How to Be Fine

Stitcher & Jolenta Greenberg, Kristen Meinzer

Half advice show, half cultural critique, and one wild ride through the world of wellness. Join podcast besties Kristen Meinzer and Jolenta Greenberg as they dissect the inner workings of the betterment industry - and offer up some advice along the way. Their goal? To help get you a little closer to fine. Kristen and Jolenta's first show By the Book is on this feed. To hear back episodes of By the Book, just scroll down! read less

Our Editor's Take

The How to Be Fine podcast guides listeners through the copious and often contradictory self-help methods. Cohosts Jolenta Greenberg and Kristen Meinzer have tried ideas from almost 100 self-help books. They critiqued books as cohosts of By The Book until 2023. Listeners can also find those episodes here.

The podcast hosts acquired so much wellness wisdom that fans asked for their advice. They created this show to answer everyone's letters. The cohosts consult professionals and conduct research to supplement their knowledge. They assess fitness trends, personality quizzes, diets, and more. Greenberg and Meinzer expose scams and reveal what works.

Greenberg is a comedian. Meinzer is a speaker. They're both authors, culture critics, and podcast pros. Meinzer is the creator or host of over a dozen podcasts. Greenberg is the host or producer of four. Media companies like NPR and the BBC seek their perspectives.

Each How to Be Fine episode begins with a "hot topic." One discusses "dopamenus." The concept originated with How to ADHD on YouTube. Dopamenus are "menu's of dopamine-releasing activities to stimulate people with ADHD. A dog cuddle is a dopamine menu appetizer. Taking a dog to the park is an entrée. Listening to music with a dog is a side item. Shopping online for dog toys is a dessert. Menu specials aren't for every day, like taking a dog on a mountain trip. The hosts share their personal experiences with dopamenus.

The podcast hosts critique the cigarette, cabbage soup, tapeworm, and Christian diets. They discuss how often people should bathe. Bathing wasn't advised for centuries following the Black Death. Some historians say Louis XIV never bathed. Listeners learn what changed and why bathing may have gone too far in the wrong direction. The hosts name four reasons some experts recommend washing less. Greenberg envies Meinzer for lacking a gene that makes unwashed underarms stink. Listeners learn a surprising way to determine if they have the gene. How to Be Fine scrutinizes ice baths, life coaches, toxic positivity, and marathons. Clarity and honesty prevail.

New episodes of How to Be Fine air weekly.

