Sharika Soal discusses why black women should disassociate from transgender advocacy. She argues they face high rates of violence from black men yet focus on transgender issues rather than their own safety. Soal cites statistics and hypothetical scenarios to suggest black transgender women don't need black women's assistance. The message encourages black women to prioritize issues directly impacting their community over transgender causes.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In this episode, Sharika discusses how the black family unit can often be a toxic environment. She advocates for black people, especially women, to "divest" or distance themselves from unsupportive family members who hold them back. Sharika shares her own experiences with toxic family dynamics and encourages listeners to prioritize their mental health and success over dysfunctional relationships, even with their mothers or close relatives.  Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In this thought-provoking episode, host Sharika Soal delves into the complex reasons why many black women choose to date outside their race. She begins by sharing her own experiences, noting that even failed relationships with non-black men were less toxic than those with black men.Soal goes on to discuss how the prevalence of "hood culture" among some black men shapes expectations for black women. She argues this leads to an assumption that black women must conform to a narrow definition of black femininity. She also takes issue with offensive language like the n-word and derogatory terms still used by some black men, even those who are educated.The conversation then turns to financial expectations. Soal asserts that some black men see black women's role as suffering alongside them or providing primary financial support rather than being cared for as an equal partner. She contrasts this to her perception of relationship norms in other racial communities.Soal also criticizes the tendency of some black men to police black women's appearance, saying this embarrassment stems from insecurity rather than care. She advocates for black women's freedom to simply be women without judgment.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In this episode, the host discusses a viral video showing a fight between a black teenage girl and a white teenage girl that left the white girl critically injured. Sharika argues this incident highlights the need to address issues of black-on-white violence without double standards openly.While some details of the fight are unclear, the host criticizes the other black teenagers who stood by filming instead of intervening.Soal expresses frustration with the tendency in media coverage to portray the black attacker as a victim. The discussion also touches on toxic mindsets in some black communities that encourage violence against other races.Sharik Soal advocates for the black community to build itself up independently through organizations empowering black women and children rather than relying on anti-white rhetoric that will only breed more resentment.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

The podcast episode discusses a horrific crime where six black individuals are accused of kidnapping, torturing, sexually assaulting, and murdering a 20-year-old black woman named Mahogany Jackson in Birmingham, Alabama. According to details provided in a Daily Mail article, Jackson was handcuffed, beaten, spit on, and forced to perform sex acts on her attackers in an apartment. Videos were also taken of the torture and assault by several of the perpetrators before a gunshot to the back of the head killed Jackson.Host Sharika Soal expresses deep anger and frustration over the gruesome details of Jackson's death. Soal argues that sympathizing with black criminals is harming American society and that it is time to stop doing so. She advocates for "divesting" from behaviors and lifestyles associated with "ghetto black culture." Soal criticizes the idea that white supremacy is always to blame for issues within black communities. She also takes issue with liberal policies and the level of support the black community shows for Democratic politicians.Soal discusses the impact of "ghetto culture" on the black community. She criticizes aspects of this culture like "thug life" and the hip hop/rap music industry. Soal argues this culture promotes a lack of humanity, respect, and safety. She shares her personal experience as an adopted person and her concern for black children's wellbeing. Soal advocates for supporting black women and building them up instead of enabling supposed criminal behaviors.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In this episode, host Sharika Soal discusses her frustration with George Floyd still being discussed as a martyr four years after his death.  Sharika argues that Floyd was committing a crime when he died, and his past includes violently robbing a home with three other black men while a toddler was present. Not wanting a man with a past so disturbing being the general representation of their race isn't irrational and to treat people that way is gaslighting.  Soal also criticizes how black men continue to hold Floyd up as a symbol of black excellence when he was an unemployed man and addicted to drugs.Sharika Soal wants black heroes to be people who actually improve society and do good things rather than criminals.