Embark on a  journey into marital bliss with Coach Ratner as we unveil the Ten Commandments of Marriage. With the first commandment, "I am your spouse," we unravel the mystery of  understanding your partner's unique essence, similar to knowing G-d. Discover the five love languages along with the four A's—attention, affection, appreciation, and awareness—that foster a deeper connection with your significant other. This episode will equip you with personal strategies to cater to your partner's needs, a treasure trove for those looking to fortify their relationship.I'll guide you through the art of building an emotional connection. Learn how asking three pivotal questions about your spouse's day can bridge the physical, intellectual, and emotional aspects of their experience, strengthening your bond. We'll also confront the challenges that us men have with communication and how we only have so much 'listening bandwidth'. Prepare to be enlightened and amused with real-life anecdotes as we explore the dynamics of marriage for a more meaningful and engaged partnership.

Discover the unexpected as I, Coach Ratner, detail an unplanned reunion in Jerusalem that reminded me of the deep roots and personal connections fostered through our shared faith. My conversation with Rabbi Moshe Scheiner, a catalyst in my family's spiritual awakening, becomes a centerpiece of reflection on this episode of the Living in Clarity podcast. Embark on a narrative journey that intertwines the joys of community, the wisdom of a retired army general's class that challenges us to rethink our engagement with mainstream media, and the delightful surprise of bumping into Rabbi Gavriel Friedman in my very own neighborhood. This episode is a tapestry of heartwarming encounters and enlightening discussions, certain to leave you with a renewed sense of purpose and perhaps a little more clarity on your own path. Join us and see where serendipity might lead you in your life's adventure.

Have you ever found yourself caught between the pursuit of peace and the desire to stand your ground? It's a conundrum we've all faced, and in this heart-to-heart with Lori Palatnik as we tackle such life-defining moments head-on. With wisdom from Perkei Avot as our guiding light, we unravel the delicate intricacies of navigating parenting, divorce, and those contentious bar mitzvah seating arrangements. It's about striking a balance — knowing when to offer guidance and when to step back, for the sake of family harmony.  Listen in for relatable tales and insights that could very well be the key to maintaining strong relationships during life's most challenging chapters.Imagine the art of message delivery as a finely tuned instrument — one that can make or break the harmony of an interaction. That's the crux of our second chapter, where we examine the profound effects of the messenger and timing on communication. As Coach Ratner, I share personal glimpses into my family life, illuminating how fostering self-reliance can empower those we love most. From the delicate equilibrium between passion and financial gain to the satisfaction of diving back into the rare coin business, I discuss the intricate dance of pursuing a career that honors both one's heart and wallet. And for those standing at the crossroads of education and content creation, we contemplate the tricky balance between recognition and monetary compensation.Wrapping up, we explore the profound interplay of self-esteem, purpose, and adversity. Fame and recognition, when sought for the right reasons, can be transformative. I delve into the essence of feeling cherished by parents and a higher power, how these bonds fortify our sense of purpose, and guide us toward a meaningful existence. Our final chapters touch on the optimism that shapes economies and decision-making, the character-focused approach to parenting that prioritizes happiness over grades, and the Momentum initiative's inspiring global reach. Whether you're a parent, educator, or simply someone searching for your path, this episode offers a beacon of hope, encouraging you to harness adversity and turn it into a vehicle for personal growth and widespread change.

Have you ever found yourself mesmerized by the raw honesty of someone who speaks from the heart? That's exactly what you'll experience as Rabbi Yotav Glaser rejoins us, sharing his infectious love for humanity and insights on living a life that's true to oneself. His perspectives are a breath of fresh air in an era where authenticity often loses out to the latest trend. We're reminded that within each of us lies a 'beautiful child', eager to engage with the world in a way that's unapologetically genuine. Rabbi Glaser's anecdotes are like a warm embrace from an old friend, urging us not to lose sight of the traditions that anchor us in a sea of fleeting distractions.During our conversation, Rabbi Glaser takes us through 'The Possible You' seminar, a path to shedding the layers that obscure our true selves. This isn't just another self-help spiel; it's an invitation to step into the role of protagonist in the epic tale of your life. Imagine finding the courage to shine so brilliantly that your light either draws people in or sends them away – a testament to the power of your authenticity. As we wade through discussions of intellectual, interpersonal, and instinctual identities, Rabbi Glaser helps us navigate the complex tapestry of who we are and how we connect with others, all while fostering a communal atmosphere that's conducive to pondering life's greater meanings.

