At the end of a relationship, narcissists may become combative, passive-aggressive, hostile, and even more controlling. People with NPD often fail to understand other people's needs and values. They are hyper focused on their egos, but do not account for how their actions affect others.

Do narcissists fear revenge?     A narcissist will never say they feel rejected by something you have said or done. Instead, they will wield every tactic in the book from revenge, to threats, and guilt trips. They are also known to resort to public humiliation as a form of revenge

Roughly 6% of the population has narcissistic personality disorder. Research over the years has shown that it is also more prevalent in men than in women — 7.7% vs 4.8%. However, the behaviours of male and female narcissists can differ This episode has been redone, please check it out , i cleaned it up and changed it .

The narcissist frequently recruits his or her flying monkeys from inside the family, including siblings, spouses, and children. Close friends or coworkers may also become flying monkeys: I'm sure we've all encountered bosses or political leaders who couldn't operate without a band of willing assistants

Dating itself can be a disaster zone especially in the digital age. Welcome to modern romance, where hookup culture reigns, the ease of dating apps have outstripped traditional courtship rituals and instant gratification is the norm. Yet dating is especially difficult when you’ve been the target of emotional, verbal or narcissistic abuse, a form of covert emotional manipulation where you’ve been belittled, isolated and controlled by a pathological person.

The 7 years i was with my partner were a rollercoaster of emotions and red-flags, i recall my story of heartache and pain to bring awareness and show people the signs and red-flags so that maybe you can resonate with my story and hopefully it will help someone, someday.