Let's Talk Love | A Real Love Ready Podcast

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Let’s Talk Love brings you advice and insights from trusted experts to help you expand the ways you love, relate, and communicate. Real Love Ready founder and host Robin Ducharme invites guests into conversations that get to the heart of what makes relationships joyful, challenging, and fulfilling. Along the way, they share valuable insights and provide you with practical tools to build self-awareness and develop stronger communication skills. Together, we dive into the big questions around relationships — including all the messy, sexy, awkward, complicated parts of love.

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Dené Logan - Sovereign Love
6d ago
Dené Logan - Sovereign Love
In this episode of Let's Talk Love, Robin is joined by couples therapist Dené Logan to discuss her new book, Sovereign Love. Dené shares insights from her work with clients and her education in depth psychology. She discusses how societal conditioning has led to an imbalance between masculine and feminine energies, impacting all of our relationships. Dené explores common intimate relationship patterns like the abandonment-shame spiral and invisible labor. She offers tools for navigating these relationship dynamics, how to communicate through love and transform unhealthy patterns. Dené emphasizes that by recognizing we are all on our own souls' journeys and by letting go of controlling tendencies, we can move towards interdependence within our relationships. This thought-provoking discussion provides a new perspective on understanding our inner masculine and feminine energies allowing for more fulfilling relationships.We want to hear from you!  Please send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IG Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionSovereign Love: https://denelogan.com/bookFOLLOW DENÉ: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | YOUTUBEFOLLOW RLR: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/reallovereadyWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
A Sneak Peek into In Bloom 2024
Apr 8 2024
A Sneak Peek into In Bloom 2024
Join us for a special episode of Let’s Talk Love, as host John Kim moderates a panel discussion featuring six speakers from the upcoming In Bloom Summit, alongside Real Love Ready founder, Robin Ducharme.Discover the perspectives of John Kim, Vanessa Bennett, Todd Baratz, Shaun Galanos, Dr. Jody Carrington, and Dené Logan as they offer diverse viewpoints on love and relationships. Together, they tackle questions submitted by listeners, exploring topics such as effectively communicating needs to avoidant partners and distinguishing between peace and boredom in relationships.This episode offers a sneak peek into the thought-provoking discussions that await at In Bloom, providing both speakers and attendees a chance to connect and dive deeper into the themes of the event. Tune in for an insightful and entertaining conversation that sets the stage for the transformative experiences ahead.In Bloom: A Love and Relationships SummitApril 12-14, 2024Fairmont Waterfront Hotel, Vancouver BC (virtual attendance is also available)Featuring Dr. Gabor Maté, Rae Maté, Logan Ury, Dené Logan, Shaun Galanos, Dr. Jess O'Reilly, Dr. Jody Carrington, John Kim, Vanessa Bennett, Todd Baratz, and Sophie Grégoire Trudeau.Take your relational skills to the next level.Real Love Ready is putting you in the room with your favourite relationship experts—and the most trusted names in love—for a weekend of learning, growth, and community.Use code INBLOOM25 for 25% off your tickets!https://realloveready.com/in-bloom-a-love-and-relationships-summit-2024We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IG Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionFOLLOW RLR: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/reallovereadyCredits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai. Watch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
Sarah Sapora - Your Ultimate You
Apr 4 2024
Sarah Sapora - Your Ultimate You
In this inspiring episode of Let’s Talk Love, Robin sits down with author and speaker Sarah Sapora. Together, they talk about her excellent new book, ‘'Soul Archaeology' that guides readers through the process of self discovery - uncovering their true selves amidst the layers of life's experiences. They explore the detrimental influence of diet culture on self-esteem and the importance of untangling from its grip to embrace our true self-worth. Sarah emphasizes the significance of prioritizing the journey of self-reflection over specific goals or outcomes, highlighting the transformative power of honesty, accountability, and self-awareness. Through personal anecdotes and shared wisdom, Robin and Sarah shed light on the manifestations of self-abandonment and the necessity of rewriting our internal narratives towards self-love. Filled with humor, heart and hard-won wisdom, this conversation serves as a beacon for those embarking on the ongoing journey of personal growth and self-discovery.Join us in Vancouver (or virtually) at In Bloom this April 12-14, 2024!https://realloveready.com/in-bloom-a-love-and-relationships-summit-2024We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IG Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionLearn more with Sarah Sapora:Soul Archaeology: https://www.sarahsapora.com/bookStop screwing yourself over! Get Sarah’s Self-Abandonment Checklist and a free eBook on self-abandonment, what it is, how to stop, and what to do instead! https://developed-narrative-inc.ck.page/794727984cFOLLOW SARAH SAPORA: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XFOLLOW RLR: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