Why do we etch our skin with ink or alter our bodies with piercings and surgery? Uncover the deeply rooted psychological motivations behind body augmentation, as we discuss the quest for meaning in a transient world. With special guests Robby DomeTownBlyte and Bobbitt, we peel back the layers on self-esteem's influence on these permanent decisions. Plus, get a sneak peek at my forthcoming book, "Incident Marriage: The Four Faces to a Love Relationship," where I delve into how self-worth weaves into the fabric of our intimate relationships.Prepare to challenge your perceptions as we explore the phenomenon of pre-rejection in niche subcultures and its connection to the world of tattoos and piercings. Find out how these modifications may serve as a shield from societal judgment, and consider the health implications and cultural shifts that have reshaped our views on body art. We also touch on the spiritual implications of personal appearance through the lens of various religious teachings. Wrapping up, we express our deepest gratitude to our loyal viewers and hint at an exciting new chapter: our own content platform, where the conversation can continue, unbound and unfiltered.

Ever wondered how a simple 'thank you' can revolutionize your life? Coach Ratner here, and I'm thrilled to bring you an episode with the remarkable Corey Drucker, where we unveil the transformative power of gratitude and clarity. Together, we weave through our morning rituals, highlighting the psychological perks of starting the day with a positive stride. We reflect on the magic tucked into the ordinary – from the joyous bustle of family life to the often ignored marvels of our own bodies. Corey and I also offer a sneak peek into the art of preparation, sharing how a little nightly foresight sets the stage for a day steeped in focus and appreciation.As our conversation meanders through the terrain of tradition and modernity, we pause to consider the profound impact of commercialization on sacred times, particularly Thanksgiving and the encroaching Black Friday frenzy. We juxtapose Abraham Lincoln's vision of a day for thankfulness with today's consumer-driven holidays, sparking a segue into the timeless teachings from the Jewish path to wisdom. Corey and I draw parallels between life's complexities and a child's learning process, musing on the shape of experiences and how they fit into the larger puzzle of our existence.Closing on a note of reverence for relationship wisdom, we delve into the essence of successful partnerships through the lens of Torah teachings. Highlighting the significance of spiritual milestones and the bris ceremony, we explore the intersections of ancient customs and contemporary understanding. With anticipation, I share tidbits from my forthcoming book "Infinite Marriage," alluding to the richness of continuous growth within relationships. Join us as we journey through a tapestry of thought-provoking discussions, celebrating the heartwarming connection between life's rituals and the clarity that comes from living with gratitude.

Ever wondered if the secret to more meaningful relationships could be as simple as fostering genuine self-love? Join me, Coach Ratner, alongside Rabbi Yisrael Frankel for an insightful dialogue that promises to illuminate your path to deeper connections. As we sit in the heart of Jerusalem, we uncover the often overlooked link between cherishing oneself and the capacity to love others, sharing wisdom from both personal experiences and the Torah. Delving into the joyous pursuit of happiness, we reveal how everyday moments and gratitude can significantly enhance our relationships and overall well-being.Our conversation takes a powerful turn as we tackle the transformative influence of self-esteem on one’s life journey. Rabbi Frankel and I share stories of overcoming self-doubt and the remarkable changes that ensue when individuals recognize their worth and set ambitious goals. We also explore the complexities and beauty of long-term love, discussing how intimacy, vulnerability, and shared growth solidify and celebrate the bond between partners. If you're seeking to reignite passion in your relationships or simply find greater contentment within, this episode is a trove of heartfelt advice and actionable wisdom.

Unlock the paradoxical wisdom of thriving through failure with Dave Mason, as he joins me, Coach Ratner, on the Living Clarity podcast. We celebrate Dave's enlightening new book, "Hurry Up and Fail," where he illuminates the counterintuitive notion that stumbling can be a springboard to success. Discover how figures like Sarah Blakely used sheer grit to turn Spanx into a household name, and how my own aspirations during National Novel Writing Month revealed the transformative nature of creative endeavors.This episode is a treasure trove for anyone embracing risks and writing their own success stories. We'll traverse the fine line between audacity and caution, taking cues from the likes of Richard Branson's adventure-fueled risk management to the strategic preparation that saved Mrs. Goldfarb's Unreal Deli. Engage with the art of exceeding expectations, as we draw inspiration from Marie Forleo's B-School and Stephen King's perseverance. These narratives are bound to shift your perception of setbacks as we dissect the power behind pre-mortems and early warning systems that can steer any venture clear of disaster.By the end of our journey together, you'll be equipped with a new lens to view your personal and professional challenges. We wrap up with recommendations for must-listen audiobooks that promise to fuel business growth and personal transformation. With stories, insights, and strategies shared by Dave and reflected in my own experiences, this episode serves as a beacon, guiding you through the maze of trials towards triumph. So, let your curiosity lead the way and tune in to discover how to harness the unexpected rewards of failure.