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Episodes

The Cigarette Diet
Jan 25 2024
The Cigarette Diet
On the final episode of How to Be Fine’s special series - New Year, Same Old BS - Kristen and Jolenta talk about the history of tobacco and weight loss marketing. Plus, they offer up advice on how to communicate more clearly as a new manager, and when to consider a therapist's techniques as red flags. Do you have any advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or follow us on Instagram @howtobefinepod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources:https://www.nature.com/articles/s41562-021-01202-9.epdfhttps://www.britannica.com/topic/smoking-tobacco/A-social-and-cultural-history-of-smokinghttps://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/1920s-food-flapper-diethttps://books.google.com/books?id=Aiwdx4k4uNoC&pg=PA21&hl=en&sa=X#v=onepage&q&f=falsehttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cigarette_smoking_for_weight_losshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2602591/https://time.com/3747439/smoking-cigarettes-weight-loss/https://nypost.com/2022/11/02/heroin-chic-is-back-and-curvy-bodies-big-butts-are-out/https://www.esquire.com/uk/style/fashion/a43258212/cigarettes-90s-london-kate-moss/https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_tobaccohttps://www.science.org/content/article/why-smokers-are-skinny-rev2https://www.mountsinai.org/health-library/selfcare-instructions/weight-gain-after-quitting-smoking-what-to-dohttps://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2023/07/12/dua-lipa-lily-rose-depp-jenna-ortega-celebrities-smoking-cigarettes/70346466007/https://www.cdc.gov/tobacco/data_statistics/fact_sheets/health_effects/effects_cig_smoking/https://www.cdc.gov/tobacco/basic_information/health_effects/index.htm
Christian Diets
Jan 18 2024
Christian Diets
On this episode of How to Be Fine’s special series - New Year, Same Old BS - Kristen and Jolenta talk about a handful of the many Christian Diet plans. Plus, they offer up advice for dealing with jealous feelings, and finding the right therapist. Do you have any advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or follow us on Instagram @howtobefinepod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources:https://www.smithsonianmag.com/innovation/the-seesawing-history-of-fad-diets-180981586/https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_diet_programshttps://academic.oup.com/columbia-scholarship-online/book/22528/chapter-abstract/182850030?redirectedFrom=fulltexthttps://www.mdpi.com/2077-1444/13/2/182#:~:text=Christian%20diet%20culture%20focuses%20on,importance%20of%20a%20healthy%20lifestyle. https://scholarspace.library.gwu.edu/downloads/4q77fr355?locale=zhhttps://thebiblicalnutritionist.com/christian-weight-loss-programs/https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sylvester_Grahamhttps://www.livestrong.com/article/120805-christian-weight-loss-programs/https://erinltodd.com/making-another-christian-weight-loss-resolution-read-this-first/https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2021/sep/29/gwen-shamblin-docuseries-the-way-down-remnant-fellowshiphttps://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-07-12/how-christianity-has-been-weaponised-by-weight-loss-movements/102509732https://abcnews.go.com/Health/daniel-diet-straight-bible/story?id=21029387
The Tapeworm Diet
Jan 11 2024
The Tapeworm Diet
On this episode of How to Be Fine’s special series - New Year, Same Old BS - Kristen and Jolenta uncover the surprising history of the Tapeworm diet. Plus, they offer up advice on how to accept a post-birth body, and how to get over unrequited love. Do you have any advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or follow us on Instagram @howtobefinepod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources:https://www.healthline.com/health/diet-and-weight-loss/tapeworm-diethttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cestodahttps://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/agricultural-and-biological-sciences/tapewormshttps://www.mdpi.com/2673-6772/2/3/15https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-20695743https://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/how-tuberculosis-shaped-victorian-fashion-180959029/https://thequackdoctor.com/index.php/eat-eat-eat-those-notorious-tapeworm-diet-pills/https://thequackdoctor.substack.com/abouthttps://www.latimes.com/archives/blogs/booster-shots/story/2009-12-29/tyra-banks-and-the-tapeworm-diethttps://www.today.com/health/iowa-woman-tries-tapeworm-diet-prompts-doctor-warning-6c10935746https://metro.co.uk/2015/03/24/eeew-one-of-the-kardashians-said-she-wants-a-tapeworm-to-get-slim-5118092/https://www.vice.com/en/article/xw5nnq/inside-the-lasting-legacy-of-tapeworm-dietshttps://www.huffpost.com/entry/woman-swallows-tapeworm-iowa_n_3780313https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/the-horrifying-legacy-of-the-victorian-tapeworm-diethttps://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/10607615/Journalist-infested-himself-with-tapeworm-for-BBC-documentary.htmlhttps://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-25968755https://www.mountsinai.org/health-library/diseases-conditions/tapeworm-infection-beef-or-pork
The Cabbage Soup Diet
Jan 4 2024
The Cabbage Soup Diet