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In this episode, Sharika Soal discusses how modern dating has been radicalized. She advocates for dating within political affiliations, sharing her own experience rejecting an ex-boyfriend due to his liberal views on white supremacy and racism. Sharika reflects on how politics has affected her dating life, focusing on the radicalization of dating and demands for financial stability.The episode also addresses the reality that radicalized gender roles and expectations in the "Trad wife" community. It should be argued that financial and work-life constraints are radicalizing dating and relationships in 2024, which could be why there is a surge in "Gold digger content" online.Ultimately, it is easy to conclude that genuine relationships take time to build, and only time can control their outcome. It's time we advocate for a more realistic approach to dating, prioritizing self-awareness and taking things slow.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In today's episode of the Divested Diary, I had the opportunity to delve into a topic close to my heart. As a black woman myself, I wanted to address the issue of the "ghetto personality" and its impact on our lives. Before you jump to conclusions, let me clarify that I am not here to perpetuate stereotypes or belittle anyone's experiences. Instead, I want to shed light on the importance of embracing proper English and communication skills for our own personal growth and success. The origins of Ebonics, or African American Vernacular English, can be traced back to the era of slavery. It was a way for enslaved individuals to communicate in broken English as they yearned to read, write, and integrate into society. They sought equality and recognition, not by holding onto their African roots but by mastering English. This historical context is crucial to understanding the significance of language in our lives. I want to clarify that I am not demonizing Ebonics or suggesting it is inherently wrong. It is a part of our cultural heritage; for some, it comes naturally. However, I personally do not speak Ebonics because it was not a part of my upbringing. Through adoption, I was fortunate to have parents who emphasized proper English pronunciation and grammar. They understood the importance of effective communication in navigating the world. As black women, we face unique challenges in our careers. There comes a point when we outgrow entry-level jobs and crave intellectual stimulation. We desire conversations that resonate with our experiences and aspirations. However, when our grasp of the English language is limited, breaking free from the confines of low-paying jobs becomes difficult. We inadvertently limit our opportunities for growth and advancement. I want to emphasize that this is not about conforming to societal expectations or assimilating into a white-dominated culture. It is about empowering ourselves and expanding our horizons. When we can effectively communicate and articulate our thoughts, we open doors to higher-paying positions and positions of influence. It is about creating a future where our past or our language does not limit us. I understand that the "ghetto personality" can be entertaining and even celebrated in certain contexts. We enjoy watching comedy skits or listening to rap music that embraces this style. However, we must recognize that it has its limitations. Unless we plan to be niche rappers or entertainers for the rest of our lives, we must consider the long-term implications of holding onto this persona. I want to challenge the notion that being educated or speaking proper English makes us less black. This harmful stereotype has held us back for far too long. We should not fear judgment or rejection from our own community for aspiring to be intelligent, well-spoken individuals. Our ancestors, like Harriet Tubman, fought for our freedom and equality. They envisioned a future where we could thrive intellectually and contribute meaningfully to society. So, my fellow black women, let us embrace the power of language and communication. Let us shed the limitations of the "ghetto personality" and strive for excellence. It is time to break free from toxic cultural expectations and create a future where our voices are heard and respected. Together, we can redefine what being a successful black woman means, one conversation at a time. Thank you for joining me on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Until next time, remember to let go of that ghetto personality and embrace the limitless possibilities that lie ahead. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In today's episode of the Divested Diary, we delved into adoption, which is often overlooked and rarely discussed in the Black community. As a Black woman, it is crucial to shed light on this issue and provide a brutally honest perspective. Adoption in the Black community is not something that is widely talked about or embraced. It is a topic that often gets overshadowed by other pressing issues. However, it is essential to address the reality of why adoption happens within our community and the consequences it has for our children. Contrary to popular belief, white supremacists are not responsible for the choices made by individuals within the Black community. They are not the ones forcing young Black men to prey on underage girls or encouraging mothers to abandon their children. We must take accountability for the dysfunction and poor choices that lead to adoption. One of the reasons adoption occurs within the Black community is due to the prevalence of drug abuse and neglect. It is heartbreaking to see children being removed