Have you ever met someone who completely shattered your checklist of qualities for a 'type'? I’m Coach Ratner, and in this latest episode of the Living Clarity Podcast, I delve into the surprising ways love can defy our expectations. By sharing personal stories and those from my coaching sessions, I aim to show that an open heart might lead you to the most fulfilling connections, ones that you never anticipated.From a friend who found love in the most unlikely place to my own journey with my wife, I discuss the notion that sometimes, our 'type' isn't who we think it is until we're face-to-face with them. This episode is packed with revelations from a woman in her 30s who found marriage through social media, to a septuagenarian embracing companionship. We unravel the common pitfalls of judging too quickly and the importance of personal growth, sometimes with the help of therapy or coaching, in molding our perspectives on love and relationships.Wrapping up with a look at the 'first date bias' and my personal insights into building a deep connection, this episode is a treasure trove for anyone navigating the dating world or yearning to strengthen their current relationship. My upcoming book "Infinite Marriage: The Four Phases of a Loving  Relationship," promises to be a guidepost for those seeking to understand the complexities of love further. Join me on this intimate and eye-opening journey as we challenge the norms and embrace the unpredictable nature of finding love.

When was the last time you had your beliefs and faith deeply challenged? We're joined by Darren Glick, who shares his firsthand experiences of living in Jerusalem during the recent conflict. Darren's story is not just one of survival, but also of unity and resilience. From supporting soldiers and their families to witnessing an unexpected community unity, Darren gives us a deeply human perspective of the turmoil.In a world where anti-Semitism and hate seem to be on the rise, it's time to understand the historical roots and confront these issues head-on. We navigate this complex terrain, from the recent conflict in Israel to the disturbing prevalence of misinformation on social media. Darren's insights into the Israeli-Palestinian conflict shine a light on the potential pathways towards peace, while the echoes of biblical teachings underscore the importance of unity and empathy in dealing with existential threats. In the midst of adversity, we find Jerusalem, a city that stands as a symbol of unity and harmony. Our exploration takes us to the significant role Jerusalem holds in unitifying people, the profound influence it exerts on faith, and its unique resonance that seems to bridge heaven and earth. And as we uncover the struggles of communities near the Gaza board, Darren urges us to contribute towards their cause. It's a testament to the power of unity, faith, and the human spirit in times of hardship. Join us on this unforgettable journey through the lens of faith, conflict, and resilience.

Having once witnessed the chilling power of missiles during a Blue Angels show, I was struck by an unexpected connection between these weapons of destruction and the spiritual realm. Let's embark together on a journey where we interpret the Hebrew word for missiles, "telem," and its transformation into "tehillim" or praises to God. We'll trace the echoes of history, connecting the year 1948, Abraham's birth, the founding of Israel, and a conflict where such 'holy missiles' were utilized. Uncover the fascinating intersections of physical force and spiritual power and the profound insights that an in-depth study of the Torah can reveal about our world today.We'll then veer our course towards the pillar of Jewish tradition - hospitality. Drawing from the wisdom of our forebears, we'll discuss the philosophy of "saying little and doing a lot" in the context of welcoming strangers into our homes. Following this thread, we'll reflect on the recent terrorist attack in Israel and its reverberations within the Jewish community, underscoring the pressing need for strong Jewish roots. We'll end our journey by investigating the trials and triumphs of adversity and how we can harness the power of spiritual missiles, our prayers, to counter the negativity and violence plaguing our world. Come, let's explore these complex ideas together.

Feeling overwhelmed by anxiety and low self-esteem in these turbulent times? You're not alone. On this episode of the Living and Clarity podcast, I, Coach Ratner, candidly share my own struggles with these feelings, and most importantly, how we can harness these emotions to navigate through the current crisis. It's okay not to be okay, and it's absolutely alright to acknowledge that. From feeling hostage remorse - the guilt of being safe when others aren't, to finding hope amidst despair, this episode is a raw, honest exploration of mental health during a crisis.But it's not all about acknowledging the darkness, it's also about inviting light into our lives. I share practical strategies and personal experiences on how to practice self-care, cultivate happiness, and maintain a resilient spirit even in the face of adversity. Think of yourself as a diamond in the rough, requiring precise cuts to allow light to enter and reflect off you. This episode is about transforming our struggles into strength, and it's about resilience, growth, and hope. Remember, even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise. Tune in to find out how we can illuminate our path forward.

Are you ready to unpack the intricate challenges surrounding the Israel crisis and discover tangible ways to lend your support? Rabbi Ken Spiro joins us in this enlightening conversation where we traverse the fields of geopolitics, religion, and personal growth. We delve into the pressing need for financial assistance to impacted communities and explore the idea of embarking on a journey to Israel in the post-crisis period. We also take a bold stance against misinformation and urge you to join us in advocating for truth and communication with political leaders.This episode also brings to light the eternal struggle between truth and falsehood, as we emphasize the significance of aligning with reality and absolute morality. We unravel the ties between global events and our relationship with God, and address the repercussions of internal discord among Jews. Rabbi Spiro and I also underscore the importance of spiritual action, providing insights on how you can strengthen your connection with Judaism. Join us for a profound discussion on unity, truth, and our responsibility towards Israel in these trying times.

