I Hate Dating Apps

Jinah Kim, Daniel Yi

A podcast about looking for love in a digital age. Getting ghosted, getting catfished, receiving endless d*** pics… These are just a few of the topics covered by co-hosts Jinah Kim and Daniel Yi. With the help of their guests, Jinah and Daniel work to find the light at the end of the dating app tunnel. read less

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Should You Try Matchmaking Services?

Should You Try Matchmaking Services?

So you're about to delete your dating apps. Again. But then you realize - how am I gonna meet people then?? Before you panic and re-install your dating app, listen to our two professional matchmaker guests talk about what it's like to have someone literally working for you so you can go on curated dates. Hint: it ain't cheap!! Matchmaking is as old as civilization. From the days of highly prized matchmakers who knew just the right princess for the king-to-be, to glossy ads on airline magazines adverstising beautiful women for men with refined tastes and deep pockets, matching has now evolved. But does is still work in the DIY world of dating apps where the majority of people are looking for romance via swipes? We talk to 2 modern day matchmakers Gina Hendrix @matchmakerginahendrix and Anika Rashaun @nikarashaun

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Should You Try Matchmaking Services?

Should You Try Matchmaking Services?

So you're about to delete your dating apps. Again. But then you realize - how am I gonna meet people then?? Before you panic and re-install your dating app, listen to our two professional matchmaker guests talk about what it's like to have someone literally working for you so you can go on curated dates. Hint: it ain't cheap!! Matchmaking is as old as civilization. From the days of highly prized matchmakers who knew just the right princess for the king-to-be, to glossy ads on airline magazines adverstising beautiful women for men with refined tastes and deep pockets, matching has now evolved. But does is still work in the DIY world of dating apps where the majority of people are looking for romance via swipes? We talk to 2 modern day matchmakers Gina Hendrix @matchmakerginahendrix and Anika Rashaun @nikarashaun

Who Should Make the First Move?

Who Should Make the First Move?

Not so long ago, it was pretty darn clear who was supposed to ask who out on the first date. Not anymore. In this Wild Wild West of app dating, the rules have gone out the window, resulting in confusion for some, resentment in others, and lack of courage and effort all the way around. We ask our guests Luis (@uonmobileapp) and Samantha (@skmcintosh) who should make the first move?

They Were About to Delete the Dating Apps When...

They Were About to Delete the Dating Apps When...

To delete or not to delete…that was the question facing our guests @laylamyarr and @susan.pappas. Tired of bad dates, endless messaging, and misleading profiles, they were resigning themselves to permanent single status when lightning struck! Check out our newest episode and hear what happened right when they were about to give up!

Are Women the Problem?

Are Women the Problem?

Ladies —if you’re wondering what “the good catches” are looking for on dating apps, this episode is for you! We look at straight men’s biggest pet peeves with women on the apps. Why won't women give men a chance?? Featuring bachelor guests Joshua, @jj_no_chaser and Dhruv, @midlifemasculine

Are Men the Problem?

Are Men the Problem?

Sometimes, women just need to DISH on all the things we find wrong with dating MEN on the apps. This is that episode. With guests @marialingbanan and @mayleeshow

Can Dating Coaches Help Jinah??

Can Dating Coaches Help Jinah??

Jinah's been braving it all on her own on the apps. But let's be real - it's rough out there! So - we signed up relationship coaches Charlene Byars of CharleneByars.com and Jesse and Brandon of datingcoaches.net - to give the male and female coaches' perspectives on what Jinah should do to find real love. And what they said... wasn't exactly what Jinah expected to hear. Featuring @brandonjesse_unloaded, @mscharlenebyars - who also coached our friend Kayvon in an earlier episode.

"I Have Aspergers." What To Do When Your Date is On the Spectrum

"I Have Aspergers." What To Do When Your Date is On the Spectrum

Jinah shares her experience of a date that took an unexpected turn when her companion revealed he had Asperger's. In this insightful episode, we delve into the complexities of dating on the Autism Spectrum, exploring how neurotypical individuals can approach relationships with understanding and empathy. Featuring discussions with guests Bobby Cappuccio (@theselfhelpantidote) and clinical ASD specialist Anna Marie Dorelien (@adorelienbcba). Tune in for expert advice and meaningful conversations on navigating the diverse neurotypes in the landscape of modern dating.

