the child who is no longer there. It's like navigating through an endless maze of emotions, where even the smallest memories or reminders can trigger waves of pain. The loss is profound and profound, a wound that never fully heals, no matter how much time passes. Parents often find themselves grappling with feelings of guilt, questioning what they could have done differently, and grappling with the unfairness of it all. Moving forward feels like an insurmountable task, as the void left by their child's absence looms large in their lives. It's a journey fraught with setbacks and moments of despair, yet amidst the darkness, there remains a glimmer of hope that one day, they may find a way to carry on, honoring the memory of their beloved child while learning to live with the pain of their loss. My guest today is Judi Merriam. Judi today shares about the "empty seat" and the "empty shoes by the door". Listen as we "take flight" with Judi Merriam👟In a room of quiet solitude, a seat stands bare,Echoes of laughter fade into the air.Beside it, shoes lie in silent repose,A story untold, a journey that closed.The empty seat, a void profound,Where once a presence, now not found.Its arms outstretched, a welcoming embrace,Now untouched, a solitary space.The shoes they wore, now still and alone,A silent testament to journeys known.Each scuff, each mark, a tale to tell,Of paths traversed and memories dwell.Yet now they rest, devoid of tread,A testament to the words unsaid.The missing place they once fulfilled,Now empty, the void left unfilled.But though they're gone, their essence remains,In memories cherished, in heart's refrains.For in the empty seat and shoes left behind,Their spirit lingers, a treasure to find.So let us honor the ones we miss,In the empty seat, in the shoes like this.For though they're gone, their presence we feel,In every memory, ever real.👟To learn more about Judi click the link below.https://judimerriam.com/Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:👟**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
Traffic Control
Feb 14 2024
Traffic Control
In aviation, a traffic controller holds a position of immense responsibility, serving as the critical link between aircraft and ground operations. With precision and expertise, they manage the movement of airplanes on the ground and in the airspace, ensuring safe and efficient departures, landings, and taxiing. Their role encompasses communication with pilots, providing instructions regarding altitude, routes, and clearances, all while coordinating with other controllers to maintain separation between aircraft. Armed with advanced radar systems and sophisticated communication tools, they orchestrate the intricate dance of air traffic, prioritizing safety above all else. Their vigilance is unwavering, especially during peak traffic periods or adverse weather conditions, as they efficiently guide aircraft through complex airspace. In the high-stakes aviation environment, a traffic controller's meticulous attention to detail and split-second decision-making are paramount, making them the unsung heroes of the skies.  My guest today is Amanda Quick. Amanda has one of the craziest stories you may hear. I believe she had to balance her turbulence on the ground to be able to one day sore. Join me as we fly to new heights with Amanda Quick. To learn more about Amanda click the link below.https://www.thesextraffickerswife.com/Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:👟**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
My Call Sign?
Feb 7 2024
My Call Sign?
“It’s the way he flies, ice cold, no mistakes. He just wears you down. You get bored, frustrated, do something stupid, and he’s gotcha.” The quote from "Top Gun" and "Goose" Portrayed by Anthony Edwards is about  Val Kilmer's character. My guest today is Ryan Mayer. Ryan is NOT a doctor or a naval aviator. However, Ryan is here to share his expertise on ADHD, as he is a coach and deals with it himself. Stay tuned for the great reveal as Neil has tasked Ryan with trying to see if he has ADHD. The aviator call sign holds significant value within the aviation community, serving as a vital tool for communication and identification. In the complex and dynamic airspace, call signs facilitate clear and efficient communication between pilots and air traffic control, reducing the risk of misunderstandings and enhancing overall safety. Beyond its functional role, a call sign contributes to the culture and tradition of aviation, fostering a sense of identity and camaraderie among pilots. It allows for quick and distinctive recognition of individual aircraft, promoting operational efficiency and teamwork. The use of call signs aligns with radio communication protocols, emphasizing brevity and clarity, particularly crucial in time-sensitive or emergencies. Moreover, call signs add a layer of security and confidentiality in military aviation. Ultimately, the aviator call sign embodies both practical utility and a sense of tradition, playing a pivotal role in the seamless and organized functioning of the aviation ecosystem. Join me as we take flight with Ryan Mayer.To learn more about Ryan click the link below.https://ryanmayercoaching.com/Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:👟**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
Flat Spin
Jan 31 2024
Flat Spin