from their homes because their parents chose drugs over their well-being. We cannot blame white people for these choices; it is a matter of personal responsibility. As a mother myself, I understand that parenthood is a choice. Every minute of parenting is a decision; we cannot take back those choices. While there are stories of redemption and reunification, the reality is that some parents do not prioritize their children's needs. This often leads to children being placed in foster care or adopted by families of a different race. It is disheartening to see that adoption is not a part of our culture. We put our voices and dollars behind various aspects of our culture, such as hair care, music, and entertainment. However, we fail to support and advocate for Black children in the foster care system. We must address these children's lack of resources and support, including hair care products catering to their needs. Furthermore, it is essential to acknowledge the experiences of Black individuals who white families have adopted. It is unfair to expect them to vilify their adoptive families and perpetuate a narrative of white supremacy. Many of these families gave them love, care, and opportunities they may not have had otherwise. We must recognize the complexity of their experiences and not generalize their stories. Adoption is a sensitive and often overlooked topic within the Black community. It is time for us to have open and honest conversations about the reasons behind adoption and the need for accountability. We cannot brush issues like incest and child abuse under the rug. Our responsibility is to address these problems and work towards creating a safer and healthier environment for our children. Adoption in the Black community is a complex issue that requires our attention and understanding. We must acknowledge the reasons behind adoption and hold ourselves accountable for the choices that lead to it. It is time to break the silence and provide support for Black children in the foster care system. Let us work towards creating a community that prioritizes the well-being of our children and addresses the issues that contribute to adoption. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In today's episode, we delved into a topic that has been weighing heavily on my mind: the importance of not teaching our children to hate white people. As a mother and a member of the black community, I believe it is crucial for us to divest from this harmful mindset and focus on unity and understanding instead. It is disheartening to see how anger and resentment from events that occurred centuries ago have seeped into our present-day interactions. We cannot allow ourselves to label innocent five-year-old white children as evil simply because of their race. It is an extreme and unfair judgment that only perpetuates division and animosity. Moreover, this kind of behavior affects our relationships with others and hinders our progress. By teaching our children to hate white people, we are setting them up for a life filled with frustration and aggression. We need to realize that not every white person is out to harm us or oppress us. We must be careful not to generalize and demonize an entire race based on the actions of a few individuals. Furthermore, this mindset of hatred and aggression towards white people can have serious consequences for our children's future. It can hinder their success in various aspects of life, such as finding employment, building business relationships, and even securing housing in certain areas. We need to be mindful of how we portray ourselves and our community, as it directly impacts our opportunities for growth and prosperity. Some may argue that teaching our children to be aware of the dangers they may face is necessary. While educating them about potential risks is important, we must also teach them to differentiate between individuals and not generalize based on race. Instead of instilling fear and hatred, let us focus on teaching them about good and bad touches, empowering them to protect themselves from any danger they may encounter. It is crucial for us to acknowledge that slavery is over, and we cannot hold present-day white individuals accountable for the actions of their ancestors. We must move forward and strive for equality and unity. By teaching our children to hate white people, we are perpetuating a cycle of animosity that serves no purpose other than to divide us further. We must also address the issue of violence and hatred within our own community. It is disheartening to see instances where black individuals target and attack white individuals solely based on their race. This behavior is morally wrong and counterproductive to the progress we seek. We cannot fight against racism by perpetuating it ourselves. It’s time for us to divest from teaching our children to hate white people. We must focus on unity, understanding, and building bridges instead of perpetuating division and animosity. Doing so can create a better future for our children, one where they can thrive and succeed without hatred and prejudice. Let us choose love and acceptance over hatred and division. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In today's episode of The Divested Diary, we delved into a thought-provoking discussion about the portrayal of Black women in the modern world and media. As I shared my perspective, it became evident to me that our image is in complete shambles, and it's time for us, as Black women, to take accountability for how we are being portrayed to the masses. Throughout the episode, I highlighted the rise of entertainers like Sukihana, Sexy Red, Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion, and Nicki Minaj. While their success is undeniable, I couldn't help but question the impact of their explicit and raunchy content on the perception of Black women. I specifically mentioned Nicki Minaj's "Anaconda" song, which I found to be X-rated for a teenage audience. It is disheartening that in 2023, there is still a consensus that Black women are perceived as ghetto, loud, aggressive, and lacking intelligence. However, I challenged the notion that this perception is solely the result of external forces, such as racism. Instead, I argued that it is time for us to divest from the idea that there is a boogeyman in a white cloth perpetuating these stereotypes. As an educated Black woman, I believe we should pride ourselves on our ability to analyze situations and develop conclusive insights. Therefore, it is perplexing to me that many educated Black women continue to perpetuate negative stereotypes through their online presence. I emphasized that it is not racism that we are experiencing in 2023 but rather a consequence of the behaviors exhibited during movements like Black Lives Matter. I urged Black women to consider the consequences of their actions and their impact on our image. While it is essential to demand respect regardless of race, continuously screaming at white people and expressing anger and hate towards them will only breed resentment. I emphasized the need for a shift in our narrative, where we showcase our intelligence, homemaking skills, and contributions to society rather than focusing solely on our grievances and twerking. To illustrate my point, I shared an example of a TikTok video I came across where a Black woman threatened to beat her nine-year-old daughter with a belt for messing up her hair. I expressed disappointment in the comment section, where many Black women were laughing and encouraging such behavior. I emphasized that our actions matter and contribute to the negative perception of Black women. I call for Black women to take responsibility and accountability for our image. I emphasized the importance of change and urged us to become the role models we want our daughters, nieces, and future generations to look up to. It is time to divest from negative stereotypes and embrace a classier and more empowering image. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In today's episode of the Divested Diary, I had the opportunity to discuss a controversial topic that needs to be addressed. As someone who believes in equality and justice, I feel compelled to speak out against the idea of reparations for certain individuals in our society.The episode began with a clear statement: "do not give ghetto black thugs in the hood or the women reparations." While this statement may seem harsh to some, it is important to understand its reasoning. Reparations, as defined by the NAACP, are meant to address the historical injustices faced by African Americans. However, this flawed approach will not lead to the desired outcomes.To further explore this topic, I delved into the NAACP's website to understand their perspective on reparations. It became evident that their focus was on legislative and political actions to move black people forward in the fight for equality. While this is a noble goal, I question the effectiveness of reparations in achieving this objective.One of the main arguments against reparations is the concern that it may not be utilized in a productive manner. Giving individuals who may already be involved in criminal activities a large sum of money or property could potentially lead to further chaos and violence. It is essential to consider the consequences of such actions and whether they will truly benefit the community as a whole.Furthermore, I highlighted the fact that the individuals who directly experienced slavery and its aftermath are no longer alive. The idea of reparations is based on addressing historical injustices, but it fails to acknowledge the progress made over the years. We should focus on finding real solutions and promoting healing rather than relying on monetary compensation.Reparations also do not address the underlying issues that contribute to inequality and systemic racism. It is crucial to address education, economic opportunities, and social programs that uplift communities and provide equal opportunities for all individuals. Giving money or property without addressing these fundamental issues will not lead to lasting change.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In today's episode, we delve into the topic of Black politics. It's a subject that often leaves me questioning why the ghetto seems to seep into every aspect of Black life, even in the highest positions of power. Recently, the Democratic representative Jamal Bowman of New York made headlines when he was charged with triggering a fire alarm in a House office building without any emergency. Seeing someone in such a position of influence engage in reckless behavior is disheartening. It raises the question of whether there is a standard that Black politicians should uphold, especially when it comes to basic knowledge like understanding what a fire alarm is. But this issue goes beyond one individual's actions. It feels like Black politics has become one big scam, focused more on defeating the white man than addressing the real issues affecting the Black community. As a conservative, I struggle to understand the point