I'm 29 and I Can't Get Any Dates

I'm 29 and I Can't Get Any Dates

Kayvon, a former guest on the "Ghosting" episode of our podcast, hasn't had any luck on dating apps - literally hasn't gone on a single date - despite being on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel - and about 6 others. Kayvon is super cool - so WTF is going on?? We signed up relationship coaches Jesse and Brandon of datingcoaches.net and Charlene Byars of CharleneByars.com - to give the male and female coaches' perspectives on what may be happening. And what they said - was oh, so smooth.... Featuring @kayvonmradi, @brandonjesse_unloaded, @mscharlenebyars

Niche Dating Apps. When Mainstream Dating Apps Don't Work.

Niche Dating Apps. When Mainstream Dating Apps Don't Work.

Farmers Only, No Liberals, No Conservatives, Cat Lovers Only, etc... When Tinder, Bumble and Hinge just aren't working for you, why not go hyper-specific on your dating needs and wants? In this episode, we dive deep into niche dating apps, with guests Jon Pethke of CoyAmore.com and Eric McHugh of Dataing.io who talk about apps that cater towards introverted daters and AI-assisted matchmaking. @coyamoredating @ericdmchugh @bone._apple._teeth

Dating While Asian. And Male.

Dating While Asian. And Male.

Surveys show that people of color have a tougher time on dating apps, and few have it worse than Asian and South Asian men. We talk to two prolific app daters who share their cringey experiences - and also answer this critical question: C'mon - didn't BTS make it better for you?? With guests @georgekiriyama and @archithseshadri

What Happens When You Swear Off Dating Apps??

What Happens When You Swear Off Dating Apps??

Let's face it - we all get to the point where we are sooooo burned out on dating apps, and we just want to DELETE them. But inevitably, many of us get back on 'em cuz... there aren't too many convenient alternatives out there. In this episode, we talk with two guests who swore off the dating apps, and tried to go old school. Did they have better luck?? With @wild_930 and @lornasoonhee

Only Liars Need App-Lie

Only Liars Need App-Lie

Does literally everyone lie on dating apps? Sure seems like it - whether it’s about our age, height, jobs or size. And of course - we all have a justification about our “white lies.” Jinah, Daniel and our two guests talk about the most common lies on the apps, and decide where to draw the line between fact and fiction. With guests @benbrookz and @facetsinpixels

He Said, She Said

He Said, She Said

Why? Seriously, can someone explain WHY women and men seem to be so far apart in what we're looking for on dating apps?? Jinah and Daniel bring in two men and two women as guests so we can all chat about how the dating app experience differs for each sex. With guests @missvegatoyou @808golfergirl @kenneth.jacobs.733 and @commonsense150

They Make Out. Then He Ghosts Her.

They Make Out. Then He Ghosts Her.

After a three-hour second date and some great chemistry, our guest Maria (and we) are shocked at the real reason a suave British hunk ghosts her. Hint: it unraveled over $5. And fair warning: you'll have all kinds of opinions about this episode! Featuring @maria_hunt, @hanijkim, @dannoamanno, @ihatedatingappspod

0 to Sexting in 5, 4, 3...

0 to Sexting in 5, 4, 3...

Men - and yes, it's usually men - seem to go from 0 to Sexting after only a handful of messages. Or - as our guests have experienced, as the opening line after "hello, great to match with you." What compels men to do that? Really - W to the T to the F??? Featuring guests: @dominiquedigi and @rahquel

Oh My Cod. It's a Catfish.

Oh My Cod. It's a Catfish.

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Why Are Dating Profiles So Bad?

Why Are Dating Profiles So Bad?

Bathroom selfies, all-sunglasses photos, bad grammar, negativity. You've seen it all, and they SUCK. And wait—is that your boyfriend's profile on Tinder? Don't jump to conclusions—we dive into our top dating app profile no-no's with two hilarious guests.

Ghosting and Other Shitty Things People Do

Ghosting and Other Shitty Things People Do

Why is ghosting so prevalent on dating apps? Don't EVEN get Jinah started on this topic - she'll get hives. We hear a particularly shitty ghosting story from our guest, and talk about how to read the situation. It's not you, it's them. Ok, maybe it's you.

Do Dating Apps Work Any Better for Gay People?

Do Dating Apps Work Any Better for Gay People?

Do dating apps suck just as badly if you're gay? We chat with two guests, two generations apart. We also dive into some stats and factoids, and how Grindr, one of the OGs of dating apps, changed the dating landscape for gay men.

The Right Stuff for Dating Profiles

The Right Stuff for Dating Profiles

Kelly is young, single and ready to brave the world of dating apps after a break. In this episode, Daniel and Jinah try to help her draft her new profile. Will they be helpful? Will it be disaster? Listen in to find out.