MAN UP!

Jared Bollman

A podcast for men, by men, about men, and our journey of discipleship. Join Jared as he leads us in discussions of faith, family, and God's plan for biblical manhood. Episodes focus on faith, fatherhood, family, and our daily walk with the Lord. Are you ready to grow as a man, a father, a husband, this is the podcast for you. read less
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Can AI Make Us Better Men? Episode 63
Mar 4 2023
Can AI Make Us Better Men? Episode 63
I asked chat GTP about how to overcome self-sabotaging tendencies. The answers were surprising. We're discussing why we don't succeed and what we can do about it. Are You Ready? Man UP! Studies cited Fear of vulnerability: YouGov. (2019). Almost one in three men feel uncomfortable discussing their emotions, YouGov survey finds. https://yougov.co.uk/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/2019/03/05/almost-one-three-men-feel-uncomfortable-discussing Scher, S. J., & Mayseless, O. (2013). Intimacy and emotional expressiveness in marriage: A communication framework for individual change. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 105(4), 703–717. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0033664 Kashdan, T. B., & Roberts, J. E. (2006). Social anxiety's impact on affect, curiosity, and social self-efficacy during a high self-focus social threat situation. Cognitive Therapy and Research, 30(2), 119-141. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10608-006-9029-1 Difficulty with emotional regulation: Jakupcak, M., Tull, M. T., McDermott, M. J., Kaysen, D. L., & Hunt, S. (2010). PTSD symptom clusters in relationship to alcohol misuse among Iraq and Afghanistan war veterans seeking postdeployment VA health care. Addictive Behaviors, 35(9), 840-843. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.addbeh.2010.04.009 American Psychological Association. (2019). Men less likely to seek mental health treatment. https://www.apa.org/monitor/2019/03/datapoint Chiesa, A., & Serretti, A. (2014). Are mindfulness-based interventions effective for substance use disorders? A systematic review of the evidence. Substance Use and Misuse, 49(5), 492-512. https://doi.org/10.3109/10826084.2013.770027 Imposter syndrome: Sakulku, J., & Alexander, J. (2011). The impostor phenomenon. International Journal of Behavioral Science, 6(1), 73-92. https://doi.org/10.14456/ijbs.2011.6 Parkman, A., & Schwartz, B. (2013). Imposter phenomenon and achievement: A meta-analytic review. Journal of Vocational Behavior, 83(2), 168-182. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jvb.2013.04.010 Kolligian, J., & Sternberg, R. J. (1991). Perceived fraudulence in young adults: Is there an "imposter syndrome"? Journal of Personality Assessment, 56(2), 308-326. https://doi.org/10.1207/s15327752jpa5602_10 Work-life balance: Parker, K., & Patten, E. (2018). Most dads say they spend too little time with their children; about a quarter live apart from them. Pew Research Center. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2018/06/13/most-dads-say-they-spend-too-little-time-with-their-children-about-a-quarter-live-apart-from-them/ Grzywacz, J. G., & Marks, N. F. (2000). Reconceptualizing the work–family interface: An ecological perspective on the correlates of positive and negative spillover between work and family. Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, 5(1), 111-126. https://doi.org/10.1037/1076-8998.5.1.111 National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health. (2019). Work organization and stress-related disorders. https://www.cdc.gov/niosh/docs/99-101/default.html Eby, L. T., Casper, W. J., Lockwood, A., Bordeaux, C., & Brinley, A. (2005). Work and family research in IO/OB: Content analysis and review of the literature (1980–2002). Journal of Vocational Behavior, 66(1), 124-197. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jvb.2003.11.003 Lack of self-care: American Psychological Association. (2018). Self-care. https://www.apa.org/topics/self-care Osborne, J. W., & Overbay, A. (2004). The power of observation: Wellsprings of wisdom. In R. B. Miller & S. E. Schreiber (Eds.), Acceptance and mindfulness-based approaches to anxiety: Conceptualization and treatment (pp. 93-106). Springer Publishing Co. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-0-387-22473-5_5 Cockerham, W. C. (2012). Social causes of health and disease (2nd ed.). Polity Press. Fear of vulnerability: Brown, B. (2012). Daring greatly: How the courage to be vulnerable transforms the way we live, love, parent, and lead. Gotham Books. Kashdan, T. B., & Roberts, J. E. (2006). Social anxiety's impact on affect, curiosity, and so --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jared-bollman/message