of supporting movements like Black Lives Matter or aligning with liberal ideologies that perpetuate the narrative of victimhood. Instead of focusing on safe schools and improving the education system in impoverished areas, Black politicians often get caught up in symbolic gestures like advocating for the right to wear cornrows. While these issues may have cultural significance, they do little to address our communities' systemic problems. Furthermore, it's disheartening to see Black politicians constantly collecting money for causes like Black Lives Matter without ensuring that the funds reach the people who need them. Reparations, for example, may sound appealing, but throwing money at the problem won't solve the deep-rooted issues within the Black community. Instead, Black politicians should be using their power and influence to address the violence and crime that disproportionately affects African Americans. The staggering number of Black-on-Black murders cannot be ignored, and it's time for our leaders to prioritize the safety and well-being of our communities. Black politicians should focus on tangible solutions to uplift the Black community. It's time to move away from the outdated rhetoric of fighting racism and instead focus on empowering ourselves and taking responsibility for our own actions. We need leaders who are willing to call out the ghetto-ness within our community and work towards building a better future. Black politics needs a shift in focus. We need honest and unapologetic leaders willing to address the real issues affecting our community. It's time to move beyond the victim mentality and work towards real change. Let's return respect and integrity to the Black community and strive for a better future together. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary WebsiteJoin the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

Today's episode is a thought-provoking one as we delve into the topic of why women should stop dating the "ghetto thug." Now, before we dive in, let me clarify that when I use the term "ghetto," I am not exclusively referring to the Black community. However, in my experience, I have noticed that a significant number of Black individuals embrace aspects of ghetto culture, such as certain music genres and aesthetic choices. Now, let's get to the heart of the matter. It seems like there is a silent epidemic in the dating world, particularly among women who are attracted to black men, specifically those from the ghetto or hood. These women often adopt the personalities, language, and aesthetics associated with this culture. Unfortunately, this often leads to becoming a baby mama. While not all ghetto men are bad fathers, it is silently encouraged within the African-American community for men to neglect their parental responsibilities in favor of pursuing their music careers or other endeavors. The allure of dating a ghetto thug stems from the hope that he will provide a glamorous and financially abundant life. However, the reality is often far from that fantasy. Many of these men have limited prospects and are unlikely to achieve the success and wealth that women hope for. It's important to let go of the notion that your ghetto thug will reach his potential and sweep you off your feet into a life of luxury. I understand that love is love, but we must consider the long-term implications beyond our attractions. If the man you're attracted to has a criminal record or exhibits violent behavior, it's time to reconsider. Dating someone with a limited vocabulary and a propensity for aggression is not a safe or healthy choice. We've seen this play out in reality TV shows like Love After Lockup, where delusional women hope for a better future with men who may not have the best track record. It's disheartening to see women who have built their lives around these men face disrespect and ridicule, even from within their own community. We must recognize that aligning ourselves with individuals who perpetuate negative stereotypes only hinders our progress as a community. It's time to prioritize our safety, our children's well-being, and the betterment of our neighborhoods. I speak from personal experience, as I, too, used to date ghetto thugs in my younger years. However, after experiencing violence firsthand, I realized the importance of distancing myself from that lifestyle. It's not about being racist or discriminatory; it's about protecting ourselves and making choices that lead to a safer and more fulfilling life. We must reject the idea that Black women's rights are inherently tied to Black men's rights. Black women deserve support and resources that empower them as individuals and mothers. By investing in women's education, providing access to transportation, and offering opportunities for personal growth, we can transform struggles into success stories. I invite you to visit DivestedDiary.com to learn more about my organization for women's rights and to contribute to our cause. Together, we can uplift and empower women, creating a brighter future for ourselves and our communities. In conclusion, it's time to let go of the allure of dating the ghetto thug. We must choose partners prioritizing our safety, well-being, and personal growth. By breaking free from negative stereotypes and investing in ourselves, we can create a better future for Black women and our communities. Thank you for joining me on this episode of the Divested Diary podcast. I appreciate your support, and I look forward to continuing these important conversations in the future. Stay tuned for weekly episodes on your favorite podcast platforms and my website. Together, we can make a difference. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary WebsiteJoin the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