On the first episode of How to Be Fine’s special series - New Year, Same Old BS - Kristen and Jolenta dig into the Cabbage Soup Diet. Plus, they offer up advice on how to wake up with more energy, and how to keep in-laws out of reproductive matters. Do you have any advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or follow us on Instagram @howtobefinepod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources:https://www.encyclopedia.com/science/encyclopedias-almanacs-transcripts-and-maps/cabbage-soup-diethttps://www.insider.com/guides/health/diet-nutrition/cabbage-soup-diethttps://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/lifestyle/food/1996/02/21/the-cabbage-soup-diet/25081d4f-ebd4-4c48-ba7e-a6d7af4edb54/https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/lifestyle/food/1996/03/06/a-closer-look-into-the-cabbage-soup-diet/52684c10-9c2d-445e-ac95-d198fd546e01/https://www.smithsonianmag.com/innovation/the-seesawing-history-of-fad-diets-180981586/https://health.usnews.com/wellness/food/articles/cabbage-soup-diethttps://www.science.gov/topicpages/c/cabbage+soup+diethttps://news.ufl.edu/archive/2002/03/cabbage-soup-diet-no-lucky-charm-for-weight-loss-says-uf-expert-1.htmlhttps://www.webmd.com/diet/a-z/cabbage-soup-diethttps://www.healthline.com/nutrition/the-cabbage-soup-diethttps://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/cabbage-soup-diethttps://www.verywellfit.com/what-is-the-cabbage-soup-diet-3496214https://www.emedicinehealth.com/cabbage_soup_diet_help_you_lose_weight/article_em.htmhttps://www.everydayhealth.com/diet-nutrition/cabbage-soup-diet.aspxhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cabbage_soup_diet#:~:text=The%20origins%20of%20the%20diet,and%20%22Russian%20Peasant%20Diet%22.
New Year’s Resolutions
Dec 21 2023
New Year’s Resolutions
On this episode of How to Be Fine, Kristen and Jolenta discuss whether or not New Year’s resolutions are actually effective. Plus, they offer up advice on dealing with medical vulnerability, and how to find an IRL literary community. Do you have any advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or follow us on Instagram @howtobefinepod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources:https://slate.com/human-interest/2014/01/new-years-resolutions-are-lame-the-peacock-vow-is-awesome.htmlhttps://www.teenvogue.com/story/new-years-resolutions-historyhttps://www.economist.com/the-economist-explains/2018/01/05/the-origin-of-new-years-resolutionshttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Year%27s_resolutionhttps://www.history.com/news/the-history-of-new-years-resolutionshttps://www.merriam-webster.com/wordplay/when-did-new-years-resolutions-starthttps://www.forbes.com/health/mind/new-years-resolutions-statistics/https://today.yougov.com/society/articles/44868-americans-new-years-resolutions-2023-poll?redirect_from=%2Ftopics%2Fsociety%2Farticles-reports%2F2022%2F12%2F28%2Famericans-new-years-resolutions-2023-pollhttps://faculty.wharton.upenn.edu/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/Dai_Fresh_Start_2014_Mgmt_Sci.pdfhttps://fisher.osu.edu/blogs/leadreadtoday/why-most-new-years-resolutions-failhttps://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/jclp.1151https://www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/18/6/3084https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0234097#pone-0234097-g002https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2980864/
Made-For-TV Holiday Movies
Dec 14 2023
Made-For-TV Holiday Movies
On this episode of How to Be Fine, Kristen and Jolenta talk about the positive impact of made-for-tv holiday movies. Plus, they offer up advice on how to curb an emotional shopping habit, and how to create a more inclusive curriculum. Do you have any advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or follow us on Instagram @howtobefinepod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources:https://www.npr.org/2019/08/07/749067994/this-changes-everything-geena-davis-on-empowering-women-in-hollywoodhttps://www.fielding.edu/why-christmas-movies-make-us-feel-good/#:~:text=The%20familiar%20tropes%2C%20and%20simple,seated%20need%20for%20social%20connection.https://www.forbes.com/sites/nancyberk/2022/08/24/ashley-williams-sparks-hallmark-medias-new-female-focused-storytelling-initiative/?sh=2628c9875a13  https://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/pictures/hallmark-channels-leading-ladies-a-guide-to-the-networks-stars/https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-normalizing-of-horrible-christmas-movies-must-be-stoppedhttp://www.thefutoncritic.com/ratings/2022/12/13/hallmark-channels-countdown-to-christmas-continues-to-be-viewers-number-1-home-for-the-holidays-in-its-eighth-week-566510/20221213hallmark01/https://www.vulture.com/article/lifetime-christmas-movie-santa-bootcamp.htmlhttps://www.vogue.com/article/why-are-all-the-women-in-hallmark-holiday-movies-portrayed-as-soulless-money-machineshttps://nursingclio.org/2019/01/17/hallmark-christmas-movies-guilty-pleasure-or-feminist-rallying-cry/https://fortune.com/well/2022/11/24/christmas-movies-happiness-mental-health/https://www.kqed.org/arts/10179597/anatomy-of-a-made-for-tv-christmas-moviehttps://www.her.ie/entertainment/christmas-movies-2-567989#:~:text=According%20to%20science%2C%20watching%20Christmas,actually%20good%20for%20your%20health.&text=That's%20right%2C%20tuning%20into%20Elf,us%20feeling%20happier%20and%20lighter.https://www.nbcnews.com/better/lifestyle/here-s-why-it-feels-so-good-watch-those-hallmark-ncna1080841https://www.theglobeandmail.com/arts/article-why-do-women-fall-for-made-for-tv-holiday-movies/https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/tv/2022/12/07/hallmark-netflix-tv-christmas-movies-can-be-good/10837984002/https://www.vox.com/culture/2017/12/14/16752012/hallmark-christmas-movies-explainedhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/positively-media/202212/why-christmas-movies-make-us-feel-good#:~:text=The%20Benefits%20of%20Holiday%20Movies&text=They%20are%20heart%2Dhealthy%2C%20reducing,inspire%20new%20activities%20and%20goals.https://www.mentalfloss.com/posts/watching-holiday-movies-makes-us-feel-good-according-to-science