What if the worst tragedies could be the very things that unite us? That's exactly what we're exploring in this profound discourse with Lori Palatnik, as we grapple with the dolorous events in Israel, deciphering the divine message within. This isn't just about choosing between right and wrong; it's about understanding free will as a moral choice of significant depth. We delve into the stark contrasts between anti-Semitism and the intent to annihilate, a conversation that may be tough, but is incredibly necessary.Bolstered by an enduring faith, the Jewish people exemplify resilience in adversity. We discuss this tenacity and the importance of leading lives laden with purpose and meaning. Stories of individuals demonstrating extraordinary courage, making Aliyah in these challenging times, further underscore the strength of faith. Throughout this discussion, we stumble upon an unexpected blessing - dementia, and its potential silver linings. This episode culminates in a powerful discourse on unity - an essential ingredient in rebuilding Israel with love and support. Join Coach Ratner and Lori Palatnik for this compelling conversation that promises to illuminate, inspire, and provoke thought.

What happens when the whispers of anti-Semitism transform into blatant screams? Discover the disturbing truths as Rabbi Ken Spiro unravels the reality of the growing danger facing Jews worldwide. In a candid conversation, Rabbi Spiro provides a sharp analysis on the trials Israel and the global Jewish community are currently facing. He offers insights into the historical context, helping us understand the complex political dynamics, and debunks the myth of Jews as foreign occupiers. We're also discussing the infrequent unity within the Jewish community, regardless of political or religious differences, and the importance of standing up for self-protection. Rabbi Spiro shares his personal views on Jews arming themselves and warns us about the potential global impact of the conflict. This enlightening discourse is not only a wake-up call to the Jewish community but a powerful reminder to us all on the need for unity and resilience in the face of adversity. Listen in, learn, and let's stand together against hate.

Pledge your ears to an engaging conversation with the brilliant Hila Oz, as we dissect the current Israel-Palestine conflict and the media's part in it. Be prepared for an unfiltered perspective as we navigate the intricate landscape, contrasting the IDF's code of ethics against Hamas's charter, and addressing the cognitive dissonance among those aligning with the historically Nazi-associated grand loft of Jerusalem.As we pivot into the second part of our dialogue, we highlight the significance of unity and action within the Jewish community during these testing times. From acknowledging the resilience of Jewish people to the potential power of collective participation in Jewish activities, we engage in a thoughtful exploration of practical demonstrations of solidarity. We also delve into the divine nexus between the Torah, the land, and prayer, underscoring the spiritual validation of the Jewish claim to the land. As we wrap up, we extend heartfelt prayers for the safe return of hostages, recovery for the injured, and consolation for grieving families. Listen as we unravel this topical issue with Hila Oz.

Do you aspire to marriage but find yourself wondering why it hasn't happened yet? Or perhaps you've experienced marriage and are seeking insights into why it didn't succeed? Join Lori Palatnik and Coach Ratner as they delve into seven compelling reasons that might just help you gain a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationship goals than ever before. The 7 reasons why are:1. You are emotionally unavailable.2. You never got over a previous relationship.3. You parents had a horrible relationship, so why bother trying.4. You don't have a clear vision of what you want.5. You are too desperate.6. You are too picky.7. You are easily gaslighted.If you enjoy this episode, please like, subscribe or comment. Episode note: Do to recording issues, the episode cuts off at the end a few minutes short.

In this special episode featuring Rabbi Palatnik, hosts Coach Ratner and Lori Palatnik take you on a journey through the maze of marital complexities. Explore the pivotal aspects of a lasting, passionate marriage from Jewish wisdom and practical insights. If you're looking to spark joy and depth in your marriage, this episode is for you!

Join Coach Ratner with his new co-host, Lori Palatnik. They will delve into the 3 times that someone is allowed to lie. They are:1. For peace in your family and in the home. One can do this as long as they are not benefiting from it.2. To minimize your accomplishments. 3. If it is not someone else's business or the question is too personal.

Join Coach Ratner with his new co-host, Lori Palatnik. They will be discussing 3 ways in which you can show respect to your partner or spouse. They are:Praise them in public, the opinion that means the most is from your partner or spouse. Treat them like someone you respect, and they will become a person you respect. Believe in them when they says they can do something. They want to fix the car? Let them to do and don’t tell them that they should take it in. You want them to know that you believe in them, even if they stink at fixing the car.Do not criticize them when they are helping, let them do it they way they are going to do it. Even if you know it is wrong. Better for them to figure it out on their own. And definitely do not say, I told you so.