As I sit here, preparing to write about the latest episode of my podcast, "The Divested Diary," I can't help but feel a mix of frustration and disappointment. In today's episode, I tackled the topic of Black media and its impact on the image and representation of Black Americans. It's a subject that hits close to home for me as a Black woman passionate about uplifting and empowering my community. Throughout the episode, I delve into the problematic nature of certain Black media outlets, such as Bossip, Zeus Network, and Now That's TV. These platforms often prioritize sensationalized and negative content, perpetuating harmful stereotypes about Black people. From fights between baby mamas to rappers in prison, the focus is on the lowest common denominator rather than showcasing the diversity and achievements within the Black community. I express my frustration with the fact that these outlets are not only creating and promoting this content but that there is also a demand for it. People willingly participate in these shows, perpetuating the negative image of Black people. It's disheartening to see how this type of media reinforces stereotypes and hinders progress in the fight against racism. I also touch on the responsibility of Black media to uplift and inspire. I question why positive Black media that is engaging and empowering is so hard to find. It's crucial to highlight the achievements, talents, and stories of Black individuals who positively impact their communities. Doing so can challenge the negative narratives and showcase Black culture's diversity and richness. In the episode, I also discuss the need for divestment from toxic Black media. I encourage listeners to scroll past content that perpetuates negative stereotypes and instead seek media that uplifts and empowers. By consciously supporting positive Black media, we can change the narrative and promote a more accurate and positive representation of Black Americans. As I wrap up the episode, I hope listeners will join me in divesting from toxic Black media and supporting platforms that celebrate the achievements and diversity within our community. It's time to challenge the status quo and demand better representation. Together, we can create a media landscape that uplifts, inspires, and empowers Black Americans. Thank you for tuning in to this episode of The Divested Diary. I appreciate your support and look forward to continuing these important conversations. Stay tuned for more episodes on your favorite podcast platforms and at Divested Diary. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary WebsiteJoin the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

Today's episode was a thought-provoking discussion on racism in the modern world. We delved into whether it is malicious or if there's more to the story. Let's dive right into it.In this digital age, it seems like the conversation around racism has become muddled. We see people on social media complaining about trivial things like white women wearing braids, and it makes me wonder if that's what racism is about. I can't help but think about the struggles that our ancestors faced during slavery. Is this what they fought for?Now, I'm not saying that we should be grateful for white supremacy, but let's be real. We live in a modern society with access to smartphones and other technological advancements. We have opportunities, resources, and the freedom to move around. So, why do we keep talking about racism as if it's still 1865?I find it absurd when I see people on social media screaming about white supremacy and how evil it is. Still, they post pictures of themselves enjoying their lives in white establishments. It's contradictory and undermines the seriousness of the issue. If a restaurant is racist, why not just go to a different one? There are plenty of welcoming places out there.I believe that racism isn't always malicious in the modern world. Sometimes, people don't like each other, and that's okay. We can't force everyone to like us. And let's not forget that racism exists in all races, not just between Black and white individuals. It's important to acknowledge that and not turn a blind eye to it.Instead of constantly focusing on the threat of racism, I think it's time for us to focus on ourselves. We need to be selfish and prioritize our own well-being. That doesn't mean we should ignore the issue, but rather, we should approach it with a balanced perspective. Let's care individually for those who matter to us and not feel obligated to dedicate our lives to fighting for everyone we've never met.Racism is a complex issue, and it's not going to be solved by constantly re-passing laws or expecting everyone to like each other. We need to change our perception of racism and understand that it's not always a direct threat to our lives. We should save our energy for the battles that truly matter and not let ourselves be consumed by constant outrage.So, let's focus on ourselves, save energy, and live our lives to the fullest. Racism exists, but it doesn't have to define us. We can rise above it and create a better future for ourselves and future generations.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary WebsiteJoin the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