Bryan Reeves - Supporting Men's Relational Growth
Mar 28 2024
Bryan Reeves - Supporting Men's Relational Growth
In this episode of Let's Talk Love, Robin sits down with internationally renowned author, and relationship coach, Bryan Reeves. Bryan’s work is supporting men (and women) to have better lives and thriving relationships. Together, they discuss transforming relationships through emotional connection and empathy. Bryan shares a collection of true stories, insights and tools from his book, Choose Her Every Day (or Leave Her):  A Guide for Your Journey Through the Transformational Fires of Love & Intimacy.   He offers practical ways for building conscious relationships by understanding masculine and feminine energies, addressing emotional disconnection, and improving communication skills when conflicts arise.Join us in Vancouver (or virtually) at In Bloom this April 12-14, 2024!https://realloveready.com/in-bloom-a-love-and-relationships-summit-2024We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IG Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionLearn more with Bryan Reeves:Choose Her Every Day (or Leave Her): https://bryanreeves.com/book/Podcast: https://bryanreeves.com/menthiswaypodcast/Free Training for Men: https://training.elevaterelationship.com/FOLLOW BRYAN REEVES: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK  | XFOLLOW RLR: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
Damona Hoffman - Rewrite the Dating Myths
Mar 14 2024
Damona Hoffman - Rewrite the Dating Myths
In this episode of Let's Talk Love, Robin sits down with certified dating coach, Damona Hoffman to discuss the changing landscape of dating and relationships. Damona shares insights from over 15 years of coaching singles, and from her new book F the Fairy Tale: Rewrite the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story. Robin and Damona explore the impact of online dating and the paradox of choice, where having too many options can be overwhelming. Damona offers practical strategies for dating with intention and emphasizes the importance of mindset, search strategies, and communication. She also discusses the importance of reevaluating deal breakers and must-haves to expand our dating pool.Listeners will walk away with tools and skills to help build lasting partnerships. This is an inspiring conversation for anyone seeking fulfilling relationships in an ever-changing dating landscape.We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IG Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionJoin us in Vancouver (or virtually) at In Bloom this April 12-14, 2024!https://realloveready.com/in-bloom-a-love-and-relationships-summit-2024Learn more with Damona HoffmanF the Fairy Tale: https://damonahoffman.com/f-the-fairy-tale/#booksellersWork with Damona: https://damonahoffman.com/dating-help/Ask The Experts Q&A: https://youtu.be/uNapf0pWiaMFOLLOW DAMONA HOFFMAN: INSTAGRAM | YOUTUBE | XFOLLOW RLR: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
Dr. Ramani Durvasula - Healing From Narcissistic Abuse
Mar 7 2024
Dr. Ramani Durvasula - Healing From Narcissistic Abuse
This week on Let's Talk Love, Robin is joined by clinical psychologist and author, Dr. Ramani Durvasula, to discuss the journey of healing from narcissistic relationships. Dr. Ramani shares insights from her practice and new book, It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People, diving into common traits of people with narcissistic personalities and explaining why narcissistic individuals are resistant and most likely not going to change.They explore the emotions of grief and shame that often accompany leaving a narcissistic relationship.  Dr. Ramani gives effective strategies for healing and reclaiming one’s whole self and autonomy. For those seeking to understand and recover from narcissistic abuse, this interview offers validation, perspective and practical tools for moving forward in the healing process.We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IG Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionJoin us in Vancouver (or virtually) at In Bloom this April 12-14, 2024!https://realloveready.com/in-bloom-a-love-and-relationships-summit-2024Learn more with Dr. Ramani Durvasula:Book: It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic PeopleCA: https://amzn.to/3IgahDNUS: https://amzn.to/3TedMRtNarcissistic Relationship Healing Program + Community: https://doctor-ramani.teachable.com/p/taking-yourself-back-healing-from-narcissistic-antagonistic-relationshipsFOLLOW DR. RAMANI: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XFOLLOW RLR: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
Joree Rose & Dr. John Schinnerer - Growth in Partnership
Feb 8 2024
Joree Rose & Dr. John Schinnerer - Growth in Partnership
In this week’s episode Robin is in conversation with Joree Rose & Dr. John Schinnerer. John and Joree share their personal journey as partners and therapists, including challenges they've faced together. They have been jointly doing couples work for over seven years, and are passionate about guiding couples towards fulfilling and connected relationships.They discuss key skills for improving relationships, including self-awareness, vulnerability, and understanding each other's core wounds. They also talk openly about their experiences with psychedelic-assisted therapy and how it's helped their healing and connection. This insightful conversation provides valuable relationship lessons and perspectives on making intimacy fulfilling through ongoing self-work.We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IG Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionLevel up your relational skills at In Bloom April 12-14, 2024https://realloveready.com/in-bloom-a-love-and-relationships-summit-2024Learn more with Joree Rose & Dr. John Schinnerer:Costa Rica Retreat Sept. 28-Oct. 5, 2024: https://joreerose.com/retreats/costa-rica/Master Class Series: https://joreerose.com/theawaremethodmasterclass/FOLLOW JOREE ROSE: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XFOLLOW DR. JOHN SCHINNERER: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XFOLLOW RLR: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
Jessica Fern - Polysecure: Exploring CNM
Feb 1 2024
Jessica Fern - Polysecure: Exploring CNM
This week on Let’s Talk Love, Robin sits down with Jessica Fern. Jessica is the acclaimed author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy and Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships. With a wealth of experience in the field of couples therapy and a deep understanding of attachment theory, Jessica brings a fresh perspective to the complexities of human connections. Jessica shares her experience working with clients in non-traditional relationships and helps normalize the discussion around Consensual Nonmonogamy (CNM). Robin and Jessica explore common misconceptions, fears, and principles of CNM relationships. Jessica also discusses her personal journey with CNM and living with multiple partners.This insightful conversation challenges listeners' perspectives and provides a deeper understanding of diverse relationship structures. Whether you're single, in a committed relationship, or exploring alternative relationship structures, this episode provides valuable wisdom and actionable advice for fostering deeper connections in your life.We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IG Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionLevel up your relational skills at In Bloom April 12-14, 2024https://www.realloveready.com/in-bloom-a-love-and-relationships-summit-2024Learn more with Jessica Fern:Website: https://www.jessicafern.com/FOLLOW JESSICA FERN: INSTAGRAMFOLLOW RLR: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
Kate Anthony - Navigating Divorce
Dec 21 2023
Kate Anthony - Navigating Divorce
Join Robin in a heartfelt conversation with divorce coach Kate Anthony, host of The Divorce Survival Guide podcast and creator of the online coaching program "Should I Stay or Should I Go." Kate, a guiding force for thousands of women facing the challenging decision of divorce, recently authored the empowering book "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage." In this episode, Kate and Robin share personal experiences, explore the complexities of divorce, and address common questions about financial abuse, the well-being of children, and life after divorce.  Kate provides valuable knowledge and empowerment for those considering or going through a divorce. Tune in for a thoughtful discussion on building the life you truly want.We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IG Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionLearn more with Kate:Pre-order your copy of The D Word: https://kateanthony.com/dword/The Divorce Survival Guide podcast: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/Offerings: https://kateanthony.com/start/FOLLOW KATE: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TIKTOKFOLLOW RLR: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | XWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/reallovereadyCredits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai. Watch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.
Oren Jay Sofer - Following our Heart’s Intelligence
Nov 23 2023
Oren Jay Sofer - Following our Heart’s Intelligence
In today's episode, Robin engages in a captivating conversation with Oren Jay Sofer. Oren teaches meditation and communication internationally. He holds a degree in comparative religion from Columbia University and is a Certified Trainer of Nonviolent Communication and a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner for the healing of trauma. Together they delve into Oren’s latest book, Your Heart Was Made for This. They explore applying contemplative wisdom to address contemporary challenges such as climate change, oppression, anxiety, and burnout. Join Robin and Oren to unravel the innate traits of the heart we're all born with and gain skills we can learn to grow, make better choices in our lives, and to serve those around us.We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IG Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionLearn more with Oren:Your Heart Was Made for This - Oren Jay SoferUS: https://amzn.to/3QVhHBKCA: https://amzn.to/3MDnVUdSay What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication - Oren Jay SoferUS: https://amzn.to/3ueXpdeCA: https://amzn.to/4697ea6The Tao of Pooh - Benjamin Hoff and E. H. ShepardUS: https://amzn.to/3MDnU2BCA: https://amzn.to/4634yKVFOLLOW OREN:INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TWITTERFOLLOW RLR: INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | TWITTERWatch the podcast on YouTube: youtube.com/realloveready Credits: the Let’s Talk Love Podcast is hosted by Robin Ducharme, recorded and edited by Maia Anstey, and transcribed by Otter.ai.