What is your least favorite scene from Top Gun? Mine is when Maverick and Goose are in the flat spin. Spoiler alert! Goose dies as a result of the flat spin. My guest Zack Blakeney talks today about the most dangerous type of flat spin...Porn. A flat spin in aviation is a dangerous state in which an aircraft enters a spin while maintaining a nearly level pitch attitude. Unlike conventional spins where the aircraft descends in a more predictable nose-down or nose-up orientation, a flat spin involves a rotation around the vertical axis while keeping the wings relatively level. This type of spin is particularly challenging for pilots to recover from because the standard spin recovery techniques may be less effective. Flat spins can be initiated by inappropriate control inputs, uncoordinated flight, or other aerodynamic disturbances that upset the balance of forces acting on the aircraft. Recognizing and preventing flat spins are crucial aspects of pilot training and recovery procedures vary depending on the specific characteristics of the aircraft involved. Join me as Zack shows us how to take flight from porn. 👟To learn more about Zack click the link below.https://www.iambornfree.net/getfreenowRemember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:👟**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
Intentional Flight Plan
Jan 24 2024
Intentional Flight Plan
Imagine with me if you did not have a GPS nowadays, and you were heading to a new destination. How, would you get there? Maybe you would ask for directions? Well, my guest today is Kylee Robinson. Kylee shares the value of having a flight plan is invaluable in the realm of aviation, serving as a comprehensive roadmap for pilots to navigate from departure to destination. This strategic document outlines the intended route, altitudes, waypoints, and crucial details essential for a safe and efficient flight. The value of having a flight plan lies in its ability to enhance overall flight safety by minimizing the risk of mid-air collisions, providing a structured framework for communication with air traffic control, and ensuring that pilots are well-prepared for various contingencies. Additionally, a well-crafted flight plan contributes to fuel efficiency and operational cost savings, as it enables pilots to optimize their routes and make informed decisions based on weather conditions and airspace constraints. In essence, a flight plan is not just a procedural requirement; it is a vital tool that enhances both the safety and efficiency of air travel. Join me as we take flight with Kylee. 👟To learn more about Kylee click the link below.https://www.kyleerobinson.com/Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:👟**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
The Monster In The Headphones
Jan 17 2024
The Monster In The Headphones
In this powerful episode, my heart breaks for my guest Marin Canaday. She has struggled with OCD. Today she bravely tells how it has affected her life.  Today, I also share this powerful poem to help you understand Marin's story.👟In the realm of sound, a monster lurks,Within your headphones, it slyly works.A cacophony of chaos it weaves,Disturbing peace, like autumn leaves.👟In whispers, it hisses, a spectral wail,A creature born in the audio trail.But fear not, for within you lies,The power to silence its haunting cries.👟Invoke the strength of the divine,Let the grace of God brightly shine.With faith as your shield, strong and true,The monster's grip will start to undo.👟Turn your thoughts to the sacred hymns,Let the melodies drown the monster's sins.In prayer and peace, find your repose,As the divine symphony steadily grows.👟With every verse, with every psalm,Banish the monster, reclaim your calm.For in the quietude of spiritual might,The beast in your headphones takes its flight.👟Trust in God's grace, let serenity reign,As the monster fades, like shadows wane.In the sacred silence, find your retreat,And in the stillness, victory is sweet.👟To learn more about Marin click the link below.https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090423289366👟Meghan's episodehttps://www.opspodcast.com/are-my-thoughts-enough-for-you/Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:👟**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
One Plus Two Equals Awesome
Jan 10 2024
One Plus Two Equals Awesome
While some individuals effortlessly navigate the intricate world of mathematics, I find myself grappling with its complexities. The abstract nature of mathematical concepts often eludes my grasp, leaving me feeling like a fish out of water in the numerical realm. Equations and theorems become a labyrinth of confusion, and the elusive understanding of mathematical principles remains just out of reach. Despite earnest efforts to decipher the language of numbers, my brain seems to resist the logical structures that define the mathematical landscape. However, acknowledging my struggle with math does not diminish my strengths in other areas. Each individual possesses a unique set of skills, and while mathematical prowess may not be my forte, I thrive in other intellectual and creative domains where my talents shine brightly. My guest today is Cam F Awesome. Yes, that is his legal name. Tune in to hear the full story. Join me as we "Take Flight" into Cam's story. 👟Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟To learn more about Cam please click the link belowhttps://camfawesome.com/👟Other People's Shoes would love your financial gift to help support the show click here👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
Adventures in Flight
Jan 3 2024
Adventures in Flight
The inaugural flight marks an indelible moment in human history, a culmination of innovation, ambition, and relentless determination. On December 17, 1903, Orville and Wilbur Wright achieved the impossible—their Wright Flyer, a fragile yet revolutionary aircraft, took to the skies near Kitty Hawk, North Carolina. In that fleeting span of twelve seconds, humanity's perception of the world altered irreversibly. The rickety contraption defied gravity's grasp, lifting off the ground and carrying the weight of human aspiration. The first flight was a testament to human ingenuity and the unwavering pursuit of the impossible. It was a catalyst that sparked the aviation era, reshaping how we traverse distances and expanding our understanding of what lies beyond earthly bounds. This inaugural flight remains an everlasting testament to the audacity of dreams and the relentless pursuit of exploration that continues to propel humanity forward. As we "Take Flight" into season 16. We get a in the cockpit view from a former Naval Aviator Vincent Aiello, callsign "Jell-O". Join me as we fly in Vincent shoes. 👟Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟To learn more about Vincent please click the link belowhttps://www.fighterpilotpodcast.com/👟Other People's Shoes would love your financial gift to help support the show click here👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
Season Finale | The Knuckleball Pitch
Dec 27 2023
Season Finale | The Knuckleball Pitch
In our Season Finale "The Knuckleball Pitch" we lace up our baseball spikes with former Major League Baseball pitcher Brandon Puffer. One of Brandon's favorite pitches was the knuckleball. Hitting a knuckleball pitch in baseball is an extraordinary challenge that confounds even the most seasoned batters. Unlike traditional pitches that follow a predictable trajectory, the knuckleball's erratic and unpredictable movement makes it a daunting task to connect bat to ball. This pitch is thrown with minimal spin, causing it to flutter, wobble, and change direction seemingly at random as it approaches the plate. Its unpredictable nature defies conventional hitting strategies, leaving batters baffled as they try to gauge its path. The absence of rotation prevents the ball from following a predictable arc, making timing and judgment incredibly difficult. It demands exceptional focus, patience, and an almost instinctual response from the batter, as any misjudgment or mistimed swing can result in a complete miss. Facing a proficient knuckleballer is a formidable test of a batter's skill and adaptability, often leading to frustration and admiration for this enigmatic pitch. The description of a knuckleball pitch is a great metaphor, for Brandon's life. Join me as we walk in Brandon's shoes. 👟To learn more about Brandon click the link below.https://coachpuffpositive.com/ 👟Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟To learn more about Jodi please click the link belowhttps://www.jodihowe.com/👟Other People's Shoes would love your financial gift to help support the show click here👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow
NOT Forgotten Shoes
Dec 20 2023
NOT Forgotten Shoes
MERRY CHRISTMAS! What is something this Christmas you hope to remember forever? For me it's the one pair of shoes I will NOT forget about. These women's lightweight AVIA slip-on joggers will quickly become your go-to pair of shoes. The sneakers feature a light white knit upper with teal accents, an ultra-lightweight EVA outsole, and a sock closure with pull tabs for easy-on/easy-off. A foam sock liner ensures a comfortable fit. My guest today is Garrett, he stops by for his annual appearance. We talk about the power of remembering. The power of remembering is a profound force that transcends time, weaving the threads of our past into the tapestry of our present. It's a gateway to treasured moments, a repository of experiences, emotions, and lessons learned. Memories act as guiding lights, illuminating our path forward while anchoring us to the richness of our personal history. They are the storytellers of our lives, shaping our identities, influencing decisions, and fostering connections with others. Remembering not only preserves the essence of who we are but also provides a sense of continuity and belonging in a constantly changing world. It empowers us to celebrate joys, navigate challenges, and honor the legacies of those who have shaped us, fostering resilience and gratitude in our journey through life. Join me as Garrett and I walk back over this last year. What do the AVIA shoes have to do with this episode? 👟Remember when you walk in Other People's Shoes you get a different perspective!👟To learn more about Jodi please click the link belowhttps://www.jodihowe.com/👟Other People's Shoes would love your financial gift to help support the show click here👟If you enjoy the show, consider subscribing to your podcast platforms so you don't miss an episode. We would also love it if you could leave us a review click here!👟To hear other episodes go to:www.opspodcast.com👟Social Media:**Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: ** @opspodcashow