I am excited to delve into the thought-provoking topics surrounding black culture, relationships, and the need for open and honest discussions. In this episode, I address the concept of divestment and its significance for black women.Divestment, in this context, refers to a conscious decision made by black women to distance themselves from the financial, physical, emotional, and even sexual abuse prevalent within their community. It is a movement that challenges the focus on black men who engage in criminal activities and the expectation for black women to support them unquestioningly.The statistics presented in the episode shed light on the harsh realities black women face. The Institute for Women's Policy Research report reveals alarming rates of violence, psychological abuse, and rape experienced by black women. Additionally, black women are disproportionately affected by murder, with the majority of perpetrators being individuals known to them.The divestment movement aims to shift the narrative and prioritize black women's and their children's well-being. It encourages black women to put themselves first rather than being burdened with the responsibility of supporting men who perpetuate violence and crime. Divestment is not about abandoning all black men but rather distancing oneself from those who exhibit toxic behaviors.It is essential to recognize that divestment does not imply a rejection of black culture as a whole. There are undoubtedly positive aspects of black culture, such as the celebration of natural hair and the emphasis on skincare. However, it is crucial to acknowledge and address the elements that promote crime and predatory behavior towards vulnerable individuals.The divestment movement extends beyond romantic relationships. It encompasses a rejection of toxic cultural norms that perpetuate aggression, intimidation, and criminality. It challenges the notion that being black is synonymous with being ghetto or speaking in Ebonics. Divestment calls for a collective effort to dismantle these harmful stereotypes and create a healthier, more empowering environment for all.As the Divested Diary podcast host, I am committed to fostering open and honest discussions about these important issues. I invite listeners to join me on this journey of empowerment, where we can explore the complexities of black culture, relationships, and the need for change. Together, we can challenge the status quo and create a better future for black women and their communities.Thank you for tuning in to the Divested Diary podcast. I am Sharika Soul, your host, and I look forward to engaging with you in meaningful conversations. Stay tuned for weekly episodes on your favorite podcast platforms and my website at divesteddiary.com. Let's divest from toxicity and embrace a future of empowerment. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary WebsiteJoin the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

Welcome to The Divested Diary PodcastI am excited to delve into the thought-provoking topics surrounding black culture, relationships, and the need for open and honest discussions. In this episode, I address the concept of divestment and its significance for black women.Divestment, in this context, refers to a conscious decision made by black women to distance themselves from the financial, physical, emotional, and even sexual abuse prevalent within their community. It is a movement that challenges the focus on black men who engage in criminal activities and the expectation for black women to support them unquestioningly.The statistics presented in the episode shed light on the harsh realities black women face. The Institute for Women's Policy Research report reveals alarming rates of violence, psychological abuse, and rape experienced by black women. Additionally, black women are disproportionately affected by murder, with the majority of perpetrators being individuals known to them.The divestment movement aims to shift the narrative and prioritize black women's and their children's well-being. It encourages black women to put themselves first rather than being burdened with the responsibility of supporting men who perpetuate violence and crime. Divestment is not about abandoning all black men but rather distancing oneself from those who exhibit toxic behaviors.It is essential to recognize that divestment does not imply a rejection of black culture as a whole. There are undoubtedly positive aspects of black culture, such as the celebration of natural hair and the emphasis on skincare. However, it is crucial to acknowledge and address the elements that promote crime and predatory behavior towards vulnerable individuals.The divestment movement extends beyond romantic relationships. It encompasses a rejection of toxic cultural norms that perpetuate aggression, intimidation, and criminality. It challenges the notion that being black is synonymous with being ghetto or speaking in Ebonics. Divestment calls for a collective effort to dismantle these harmful stereotypes and create a healthier, more empowering environment for all.As the Divested Diary podcast host, I am committed to fostering open and honest discussions about these important issues. I invite listeners to join me on this journey of empowerment, where we can explore the complexities of black culture, relationships, and the need for change. Together, we can challenge the status quo and create a better future for black women and their communities.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84Divested Diary Website  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher